Girl leave now you could have a beautiful one bedroom apartment of your chose where u want to live. Don’t have to eat out all the time your own stuff. You deserve so much more.
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Why stay? You’re not happy. That sounds abusive. Run!
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Fucking run, as fast and as far as you can.
Don’t even need to read all of that to know you need to RUN.
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Why are you there??? You need to treat yourself better…
Wtf u deserve so much better!! You need to start planning to leave asap, start looking for an apartment or house and save money and leave, if you need time to look and save do it but hv intentions to leave. He is using you that’s forsure and you definitely don’t deserve to be his maid, your hos girlfriend and needs to treat u as such or leave him. I would even talk to him, tell him you work hard hours at an emotionally draining job, he can help cook and clean or your going to leave.
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Honey you deserve so much more! Hit the door!
Why you even still there? I mean forget all the money issues I don’t think I could live with someone with o motivation to even pick up the mail he threw down. And rodents? Hell no. You can have the house and everything in it including the bf. I’m out. Girl take your money and go find someone who matches your effort. Stop carrying a deadbeat
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Find someplace else to live, QUICK
So many red flags. It doesn’t get better. Trust me. Leave, sooner rather than later.
Please leave him! He’s using you! And you deserve sooo much better!
Move out! You deserve better
Honestly with what you are doing for him you can find yourself a sugar baby that will do as you please …… I know it sounds nasty but if you need a man in your life …. This is NOT the one …… he just wants you for the convenience but doesn’t give anything back …… YOU ARE NOT IN THE WRONG!!! Run and find yourself a MATE not a man child …… geez not even my 4 year old is that needy, at least he cleans up after himself when he is asked to 
Find your own place and let him live in his filth!
Smh I can’t believe you are still there
You need to get out and move on you don’t deserve that
I read about 4 sentences of this and decided he needs to go!
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If you are not happy then leave.
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ohhh noooo.
that is straight up disgusting.
if you stay with him, that’s all on you
youre a GROWN ASS WOMAN
either leave or stay with trash
You could be talking about my ex… you need out. He’s using you for the money. Make sure you have your bank info and any credit card info. Get the local police and ask if they can come and stay while you get your stuff. NO ONE should live like that.
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What do you get out of this arrangement?
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Pack Up and LEAVE as soon as U can,
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Sweet lady, you’d be better off on your own. && you’d probably be way more at peace in your own place.
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BAAAAABBBBBYYYY!!! If you don’t get your shit and go… exactly what are you receiving from this???
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Get out…fast… go on… leave him be
Deanna Burks I THINK THIS BLUE MAMA WITH THE RATS:sob:
AINT NO WAY,THE REAL QUESTION IS WHY U SETTLING FOR RATS U THE BREAD WINNER GET UR OWN… MANE A RAT WILL MAKE ME MOVE IDC AND HE HOME ALL DAY,HE BETTER DO LIKE ME CLEAN SOME THEN SIT THEN CLEAN THEN SIT…U BUYING FOOD FOR THE RATS,MANE I CANT EVEN BELIEVE THIS POST Demetrius Mesie Youngblood
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Girl you’re his maid not his gf. Run. Run now and fast!
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Get out and save yourself
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Get out. It sounds like both of you are taking advantage of a Government Assistance program provided to him. Your 400 contribution to him could very well disqualify him from food stamps and other benefits.
First….demand!!! Did you say demand 
that would be enough for me!!! He’s using you woman!!! Get out of there!!! Don’t walk……RUN!!! 
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Hmmmm let’s reread that and see if we can’t figure it out! Sorry don’t mean to be sarcastic but “come on!”
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Sorry you need to leave you are not the maid.
Things will never change they will get worse
This man is using you. Get out of there, you don’t need him. Get your own little place and live the way you want to.
You need to leave and don’t look back
Why do we put our business out there? Since when do we rely on FB to make decisions?
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It does not get better!
You’d have less to clean if you kicked his butt out
Get out. Love yourself and love will find you!
You sound like your feeling bad for him and being way too understanding because he’s on disability. It’s time to stand up for yourself.
Get out now. Don’t take anything but a few clothes with you. Unsanitary conditions. Change your bank account and anything charge cards. Don’t take the freeloader with you.
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Time to go he doesn’t value you as a girlfriend
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Look at all your doing! You don’t need him one bit. You can do bad all by yourself if you choose. Find a roommate and split rent with a new person and leave his narcissistic ass behind
If ur doing it all on ur own then u should be on ur own. Hes a grown ass man and u shouldn’t have to take care of him. This isn’t the 1950s and ur not a house wife. If ur working full time house chores should be shared. It sounds like he wants a sugar mama that takes care of everything. Stop paying for him and stop doing crap for him. Or better yet leave. U don’t deserve that kind of treatment.
Sounds like you’d do just fine on our own… get out now before he sucks the life out of you!
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You are not his gf… you are his maid and soending money. Run. Fast.
Girl, get out now!!!
Sounds like you need a new man. he wants a maid not a gf.
Move out! I would move closer to your work let him deal with his own rat trap.
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LEAVE him his an arse… sounds like he’s using you… you would do better on your own… take what belongs to you and RUN…
You not only work with mentally challenged your living with it ! Echoing an other writer,get your banking your charge card all of it.Than make arrangements for some place to live,a shelter if need be.Thane have the police there while you tell him and get out.
I would have left yesterday
You don’t need him leave it would be better to be by yourself than with him
Wrong for still being there.
You already know the answer. I wish you well in the new chapter of your life.
You’re 50 years old don’t u c the writing on the wall. Surely you’re not desperate. Move on with your life don’t even look back.
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Sorry… Get out. Take care of yourself & let him learn how to take care of his own issues/ house/ etc.
Why our you still in a relationship with this man??? He’s using you… You on the other hand have a job and things are going good you don’t need a man to make you feel complete. When you find the right man he will be your better half and not demand you do everything… Its a two way street and your so called boyfriend is LAZY and lacks any respect for you…
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Hunni take that 400 a month and spend it on your own home where you are not treated like a slave and being bummed upon. You deserve much better! Health wise and emotional.
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Your not his girlfriend, your his room mate and maid, you deserve a lot better
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Your not his girlfriend, your his room mate and maid, you deserve a lot better
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I am in the same boat as you are the only thing different is that my now ex boyfriend all he does is DRINK N DRINK AND DRINK… from the time he gets up and until the time he crashes in his recliner I too work ten plus hours at my job I am up at 2am n don’t get home until 3 or 4 pm sometimes even later …he too does NOTHING BUT LIKE I SAID DRINK HIS BEER
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Don’t let the door hit you on the way out!
Move on and dont look back
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Oh hell to the fn no way! You are better than what he’s giving you. Say that to yourself…I am better than this….and get the hell out.
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Move on. He is using you
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You deserve to be cherished by someone who loves you. Respects you. It sounds like the two of you have a business relationship. You pay him and purchase your own food. You are roommates.
WTF are you still there?? Have some respect for yourself! F HIM…YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT 2 YEARS AGO!
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Sounds depressing at best 
He found himself a sucker!! If u stay your are crazy. You can do it on your own. Get out asap
Absolutely not right
You work outside the home, He can help
Run away as fast as you can.
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Pack your things and move out. You don’t have a boyfriend, what you DO have is a parasite. Your his money tree and his maid.
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He’s completely in the wrong and you need to find yourself a place that is solely yours. And if he wants to visit, you turn the tables and tell him the same thing he tells you.
You are not wrong at all! It sounds like he is treating you more like a caregiver and not a partner. I’m sure you do the work you do because you care so much about others and he’s probably taking advantage of you because he knows you are that way. I’d leave the situation because it’ll only get worse. You deserve so much more and I’m so sorry people take advantage of people like you. I’ve been there I am also a people pleaser and it sucks when people take advantage. I pray that you find strength to leave that situation because you deserve better. 
Oh momma, something keeps you there, and I get that, but you’ve got to set yourself free. Life is way too short to be held down so tightly. There’s a brighter life out there just waiting for you!
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I think you need to move out and on without him. What is he contributing to your life? He doesn’t sound supportive or of value to your life in any way. You can do better.
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Leave he is using you. You work make good money he helps you spend it why do you need him he is not worthy of you. Tell him to kiss off and get your own place.
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Read that whole thing back to yourself as if it were a Freind or family member then ask yourself would you expect them to put up with it???
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Leave. He’s a mooch and your giving everything to someone who can’t be bothered to clean up mouse shit which is in his food… thats absolutely disgusting. Leave.
Even though 2 years seems like a long time to be with someone you need to step away and forge your own path without him. Seems he is taking advantage of you . I can relate to the work you do and it is very draining sometimes, and then to deal with all that on top of it ? Red flag dear. 
Kick him out. That’s no way to live !!! So sorry you have to put up with him. Big jerk
Leave him! Your worth so much better !
No you aren’t wrong. He is wrong for demanding you do everything he may be disabled but he isn’t dead!
Not wrong. You’re not his maid.
what you are wrong about is living with him!!
Leave. Your just his house keeper
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Leave build you’re own life save your money
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Leave…he’s using you and he must not care about the mice in his house since he is living like a pig… you are not his slave!! Leave and you will feel better and find someone better!!
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Omg. Life is short, get some money saved up, don’t give him another dime til he gets himself straight. Move on. I can’t believe anyone puts up with this crap. I’m same age range as you. I’ve walked away from all negativity. There’s givers and takers. Decide if you want him to take til you have nothing left and no time in life to enjoy it. Being alone isn’t a death sentence. Working yourself to death is…good luck…
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Time for a new boyfriend
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No u r not wrong. U should get your own place. He can visit u if he wants to see u. Hes using u.
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If you have to ask you clearly know this is wrong
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Time to move on dearest.
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Move, you deserve better
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Get a 1 bedroom, hes beyond disrespecting you.
Why are you raising that man child that you didn’t give birth to?
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No way are you wrong! Get out! This is cruel.
Throw his ass out or better yet you move out so you start with a clean decent place to live.
Get out girl! You deserve better.
He’s using u . Not ok. If he loved u he definitely pull his weight around his own house at least and treat u out every once in a while. Yr better off alone…
He’s holding u back…u would be farther along in life if u dropped the lazy mooch #sorrynotsorry
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