Time to put your big girl panties on and move out. Become strong and independent. You got this.
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Leave him! He will never change! Your better than that!
Omg…leave that man honey please!!!
Leave him what a loser
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You already know what you want to do
Yup time to leave you can afford it
Sounds like you need to Move on out and be happy 
How is this even a question 
I can’t believe this
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Wow, I would dump that lazy ass in a heartbeat girl! You deserve better! Run!!!
You seriously don’t think you’re worth more than this treatment? Leave now. He’s not going to change, it’s not going to get better. He’s using you. Run
Run as fast as you can!
definitely move out, he definitely isnt a keeper
Leave. He is using you. He is a leech and does not love or respect you.
Here’s a thought……leave.
You aren’t his girlfriend, you’re his unpaid servant.
Sorry but I’d be gone. Sounds like a user. You deserve better!
You’re in the wrong relationship hun … why are you dealing with that ish??
Get your own place fast
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Time for you to leave! Why waste the rest of your life like that? He doesn’t want a gf he wants a mom to clean up after him
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Leave him & don’t look back! You deserve better!
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Homey you deserve better.
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You lost me at 50 yr old woman…
Lose the manchild.
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why do you even have to ask :whqts wrong? Just take a good Kook at the Pictue, Did you ever hear the expression "I got the tiger byt the tai;s well who has this gals tails, Think about it, No man is worth this, wake up and see
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You must like punishment! It’s sad how some women settled for this kind of punishment! Shame on all of you for accepting this kind of treatment.
He’s treating you like his slave…. He’s abusing you. Sounds like you need to move out. Let him live in his filth by himself.
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Move yourself out be happy
You asked, and may not want to read what I have to say…you can just delete It, #1. I am NO saint, #2 why are you living with him? You have to be a very hard worker but, just exactly why are you living with him? You are not “suppose“ to just live with people, either marry or don’t live together. #3. You are NOT his maid, he is treating you like some slave, throw his trash down and expect you to clean it up #4. Why are you paying him $400 a month, then buy your own food, pay when you go out. He gets food stamps, that should supplement the food issue, not pay $400. **Lady
Leave now. You know you can do better. Life is way to short to put up with someone who can’t be a team.
Is this really how you invision thr rest your life?
Some d-bag dude using you as housekeeping Nope. Nope. Nope.
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Kick his ass out. Stop picking up & see how long it takes him to say or do something about it…
I’d tell him it’s his house and his mess. He could clean up after himself or I’d be going somewhere besides there. He’s using you for the Xtra money and anything else that he gets from you. You didn’t take training to be a maid. And God didn’t put you here to be one. Tell him he’s outta luck with me doing everything and paying him too. If it’s his house, it’s his messes and he’d clean it up.
Leave, you can do bad all by yourself girl! Live your life
Really freakin run wth
Ask yourself what he’s bringing into the relationship! The fact that you had to write in about this should answer your question. Pull those shoulders back girlfriend and end this useless arrangement.
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Get an apartment close to work and move on
First of all, I’d be moving out now! Second, if he gets that much on disability, tell him to hire a cleaning lady.
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Ewwww tell him goodbye. He sounds like a freakin’ mess!
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Girl Move Out…take care of yourself.
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It sounds like you don’t only work with mentally challenged people you live with one too…
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Get your 
and get the heck out of dodge!! That loser needs to be just a bad memory.
You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit. Prayers and love to you as you ponder your next steps. 
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Leave him get a small place closer to work. Doesn’t sound like you are getting anything out of this.
Girl you can get your own place and get rest while working that much. Love yourself more than that!
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Question for you: WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?!?
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i would be out of THERE.
Why are you with him? Like seriously? can you honestly look at your relationship and find one redeeming quality that outweighs all the negative BS you just wrote about him here? You’re doing all that, you’d be better off living on your own and not having a slob to clean up after and being an ass to you on your few hours off work
You must be nuts- go now, you can have a better life, for sure!!
Omg, why u still with him ? Get your own place clearly he’s Dirty, Ewwww
Girl get out there quick. Sounds like you have a lot to offer someone who would be a partner and appreciate you
This shouldn’t even be a question asked!! My butt would have already been way out the door when he demanded me to clean house while he sits on his ass when I am outside doing all the work!! LEAVE NOW WOMAN!!!
Leave him honey he doesn’t want a girlfriend he wants a maid and a paycheck
This sounds horrible. I would not feel comfortable in that house, especially with the mouse problem. You’re paying your fair share and you should not have someone making you feel like you need to clean up after them.
I wonder how you’ve put up with that shit for 2 years! Girl, you deserve so much better. Get your own place and leave his ass asap.
How very tolerant of you to call him boyfriend
Michael Pietrosimone
That’s her job to clean up after her man isn’t it
Maybe even barefoot while in kitchen
The guy is in disability give him a break
I feel like you’re in the wrong place. You should not deal with that. What exactly does this boyfriend do for you? The best thing you can do for yourself is get your own place & leave him there to deal with that himself.
Get your own place and leave his ass
Girl. Get your own shxt. Expeditiously. Thasss a child. Not a man. You work, you’re 50, pay your own food? Baby you can do bad on your own without his sorry ass
Thankfully he’s only a boyfriend and not a husband 
Why are you still with him…
Get yourself and apartment closer to your job, sounds like he’s using you. & you’re not his mother, you shouldn’t be cleaning up after him or taking care of HIS house, that’s his responsibility as it is HIS property
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Is it better to live with an abusive pig than live alone?
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Bounce from that rodent nest
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You need to move out and get your own place. That manchild sounds like a nightmare.
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Why are you still there? RUNNNN 
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He “demands” I do it.
Get the fluck out of here!!!
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You need to move like soon
This can’t be for real
And if that is your place, tell him he has to go; it’s over, no discussion is needed, you’re done.
You are wrong to call him a boyfriend. He is using you and you need to move on
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I think you already know what you need to do…
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Move out on your own at the very least
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Get another boyfriend who works!
You need your own place then you wouldn’t have to go for him just yourself he is just iuse you and your letting him if he really care for you he would share the work with you stop turn and runas fast as you can away
He is totally wrong! I would leave! That is a form of abuse
Throw that whole man away.
It’s time to leave, find a efficiency apartment or something you can afford, you deserve better, your BF doesn’t want a partner, he wants a maid!
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I’d rather sleep on a friends couch until I got my own place than live in a rat infested pig stye with an ungrateful pig.
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You can do better. Leave and never look back.
Yeah… that’s a no from me. A relationship should be two partners working together… yours sounds more like a mother/child type deal 
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Move out. He is using you
Get the heck out of Dodge
The manchild gets disability (around $850 a month), + food stamps + $400 from you + doesn’t do anything around the house…why are you still with him? Leave him and get your own place. He doesn’t deserve you. You can find someone who truly care about you someday.
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What is he on disability for?
Get out now he’s abusing you. Your not his mom it’s not your responsibility its his house since he likes to point that out
leave the lazy good for nothing hes a bloody pig you deserve better
Why did he leave his Mother when he obviously still needs her as he hasn’t grown up yet nor learnt to take responsibility. Relationships are a partnership, you both need to do the work
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Ur such a strong women, u really dnt need a man there if u already doing it all alone, plus u will have extra money, plus ur house will be clean since u really dnt eat at home, u won’t have all that weight on ur shoulders
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You can do bad all by yourself … if it were me I would leave and let him take care of himself… working in your field is not easy work and he should respect u enough to let you rest from the house cleaning… just leave he isn’t the one for you… sorry… I hope it gets better
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I’m about to be 50 and I know the whole idea of starting over is scary…but you deserve more! He won’t change and you’ll get more and more hurt! Just move on hun❤️
Mane since he has emphasized that this is “his house”, I would leave his house, him, and them nasty a$$ rats!!!
Dump him. Now. Move out. Move on.
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Seriously? Why are you with such trash??
Time to go. Sounds like yet another so called man that needs a woman to do everything for his ass. Screw that Shit.
He will NEVER change. He’s using and abusing you. Please think of yourself and get out.
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You need to run! Get out of there. I don’t even think it’s worth going back for your things: I wish you well if you get away.
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You are such a hard working women! You deserve better! Please leave you don’t need to be abuse like this.
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Your shoes were made for walking, get the hell out of there! You have a job and he’s a challenge in himself. Leave! You deserve better!
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No you aren’t wrong. You need to get away from him he is a LOSER!!!
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Leave that boyfriend
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Leave, he is not a boyfriend, he is a user!
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Pack and leave that is all!!!
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