Does this affect his pockets at all??? If not buy what you want tf
I get that all the time when my kids were growing up I gave to craps what he said .I did it anyway. You do what you want for your kids he would go live some where else he don’t need to yell at you .
Boyfriends come and go but your son who will be by your side til you die will always remember a crappy boyfriend you had in your life do what you want. It’s your house your son
Why celebrate the fertility God when your suppose to celebrate Jesus’ death and resurrection.
If he’s not paying for it and bills are paid, then it’s none of his business. If this is something you’ve always done for him, then it shouldn’t stop now. You can’t get this time back with your son and I’ve learned that the joy of things like Easter baskets, gets less the older the child becomes. Get your man a basket too and maybe he won’t be so butthurt over a child’s basket. He needs to grow up!!!
Kick him to the curb. It’s only going to get worse where your son is concerned
Your child comes before boyfriend, it’s your child not his spoil away!
Yeah I’m going to keep doing it the way I always have ! See ya later boy
He has 0 right to tell you that you cannot do something for your child. He will only be little for a short time, go all out!! Make it memorable and fun as long as you can!!!
I would of told him f*ck off thats my kid I do what I want 2nd Christmas it is
it’s your kid- do what you like to do. if boyfriend doesn’t like it, he can either lump it or leave.
He’s your son do what you want if he don’t like it tell him to move out and I am sure it’s your money
Uhhh simple, you put your son first and carry on.
I agree with the bf.
Screw what boyfriend says!!
Do it anyways,he will get mad and hopefully just gtfo and you and your son will be happy without him.
He’s your kid not your bfs so screw what he says you do you and go all out if you want
Get rid of your boyfriend
He sounds toxic
Spoil him!! He’s your child
Girl tell him to shut the f up. That’s how you handle that. Your kid. Your rules. Not his place to yell at you about how you want to get YOUR child Easter gifts. If he has a problem with that then goodbye!
It’s a freaking basket if he’s that controlling over a basket, you got bigger problems
ewwwww sounds like he dont like kids
Say this: he is my kid and this is what i want for m6 kid
Tell him to kiss your ass …Do for your son never let anyone stop u from spoiling your son that’s what mom’s do …Do with your own money of course .
You put your kid first.
Go all put for your kid… nothing to do with him
Don’t Ever Stop Doing For Your Son… He’s The Love Of Your Life… Boyfriends Come And Go…And Make Sure You Let Your Boyfriend Know That Your Son Comes First Not His Opinion !!
Uhhh… the BOYfriend… needs to go home to mommy… cause he is out of his mind… who does he think he is telling you what to do with your baby?
Yes children do come first, but the more you give them when they are young the more they expect as they get older, beware. Also do you understand what Easter and Christmas are really about?
Eh, I kind of agree
Easter is turning into a second Christmas and more about the gifts than what the actual reason for Easter is
None of his business
Your boyfriend refuses to ‘let’ you go all out on YOUR son’s Easter basket??? Sounds like boyfriend’s time is up.
Your child is more important then him. If he loved your kid the way you do he would do anything to keep you an your baby happy an safe. I have a bf we have two kids I have a 5year old I had before my two other boys. I met him when my 5year old was 2. He calls him his son an my baby calls him dad. He does anything for my son whom he calls “our son” if he has a problem with buying anything I just come up with the money myself an get what I want for the babies. But he helps me a lot when I ask for help. Moral of this story, If he love you an your baby an wants to be serious he will do anything to make you an your baby happy an wont make you feel uncomfortable about how you wanna spend the holidays with your baby💙
Don’t let your boyfriend take charge!! Your son is #1 remember that! I would leave him before things get really out of hand!! Good luck
Tell him if he doesn’t like it get the fuck out… it’s not going to work because if he’s trying to control you know he’s going to go to start controlling you for other things to… I would kick him out now before it gets worse
Your boyfriend is overstepping
He’s your son, not his, do what you always do, go all out. I go all out for my granddaughters and nobody will tell me I can’t. They are 22, 18,and 15 and a new baby great granddaughter life is short and they grow up way too fast.
Your child always comes first. You are mama there to make sure he is safe and if he wants and you want him to have an Ester Basket get it. He should always come first.
Do what you want. If he tries to control you now and you let him It will just get worse
You only get 18 Easter’s with him. If it’s important to you, then your boyfriend should support you in that (as long as you’re financially capable of providing it).
If you can why not but he’s also right it’s not a second Christmas we don’t go overboard some kids didn’t get much we buy a few toys and a few pieces of clothing because our kids don’t like candy or chocolate
It’s YOUR child!! Do what YOU see fit.
Get rid of him he is jealous of your son
Go all out for your kid. It’s not his kid and he has NO say. Y’all have only been together a year and he has the audacity to say that shit? Hell no.
U do what u have always done that kid was here first and will be here after he is gone if its not his money and bills r paid u spoil that baby
You do what you have been doing Get your boy what you want if he doesn’t like it show him the door.
You only have a few years to go all out for the holidays for your kid…go for it!!! They grow up waaay too fast and you never get that time back.
Oh Please, treat your son💯% the same as always!!
Your house your kid I say go for it
Not his money, not his kid, not his d@mn problem. He can tell u to chill your being extra but has no right to get mad at you for it. Do what you want momma.
Remember more than one fish in the sea but only one son.
I would keep spoiling your child. Because wend they get older you will miss this part of your child’s life. And for the boyfriend just should not stop a proud mother wanting to do something great for her kid. Keep doing what your doing.
If you have the money and all your bills paid ….Girl let him cry in the corner…As a matter of fact go buy him a matching suit and basket for him also:joy:
Your kid comes first before any man
You don’t need him around! Run away as fast as you can, for your sake and your son’s sake. Believe me, I have experienced this firsthand!
Um your kid there should be absolutely no reason to feel torn
It’s absolutely none of his business how you parent your child. If you want to spoil your son, spoil him.
Dunno who your boyfriend thinks he is, don’t allow that type of controlling crap.
If I had a “boyfriend” yell at me over this , he’d be out on his ass. No 2 ways about it.
Screw him. Go all out for your baby.
If this was already something you did before then don’t let this man control or change that. If you have the funds and it’s not harming anyone then do what you want. This part of their lives is so short, you don’t want to miss out on what YOU want to do with YOUR children.
Screw that dude… its your kid. I wouldntconsider his opinion ever about anything after 1 yr. Your kid deserves all the gifts !! Do whatmakes you happy ! Just the facthes telling you what to do. RED FLAG.
It’s your child and it’s Easter! Go all out and have fun and tell you bf he can stuff it!
He seems a bit much being that u guys have only been together for a year… Does he not like Easter? Did the Easter bunny somehow traumatize him as a child, or wtf!? If it were me, I would just do what I normally do - only add another basket of the stuff that he likes, so he can start getting into the holiday, if he’s still against it next year, maybe u should reconsider the relationship… I wonder how he feels about Christmas, Valentine’s Day???
Kick him to the curb
I’ve kicked many men to the burb for disrespecting my son or me over my son. His dad settled for Trash and it directly affects my son. My son is older and he says he appreciates all that I do for him and the men I passed up cause they weren’t right for us. Your son is your blood. That man isn’t. If he moved in with you I’m concerned that he can’t financially take care of himself or both of you. What you do with you son should be mirrored or more by him. If not he is not worth your families time. And by family I mean you and your blood son. Then he needs to go and you need to find better.
He came out of your vagina. You do what you want
Huge red flag in my opinion for yelling at you about this. Ditch him.
dating one year and already moved in and now controlling how you parent ?!?
Get the books called
THE RULES
NOT YOUR MOTHER’S RULES
it is an Eye Opener on dating and relationships …
This man is showing
The fact you feel torn is besides me, this is YOUR baby, do what YOU want for your baby. Your trash boyfriend is not the second coming of Christ, and YOU most certainly shouldn’t act like he is, hes mad? So the fuck what? A man you’ve been with for a year is demanding how you do holidays with your child your child > trashy bf.
do better.
Get rid of the boyfriend. He sounds crazy away.
You go all out for your kid. These are memories being made. Tell your bf th shut it.
Hide them eggs, dress em up for photos, buy em baskets, make memories! FH
…as long as your teaching him the real reason for Easter, and Christmas!
Screw him, do what you want for your son
Ridiculous to even ask this question. He’s your son. I spoil my kids on all holidays and thermos no one I’d listen to tell my otherwise.
It’s Easter. It’s not about gifts, it’s about coloring eggs, Easter egg hunts, a basket from the Easter bunny and dinner. It’s not about going all out.
He’s your kid. This is the stupidest post ever.
Get rid of him your child comes first
F*** him. Show him i said that. And add a splash of how dare he.
Your child comes before any man
Kick him out I mean he is already yelling at you do you honestly want to be yelled at all the time? do you want your kid to have to hear that all the time IJS
Your kid; tell him to mind his own business
Girl you need to put boundaries especially when it comes to your child
Get rid of him not good for your child
From personal experience, get rid of him. You are your child’s mother. You are absolutely allowed to “do too much” and go all out for holidays. The fact that he yelled at you for wanting to make a holiday special for your FIVE YEAR OLD is a problem. And he won’t “let” you? He doesn’t get to dictate anything you do, especially where your child is concerned. Do not lessen what you do for your child to please a m@n. You absolutely do not want someone like that in your life.
Don’t let him tell you how to spend money on your child. This won’t get better unless you settle it now and he is onboard. If he isn’t it might be a time to rethink the living situation. Sorry!!
Nope. Move him back out and do whatever you want, whenever you want. Your kid, your house, your decision.
Your kid, your choice
If you can’t pay bills because of it then maybe cut back but if you can do it without it interfering with any other bills or whatever then do it! They’re only young and believe in the holidays for so long that to me it’s worth it.
Your child should come before a man. Kick him to the curb
You only been together for one year , if this is an issue time to move on don’t invest anymore of your time
Lol your son has been there before him don’t let him try to come in and change your way of taking care of your son if you want to so “too much” do it it’s your son! Not his. If it ain’t his money it shouldn’t be his problem. And honey there’s bigger D out there if you choose to let him go it’s for the best.
That’s the wonderful memories of growing up…I think you know the answer
Get rid of your boyfriend now wants to control you don’t love n respect you n probably don’t like kids that’s a big no no
How do you handle it? You tell him to F off. And you get that baby his Easter basket. How is that bad? We do the same. I go all out because my mom always did that for us. Nobody is gonna tell me I can’t get my kids a basket and stuff it full. He’s being a jerk. Think about what you said. My boyfriend of 1 year.
Yelled at me. About your 5 year old son. Think about that.
It’s your son go all out if you want. Kids first!!
DUMP THAT PRICK, He will be a BAD stepdad.
Kick him out that’s what that’s YOUR son
Seems a little controlling to me and that only gets worse. He moved in so now he can show his true colors. If you have the means to spoil your child then I say do it. Now if you didn’t have food on the table and struggling and going all out I feel that would be different
Do what you were doing before, without him
That’s your child period and you only get one chance. There’s only drama if you feed it. When he starts his mess, ignore him and walk away, years from now when your baby talks about the great memories you’ve made, you’ll be glad you spoiled him.