Sounds like he is a real jerk ditch him your child is more important
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If it’s not his child he don’t get a say.
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Your child comes before any man sounds like you need to make him a Easter basket with a bottle in it
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Oh I wish a man would. Easter is better than Christmas for me. I love giving the kids gifts and games. Unless he’s funding the operation he can suck my lady dick!
You leave this relationship
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Do what you want. Your the one paying for it not him. He’s been around for about a year and your son has been there for 5… one of those people are really expendable…
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Fuck him if he can’t get with YOUR FAMILY traditions!
Nah leave him asap!!! Men like him hurt kids and he’s jealous of him
You do what you want for your child. If it was me he would be an ex. No one should be telling you what to do where your children are concerned.
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Kids come first. That guy sounds like he needs to go bye bye!
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Don’t give up what u always done for your son or he will say that everytime u want to do something for hom
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Tell him to butt out. It’s your kid, not his.
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Your child he doesn’t have the right & you definitely should never feel torn! Sorry it’s a no brainer to me! X
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I’m sorry darlin’ but your son should always come first! If your man can’t understand and support that then you are with the wrong man!
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Run as far and fast as you can he will be abusing and controlling
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Keep doing what you have been doing for your son don’t let a new man come in and tell you how you should celebrate a holiday with your child
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He’s ur son and as long as its ur money that’s getting spent that’s ur business
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DUMP the Boyfriend !!
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It’s your child and your choice don’t let him make rules …it’s not his place.
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You are torn? Really?
Your child comes first, choose your son!!
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Reading some of these, smh…
it can be a second Christmas and still learn about the holiday. I go all out for the holidays and right now we don’t discuss the religious aspect, I will when they are older, mine are too young. But they will only be kids once and little once. Enjoy this time
Second, your kid, your choice. I am married and we have kids together, my husband is always upset that I go all out, but he never yells about or gets us into a fight. Just states it and knows I will do it anyway. There needs to be a discussion here. And if you still aren’t happy after that discussion, you need to decide what’s more important: your kid or him cause it will only get worse from here
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Run my ex husband was like that. Do what you feel is best for your child
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Tell your asshole boyfriend to kiss your Ass 
Throw him out the As of right now! Believe me! It’s only going to get worse Boy friend is
Drop the guy who tells you not to do something for your child. If you’re capable of doing the big Easter basket for your son. DO IT.
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While I agree with his sentiment, his telling you what to do with your child is not okay. Unless you are expecting him to pay.
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As for the boyfriend, throw him out if. he is yelling at you for doing for your child. He will not be a good step father. Now do what you want for your son but make sure he knows the real meaning of Easter.
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That’ll be the day a man tells me I can’t do for my kids - I make my own money - they better never!
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Do what you want to do he your son I think your boyfriend is jealous of you fussing on him dont take any crap it not his money it yours happy easter
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I hope OP got the hint…
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You do uou. If is not having a negative impact on the budget, then I don’t see the problem
In fairness to your boyfriend, he may be from a family that for what ever reason, did not make a big deal of special occasions. You might want to check that out. Might help yall find some neutral ground on these issues.
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My boyfriend of 8 years used to tell me I do to much now I have cut back a little and it works
Do what you want for your child. They grow up quickly. Enjoy them. And…I question 
the “let you” part of that statement. Bye bye buddy.
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Do it. Children ALWAYS come First
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If you have the funds to fund it then go all out!
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Boyfriend needs to shut up
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Kids always come first and if he isn’t paying then he needs to let it go I have always loved Easter and made my kids baskets.
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Your child. You do what you want. You wanna go all out then do so. He has no right to yell at you and tell you that you can not do something for your child. I would end that relationship. Sounds to much like a narcissist.
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That’s Very Scary 
Trust me ! And will do Anything to make your child look bad ! Please! Protect your little Boy 
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You do Exactly what you want to do for your son.He sounds like a jerk🤨 Also this tells you that if you plan on staying with this jerk that he is going to bahumbug every holiday for you and ruin it…get rid of him asap.
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That’s the problem he’s only been around for a little while …it’s none of his business he has no say at all
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I’m sorry but no man should ever tell you how to treat your child or what to do with your own child. Especially not tell you what you can get for your child on a holiday. Your boyfriend is broken please exchange for a new one.
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He’s your son. You don’t need permission or approval to do what you want for him. Especially from a man that is not the father and only been in the picture for a year. So long fella! Your child should always come first. He can find his way to the door
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I’d show him the door! Your children, your rules
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Go all out for your son
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If he isn’t the kids father then why listen to him. Do what you want I see this as red flag since he just moved it. I would never let any man or my husband tell me what to do. Been with my husband for 10 years. He gives his input but I usually never listen and he don’t say much about it
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Kids first always they dont stay little long.
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Easter isn’t a second Christmas and shouldn’t be treated like one. Yes it is great to spoil our children but Easter isn’t the time for it. Birthdays and Christmas yes.
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Run, don’t walk away from this guy!
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Mmmm i would be continuing what you have always done. Screw him. Your child comes first.
Unless you were financially struggling there is no reason not to go all out for your child.
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Your kid. Your rules. He don’t like it, he can LEAVE.
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Your kid comes before any man, if he cant get on board with how you treat your son then he needs to go, he will never view your son as his own
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Your child comes first. He joined the group. He’s not in charge. My kids always comes first.
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Dump him and call me…
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Ehhhh, tell tool bag to eat a dick. I mean, politely of course.
Get rid of the boyfriend!
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These are the memories your son is going to keep. And you “feeling torn” is a red flag you don’t want to ignore. The right one, the right one will celebrate with you, not make you feel torn. I hope you choose your son over him.
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Tell him BYE BYE ASAP-!!
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Do it anyways. He is not your boss or your sons dad. Do what you want don’t listen to him!!!
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Don’t allow anyone to dictate what u do or don’t do for your child … do what u want❤️
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Would be a cold day in hell before a “boyfriend” would EVER tell me what I could or couldn’t do for MY child!!!
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If he don’t go along with Easter dump him. There are more guys out there that except both of you. This is a package deal. He knew that. 

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Girl , if you don’t continue to go all out for your baby. He sounds like a loser but that’s just my opinion. The right one would encourage you or even do it himself .
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Fuck him. Move on now
Soes your son KNOW the TRUE meaning of Easter? Do you?
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You do what YOU WANT. That is YOUR child, YOUR home YOUR money. If you let him control you now with your son, it will just get worse. Tell him to get with the program or get out. And tell him to stop being jealous of a child. His behavior is disgusting.
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Easter ain’t Christmas. Dye some eggs, grab some jelly beans. Throw it on top of some fake azz green grass in a wicker basket and call it a day.
Buy the damn Easter basket they are only little once
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I would do what you do red flag but for me My kids don’t get anything from me 
the Easter bunny brings a chocolate bunny and bubbles
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Kinda seems like a red flag already, he’s not the boss. It’s too soon for that nonsense.
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If you’ve been doing it, continue it. You’re child will remember the memories you create, good and bad so don’t let the boyfriend dictate your traditions.
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get rid of the abuser. get your child his Easter gifts
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Stuff that, it’s not his son. You put YOUR baby first! If YOU want to spoil YOUR SON you do it girl!!! He’s not his dad he has no say you’ve only been together a year
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Pick your child every single time. If a man walks into your life and tells you what you can and cannot do with your son that’s a huge red flag.
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It’s your kids and none of his business what you do for them.
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Kick he to the kerb, your son, you spoil him till your hearts content, hes your boy not his
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Your Child Comes FIRST!! You do what you want he is YOUR CHILD!! Its NOT his decision!!
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I value a frugal, minimalist type man. Just sayin’. You can do things in moderation, to keep peace. That is, if you value your man’s opinion.
I agree that your son comes first and this has been your tradition, but to really understand, I think we need to know just what “going all out” means to you. Are you spending $20, $50, $100 or more? Are you all having to go without needed things to make this happen? If it’s money that won’t even be missed and you’re guy is just being a jealous jerk, I think you know what to do…
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Like I get it, Easter is out of hand these days, but he’s got no right to tell you how to raise your child
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Telm to mind his own business. It’s YOUR child.
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The people who are asking do you know the meaning of Easter and it’s not a second Christmas are missing the point. He is overstepping and is showing early signs of controlling behavior. It is not natural to yell under these circumstances and is not healthy at all.
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Move him out realy quick it want get better children come first.
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Kick him out. He yelled at you? And you accept it? You are asking for a life of trouble and disappointment. You get what you ask for and what you accept. It won’t get any better with this idiot.
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Not his child, is it his money? I think it’s your choice.
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He isn’t for you, you are a mother and he not cut out to be a dad.
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Don’t let him start telling you what you can do for your family or pretty soon he will be telling you how to dress etc. He’s your baby do what you want to do as long as it isn’t costing him anything.
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If he’s acting like this now you can already see how’s he’s gonna be…put your baby boy first and get rid of that dude QUICK!!!
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Seriously? Women who get under the spell of a man and put thier feelings before thier kids should be outlawed from having children. I can’t believe this man’s shitty opinion is being considered. Wild. SMH.
Blood is thicker than water. Choose your chlid over some man that seems to have inner child jealous issues. If you have issues now. Look at the warning signs. Better to address this issue now.
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Your kid, your decision.
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Do what you want for your child. The child is yours and if you’re paying for the Easter basket and things then it is non of his business.
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I agree that we shouldn’t go all out for it (it’s easy to do, I know lol), but he’s your child…if it’s your kid and your money then it really shouldn’t matter to him. 
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There’s deff limits for things, but there’s also a nice way to discuss this without being rude and condescending. All he should be doing is expressing himself not forcing you or commanding you. He could’ve said “hey babe, I know you’re excited for Easter but maybe this year we should tone it down… what do you think?”
If it’s your money it’s your choice
My kids are 38 and 40 I still go all out for baskets for them, my daughter in law and grandsons and no one will stop me! I would never choose a man over my kids
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You need to put his clothes out after him!! If he’s that controlling of what you buy your child, keep him and and lose your precious child!!
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Your child comes first not his kid do what you want your his mom ! It would be the day I let someone else tell me what to do
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Go all out they are only little once,as for the boyfriend stand your ground
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Break up with your boyfriend 
Yelling at you over something you choose to do for your son is a huge red flag. I don’t see a stable future there.
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People celebrate the holidays as they wish. If you have things you do and have done around the holidays, then continue to do them. You don’t need anyone’s permission, especially some dude. The fact that he’s made a big deal out of it and yelled at you, over your child, is a really big issue. It would be like him saying he doesn’t celebrate birthdays, and then tried to make you skip your son’s birthday. It’s too early in your relationship for arguments like that. Unless it was keeping food off the table, rent and bills being paid and putting you in danger type of overboard, then everyone else can just stuff it. You only have so many years with your kids and those magical experiences fade away.
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