Take your youthful beautiful a$$ and leave him please.
How ungrateful is he!!? It’s his house and he makes you PAY to stay there? Also, he is home all day!!!
Oh lord all mighty, enlighten her please.
Girl you need to leave. Love yourself enough to not accept something like that
Girl you deserve better
Get out and get out now!!!
Why would you put up with that
You are being taken advantage of. Drop him like a rock!
Get a new boy friend
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Hell no. Hell no. Hell no. Get the hell away from this guy. He’s dragging you down. Life would be much better without him. He seems like a waste of space in my opinion.
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Seriously? You don’t have a boyfriend honey. You have a child and a stupid as hell one to go with it but that does not leave much more i can say about you enabling it. When will you actually wake up and realize how much time in your life you have wasted on this trash? Go out and get a life and let that piece of crap live in his own stank! You are better than that so actually realize you deserve better and don’t let anybody make you think different. Live for you for once.
Move out, you are not here to be used! You deserve someone who appreciates you! Please don’t get stuck in this unhappy life, when you are older, you will regret it.
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Why are you with this guy?
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Love, know your worth. Know you are bad ass. Know you are strong, intelligent, beautiful and brave. Know that you don’t need that kind of negativity or abuse in your life.
Find yourself a new place, closer to work and leave.
You can do it.
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Time to find else wheemre sweetheart. Hes not after a gf. Hes after a full time maid who pays to do so.
Please accept this isnt love. Or even a partnership. Its a situationship. No matter what. This is abuse and you are allowing it to continue.
Im so sorry to sound harsh. Please love yourself. And get the hell away.
Anyone at work looking for a roomie. Coz im sure youll pay out less. And wont be expected to do everything!
Please accept that at 50 there are plenty who would love uou for whom you are and not be used because youd feel no one wants you thats why you allow this to continue. At 50 life should be carefree and happy.
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I hate this cause the person who wrote it never sees these or doesn’t respond. But that’s disgusting why are you even with him when you can clearly do with out.
You may as well move closer to your job, by yourself and do all that for yourself. You deserve better and you know it. 
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And what’s the question lol…. I’d be finding me a new place to live. No questions asked!!
Been there done that it only gets worse move the hell out of there he’s a piece a shit!!!
Hoooooney… being 50 years old, nobody, and I REPEAT nobody should be demanding you to do anything, anywhere, anytime, or anyhow! What the hell does he think you are?! Better yet… who tf does he think he is? You need to remind him that you are not his child! Woo child… this burns me up!!! K
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I would give him a choice…you pay the $400 and HE gets off his bum and helps and you will do agreed jobs but not everything OR you keep your 400 and will do agreed jobs but not everything and the third option is you leave and he looses $400 a mth and the live in maid
You need to leave, you deserve better and need to love yourself. Leave this looser now!
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NO! You are NOT wrong! But I can tell you from experience that he will never stop. So you just need to pack your bags & get out. Find somewhere else to go. Let him wallow in his mess & figure out he is gonna have to do it all by his self. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. I too am 50 & had to leave my marriage of 8 years because of a similar situation. I was so stressed out that my Dr told me that if I didn’t get rid of my stress, I was going to have a stroke. We never know just how many days we have left on this earth. It may be another 50 years, or it may be just 50 days. But we DO NOT need or have to live in situations like this. We deserve to have a happy, non-stressful life. I pray that you will make a good decision and things will work out for you. 
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Are you serious
Be self caring
He will use you as long as he can do you get a cares allowance
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He clearly just wants a maid not a girlfriend. Leave him.
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Why are you with him again? I don’t understand.
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you are a sucker… thats all i can say, You allow him to treat you like that so either suck it up or move out
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You are not his gf, love. He sees you as a live in maid! Find you someone who values you and not uses you.
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You need to leave as soon as possible
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No you are not wrong,lady wake up,get out of there and drop him like a hot potatoe ,find you a man that loves you !!!
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Get the fuck out of there… yesterday.
No you’re not wrong. This is just my opinion but it sounds like he is just using you. You definitely deserve better than that. You should get your own place and leave him there.
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I’d demand him to move out
Sounds more like a lazy roommate who needs someone to take care of him!
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Your crazy and he is wrong. But if your willing to pay and keep doing what HE wants - HE says why not keep demanding. Ask yourself what did he do before I came along? You will find your answer!
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I’d get my own place. He’s just using you. You deserve much better than he’s done for you.
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Please have enough self esteem to leave him. He is a loser.
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Just fucken leave him he could live like a pig quit supporting him
If he is truly demanding things of you he has no respect for you. Try putting demands on him. See if he changes his tune. Be prepared to walk away tho cause I’m sure it won’t fly with him. But his loss …
You’re not his gf, you’re his slave! You are actually paying him to be allowed to be his dogsbody! Please pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get the hell away from him.
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And you are still there why???
That is totally up to you!! Me…I would find me somewhere else to live.
Girl leave. He’s using you and expecting way to much from you.
Please know your worth and get out of that relationship. Sound so toxic and very one sided.
Didn’t you learned something when you were younger ?!? Wow just wow
Gurll…leave hz dirty azz…right thr in tht dam recliner!!!
Smdh!!!
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You need to drop his ass
Oh girl, don’t WALK , RUN
Leave the loser!! He will definitely miss you!!
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Your his maid and you pay him for the privilege of being his maid. Move out, move closer to your job, so you can get some rest and leave the ’ boss" in his trash .
Oh honey you are not wrong at all. Does not sound like a good situation at all.
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I mean, depending on where you live and your current income, saying leave right now might not work for you. Be smart about it. If he is treating you like this then start saving every extra cent you have. Do not go out to eat with him, do not spend anything outside of what you absolutely have to. Save and save while staying with him until you can comfortably move out. In the mean time take care of yourself and don’t let him take advantage anymore. Leave his piles where they are and clean behind yourself of course.
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So why are you with him???
Add find me somewhere else to go for a while. And I don’t mean a week or two. Tell him to clean the house and think about how he’s treating you. He’s probably going to miss that $400 more than he’s going to miss you. But you deserve better. Stand up Walk Tall
Why are you allowing yourself to go through this?
leave him right now he is using you so sorry
Sounds to me like you can take care of yourself pretty well and are a strong woman… You don’t need him
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It kinda seems that you’d rather be in company with somebody like him than be alone on your own… sometimes it’s better to be happy and alone then be miserable with somebody. Please walk out and never look back.
Move. You need the rest.
U are to good for him get out.
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Time to move out and move on. Life is too short to live like that. Know your worth. You deserve better.
You work with mentally challenged people. YOU LIVE WITH A MAN WHO IS MENTALLY CHALLENGED aswell. Leave. He Is robbing you
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You miss spelled boyfriend. It’s spelled lazy ass man child who needs to be single. Lol. He is literally contributing nothing but problems, yikes.
Move out… if its difficult because of money … then literally save every penny u have… do not go out and treat him to meals out… save save and save and get ur own place… if u want too… u can still see him… but do not be a slave to that deadwood living his life in a chair … get out of thst situation as soon as possible.
Get out while you can, you are more than capable to look after yourself, this is mental abuse, this is not love!
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Time to get out of his house and get your own place and have some self respect. He doesn’t have any respect for you, that’s obvious.
Why would you put yourself in that situation? Maybe you should reconsider your relationship. Are you really getting anything from it? I’ve always thought a partner is not only to be there for you emotionally, but also to share the duties of the house as well as payments and bills. It’s supposed to be a team, if not, then why would you even want to be in a relationship at all?
Go get your own place. Tell him to suck his BUTTHOLE.
Put your boyfriend in the bin!!
Why should you be paying your bf to live with him?
As for cleaning nooo if he’s home all day then it’s no excuse to do stuff around the house.
I stay home, I take care of the inside of the house and the kids. My bf works and then does the yard work. However he helps me inside when needed and I’ll help him outside when needed . We also split the bills ect.
I’d leave a relationship like that, that’s no relationship at all
time to move on. You’re too old for that shhhh
Why again, are you with him?
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I do not know maybe you should keep this one. I mean he is smart. gets someone to pay him to work in his house give him sex and buy him food out on the town. Pretty damn smart might consider keeping this one, before you know it he will have you voting democrat
RE: " I work with mentally challenged people"
And you live with one, as well. (Or, did he have one move in with him)? Hmm.
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Question is does he even love you, from what I’ve read, he doesn’t, you have a good job you don’t need, or deserve this BS, i move out, find you your own place, let him feel your absence for awhile, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, doing so might get his attention, the fear that you’ve left, might wake him up.
Girl , just leave his ass there in his own filth .
Oh STOP!. I can not believe I am reading this shit.
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Why are you still there?
If His disability didn’t stop his ass from eating his disability shouldn’t stop his ass from clean up
Life is to short. Time to move on. You do not deserve that. Know your worth!
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If i was you lady i would move out. Don’t tell him anything just pack a bag take it to work and don’t go home. Look around for a place to live then leave. What do you want to be his slave for the rest of your life. He is using his disability to his advantage. BASICALLY YOU ARE A SLAVE TO THIS GUY. LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE A SLAVE WORK ALL DAY THEN GO HOME AND TAKE CARE OF HIS NEEDS. HELL LET HIM FEND FOR HIMSELF. ENJOY YOUR LIFE BE YOUR OWN BOSS.
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No way !I mean unless his disability makes him incapable !Im on hospice I’m almost 70, my hubby is still working part time at age 74.I do all the house work cause he works !He’s very selfish no matter who’s house it is!Try leaving it see what happens !I would never be treated this way it’s a form of abuse !
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Why would you pay to clean up after some man? Nope. Get out.
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You deserve better. He is just using you.
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You really need to ask this, dumb you are being used.
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He’s using you leave
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This is not a relationship. He is using you to clean his home and expecting you to pay to live in his personal filth. Get out now and as far away as you can.
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"boy"notfriend … save up, move on
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Why oh why are you with him?? He is obviously narcissistic…lazy…dirty…disrespectful and doesn’t truly love you! Go get your own place or at least roomates who respect you!!
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In my opinion, you guys are roommates at that point. Why is he even your bf? Ewww. I’d rent a room somewhere and move out. Dump him.
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Why do you live like that? You dont have too. Get out of his house. Do it now.
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You are not a girl friend you are a maid that pays for cleanup after someone else who does no respect you at least that’s the way I read it
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I would find me someone who would appreciate me more and treat me better than you described you deserve better treatment
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Leave!!! There is nothing there for you!
I would tell him to pick up a broom or go fuck himself
You need to get out!!!
Sounds like he’s looking for something called a maid not a girlfriend. I think it’s time to evaluate the good in the relationship vs the bad. If the bad outweighs the good then I believe you know what you need to do.
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The numbers dont pencil out, if he gets 850, plus 400 from you and gets food assistance, his utilities dont eat that- theres a leak, gambling, drugs, alcohol, or other vice ? it doesnt sound like he’s a saver so you support his habit and your his slave?
Lol why are you still there? Get your own place
Honey run get out of there I’m sorry to say but it seem like he wants a maid and using you for whatever he can get. You are already do everything you would have to do in your own place. So if you do choose to leave, just a reminder you got this. Send you good vibes and hope ya get it figured out.
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He’s on disability so understandable he’d have issues. But you are not his maid if he wants one he can hire them. If he expects you to do that then it’ll cost him more than $400 a month.
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I would absolutely be leaving first chance you can ! You shouldn’t be paying rent to you boyfriend, especially if he doesn’t have a mortgage or rent himself. I understand chucking in for utilities though. As for the house cleaning, he needs to do that himself. He doesn’t work, doesn’t do anything, it’s the least he can do to contribute to the household.
Sounds like a disaster of a person, leave !
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