He doesn’t need you, he needs a housekeeper…make the move n things will chg for you…For the Best
Do you have stupid written on your forehead ?
GET. THE. HELL. AWAY. FROM. THIS . JERK. You deserve so much better
Girl Run…Your his Sugar Mama, House Keeper, Roommate, and Friends with Benefits…You need a Real Man whom will do for you & Appreciate you and pamper you & say sit down & rest & say My Queen down have to Clean.
Why on earth do you stay with him.Move out now while you are still young enough to start over. I wish you all the best.
you don’t need him. He needs you. Go away and let him live in his own dirt.
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Run like hell and leave him alone. Slavery was abolished many years ago and treat yourself goid
Leave him right away. You are not his maid or mother
Wow! Why on earth would you even question this?! Read what you wrote!
You don’t have a boyfriend, you have a landlord that’s nasty and expects you to clean up after him. I’d make plans to leave
GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE ASAP!!! You are being used and manipulated! You can have your own place for what you’re paying there and not have to deal with his b.s. Do yourself a favor and get out. Save yourself sweetheart, you’re the only one that can.
Girl, RUN … and fast. You deserve better than that! Plenty of fish in the sea, so many other people to love, and who will love you. <3
Do you really need him
Ummm why are you still there??!! You deserve so much more! Stop 
you get one life don’t waste it!!
Time to move on quickly!!!
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Run fast! Why would you stay there?
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You are getting exactly what you allow to happen. Remember, when you’re dating someone they are on their best behavior. If this is his best, you need to run far far away. Let some other poor person deal with the slob.
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You must leave, was gob-smacked reading this. ((HUGS))
You should not be talking about this, because you already know the answer. The question is WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE?
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Girl you are being used!
Follower Donna advice she 100 percent right.
Move out and don’t let him know where.
Why are you still there? He’s a leech, not good for your health, sanity or well being.
Get a new boyfriend!
Stop looking for sympathy, you’re the one who allows it to happen. You choose to stay when you know better. No one can change your situation but you. But you know that already.
First move out or give him a bill for house cleaning and another one for lawn maintenance
You are being taken advantage . It is time to set some ground rules and boundaries . Otherwise you need to make a choice to mo e out . Living w family or bf can create this type of struggle . He is Not treating your dignity or respect . What kind of friend would act like this weekend ? I wish you the best and him as well but You may have to leave .
Move out and leave him with all his messes.
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Move out! You don’t need that ungrateful slob.
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Sounds like you need to move on !!!
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He’s a bum and moocher get rid of him
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Sorry he is so mean and cruel 
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She’s not the gf, she’s the mother. I lived this exact life except I also had to pay all the rent and all the utilities. My nickname was “do everything girl”. He was a gaslighter, so he was also mentally and physically abusive. Stop paying for things and get out!!! I lived that way for 7 years. Please get out. He is not your partner and he never will be. And, it will only get worse. I’m praying you get out asap!!!
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Free loader!!! You need to get the hell out of there fast!!!
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Wow! I would be gone!
Just leave and don’t look back, learn and go forward
Stop being taken advantage of tell him or go your own way
Go to work and don’t go back!!
Demand ? How can he demand from you if you let him
He’s lazy . If he only gets 850 a month , he didn’t work much before he got disabled .
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Yes get out that is crazy for him to expect that of you. Find a better mate
So move and problem solved
I would have been gone
YES !!!YOU need to move out you are only a maid to him He has it made!!!
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You need to move!! If he doesn’t work then he should clean!! I would of already been gone:rage:
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I’d say see u around
look up help wanted for a maid
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I agree with Rhonda. Leave the ass.
He doesn’t love you. That’s not what love is about. Love is give and take between both of you. Not you giving everything and him gladly taking everything. Drop him like a hot potato. No way is he worth your time and hard work.
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RUN luv as fast as your legs will carry you… you are not his partner you are his slave
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Why you still there?? There are better fish in the sea 
Have you discussed this with him? If so, don’t expect any changes from him. People don’t change. They are who they are. I am sure you already knew the answer before you asked… so what are you waiting on!! Good luck!!
If you, for some unknown reason, would want to stay then I wouldn’t pay any more rent and tell him he owes you a couple hundred a month for cleaning
WHY. ARE. YOU. WITH. HIM?
Get the hell out and move closer to your job. Self respect! You know this wrong. The mice alone would have got me running out the door. GET OUT!
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Girlllll that dude is using you SO much. Get the hell up out of there!
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I think it’s time for you to get out. He sounds like he is just using you. Sounds like bad news. LEAVE NOW. Let him deal with it all.
That’s not your boyfriend you’re his career!!! I’d let that relationship go, doesn’t sound like there is much to love about him, sorry to sound rude but I think you need someone who will make effort and also your ambition/drive/work ethic! Life’s too short for this bs
Time for you to go. Let him clean his own crap.
He is taking advantage of you
Leave my friend. Love isn’t a finacial contract.
What do you see in this guy? He is a lazy nut!
Take that 400 dollars and look for a new place you can afford… you can do much better and you deserve much better. Don’t sell yourself short, you know in your heart that this isn’t right and you know it doesn’t feel right or you wouldn’t have written this story looking for advice. Do you really want to live the rest of your life like that in those horrible conditions, you know deep down you are not happy… ask yourself if you have the right to be happy. YES! You are Braver than you know and stronger than you think. Don’t worry about him, he’s a grown man…you worry about you! Feeling guilty about everything is no way to live. Life is short make the best of it and learn to BEE HAPPY! 
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If you feel like you feel then you know the answer to that
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Why are you there???
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A boyfriend at 50? Honey, if any man wants to house you, he should be giving you a wedding ring and keeping you - not the other way around. Get married or live single. Sounds like you are living single anyway, but you have a filthy ROOMMATE. Kick him out, or leave today! Apply for some Financial help if you need it, but leave today! No woman deserves that abuse at any age!
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No your not wrong. Sounds like you need to get your own home so you could have a clean environment. I bet he won’t find anyone else if you leave. Can’t understand how people can live like that. They call it hoarding I call it filth
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Pack up what you can fit in your car while he is sleeping, go to work like normal and dont go back. Stay with a friend for a bit till you can get your own place.
I could never and would never live like that. He literally sits in his own filth with absolutely no purpose in life.
If it was a sister or a good friend in your position and ask for your advice what would you tell her ?? You deserve way better than that , Sending love
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Girl, You deserve better than that. I would run away as fast as I can. Find someone who values your time and effort and matches it.
I think it’s for you to go.
Why would you put up with that?
Lady get out of there, you are not his slave get rid of him!!!
Get out of there fast he’s just abusing and using you
Why would you stay with a man like that. Sounds like a lazy pig to me. Sounds to me like he just wants someone to clean up after him not an actual gf.
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Sounds like you would be better off in your own apartment closer to work. He is living off you and using you as his housekeeper. Open your eyes…is this the kind of relationship that you deserve… I think not.
Girl, run ! He is not a bf,he’s a user! You know you deserve better then this!
Why would you stay with someone who disrespects you so bad he needs you alot more than you need him ,pack up and move on,You will find someone else, Put you 1st leave him with the trash and mice ,wow
Why are You staying? Get out as soon as you can, and don’t look back, or let him talk you into staying.
Get your own place and leave his ass
Tell him if he wants a maid, then he can start paying for one and you’ll keep that $400 a month.
Just because he has a disability (sometimes) doesn’t mean he isn’t capable of putting something in a trash bin. Heck he can put one next to here he’s sitting while he checks the mail.
Being disabled isn’t an excuse to be lazy. Yes there are hundreds of different reasons/types but I’d evaluate the situation and stand your ground!
This is your BF??? YOU need get out NOW
Just what does he have going for him that makes you want to stay? You crazy?
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What’s his disability? If there isn’t a medical reason he can’t help then you need to go my husband has always helped around the house till his stroke. Now he can’t and it gets to him so bad that he can’t. Life is to short not to be with someone who wants to share the responsibilities
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I know you are in a bad relationship. Save some $$ best you can. I would cut his allowance off and hire a cleaning person. Clean your space only. He needs you to serve him. This is not a healthy relationship. No unity or compassion, love. He has issues and doesn’t have a good balanced attitude. Respect yourself and & save some money to move out. You already know that is better for you. So no more talking about it & make a plan for yourself.
Don’t tell him your leaving. Just get your ducks in a row and when you can get out safely; get the hell out of there.
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Why haven’t you walked out the door and never looked back? No one should live like that. He’s not a bf, he’s a abuser that doesn’t respect you. Love yourself enough to walk away
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Why do women take crap like that from a man. Why do you have to ask what to do. You know the answer. He’s a piece of crap n treats you like a fool. Your working , move out. Even if you Can only get a small place, ,it would be yours, you’d answer to no one I did it with 2 babies years ago. Get smart n worry about yourself.Your important in life too not just him.
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Girl open that front door and point yourself towards that road and run like hell outta there!!
He wants a caregiver not a girlfriend!! He’s taking advantage of you girlfriend!!
Use what your momma gave you wisdom!!!
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I would b looking for a apartment
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Leave him he’s using you !!
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Start looking for another place to live
U deserve much better then ur getting girlfriend.
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Leave him he’s no good for you. You can do some much better for your self… …be strong…
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Dont let your paycheck go to him! Get your own place closer to your work. And stay away from this abuse! Just saying.
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Why? Why? Do you let him treat you this way? The first thing you need to do is LOVE YOURSELF! If you had a daughter that was living in this crap …would you just shrug your shoulders and say Oh well it is her life? I bet no. You would get her OUT of there. I wish I knew you so You would know walk away and come stay here until you can get on your feet and find you a place. There has to be a womens shelter around you they will help you and give you a safe place to stay. But once you walk out PLEASES DO NOT GO BACK! Drop all contact with him and MOVE AWAY FAR Away where youu never have to worry about running into him. This is ABUSE!! GET OUT!
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THAT’S NOT a boyfriend! That’s a user who wants a maid with benefits PLUS $400.00 a month! He needs to be in the rear view mirror then, outta’ sight forever!
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Tell him to kiss your ass then tell the dumb bastard bye I on disability and pay for everything my kids want
All I read was the opening line of “my boyfriend demands”… get rid of him.
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I would’ve been gone in 30 days!!
You are being bullied. Don’t pay for his meals when you go out. You are working too hard to have to clean up his messes. Put a trash can by his chair.
Dump his worthless ass ASAP!! You deserve better
Hell no I would have been gone long ago
Sounds like he wants a maid!