Sounds like he’s not mature enough for a relationship. A lot of men out there have many social media accounts and does not have the need to heart pics of other girls other than their partner. It’s a choice what he’s doing and it seems like he’s not caring one bit how it makes you feel. I understand fully how that makes you feel especially since you voiced your feelings about him hearting pictures of her etc. Ask him to stop and if he doesn’t then I’d leave. I understand men find other women attractive and that’s okay but to make it known to the world by hearting a picture of some girl while your in a relationship is just not right in my eye’s. It’s all about respect and if you don’t have it then there is no business being in a relationship together.
Girl most of not all of those girls are fake their teeth, their hair, their eyelashes and most of their personalities never compare yourself or down yourself to someone else you are beautiful in your own way but I would have a talk with him again and tell him how it makes your feel and if he continues then I would find someone who appreciates you the way you are and not someone fake. 
Find a man…not a boy…
He should not feel that way about another woman like that. And ack like it’s OK. No it is not. And to heart her just grosse me out. Don’t put yourself in second place for anyone. You blocked her I love that. Good for you. Why are you with him or let him do this to you? I know it’s because you love him. To me he would not be worth my time.
If he doesn’t understand how you feel love explain it to him. It’s how it makes you feel and how it hurts you. Communication is a key in a relationship
Tell him to leave you and find happiness with her 
It’s just a fantasy for him he will NOT have a chance with her at ALL…
im going through the same thing. i feel your pain. and i’m sorry you’re going through it too. its a very shitty feeling.
Him hearting all her videos is as pathetic as the guys at strip clubs who hang around till closing thinking that she might go home with him, if you dont dump him you should at least send him down the self checkout aisle when he comes knockin
Don’t block his phone; it’s his … wouldn’t you rather he make the decision to shut the off? yes; of course you do.
Think about it hard - he is addicted.
I’m sorry.
We can’t change anyone - it has to come from within him … 
Your feelings are valid…youve told him before how it makes you feel and he should respect that. Esp with it effecting you so much. Its wrong of him to continue doing it. Obviously he feels some type of way about her if he cant leave her videos alone
It is called ‘‘Abusive Cheating’’. He needs mental help. Encourage him to get it.
Ditch the man child and move on. No need to be with someone like that. Find someone who loves and respects you!
Well China owns his him so the there’s that. I wouldn’t touch Tik Tok with a 100 foot pole……but to each his/her/their own
If he knows it’s upsetting you and he’s still continuing to love heart and watch her videos he’s got no respect for you, and sorry to say sounds like he has got a bit of a obsession with this girl constantly watching her vodeos, I’d make him block her don’t put up with it and if he can’t then know your worth and walk away .
So you’re saying he’s shallow and what do you love about him?
Shes probsbly not girlfriend material. Don’t worry about her. Hes being disrespectful though!!! Look at yourself worth!! You’re worth more than you think!!
Shit find u something hot to look at too and see how he likes them apples 
trust me it sucks to do it , but it works 
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He is being a pr#ck - don’t gaslight yourself he is being immature and disrespectful
Sounds like to me that he enjoys making you feel inadequate! When you get enough pull out and forget his stupid as$ then tell him to go heart some other nudie
Stop whining and trying to control a grown man and do you.
Either get rid of him or find some eye candy and start doing shit without him.
Use the following quotation…
“I’ll be back.”
Walk yo ass out the door and do shit that you enjoy.
Put your phone on do not disturb and have fun-fun-fun.
He’ll either get with the program or bounce.
If he bounces great because that means he wasn’t Mr Right and you dodged a major headache and the coast is clear for the real Mr. Right.
People are gonna do what they wanna do. Be one of those people and live your life without accumulating any regrets.
Sounds like a mix of him gaslighting you, and you projecting your insecurities on him. Have a talk, acknowledge your feelings, and set boundaries. Boundaries can be digital/social, emotional, or physical. Keep an open dialogue. Dudes be dumb AF. They’re all physical and visual. They don’t realize the hurt they can dispense with a single glance at another woman in your presence. You are amazing. You are gorgeous. You are enough.
I’d start looking at hot guys right infront of him and make comments and see how he likes it 
guys like that are douche bags n can’t take what they dish out. You deserve someone who respects ur wishes and feelings
Na. Block away. Dont over think it.
Look after your own happiness. If he doesn’t like your boundaries then he can go away.
For me though he would already have been gone cos that made my skin crawl. Dont do anything that hurts the person that lies in bed with you. Just make a person feel beautiful. That shouldn’t be a hard concept for someone to grasp. Creepy.
I understand how you feel however you shouldn’t hate another women and bring another women down based on videos and how she dresses, firstly I’m sure she don’t don’t know your husband as women we need to stop always blaming and finding faults In each cause clearly your guy is wrong!! Imagine hating someone and saying nasty stuff about them yet she could be the sweetest kindest soul you don’t even know , if his your guy he should be your biggest fan, you need to have confidence in yourself and do you and if he does not appreciate that then boy bye !
I understand that you don’t like that he follows her or s her videos, but going on his phone and blocking her is too much. You have a right to feel how you feel and express that to him, if you can’t live with his choice to continue to follow her you should move on. You can’t change people, and you shouldn’t try. You should both probably be with people who you like as is, not someone you wish was different in some way. Move on, learn to love yourself before you start a new relationship.
Fuck him if he won’t delete some dumb imaginary bitch you don’t know personally ,then no pussy for you . Who wants some dumb loser sitting on tic tok hearting half naked sluts anyway. You like dumb bitches,while I like real men so peace 
out. Boom
You gotta think I’m sure she has a lot of other men crushing on her and following her liking her videos
You got to think to your self do your think she would ever give your husband the time of the day probably not … they do it for attention and followers
Don’t let it both you! Fine someone on there you think is hot follow them watch their videos all the time him a piece of his medicine back!!
He showed you who he is and his investment in your relationship (little to none if he can’t even do the bare minimum by being respectful), believe him. Don’t waste anymore time with someone who is keeping you around as a placeholder.
All men check out other woman doesn’t mean they think any less of the person they are in a relationship with. Hell my husband will check out other woman when we are out together and will say hey look at this chick she’s hot or has a nice ass or something and ill give a response back like yea she’s kinda cute or no u can do better than that she’s not ur type or ur out of ur league. I do the same thing I will tell him hey look at this guy he’s got a nice ass or something and he will give a response back. Its really not that big of a deal because its like the saying u can look but don’t touch. As for ur boyfriend it’s not like anything is gonna come from it its tik tok they aren’t hooking up when u like content u hit the heart and more will pop up from them eventually. Howevrr u didn’t have the right to go into his phone to block just because u didn’t like what he was doing ur letting ur insecurities get the best of u and ur acting purely out of emotion. Im sure uve seen other men u thought were hot. It doesn’t matter if u are in a relationship or not men notice other woman and woman notice other men but that doesn’t mean u think any less of ur partner ur with. I’ve been with my husband for 16 years and married for 11 years and this has never been an issue because its only looking and not being acted on and both of us look through tik tok alot. Now if he was messaging her and trying to meet up or actually going out and hooking up with her then yes it would be a problem and being upset is definitely justified at that point but the chances of anything happening between them is slim and probably not likely. Don’t let it bother u so much until and unless he gives u a reason to worry and be bothered by it like I said by messaging trying to hook up or actually hooking up. Until then don’t stress or let it bother u so much.
Girl what’s her tik tok cause I be insecure af about girls on there to and I’m single haha but I’d never let him if he don’t change do the same or go find someone else if he isn’t making changes he don’t care. And is immature
Sounds like you need to work on yourself lovely ,its the best thing you can do for yourself🥰 if he’s liking all her content that is why she will keep appearing on his screen .you shouldn’t be blocking without his say so it’s his phone etc … its social media half of it is fake ,made up ,edited, airbrushed or something . Don’t bring another woman down because you’re insecure or have low self confidence work on yourself life will change for the better . He’s clearly diresguarding how you feel which is disrespectful if he can’t respect you then you need to set boundaries to say its not acceptable etc … if you allow to be disrespected from the get go that behaviour will continue . Wishing you all the best xx
Any man who deliberately undermines your confidence and doesn’t care about your happiness needs to be gone! This will NOT improve!!! You’re signing up for a long miserable life if you stay with him. Kick him into touch and find yourself a real man who wants YOU - not some unattainable (and innocent btw) female on tick-tock.
My fiance deleted his lol if he loves u it should be no problem about it !
Make your own sexy tiktok videos and be like look how many hearts I be getting babe
Your doing too much.
Sounds like you just got the green light to feast YOUR eyes on some hotness! Guys usually don’t like their own medicine.
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Who is it ? Is it Anna Paul? She’s sexy asf
He’s deliberately trying to hurt you and make you feel less then. Not a loving man I’d want in my life.
My ex used to be so hot for Tina Turner, and drool over her, but I knew he never stood a chance. Don’t let your insecurities over someone he will never meet mess up your relationship. Seriously get over it.
You deserve so much better. I think you should find you a husband that appreciates YOU for YOU. The one you have now is stucl in fantasy land. I am so sorry
Sounds like an immature arse hole. Kick him to the kurb!
I would see what his reaction is when you blocked her and if he goes off his head dump him. There’s other nice guys around
I’ve had similar insecurities regarding this exact topic. I think the core issue here isn’t the actual act; but the fact that you’ve told him something bothers you, and he’s basically said “ok, I’m still gonna do it tho”. I was in a similar relationship, and it was exhausting. If he is going to continue to do something you’ve expressed is hurting you, you either have to decide to be ok with it, or you need to walk away. You shouldn’t have to be going through his phone and deleting girls (I’ve had to do that before too…it’s bad on the mental). IF this is a deal breaker for you in the relationship, sit down and have a serious conversation with him stating the boundaries and consequence. If it’s not a deal breaker but bothering you, you might need to accept that he isn’t willing to change, and you’re going to put up with that. You’re in control of this, remember that. I would def see how he reacts to finding out she’s blocked, or maybe even check if hes unblocked her. Good luck!
He sounds like an A-hole. No one turns to their partner and says ‘this girl looks better than you’ or purposely says/does things to make you feel like crap.
Dump him and RUN
The red flag here is you sis.
Your bf sounds like a piece of shit. I’d let him have tik tok and be done, but that’s just me. You can find someone who would treat you right.
Have you told him that it hurts you? I feel like that’s where you should start…
Let me shoot his shot. You are better off 
You do same to him lmao
Start doing the exact same thing lol find a really attractive male model in tik tok and pretend to be obsessed with him 
You’re not alone honey. I have also felt the same. Some women it doesn’t bother them so they don’t understand. My ex bf did the same and when he couldn’t cut loose of it, I cut loose of him. It’s disrespectful in my eyes. It does hurt and I’m sorry.
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Listen ANY woman that makes me feel insecure my husband blocks immediately without hesitation or questions. He never says anything to me about other women just how perfect I am for him. Get you a new man sis…
He’s a douchebag! Drop his ass!
Fuck him. I’d let him keep his videos and tiktok and find myself a new life.
If he’s saying those things to you he is either toxic or too young and immature to have a relationship yet…either way save yourself from worse heartache from investing any more of your time with someone who doesn’t value you fully
Sounds like a child id get rid
Find you a half naked hottie to whatch and see how he likes it I guess. Guys like confidence. Whatch Amy Schumers I Feel Pretty. It helped me. https://youtu.be/Yi60f1jPfto
No you’re not crazy or controlling. You have REAL feelings and if he loved and respected you he wouldn’t do it anymore. If he knows it hurts you that much and continues to do it, that’s not love. Have a talk and tell him exactly what you told us. If he doesn’t try to reassure you and change his ways then move on. You need to be happy.
Don’t stay with someone like this you’ll never be happy. There’s no point in playing tit for tat that’s just who he is.
Yes, you are projecting your insecurities. You are naive to think you’re the only person that he will ever find attractive just like he’s not the only person you will ever find attractive. You need to grow up. If you don’t like how you look work on yourself. Going on there and blocking her was childish.
Keep her blocked ,think is this what type of life you want to live.
My wife and I send each other tiktoks of people we think are hot and swoon over them together. This isn’t healthy sis. You’re projecting your insecurities and it’s not fair for you to hold your boyfriend to this standard that he can’t think others are attractive, as I’m sure you do.
Im.obsessed with Facebook etc, true story, yet, everytime I try and engage with my hubby he is “busy” 
am I supposed to sit around until he has time for me?
Not saying that is YOUR reality just something to think about
If any man makes you feel that way, he’s not good for you. If you explained to him how much it hurts and bothers you and he still continues to do it… he’s a selfish jackass and you can do so much better.
You’re not crazy or controlling…you placed boundaries and he’s walking all over them.
That is just disrespectful girl and mean. You need to get rid of his ass…… know your worth!
Marley Budreau what a f**king b,Ich, girl it cost 0$ to be a good person, sounds like you might be the one who needs to grow up or learn to keep your BS opinions to yourself. 
You are aloud to have your feelings. Also at least he said something to you how he thinks she’s hot. Unless you have permission you shouldn’t be invading or looking through his stuff. Just think how he will feel when he finds out you blocked her. Also put yourself in his shoes what if he did that to you
Why are you still with him?
You can block her but he’ll just find a new obsession. Men like that don’t just stop with one…
Lord hard mercy 
are women really accepting this behavior nowadays and then blaming themselves? Call me toxic all day everyday because not only would this be an issue but one of 2 things would happen. A. He would get rid of tik tok or B. I’d leave. Simple as that. That’s disrespectful asf.
I left an ex boyfriend because he was obsessed with a certain woman. A girl he went to school with, he would watch her patreon and only fan videos. I figured i should be able to find someone who is obsessed with me
You obviously don’t trust him and he doesn’t give you the attention you need so I don’t see how you two should be in a relationship
A man that respects you wouldn’t disrespect you by continuing to watch this garbage. Looks like you should find a tiktok obsession and see how he likes it
You could be petty and do the same thing to him and look up thirst traps from guys or you could walk away and save your self esteem and Confidence. If he finds her so attractive then leave and let him be lonely trying to get a girl he’s never gonna get. You’ll be much happier once you get rid of him and find someone who loves you for you and could never imagine looking at another woman. It’s okay to think other people are attractive when you’re in a relationship but he’s taking it too far. To me it sounds like he’s trying to put you down and make you feel bad about the way you look to make you want to change it. And you should never change who you are or how you look unless YOU choose to not for a man like that
Leave him. There are plenty of men out there who will love you for you.
Your feelings are valid! My husband used to do something similar 10+ yrs ago, obviously not tiktok era, but it killed my self-esteem. I’ve still, 9 yrs later, have the same insecurities… even tho my husband hasn’t done anything in the past 5 yrs to make those insecurities worse; he’s only tried to build me up…
So, I get it. I find it disrespectful of your man to continue to search, like or interact with that woman on tiktok after you have expressed your discord with that particular situation! Y’all need to have a serious talk about boundaries & respect! 
He sounds very inconsiderate and selfish. When somebody loves you they care how you feel and don’t want to deliberately hurt you. You can do better!
It’s not crazy at all. This is your boundary if he can’t respect it walk away and find someone else.
this is obvious that he isn’t in love with you.You need to ditch him as he will never just love only you.Don’t give in,he will not change,he is inconsiderate,cheater,and demeaning to you.He will never change this behavior other than he will get worse
Run!!! As fast as you can…
Your man shouldn’t make you feel this way.
Get the hell out of there girl!! Plenty of other men who will treat you better!! Your a queen just not his!
If it really bothers you, leave. He wont even notice, just go. Maybe make a TikTok video of your own afterwards to remind him of you for later.
So. He likes looking at pretty girls. That makes him human. You should find a blind guy, they won’t be looking. Else get over it. His chances of ever getting with her are none and zero. He is with you. So you aren’t his ideal. If that’s truly what he wants he could go find it. But nag and whine him right out the door.
He should be hearting you, in life… About your body, your mind, etc. He should obsess over YOU. Close that door girl
Is it normal for us to glance at a beautiful person man or woman when one crosses your path? Of course! But for him to rub in your face about how much he feels towards her sexually and physically is pure disrespect on his part. I wouldn’t put up with it. Good Luck.
He’s living in a fantasy world, you will never fit his idea so move on to someone that cherishes you and you don’t have to compete for a thing
Am I the only one who doesn’t see this as a big deal? So he likes videos of her on TikTok I like videos of people on TikTok as well doesn’t mean I don’t love my spouse. We’re all human. He chose you for a reason
My SO done almost the same but MANY girls. I finally told him I was going to start making videos and crap like them girls and have my own page so guys could watch me. You know, what’s OK for you is OK for me right? Yep! Wellllll. He deactivated his account and deleted the app. 
I can’t say what to do for you but do not allow such disrespect for your feelings.
Figure out what you want really.
Talk to your spouse.
Time to move on and leave his ass. Those are definitely red flags, if it was me I would tell him goodbye!
You should not have blocked her due to your own insecurities. That is his phone and his account. Regardless of how you handle the situation between the two of you with your insecurity about a person he doesn’t even know in real life is something different, but if you have to go on his phone and block someone who makes you uncomfortable, this is a you issue. Hell I don’t even know who my DH follows on TT because it is his account and not mine.
My opinion is when you love one another each partner has a responsibility to care about the things that really hurt the other. If this is hurting you, you should be able to express that pain and have him respect your feelings and stop reopening the wound. My husband’s advice to our young adult daughter who is starting to date is always, if you spend the relationship doubting your worth or wondering if you are valued, you are with the wrong partner."
He is rude, crude and socially unacceptable.
Get rid of his ass.
I mean you find someone on tic tok that is your ideal person, and do the same thing back to him. If he mentions anything about it then tell him that’s how you feel when he does it with the girl and constantly flaunts it in front of you.
1st. If you’re upset that he is looking at a girl that he will literally never get with, you may be over reacting a bit. If he was messaging her, then I’d be like ehhhh not ok… now… on to #2.
2nd. He is disrespectful as hell if he knows that you’re upset about it and is still doing it, because again, it’s not real. It’s social media. He should put the phone down.
3rd. If you feel this way and he isn’t taking you seriously, then the relationship doesn’t stand a chance. We all have boundaries and it seems as though he doesn’t give a shit about yours. Cut him loose. Let him have his tik tok queen, because she sure AF won’t keep him warm at night. No sense stressing out over nothing. Move on and find someone who will respect you.
That is lusting. Pray for him.
All these people saying that you’re insecure are so wrong and should be ashamed of themselves. He’s rubbing in your face that fact that he is craving another woman. Do NOT put up with that!!!
Going through your significant others phone and Tiktock being an issue sounds like a highschool relationship. Time ot cut ties, heal, and find something more mature. It isnt going to change. You will only get more self conscious.
You either are comfortable with his behavior or you’re not. You either trust him or you don’t. But going through his phone and blocking her. Yikes. He’s just going to unblock her. Do you think that was going to solve the problem?