Show him the door,going to be nothing but an asshole all through your envolement with him.he’s got mommy issues.
Tell the guy to go to hell! Your child is YOUR child. He has no say so in that! Your child will always and should always come before him!
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Kick him to the curb.
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You do what you want for your child. Your boyfriend is not the child’s father, he is not your husband even so he has no say in how you raise your child
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Red flag for sure he doesn’t deserve you
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He’s your kid not his. Tell him bye.
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Um. Your kid. your money. He doesn’t like it then he can kick rocks.
Kick his ass to the curb.We go all out for all holidays for our children. That’s a tradition that you have for your son. He will ruin your life and your childs
Stand up for you and your son
Your kid comes frist
Time for the boyfriend TA GO!
You only been with him for a year … who is he to tell you what you can and cannot do for YOUR son…
Lmfao 
who cares what he thinks. My kids will always come first. And whatever i do for them is my business.
Tell him to kick rocks
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You will 100% regret listening to him one day …you should be able to parent your child the way you want, his opinion is irrelevant
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has everyone forgotten the reason why we have Easter, to begin with? My kids had a small Easter Basket and that was it. We never went all out for Easter. I understand that not everyone celebrates Easter for the reason but to go out and spend a lot of money is crazy. Stop spending so much on things that they will outgrow quickly. Start taking that money and put it aside for when they get older.
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Got rid of him now if not he will controls you not good
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That is your kid and you raise your kid however you want and if he doesn’t like it he can find his way to the exit with a quickness
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He need to mind his business your money your kid you do as you want
Get rid of the boyfriend or you will deal with that kind of crap forever
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I would pack his things & tell him to piss off. Controlling & manipulative people will start like this & then find MORE things to try to control & change in a situation where they know they contribute NOTHING… 
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Amen - they grow up so fast… sounds like BF is not father material
He is your kid your little bf needs to butt out
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Kick him to the curb with that ish… if you do this what will he tell you to do next!? That’s your son. I will never EVER put a man over my son.
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Your kid comes before any man, note that down and re read it till it sinks in
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That’s your child. If you want to go all out for holidays then do it. Your boyfriend can simply walk through that door and not come back.
Your kid, your traditions and your rules were there before the boyfriend.
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Make him a Easter basket and tell him to stuff it
We don’t even do Easter baskets anymore… lol. Sorry not sorry, greedy mofos want to charge exorbitant amounts of money for a bunch of garbage so we give our kids a choice; we either eat out or everyone gets a 10 to 15 dollar toy. They always choose toys lol. As far as the boyfriend goes - don’t keep a douche bag around just because you “love” him. Your kids watch how you interact with your boyfriends and learn how to behave in their own relationships. Don’t show them it’s okay for dudes to treat people like shit in a relationship. If he can’t respectfully give advice, you need to dump that shit.
I go all out for my children on Easter as well. Boyfriend needs to go away cause your kid never will !
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Maybe he’s responsible minded when it comes to wastefulness. Kids don’t need all that candy and garbage to be happy. The sugar is bad for their bodies and the plastic junk ends up in a landfill soon.
Everything in moderation
Um girl you need to tell him to pull his big boy pants up and quit being a child because that’s your baby and you CAN do what you want for that kiddo. He should never disrespect you and always have your back. Our baby’s are only small once so if that makes you feel good then you should do it for those little smiles.
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you seem to forget the real meaning of Easter,yes you can get your kid whatever you want but try to incourage him what the real meaning of easter is.
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Your kid your choice . Tell him to back off .
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Take your kid out they are only small for a while leave the guy home
Hide his stuff give him a basket and go hunting 
and not to come back.
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If he has just moved in and he’s dictating already… get rid. Your son comes first and your traditions. Sons are for life, boyfriends come and go x Happy Easter 
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Easter is not a second Christmas, my opinion
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l get pald over $ 130 per hour w0rking from h0me. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $ 17069 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Another narcissist pig.
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Bye bye 
boyfriend, I love Easter too don’t blame you !
Don’t feel torn my friend you are the mom he’s your son you do what you want no one else’s decision but yours
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It’s your son he will grow out Easter soon enough spoil him while you can and who’s this guy he’s been around for five minutes tell tell him to mind his own business he could stay home that day you’re a year and he’s not your husband or the father of your kid
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I honestly can’t say whether or not it is you or your boyfriend who is being unreasonable, without knowing exactly what your idea of “going all out “ is. And for those who say it doesn’t matter what the boyfriend says, I think you have to ask “Will this man someday be my child’s step-dad (or legal father)? And “how much is he contributing (if anything) to the child’s welfare? My husband adopted my now grown son when he was 5 years old and raised him as his own. So, even before that, I don’t think it would have been a good idea for me to exclude him from decisions about raising him, especially if the child was made aware of the extreme difference of opinion. I always made my children especially nice Easter baskets but they were by no means a “second Christmas”. There’s that and then there’s simply ridiculous. As I said, I don’t think I (or anyone else for that matter) can truly say without knowing exactly what you had in mind. Also, I think that it is important to remember that you are setting the child’s expectations for the future, without knowing what the future holds. Will you someday have a few more children? Will you always be able to afford to do that, for all of them or even just the one? Are there other children around (cousins or close friends of your son’s)who might get their feelings hurt because their Easter basket was so different? I personally think Christmas should be more special than Easter and birthdays somewhere in between. But maybe that’s because that’s how it was when I was growing up.
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to me he’s trying to boss you around to see how far he could just get away with it how much he can manipulate you those are not good Signs by the way
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If he’s yelling at you kick him to the kerb . Don’t matter what the reason is
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Kid comes first end of story
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I would do what you want……kids are only young once.
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Get rid of the boyfriend.
And definitely don’t get pregnant with him.
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F*** him do u girl if he ain’t footing the bill and not even his kid why does he get a say? He just wants all your money to go to him gross why would u even want to be with a cheap a** negative, abusive person?
If he is not your husband … he has no say in how you raise your son . Do what you want.
Your child comes first.
Do what you want for him.
Your boyfriend can either accept it or leave.
Please never choose peace with someone who could end up as transient in your life to your children.
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Your son is first…sorry put him out…do it fast
You had the kid before the boyfriend, right? And he’s YOUR kid, not the boyfriend’s? Do what you would normally do for your child because if you do less he may think he was bad or the Easter Bunny doesn’t love him anymore!
People are crazy they let guys move in , kick him out and spoil your son if you want to
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Depends on what you’re planning when you say “go all out”…he’s right they don’t need a lot of stuff for Easter cuz you probably went all out for Christmas…kids are too spoiled these days. Easter isn’t about gift anyway.
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get rid of boyfriend!
Put your foot down hard where your child is concerned. Boyfriends should not have a day in raising him. I have worked with women who let boyfriends dictate about children, and have seen the abuse because of it, physical, sexual, emotional, you name it. Bad idea🥰
It’s your kid, so what you please!
You tell him sorry this is the way i parent if u dont like it see the door as no one comes between the relationship between me n my children n the way i am with them
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Unless he’s paying for it I’d tell him to shut tf up. Even if yall been dating a year it’s not his kid… that may be a controversial statement but still… and if it’s your money and your way if doing things for your child then he needs to deal with it.
Holidays are only a big deal for kids for a short amount of years… don’t let a man ruin yours and your kids traditions and fun
He isn’t your husband nor the father of your child.
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I was in the same situation and I still went all out because your kids are only little once. The made every holiday miserable it’s time to tell him goodbye and find someone who is supporting of your ideas and kids happiness
If it’s your money and not his, he can’t say ____ . Your kid is # 1, not him .
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You should have known his feelings before you let him move in with you. It does not sound like you know him that well.
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Are you all going to Holy Thursday Good Friday and Easter vigil services?
That’s your kid
He has no right
Go all out on your baby momma
I’m extra for holidays with my kids too
Go all out, and say this has been my tradition before you and sticking to it for my kids!
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I would kick him to the curb if he is treating your son like that already it is never going to get any better and it will only get worse it’s entirely up to you but I would not be keeping him my kids come first
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Buy him a reasonable amount of stuff. If all out means spending 500 dollars then I would agree with him but if you want to spend $60-$80 as going all out then do it. He is only little once. Just make sure you are explaining the reason behind the holiday and not just buying things. If it’s coming from your purse then he shouldn’t have too much to say unless you are spending above your means and then depending on him to pick up where you cant.
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Boyfriends are temporary, son is your forever…goodbye boyfriend
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Getting your child an Easter baskets is fine. But you also need to be teaching him the real reason behind Easter. Not that Easter is a time to get a bunch of gifts. Same goes with Christmas. I had for a couple of years bought birthday helium balloons for the grandkids to send off on Christmas Eve to Jesus. I am not a go to church gung ho religious person so I am not preaching at you. But I believe in what the real reason for both occasions are. Keep spoiling your baby & he will learn to expect it without appreciation. Color eggs together, make cookies, hide a reasonable basket with candy & small toy & have an Easter egg hunt. Good luck with the boy friend. Hope it works out.
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Sounds like you don’t know this boyfriend as well as you should. Perhaps rethink having him in your home.
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You do what feels right in your heart and head and gut. . Everybody doesn’t do things the same way. Some do very little and next to nothing or nothing at all and some go all out. What feels right to you is what you do.
Do what you’ve always done
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Run like hell! Your child comes first! No Matter What!
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Yes your child comes first, yes your child is young once I get all that I have kids but since you have only been together a year I don’t think he should really be telling you what you do with your son but he has a point I hate how people have now turned Easter into a mini Christmas so he does have a point I think everyone goes way over board with Easter these days.
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Why would you ask such a question?? You’re his Mother.
Sounds like he needs a massive Easter basket too.
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Absolutely go all out!!
Excuse me, he won’t ‘let’ you. Wtf? Do what you want, particularly if it’s not affecting the household budget and making necessities not paid for.
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I personally agree with your boyfriend.
Girl you can go all out and go to the dollar store you know like at 5 most kids don’t know or care but it can look like a lot without spending a lot so maybe try show your bf it’s not a lot of money and it’s about making holidays special not about the things I buy or how much I spend. End of the day if he still mad may not be the guy for you cause that’s your kid I spoil the shot out of both my girls and have no shame I somet about 80$ on both there. Gifts but baby just made one and I didn’t have her a birthday so I feel like it’s okay to get her stuff she needs or likes.
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He’s not your husband who cares what he thinks!
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Make memories with your babies they grow up way too fast!!
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Go all out for your child. 100%
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It isn’t Christmas. By too much and it isn’t really appreciated. You don’t have to but love. I’m with your boyfriend
Your kid comes first. He’s not your husband. Kids are only little for a short time enjoy it!!!
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Kids always come first!!
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Move out. What an asshole
You leave him in the dust because it won’t be the last time he tries to tell you what you should or should not be doing with your money
Ummm, your child, your choices!
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Go all out, its memories you are creating
You have a situation that you must review with your heart and your daily life❤
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Do what you want for YOUR child…. If your bf don’t like it he can either deal with it or leave…… not his child, not his issue…… 
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Continue your celebration for any holiday.Just because you have a boyfriend your child celebration should not change!
Tell that man to shut it unless he’s footing the bill. You’ve been doing this for your child for years I assume? Don’t let a new man switch up how you treat your child, you wanna spoil him, those will be the memories he cherishes later in life.
He’s your son. Do what YOU want. When he adopts your son then he can talk.
Read what you wrote momma. Your son. Not his, YOURS.
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Dump the boyfriend. He just showed you who he is…… a controlling douche. He just moved into your home & he’s gonna tell you what to do/ not do with your child? Gtfoh…… he’s a tool
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Go all out! He’s your kid as long as you’re not like going broke over it do it woman. 