I get what everyone is saying that he is in the wrong but from an outsider looking in this is obvious so the fact that you have to means you’re holding on to something. Maybe it has to do w you being a care giver but this is to much or something. You can up and leave with out finding out why your putting up with this but you need to find out why you have to ask about something that seems so obvious or you will end up in a very similar or worse situation wondering if you are in the wrong.
Nope, you deserve better. Move to your own place.
Ma’am, time to leave. Why would you wanna be with someone who is lazy and disrespectful
Why are you still with him??? Time to move on! You deserve better!!
You’re not in the wrong at all! He’s lazy and doesn’t want to do anything. My dads on disability and he cleans the house and does the yard work and everything because my mom works. My dad has bad knees and a bad shoulder, he also has arthritis that almost always tears him down but he still cleans and does stuff because he knows my mom can’t do it all. You’re in a relationship the household stuff is 50/50 between y’all (since he doesn’t work it would be 70/30) if I did my math correctly lol my dad even makes dinner for my mom to come home too as well.
I would straight up move out
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Move out, he’s just using you!
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Girl get you your own space and leave that mess
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Time to get a man and stop wasting your life on a boy
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Oh no, he is just plain using you and abusing the situation… that’s awful, you better off spending that $400 to get a studio or 1 bedroom somewhere else and do what you want with your days off instead cleaning up after a pig
He is using you & does not care for you or loves you!! Run out of there and never look back
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Why are you even with him? Girl, leave and leave fast!
Run my friend. If you work so hard there is no need to be coddling him . I am sure you can support yourself . Run away and quit being used and abused .
I didn’t even finish reading this you need to look in the mirror and know yourself or get a good pair of sneakers and freaking run
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Kick to the curb…or tell him to do it!
I’d find somewhere else to live
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Run fast it will only get worse.
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Why would you even be there you make the money basically and you have to pay him to live there to really I mean helping out on bills yeh but pay to live there nope …and if he sets there all day long and does nothing and u work outside the house I wouldnt touch his house since he says it’s his and not yours especially if he is nasty and makes a mess . If I was you I would have already left
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What the hell are you still doing there he sounds like a disgusting disrespectful asshole move out before you get sick from the mice poop .He can hire someone to come clean for him
Sounds like you’re his cash mule. I wouldn’t do all that.
Take his ass out 
I kid, I kid… but sounds like you already know the answer to your question here. Time to kick rocks.
I would move out asap
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Girl just leave . You can have ur own place, clean up after yourself . I’m sure your bringin in more than $850 a month . Let him fend for himself 
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What in blue blazes did I just read?! Lady, don’t even give him the decency to tell him you’re leaving. Just discreetly pack what you can “for an overnight double shift” and never go back. Block him and don’t ever talk to him again the second you walk out the door. This is utter insanity to live with.
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Ew why would you put your self thru that?
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You deserve so much better than this!! Get out and don’t look back! 
Run 
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No you’re not wrong. You need to runnnn.
You are letting him mooch off you! Get rid of him! Say no…. He won’t walk because he knows he’s got it too good! He’s a low life.
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Move out, unless you enjoy being treated as a doormat.
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And you need him why?
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Why in the world are you still in this relationship?? You need to leave ASAP!
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You do deserve better. Main question is, how was it before you moved in?
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Inconsiderate,disrespectful, he’s doesn’t deserve you! Do what’s best for you & your future.
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He is taking full advantage
RUN
You can do this all by yourself !!!
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You should of done left. You don’t need him or his horrible treatment to you
Leave girl! That’s a load of Bull.
I stopped at “demands”. That not a relationship. Leave him asap.
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There’s more to life than being stuck in this. Please, respect yourself and leave. You can’t do it.
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move, he will soon find out he can’t do it alone, sounds like he isn’t even trying to help using u instead
Get your own apartment ASAP & then a new boyfriend 
He is using you. Leave.
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Yuck why would you be involved in such a mess… get out you’d be better off on the street…
Imagine going home to your own CLEAN apartment after work, having a hot shower, and laying in your own clean warm bed and watching Netflix. This Man is not worth the disrupt in your life. You’re carrying him, and he expects a lover, Mother, and Maid. What a loser. I’m sorry but he’s a complete clown.
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You are not his maid. Leave his ass with the mice
You do not need him, pack and leave
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RUN RUN RUN
why are you still there
You can’t be serious !?
Didn’t even get halfway through.
Fuck him. Run.
This sounds like you are living with a toddler, not a boyfriend.
Tell me WHY you WANT to be there?
Hes wrong, I’d leave if it was me
I would have been gone long ago. Get the f out.
Wow ! I can’t even believe there’s a question here … I’d be gone so fast ! I know it’s easier said then done sometimes but that is NOT healthy , at your age you should be able to live in peace and have some sort of life outside of work. You are working with mentally challenged people and coming home to an unstable unhealthy situation.
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Get the hell out your just the maid.
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Run and don’t look back!!!
What is keeping you there? That’s the question.
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Get rid of his sorry ass.
I would say bye , see ya
You’re paying your bf rent at 50?! Get out of there!! You can do better!
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Life is to Short! Be happy !! Face it your not getting any younger just Older ! Don’t be stuck where your not appreciated and Where your being obviously used! Run and Don’t look back!! Be Happy!!
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He’s using you. GO find a real man
I have been where you are, fucking run and don’t look back
No ma’am. If I was you I’d be packing and tell him to clean up his own dang mess. I’m not a maid, housekeeper or slave labor or his mother and this ain’t what you signed up for. Being alone is better any day than being used, mistreated and disrespected. 
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He’s using you. I’d be finding myself a one bedroom tent before dealing with his lazy a**
You need to move. He thinks you’re his slave.
Sounds like you’re mentally challenged yourself if you have to ask what to do!!
This guy is poison…get rid of him and don’t accept anyone that doesn’t respect and appreciate you
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So you’re PAYING HIM to be HIS housekeeper???
I’d be gone so friggen quick
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So are u happy… nope does not sound like it, and how cud u be honestly.
Theses boots are made for walking that’s just what they can do.
Why are you doing that,your better off finding a roommate,this way you don’t have to put up w that demanding and dirty household,you can do so much better on your own…Good Luck!!
What the actual F?! Nope Nope Nope… I’d be gone at the first sight of a mouse in a place where I am living… especially when the owner of the home doesn’t care… that’s absolutely nuts and so unhygienic… he will definitely try to get you back if you leave. Don’t believe his lies! His actions have shown you just how much he cares about you… let alone himself.
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Girl you need to take care of you and that begins when you leave him…
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Run girl run!!! You deserve better he is just using you
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Why are you with him!!!
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I am 57 and when I date men my own age, sad to say, they are looking for a cook,a housekeeper, a babysitter or in my location, a farmhand. I’m happy staying single instead of being a selfish man’s mule. Good luck to you! Find your peace, he is not it
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Ewwww he’s a nasty man leave him!
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you need a new boyfriend or at least go out by yourself! you are no ones maid!!!
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I wouldn’t even be staying there and he would be referred to as the ex boyfriend.
Be free of him. He wants a maid and caretaker not a partner.
You deserve better,period.
Why in the world haven’t you left him??? He’s a loser and taking advantage of you. He’s toxic. You deserve better.
Oh Honey… I wouldn’t put up with that BS. Seriously! Seems he is taking BIG advantage of you!
I have advice… get your own place… leave him and let him know your Absolutely Done!
LEAVE!!! U can do better all by ure self!!
Why are you still with him? He needs a maid not a gf
If he can get up and go to the bathroom and feed his self , he can pick up after his self.
I don’t even understand why you are with him. Get rid of him
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Remember that TLC song called Scrubs?! You got yourself one.
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Wow you need to move on and let him find another cash outlet. At first I thought I was reading my life story lol. I too work in mental health with adults same Mount of hours but my hubby does same job too and helps me. Please find new man u deserve so much better. Hugs
Leave his ass. You deserve better. Don’t allow anyone to tell you what to do. I’ve been there. He will not change.
Go find someone who appreciates you!
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Leave. You deserve wayyy better.
Yes, you are wrong. WRONG FOR STAYING!
Cut your losses & get out, ASAP.
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Why are you still with him? Seriously? You are a grown woman, mature. You have lived and experienced life. He sounds like a narcissistic male chauvinist that has absolutely zero respect for you. You deserve better than this and should have better than this. Leave and live closer to work.
Pffft…demands.
Throw him in the rubbish bin and get a new boyfriend.
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You know what you want to hear
I’m sorry you have to deal with a child… You need to get out, snd find you a real MAN…Trust me, they do exist….I am a SAH due to having MS and other health issues…My man works 10-14 hour days, and still helps me around the house when I’m in a flair up…But for the most part, because I am a SAH, I take care of inside the house… Your bf needs to stop being so lazy, and help out some
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Leave! You can do SO MUCH better. He sounds like a lazy ass loser.
That’s not a boyfriend…that is a major ABUSER !!!
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Why are you putting up with that behavior!! He does not have respect for you. You need to find somewhere else to go period. No love or care here.
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