Please do not move your daughter in with this psychopath
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Get as far away from him as u can fast af
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End this now.
You have hooked up with a narcissist who will make your life and your daughter’s life miserable.
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I’m feeling a whole lot of NOPE from this post. Sorry girl.
If someone is that crazy about something that was not in the wrong at all it’s because they’re likely doing something similar and are looking for blame to fall on you instead of them. Red flag, bail tf out
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Her red of him. You cant be serious!
Don’t move there. He sounds possessive and it’ll only get worse.
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You are not wrong. This is called a red flag. Please do not move in with this person.
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That’s mentally and emotionally abusive and less likely to get better over time. Do yourself a favor and break it off. Would you want your daughter with a guy who treats her like that?
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Sweet girl, believe me and heed this warning, RUN!!
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He is controlling you and at the very least he is verbally abusive to you. Is that the role model you want your daughter to see? Would it be ok with you if her boyfriend treated her in the same manner? Just something to think about.
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Girl 
away from him
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Tell him to hit the bricks.
DANGER:rotating_light:DANGER:rotating_light: run the other way as fast as you can.
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Change your passwords. And drop this loser, things will just get worse if you stay with him.
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Holy mother of toxic pits 
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Hes crazy… on to the next
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Do not move! Break up with him
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Don’t do it! End it and move one. He is TOXIC! He will drain you and you won’t even recognize yourself when it is over.
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Darling, consider loving yourself as opposed to begging him to love you. He is FOS.
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His true colors are out.
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Nope do not move there! If he’s being verbally abusive now it’s only going to get worst!
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The fact that you’re even having to second guess if you did anything wrong already shows how much he’s already gotten into your head. I am speaking from love and experience, please drop him like a hot plate and change your password and never look back. You shouldn’t have to change passwords, delete friends because he “feels” threatened. That’s on him, not you. If he feels like you’re a wh@re now and is comfortable enough to call you that before you live together, imagine what else he’ll call you and do. You and your daughter deserve someone so much better, that you don’t have to prove your worth or leave your home. Please reconsider your choices regarding him 
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Walk away, if this is just the beginning it already looks bad. Keep in mind your child and what you would tell her if she had this problem.
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Drop him, immediately. You & your daughter don’t need that toxic BS.
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Ok… so, this is the start of grooming in order to control you. This is typical behavior of a narcissist. You’ve already deleted people he’s felt threatened by but guess what is going to happen when he “feels threatened” by a family member? Yep, he’s going to get you to stop talking to them as well as long as you stay on this path!!!
Sing it with me…
"Let him go, let him go…
"Don’t waste any more of your time…
"Let him go, let him go…
"It will help to ease your mind!
"HERE YOU STAND 
"WITH YOUR HEART IN TOW
"LET HIM MOOOOVE ON…
"BECAUSE HE WILL NEVER LET IT GO!!!
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end this damaging relationship, he is abusing you. take care of you and your daughter
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This guy is toxic. You said it yourself he makes you choose him over living your life. He has nothing else to hold against you and wants to.make you feel bad. It’s not you, it is him. You are allowed to leave because of this it is not ok. He disrespects you and try to bring you down not healthy and won’t learn. Mulnipulative to say the least. Run! Do not move your baby where he can make her feel the same. Goodluck. You are strong enough to live without him and you deserve alot better so does your baby x
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RUN away this is a sign of what’s to come.
Red flags everywhere.
Sounds abusive. From someone who was trapped in a domestic violence situation for 6 years with my sons father, my son also has PTSD Due to m the things that happened. PLEASE DONT MOVE!!!
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IMHO…Do NOT Move across the country with your daughter in tow to be with this man. Trust me. It only gets worse…
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Run don’t walk as far from him as possible!!
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Definitely red flags!! Do not move to be with him. He sounds manipulative!! Eek scary!!
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He has a problem.
This is what your life will be like every day you are with him. MOVE ON
Oh no honey. You didnt cheat on him, y’all weren’t together so why is he mad?
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Drop him. Control freak.
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Run, get rid of him hun, he’s no good, better learning now hun, than later on, he’s to controlling hun, leave before it gets worse, he won’t charge and you will be wasting your time on him, trust me, leave now hun, best of luck 
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End that girl, your better off …
You’re being verbally abused and manipulated. He is not for you. Pay attention to the red flags. You’re teaching yourself and your daughter to accept this kind of treatment for a s/o.
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Ew he’s got to go. It’s way too early in a relationship to have this type of shit. And calling you names? No.
Big red flag 
drop him don’t move keep your peace and find some that not abusive.
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I’m not sure why you would even be with someone that called you a hoe. He is super disrespectful and no way should you tolerate being with someone like that. If I were you I would run as fast as you can.
Dont collect red flags
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Forgiveness is moving on and not mentioning it any longer. The fact that it gets thrown in your face in a sign he’ll never stop ,it’ll be over your head the entirety of your relationship.
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I hope u don’t move with him or even stay in a relationship with him
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Sounds like he is a control freak… Run
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It ultimately up to you however I knew someone like this and trust me IT NEVER ENDS! He’ll assume the worst when you talk to any guy.
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Leave him. You don’t owe anyone for what you-did you where just living your life.
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He’s got a screw loose! You are what you settle for so don’t settle for that!!!
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Please you haven’t moved in yet, and don’t, he only get worse, your life so much better we’re you are belive me, don’t bring it on yourself or your daughter hun, please stay were your are for your piece of mind hun, he’s no good run…
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Run run as fast as you can
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No you are not wrong but you really should not be in a relationship with someone that won’t let the past be in the past! You should not take your child and move to be with him. Stay safe.
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Dump him dont shift your daughter to a life of hell.
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Girl I would not move to Texas and him acting like that. No you shouldn’t feel bad as you were single. He needs to get over it. I would probably end whatever you all have and change my passwords before hand
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Get out and. Stay out
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Opinion only, does being called this suit you? If not this was a season in life appreciate what you learned and move on. Obviously there were expectations he refused to communicate and that is not on you at all. Its ok to move past this relationship you didn’t fail or mess up. It was simply a season. If you choose to stay that’s ok too. But before anything ask yourself if your daughter was in this situation how would you guide her? That should be your answer.
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Hes a narcissist and sounds abusive. Do not move to be with him. Keep your little girl away from that. Oh and quit apologizing when you did absolutely nothing wrong.
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Big red flag! Ditch him.
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Run. Block. Delete. Get rid of him. He’s trash. It’ll never get better, he’s controlling. He will destroy yours and your daughtes life. End it before he gets worse
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Although you got 100 warnings ima repeat it again…RED FLAG do not move to Texas with this man…this WILL NOT WORK OUT…he’s insecure and controlling…classic symptoms of a narcissist or just another fuck boy. This will not be a happy ending. Don’t put your child through this!
Oh honey, no. Get rid of him now! That is toxic AF!
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Time to run as fast as you can in the other direction.
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Kick him too the curb
drop him right now NO NOT move to TX it will only get worse
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Sweetheart block block block him! Two things, he is very insecure and will always put his happiness or unhappiness on what you do or don’t do. A person that leads with his/her emotions is a weakness as our emotions change 20 times a day. A person like that screams unstable, or a Virgo. Second, he might be getting cold feet about having you come out there in July and is using this as an excuse. He is already starting to manipulate you. He is testing waters and you gave in exactly how he wanted you to. Once you put your foot down and back off, he will come running, love bombing, telling you everything you want to hear. Do not involve your daughter in that mess. You have no clue what he did during that time either. Don’t fall for it. Serious RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE!!
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Your daughter doesn’t need this toxicity in her life. DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM. You’ll regret it immediately
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red flag central up here!!! Cut that shit off and do not move to Texas!!! Like for him or any other reason
Girl do nor pursue that relationship. It will get worse the moment he has you in his town alone.
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Do not move there. He’s slowly making you feel less than. If you move there than he can isolate you and do worse
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Honestly just end it and stay away. Talking from experience here he sounds very insecure and he will never let it go.
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Huge red flags here baby girl. Please don’t move to Texas with him. It will only get worse. Don’t put you or your baby through that. Break up & delete him
Wow, you did NOTHING WRONG! If he can’t handle how you were when you were single - will you be able to leave the house???
Oh no, if it this bad now you are walking straight into a nightmare and worse you will be bringing you daughter with you. End it now!!! Sounds bad but sweetie, this is not healthy for any of you. You do not want to bring up your daughter thinking this is what a healthy relationship looks like.
Go take a soothing bath, play some music and think if your daughter was a young women and this was her man. She was thinking of moving away and he was pulling this on her. (Don’t think with you heart on how you feel for him) Is this the kind of life/happy/fulfilling life you’ve dreamed for her?
Praying for you!
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First of all!!! He’s tripping and you’ve given him to much power. You don’t have to apologize for anything, you did nothing wrong. Run as fast and as far as you can from that “friend”… What a POS
You didn’t do a dang thing wrong … sounds like things will just get worse form here
Think about your daughter, if you truly love her. Put her first. Not a man
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Run and don’t look back ! Blessing that you found out what he is like before you moved you and your daughter . Sounds sicko
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Girl, no. Avoid this situation like the plague. This is not a healthy relationship.
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You don’t need that in your life and neither does your daughter. Run!!
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No, break it off. That’s only going to get worse. And it’s already abusive… run hard and fast.
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I told my dogs about this, and they said it’s a big gray flag.
Change your passwords and stop apologising. You did nothing wrong. He sounds like a narcissist and as if hes trying to control you from Afar. Hes already got you apologising repeatedly for something that you did that wasn’t even wrong or really any of his business.
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Don’t move! I feel like that whole post is a red flag!
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Red flag!! Do not move in with him. He sounds abusive
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You had to give him your passwords?? Nah girl, give him the boot! You are giving him way too much control. It’ll get worse, run! Nobody needs an insecure, disrespectful, controlling ass dude around.
My husband used to be like this. I literally had to demand respect from him. I had to give him an ultimatum. He was all they’re going to accept me for who I was or it was going to be over. We are all human we all make mistakes.
He sounds crazy, get out while you can. People like him want to act like a victim and will not drop the issue, they will break you to pieces. I been through this and would hate to see you get further more involved. You don’t need to feel like shit.
It be a living hell move on put daughter 1st
Even when you tell him you’re going to leave, and he promises he won’t do it again, don’t believe him. He’ll treat you this way for as long as you’re with him. This is not normal behavior and you deserve more.
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What you do during your time as a single consenting adult has nothing to do with him. This shouldn’t even be a conversation nor does he have the right to be angry and especially call you a h**. He sounds like he is projecting his insecurities and is manipulating you into feeling guilty and power tripping this. This is not normal behavior for a healthy relationship.
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Honey, you need to move on from this man. He’s toxic and possessive. You owe him NOTHING because you weren’t in a relationship with him. I’m willing to bet he slept with other people before y’all got together. LEAVE HIM. Change your passwords back, add your friends back, stop pleading for his forgiveness, and go find you a REAL MAN.
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Giant red flag. Dump him.
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Red I definitely would reconsider the whole relationship. If he can call you names already, who knows what else he’ll do once together. This was something before him so there shouldn’t be an issue, and being there is… that’s an issue itself. 15 years with my husband and he’s NEVER called me any name other then babe. Don’t settle!
Ask him to get couples counseling and move on. Or you move on.
Red flags are waving, leave
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Bye , name calling is not okay
Run the opposite direction as fast as you can and never look back!
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Don’t move, he is nuts!
Run! Do not uproot you and your daughter’s life for that! I made that mistake and his insecurities led him to constantly blame me for the things that he was actually doing. I regret it every single day of my life. It hurt my son and I so badly that I have remained single for almost 4 years. Just please think about this and what you have built for yourself and what it would literally take for you to have rebuild it again. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.
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MARRY THAT MAN! He obviously really really loves you!!
Are you constantly High? Drop this douche bag off at the dump where he belongs, what’s wrong with you? Love yourself gawd dammit! Know your worth! I say that with love too. I’ve said it before to a friend with the exact same mentality as you. Why you apologizing for something that isn’t even his business. Fuck this guy!