Listen to me. Repeat after me. Seriously. I DESERVE BETTER. I AM WORTHY. I DESERVE SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT ME WITH RESPECT. Please, do yourself a favor and leave. Now. Good luck and I wish the best for you!!
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Leave now! Get your own place!
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What are you get out of this relationship…??? Find yourself an apartment and get out of there…your just his Mom…start packing your stuff and leave him…find some joy in your life…life is to short girl…please.
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Get out, get cute, clean apt, apartment! 50 is not old don’t allow yourself to live like that!
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You’re not wrong!!! I’m also a DSP 
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No, you are not wrong
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His a user … you deserve to be treated like a queen…as for him…his a jerk…my daughter going through the same thing…they just had a baby girl who is 6months old now… she’s also a health care aid…works alot …and when my daughter started working…he suddenly wants to work a little job… being a custodian for 3days outta of a week… working for 9hrs wkly…I’m here helping with the kids…I pretty much do everything else…cook …clean…bath …put kids to bed… while his spending his time in the basement looking at porn…I even caught him in the act…I was literally embarrassed for him …I got really angry with him…I didn’t tell my girl bout it…BC if I do …she pretty much defends him…I can’t stand losers like him …I told my girl she deserves alot better than that …my girl is the most gentle an humble soul …she has a big heart… please leave that situation behind you…the longer you stay the longer it’s gonna take you to heal from this mess … he also scares my girl when his having a tantrum…I hate what he does to his family… please run from him … know body deserves this B’s… good luck
Dear. Life is short don’t be used. You can do better.
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Get out ASAP.hes using you
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Get out of there as fast as you can.
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Take advice from Johnny Walker, walk and keep walking
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Dump that user ASAP!!! Hurry!
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If your bestie was telling you this story, what would your advice be for them?
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It’s his house? You’re not a girlfriend to him, you’re his maid. RUN!!!
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He sounds like an absolute jerk. He’s lazy and does nothing all day he doesn’t bring any money to the table. You work all the time and bring all the money to the table. You pay him $400 a month to stay there when he’s your boyfriend? But then he still expect you to do all the housework when he can easily do that. if I was you, I wouldn’t even want to be with a person like that. He might be just using you anyways. From the looks of it he very well could be. I don’t mean to sound like a jerk saying that but I really think that you should consider getting your own place. You don’t deserve to be treated that way. This guy should not expect you to give him $400 a month just stay there when you are supposed to be in a relationship together. He would probably be so lost if you left. It really seems like he just uses you.
Throw the whole man in the trash. He’s a bum and you aren’t required to take care of a grown ass man
No way…Get your stuff and leave.
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With ALL your respect , you are stupid, move out of that house YESTERDAY.You deserve better. Take a little time to look for another place and move. Good luck 
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Get yourself your own place and lose the boyfriend or what ever u wanna call him🙄
Tell him to kick rocks
Search for an apartment near your job, also let your co-workers know you are looking for an apt;. nearby. As soon as you have a place to go, move out and don’t look back… You might even check into a shelter for abused women for temporary housing.
Don’t think about it just leave get your own apartment he’s a looser
Key words are “my boyfriend”. He is nothing to you. Be gone lazy man! Goodbye🙋♀️
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Honey. It sounds like your are taking care of a child and that your paying him to do it.
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You know it’s time to make a change
You too damn old to be dealing with this. I pray you find the strength to move on and the confidence to know you deserve way better.
Leave and don’t look back- sell your house or make him leave
NO…you can do you better elsewhere
Girl… get out if u can Or tell him ‘hell naw’. He needs a wake up and you deserve better.
I’m sorry why tf are you there???
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You need to leave that sorry thing you are gonna kill your self do not take that get out before you put yourself in early grave no one deserves that please get out
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Time to leave……. No respect
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Renting from a man and treating him like he’s your kid. Hmm, move out, you’ll be happier and stop paying him to live there.
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I stopped reading after “demands.”
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You are wrong. So wrong for allowing yourself to be mistreated, taken for granted and taken advantage of…… You deserve so much more….
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You are not his momma. He has zero provider mentality and is not even supportive to your needs and what you are asking. Everything you typed tells me that you already know you deserve better. Find your peace of mind and self worth in a place of your own. I swear you will feel a weight off your shoulder and be able to breathe.
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Move out he’s making a fool of you
I think you might be talking about my first ex husband 
… yeah that lasted 10 months before I ran… girl leave! You don’t need him or that!
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You make the money. Find you a place maybe closer to work and leave him. Staying is only enabling him. It won’t get better. I wouldn’t even tell the leech bye. Just leave.
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It’s time to move. You are not required to clean up after him especially if you pay him rent
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Pack your stuff and leave.
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He sounds gross. And not a man at all. Hunny… LEAVE.
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Why are you living like that?!!
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Nope…it’s time to find your own place. He’s lazy and very disrespectful to you. He treats you like your his caregiver or his mother. No way in hell. Find you a real man.
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Leave you probably can do better. He expects to much.
We’ll I wouldn’t want to live there with rats running around n rat shit every wear he sounds like a asshole so problem solved get your own place
Are you kidding? No Way!! I would tell him to kick Rocks
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He does what for you? Run as fast as you can!!!
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Leave him. Know your worth. Always easier said then done but you deserve better sweetie 
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Did you want a child or a partner?
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You sound very intelligent - WHY are you still with him??? Get the heck out of there.
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You are dumber than a rock! Move out! Only you can help yourself!
Move on. This one wants maid cook cleaner etc not a partner. You know you deserve better.
I hope he’s your ex boyfriend now. Any man who treats you like garbage needs to be kicked to the curb. He’s trash.
To put it bluntly the only thing he seems to be good for would cost about 50 to $100 upfront and monthly maintenance on batteries. I’d be gone
Run as fast as you can and don’t look back
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I’d be leaving him! That’s not a relationship, he sounds like a disgusting demanding human being! If u know what’s right then u would leave him and get your own place and be happy!!
Why are you with him. He contributes nothing to bettering your life so he has no usefulness in your life. What about him is so great you will actually pay him to be his personal slave ?
You’re a grown woman. Do what you want. If you don’t want to do it don’t.
Move out. Now. It will only get worse
You need to put that $400 towards YOUR OWN place… say bye 
and enjoy your peace… #werenotpromisedtomorrow
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He will only do to you what you allow him to do to you I had to learn this the hard way I believe all relationship should be 50/50 friendship dating or anything if your putting in more then you’re getting out of it chances are you always will if I was you I would get away
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sorry but my words would be bye bye and watch him want you back as no one would stand for this at all,But you wouldn’t go back would you go and enjoy your life, there is so much more out there,I wish you well
I wouldn’t be there any longer … bye
Get out of there, Now‼️
First off…he’s a POS. No man would ever " demand " anything. He’s a sorry excuse for a man . Get rid of him!!!
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I’d leave without a word
Because he deserves none.
Better to be alone and happy then some miserable sobs slave used and abused
You deserve to be happy.
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How is a messy house romantic? Is that attractive?
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Damn apparently some men just stay toddlers needing “mommy” to take care of them forever…. I’d be damned if I done raised all my children that came out of me, to spend the rest of my life basically BEING A MOMMA TO A GROWN ASS MAN, especially one that I didn’t birth…. That is supposed to be a partner…. Wtf? Girl run & get your own shit & leave his sorry ass to it. You’ll see him on an episode of hoarders shortly…. His fkn mice can keep his wannabe Cinderella ass company.
Sounds just like my ex. If I was you I’d get out an get out now it’s only going to get worse
Life is too short to spend it with a lazy piece of shit 
You’re 50! Go find yourself someone who will enhance your life, not make it hell. You’ve earned it!
Forget him being in the wrong. YOU’RE in the wrong for not knowing your self-worth. Find you a place and get going.
I can’t understand why a woman would subject herself to be treated as such.
Get out of there asap!! This pos can do it on his own then!!
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I can’t get pass the rat droppings 
Why are you still with this abusive selfish person?
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Nope your not wrong.
You sound like you work damn hard.
Find a man that appreciates you please!
Forget that get rid of him
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What is there about him you would be attracted to? Why are you still with him? Get out of there and find somewhere else to live!
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Girl move, be way less stress and mess
Couple hundred more a month you could have your own place and peace
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Why don’t you just leave if you can afford your own place? He sound demanding and abusive. It’s supposed to be a partnership. It sounds like you will be much happier without him. I would also call exterminator….
He is treating you like he owns you it definitely time to leave him he brings nothing to the relationship
As long as you’re allowing yourself to be used…you will keep getting used. People treat you how you let them treat you. Leave.
Id leave his pig sty living ass. If hes doing nothing all day but sleep and sit in a dam chair he can live in his mess. You didnt say what his disability it but im sure he can clean up after himself. Id stop giving him 400 a month, save your money and get your own place.
Why are you still there and with him at all?
You. Deserve.better. 
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Either leave or demand safe living conditions as you pay rent
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Tell him to do it if he not happy bt it i wk and my hubby helps out heaps
Why are you with this guy?!
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Move out get your own place. Sceew him ungrateful, expecting ass jerk.
I would definitely be finding another place 2 live & enjoy my peace! …most definitely does not have any respect for U as a gf, as a woman…I’m so sorry. I hope U stand up for yourself n move along! 
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Girl leave even if you have to stay at a hotel for a bit. He’s using you. Being in Healthcare myself I know we give way too much but you deserve better then that. Maybe not what you want to hear but hopefully it will allow you to do what you need to better yourself. He’s wrong but he won’t change so you have to do what you got to do.
Just leave. Know your worth!
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Absolutely not. Run!
U shouldn’t be with that guy he is selfish and abusive and doesn’t have the right to treat u like that.
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Run and never look back… I know it’s easier said than done!! I wish u the best
I’m questioning why you are putting up with this GARBAGE!! ……LEAVE & don’t look back!
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At 50 your life isn’t over, time to START over and love yourself, choose yourself, and be ok with being alone for a wholesome while then when you are good and ready you can open yourself up to a HEALTHY relationship with a man who is a true partner in life. This current boyfriend isn’t worth it. Not at all. You are a queen 
and you need a king , he ain’t it!
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Act like a tree and leave. Better yet run like hell