Your body, your choice
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Dump him and keep the baby
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Your body your choice you donāt want to have an abortion so donāt donāt let him talk you into it but if you donāt want the baby give it for adoption to somebody that wants a baby that canāt have one my parents adopted my cousin at a couple weeks old you have options donāt let anybody talk you into something you donāt want to do
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Itās your body your choice period 
if he wants no part his loss and leave him because he will use it against you and resent the child and create a toxic environment it happened to me my ex did it to me with our daughter he didnāt want but went on to have 2 others he adores it disgusts me. itās not your fault nothing is 100% effective this happened to me twice with my ex the first unexpected on birth control him and his family staged an intervention to drag me to an abortion clinic against my will I ended up have a miscarriage so the next unexpected while on birth control my daughter I stood my ground Iām not built for a abortion if a babyās meant to be here they will be here for a reason.AS a man he needs to respect how you feel its your body yes he should have a say and if his say is no leave its hard but you have 2 choice 1 to abort and make him happy but live with guilt and it will cause a rift in your relationship or keep the baby and let him go it will be hard as breakups are with kids but he will just have resentment towards you and the baby and will create a toxic relationship and DONOT put the blame on you or let anyone convince you itās your fault men need to start doing research too that birth control,condoms even Iāve seen people with tubes tied get pregnant.Men will come and go but a childās love is genuine and pure I always choose my babies first cause at the end of the day I know they love me for real.I have 3 its not easy but I do it and so many many do too.And if if you need to financially do child support down the line it is your right.I struggle financially from time to time but I always make sure my babies have what they need because as MOMS we make it happen no matter what I have faith you can too and there are so many resources to help with needs you may have for your child from help with furniture,diapers,formula clothes ect even if u hqve a dime to your name theirs a program or resource to help make sure your kids are ok and youā:pray:
Most pregnancies arenāt planned.
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Say no to abortion. I was a choice baby. Glad my mom made the right choice.
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Adoption, please ask me to parent! 
Or you could parent bc you got this Momma!! Wish you n yours the best!!!
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Remove him from your life his useless. And keep the baby. He has no balls!
Itās your choice! Donāt let him pressure you into that. It wasnāt planned but thatās what happens when ya do the tango. Keep your beliefs strong!
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Donāt make him guilt you into it, not cool!!! Have the baby
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Not one of my 5 kids was planned either lolā¦ do what you want to do.
Keep your baby and tell your man to kiss it.
It is your choice as much his. If you want the baby and he doesnāt you have to be prepared for him leaving and not being a parent with you. I hope you do what you need to do to be healthy but I also think open and honest communication about what that means for both of you moving forward.
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If you want them (the baby, I donāt like saying āitā) then keep it. Your body, your choice. If he doesnāt like it then thereās the door. Thatās something to seriously talk about instead of him saying to abort right away
Donāt let his decision pressure you. You will regret an abortion! Itās a permanent decision!! If he doesnāt want it, he can sign his rights over and you can raise it
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Dump him and keep the child.
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Iāve learned you can never plan a pregnancy! Pregnancies happen when you stop trying or even when you get behindā:joy:
theyāre NEVER expected. Iām the same as you. I donāt believe in abortions. I would tell him buh bye and you raise YOUR baby!
You want to keep the baby, so you keep it! Itās your body and your the one growing the baby.
Your choice, donāt be pushed into something you donāt want, youāll end up regretting and despising him. But be prepared for if he leaves since he also has a choice to not stick around.
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Sooo I will probably get hate for this. But in my opinion, yes āyour body your choiceā but if you choose to have a child this man does not want then do not hold him responsible for child support on a kid you chose to keep. I do not believe in abortion whatsoever but I do believe men should not be forced to pay for child support on a kid they had zero say in. You make your choice live with the consequences of your choice.
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Itās your body you have decided to keep the baby so keep the baby BUT be prepared that there is a possibility youāll be a single mother of 4 and thatāll be his sadā¦. Either way stick to your conviction #keepthebaby
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In or out of the womb donāt ever let a man tell you to give your child up. 
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Itās really not up to him. This is your baby too. If he was that worried he shouldāve used a condom. If he wants to leave then he can go nut heās still financially responsible whether he likes it or not
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You should have the baby because thatās what you want and the harsh reality is you only have you at the end of the day why wait to see if when itās time he rejects it or the night that your so tired you canāt get up he says you are its what you wanted. Save that from happening and carry on your way.
Is this your first child with him?
I could never live with myself if I ever got an abortion. Accidents happen unfortunately and it isnāt that poor innocent babies fault. Iād keep it and if your boyfriend doesnāt like that then thereās the door 
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Do not let him decide for you. You have to live with your decisions. He doesnāt want responsibility of a child and the financial problem. So I think people like this want to fun fun with no responsibility. Probably why your not married
Your body. Your choice. But keep in mind the future of that baby. Will you guys spilt up due to having this baby? If so, you have to prepare yourself to do it alone. Maybe have a long conversation with him. Explain your wants and beliefs. Even when babies are planned its not easy. Also remember having this baby well effect your man regardless of your decision so i feel it is fair to have a longer convo and both parties contribute to the decision.
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Mine wasnāt planned all 8 donāt let him control you itās your choice an body
Itās ultimately your decision. Do what you can live with.
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If you want to keep the baby. Keep it. Tell him he can be as involved as he likes and if he doesnāt want to be involved then fine thats on him. Dont do something youāll regret
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Honey you just answered your own question. You donāt want to & you donāt believe in it. So donāt do it. Youāll hate yourself if you do it because your BF wanted you to. Youāll forever wonder about it. Tell him he needs to snip it now.
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I wish you all the best ā¦ This baby is a gift from God ā¦If you have a abortion it will haunt you the rest of your life .I say keep this presious baby ā¦
Mine did the same. I sent him on his way and kept her. Sheās the best thing thatās ever happened to me. Do what you feel is best, not what he wants.
No uterus no opinion! If you want this baby remember you are strong independent and can do this without him!
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What are his reasons for not wanting to raise another child? Find out. Finances is the number 1 reason men donāt want another child. He may want a child but knows financially it isnāt feasible. This would be something that you could help with so he sees a away to keep child.
Men have rights now to fetuses
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If you donāt want to have a baby get an abortion and take care of you and your family , if you want the baby Iād have a really long talk with your dude , itās a family thing but itās also your body, tough one . Big hugs
You donāt believe in abortion but youāll do it for your man? Reevaluate yourself hunā¦
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Itās your decision, your body.
Itās your choice, not his. The way " your body your choice " works is that the father has no say in it bc its inside YOUR body.
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See a councilor or therapist? I know women who have done it and both were happy they did and others said they wish they didnāt do it. So itās kinda hard to give advice to you on this topic
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Itās your body if you want to keep the baby you should if you donāt then get rid of the baby.
You donāt believe in it you donāt do it if he canāt understand that or agree to that thatās something yall are going to need to work on. But you need to tell him itās not happening especially since his only reasoning is because āthis baby wasnāt plannedā
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You have to decide what is best for you and your family. If abortion is not for you but you also cannot commit to caring for another child there is always adoption. If you opt for abortion be sure that you have supportive people around you that can help you afterward.
Itās both your choice maybe the fact he has two kids and you have 3 is more then enoughā¦you may have been on contraception but everyone knows its not 100 percent so you should of told him to put a condom on and he should of known better cus you both know what happens when you have sexā¦ your pregnant but its his child as much as yours why is the choice only yours.
You may not like my opinion but you put this post on for peopleās views on the situation so thatās mine
Itās not about you and your body anymore itās about the precious life you have created. If your man would ask you to do that instead of being supportive itās sounds like you need a new man.
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I would rather be a single mom with babies than to get an abortion for a boyfriend. He can accept responsibility or be on his way. Not trying to judge anybody at all but yall have only been together for 2 years.
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Screw him he only cares about himself and dont want to pay anything.Apparently he is not that into u if he wants u to get abortion.Keep the baby no matter what he says.He if leaves u awe well get that child support.
Iām not gonna say completely disregard his feelings, but if his ONLY reason he wants you to get an abortion is because this wasnāt expected , then Iām gonna say I would tell him too bad . My 4th was unexpected . I was on birth control never missing a single pill and somehow we got pregnant . We were in a house too small trying to buy a house and move , we JUST had a conversation about maybe never wanting anymore kids and being done and that IF we did decide itās gonna be a couple more years at least and then BAM . Life had other plans . I wonāt say the thought didnāt cross my mind especially when my husband said he thought that was the best choice , I didnāt . And I couldnāt think otherwise and it was the BEST decision I made . First of all , we had three girls and this one ended up being a boy so that was pretty awesome but on top of it , heās literally the best baby . Heās the happiest all the time and will light up anyones world . Heās such a light in all of our lives .
Iām not telling you what to doā¦ and aside from what anyone here thinks, feels, or believesā¦ itās ultimately YOUR decision you have to live with forever regardless of what you choose to do. I donāt judge anyone and I donāt feel itās anyones right to come here judging. Itās your body. Your life. Your choice. Do not let anyone make the choice for you because you will end up having regret.
So your body you decide what you want to do, however also realize he can decide to leave & have nothing to do with it either. So in end do what you think is best for you & your kids you have already
No birth control is 100 percent guaranteedā¦ if you have sexā¦unless youāve had a hysterectomyā¦ pregnancy is always a chanceā¦ he should know thisā¦ he chose to have sex with youā¦ as you choose to have sex with himā¦ this baby is a giftā¦ if he canāt accept thatā¦ then send him on his way.
Then donāt do it. Your body your choice. If he doesnāt want it then take your kids and move on
There no way if my boyfriend told me to have an abortion I would say no Iām keeping. I will bring this child up on my own . You donāt have to be involved .nor pay financial if thatās what your worried bout
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The best advice I can offer you is stop asking strangers on the internet for advice on something that is going to literally affect you for the rest of your life no matter what you choose.
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Adoption is a beautiful choice
Donāt be forced into something you will carry the rest of your life.
Keep the baby, you already stated you donāt want an abortion. So DONāT get one. If thatās what you truly believe, donāt back down. Nobody can make that decision for you. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
Congratulations on your new precious gift from God. Your new precious bundle of joy momma.
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Your body, your choice!
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Respect goes both ways. However, itās your body, so do whatās best for you.
Your body. Your choice.
Having the baby when he doesnāt want to is just going to bring strife to everyone. Start planning for you and all of your children to move on and if he doesnāt want to be a part then donāt put his name on the birth certificate.
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Your body your choice. Since you want to keep the baby then do that. If you do something because heās mĆ king you you will rĆØgret it and you will grow to hĆ te him for it.
I was in the same boat not long ago. My boyfriend originally said the same thing. He wasnāt mean about it. We just simply had not known each other that long. We lived an hour away from each other. I owned my home and he rented. We both had a child from previous relationships. We had a lot to consider. Ultimately it is YOUR choice. I kept my baby. It was hard. It was scary and crazy but we figured it out. Our 6 month old has his daddy wrapped around his finger now. Not all men will come around though. If you want to keep the baby, then do it. If you donāt, then donāt. If dad no longer wants to be a part of the picture and doesnāt own up to this, be prepared for it. Youāve got this!
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While I do believe the decision should be made by the both of you, it is something that you would have to be doing to your body so it should ultimately be your choice. I think even if you donāt believe in abortion maybe you should educate yourself about it if you havenāt already and tell him after reading into it more you are standing by your beliefs to at least show that you tried to consider that option. You could also both talk about the option of giving the baby up for adoption to see if your beliefs match up for that option better than the other 2 choices. If you donāt believe in abortion and he really doesnāt want to raise the child and you think that it would be hard to add another child to the equation as well, adoption may be the best option even if itās a painful one. If you think you could manage adding another to the family and donāt care if he leaves you if youāre able to do it on your own or if you donāt think you could do it on your own, look for support from family and friends if he were to leave, would someone else be able to help? Talk to him and ask him would he leave you over your decision and if he says he wouldnāt leave you over it then I would keep the baby. He will either be the type of man that will support you in your decision to keep the baby even if itās not what he wanted or he will be the type of man that will leave you over keeping a child that he didnāt want and who would want to be with a man like that anyway? Also, he may still be in shock give him a day or 2 and have a conversation with him.
What the hellās the matter with you why would you even ask what should you do itās a baby thereās no question
Get rid of the boyfriend
No oneās choice but yours. People can have opinions but they donāt get a choice.
Well I feel any baby that is made is a blessing from God I will not get no abortion be a man and raise the child that is Godās blessing
Abby Johnson has an organization that can help you.
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I know many families that would love to adopt and love the baby. There are so many families that canāt have babies them-selves. 
So whatās right in your heart for you and your baby.
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Donāt compromise on your beliefs
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Donāt go against your beliefs for anyone. If you donāt wanna do it donāt because thatās gonna affect your mental health socially because you wanna keep it. Tell dad thatās what happens wen you do the deed no birth control is 100 percent
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Get rid of him and keep the baby birth control or not having sex makes babies there is always a chance and thatās a chance he took
Its your body your choice but I donāt think itās fair to force him to raise a child he didnāt want an ultimately has no say in whether that child is born or not. However if you are ok with not putting his name on the BC and never having any financial or emotional support then keep the child and raise it on your own.
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My partner said the same thing or mentioned adoption. I told him I wanted to keep the baby and if he didnāt want it he could leave. We currently have a 2 and 1 year old and this pregnancy I was on birth control but it failed. In the end itās your body, your decision. If he doesnāt like it he can leave
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Seek counseling and do what you feel is right.
You donāt need a man that wants you to kill your baby. Your choice, it a life that was meant to be here, a blessing. Personally, I donāt know your story but you have to think this is his baby too. Iād pick my baby no matter how much I loved that man. Actions speak louder than words. Prayer for all of you. Stay strong, you know what you want, 12 years is a long time. Wwjd. Best wishes which ever choice you make. If your a believer, you know who to talk to, if not try it. God has away to help you, just ask. God bless your journey. Prayers and hugs sent. 
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Be ready to take care of it by yourself
Your body, your choice. Period.
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Ur body, ur choiceā¦I also do not agree with it
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You absolutely need to do what is best for you and you only. Last year I went through something similar with my husband its been a year and I still regret it.
Stand your ground if you donāt you will never forgive yourself
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Did you guys discuss having a child in case something like this would happen? What did you both agree on? If he choose to walk away and not help with the baby after saying no are you going to trash him? Thereās a lot to talk about here. Itās not killing a baby. Iām definitely not a position financially or mentally to even have another baby I would totally take care of the problem and move about my day
I would leave and raise my kid alone.
Keep the baby you want to ā¦ Wil go 2 ways he will man up accept took pair of u to make this baby ā¦m step down and walk away complelty ethier u or him ā¦ Even if u have an abortion doesnāt mean u be wit this man foreva think of future z
Terminate the boyfriend. Keep your baby 
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If he doesnāt want any more kids he needs to get a vasectomy. Contraception isnāt 100%
If you donāt believe in it, then being forced to do it is only going to make you resent your partner
But be prepared, most of these situations, not all, end in them leaving, so do you want to be tied to him for 18 years
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Although you can take his opinion into consideration, ultimately itās your choice 100%. Be prepared to raise the baby on your own if he chooses to walk away. Maybe heāll come around, maybe not but donāt be guilted into doing something that will haunt you since you said youāre anti abortion. Best of luck!
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Itās Your Choice and you get to live with Your choice itās not his to make.
Itās your body. If you want the baby keep it. Itās not his decision
You have choicesā¦you can always let someone who is waiting but just canāt conceive be parents!! Good things do happen in adoptionsā¦just another choice but itās yours to do as you need to live with the outcome
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You keep your baby and drop that man. I donāt believe it abortion either and I suspect I might be pregnant. If I do nor change my mind Iāll be finding him or her a family to love them and make sure they give the baby a good life. I was responsible and on birth control but it happened anyway. Iāve tested negative Iāll be retesting in a week.
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Its your choice of courseā¦but I know from experience , youāll feel like a murderer in years to comeā¦the quilt will eat you up ā¦itās been 35 years now ā¦when my boyfriend told me ( itās me or the baby) I choose himā¦only to find out they where twinsā¦I choose the love of a man ā¦over the life of a baby ( babies) and I carry the quilt and just rolling in the remorseā¦for the rest of my lifeā¦
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Contraception is not 100 % . If he didnāt want another child he shouldnāt have helped make one.
Termination is possible as you are only 5 weeks but could you live with your decision ?
You obviously want your baby ā¦he doesnāt. Id be raising my children on my own.
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Itās absolutely your choice and you need to make the choice based on your beliefs and whatās best for you but you do also have to consider his opinion as it took both of you to make this baby
so many people looking to add a beautiful baby to their family through adoption! I myself would be one happy to adopt any baby who needs a loving home
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Pray about it. You know what to do. What outcome can you live with! Because your the only one who will.
If thereās a heartbeatā¦thereās a soul.
God bless you guidance and direction in your decision.
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Dump your boyfriend and keep the baby. Prayers
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Itās your choice but expect the possibility of having to raise the baby on your own.
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