Sounds like a toxic man… run
Child comes first at all times
He’s YOUR child and that guy is just a boyfriend… do what you want… if he doesn’t like it he can leave just as fast as he moved in.
Screw him kick him out
Go all out for your children!!
Don’t choose a man over your child. Problem solved.
wonder if he is jealous of son.
Ummm, literally just moved in and your torn on how to parent already? Did you forget? He moved into your house. If he is doing this now I can only imagine what’s next. Your child will resent you! Pack him back up and say good bye.
Um first question is….who is he to tell you what to do with your own child?! There’s no question here. You do what you want to do.
Kick him to the curb and keep treating your baby boy
Your kid come first. Always. If it were his kid too and he didn’t want to “spoil” him then it’s worth a conversation. But considering he’s your son and you want to go all out for him, i say f that dude.
Do what u want for ur kid and tell him to kick rocks…don’t let a man that’s jealous of ur child take another minute of ur time!
Your kid comes first. Your boyfriend has no right to be controlling over that.
If your money is shared so some of his funds went towards this then yes, he does have a say. If this is solely funded by you then it is your say.
Going forward though if you are wanting this gut to take on a parenting role for your child this type of stuff should be communicated and compromises should be made. If you end up having kids together he will have a say for that child so it is best to get on board with each other now…
Send your boyfriend packing!!! It is just starting!!! He has no right to tell you what you can buy!!!
Kick him to the curb
Your kid. Do what you want.
Kick the boyfriend to the curb for Easter.
He will always want/allow less for your son than you do.
He is making you choose between making your son happy or making your bf happy.
Your son is the only one worth the effort! Kick the bf to the curb today!
If he moved into Your home, it’s your rules. If you are using your money, it’s your rules. If you are paying bills in his home and the Easter thing is on your dime he needs to mind his business.
He won’t be little for long! Enjoy and go all out!
Mine said the same. I still did it!! if you’re scared to do it then theirs a problem and he needs to go!
Your son do what you always did before he was in the picture never let anyone tell you what to do for your son next it will be the shoes then what he wear if you can afford it spoil him if you do then who will you see your boyfriend have a problem he not
Do what you want you are his mother.
Ew get rid of him. Spoil your kid as much you want.
He just moved in. Dont let him disrupt what you have always done. He can move right back out too.
I’d say dont let the door hit ya in the "# on your way out!
Got rid of your immature boyfriend. Your kids come first.
Get a new boyfriend. He will always criticize anything you do for your son because he is jealous.
Don’t change what you’ve always done, just to make someone else happy!
He just moved in and h is throwing his weight around ,red flag, if he doesn’t like it tell him to move out
Do what you want. Red flag.
He’s your son and it’s your money. Do what you want.
Your kid, if you want to spoil him then do. Tell the bf to shuddup or get lost.
Good bye you should be able to spoil your child whenever you want too. I have an Easter party for my 2 boys and their friends amd there is nothing wrong with it.
Kick that abusive control freak out of your house before its too late.
Get rid of that boyfriend
Their childhoods are so short.Spoil away
The boy friend should mind his own business. He has no say. Never give in to his controlling you.
If he can’t treat your child like his own. Hr should be gone.
Dude needs to go. Your children are nbr 1 no matter… bye bye jerk!
Oh no!! Your child, your decision. Never let the boyfriends come into your home and think they will wear the parent hat, never. And if that doesn’t work for him, he can pick a door or a window and leave. No second thoughts when it comes to your child. Period.
Tell him to mind his business. That’s how you celebrate. He doesn’t need to participate. And re-evaluate if you’d be ok with someone who isn’t interested in celebrating certain holidays with you that apparently are important to you.
Personally, this isn’t even an issue to be addressed. As long as he steps back and doesn’t confront my kid directly or act an ass in front of them about it. Respect me and I’ll respect you.
kick the boyfriend out and then celebrate Easter the way you want to…
You do not change your traditions or beliefs because someone new comes on the scene!! Especially when it comes to your kids…
That’s just my opinion anyway.
Your son is a gift❤️ Nobody tells you “too much”!!
You ignore your boyfriend and do what you always have for your son.
U put ur child first!
From what you are saying, your son came before the boyfriend…and he should be getting your attention. Jealous boyfriends are passee.
Screw your husband children are only young once, heck I still give my kids gifts for Easter. These men are crazy sometimes my husband used to the same thing. I told him to get over it and did it anyway.
He moved in, well he can move out if he doesn’t like it, kids grow up fast, don’t miss out on anything.
Why is he your Boyfriend, shit. Fix yourself girl hell.
Dump the loser kids come first
Do what you want it’s your kid not his
Do what you want it’s your child!
Your baby comes first.
It also depends on your financial situation. For me, I play down a lot of the gift giving for all holidays, and don’t give much on birthdays, either. But I know I am in the minority. I think time spent together doing things, taking walks in nature, looking for signs of spring, etc, that’s the best way to celebrate a holiday like Easter. But you shouldn’t be getting into a fight about it. If you are, then it’s time to do some major thinking about this relationship.
Blood is blood. Your child at that. You go even bigger, BIGGER!! Your baby boy will love it. And take many many many pictures. Go to as many Easter egg hunts you can find! You have fun. Your baby is only young once and you can’t get these years back. Big hugs and stay strong!!!
There your kids so if you want to spoil them do it.
You can never spoil kids too much!
Fuck em it’s your child and your house.
Don’t let someone who moves in change tryout life with your child. But, don’t go overboard with a child either!
YOUR KID COMES FIRST!!!Celebrate with Your 5yr old Son,He’s Only A Baby🫂I Celebrate with My Adult Kids Every Year🫂KICK the BOYFRIEND OUT…PERIOD…
Kick him out!!! Honestly what right does he have say over your child! !! "Your child comes first "end off!
That’s your son and your money your not asking him, so DO IT
Buy what you can afford
Um is he the father?? Then why does he get a say in what YOU do for your child?? JS
How many kids does he have? Last I checked this was your child and you were his mama. If boyfriend doesn’t like it then he can leave. Any man that is fit for being in a child’s life that isn’t his will understand these things about a mom.
I never listen to my then-husband I just made up the baskets about how I wanted to see the smiles on my kid’s faces, I had to put up with my husband enough times he was not going to take the joy away from the kids, no way~
Get the child 2 baskets and a bike…he’s your son and the other is probably a fleeting bf
Pick the kid and get rid of the boyfriend.
Tell him its your son do what you want
Next, that guys a jerk
tell him this how you do easter for your son. and these traditions will not stop because he lives there now
He’s not your son’s parent. He doesn’t get to make these choices. He’s trying to control how you handle a holiday. Trying to stop traditions you have with your son. Screaming at you. He’s going to control much more in the future. Get rid of him now.
Get another boyfriend
RUN!! If he acts like this as a boyfriend, you don’t even want to know what the future holds.
If someone loves to go all out for Easter, let them! Easter we do big to but mostly with summer clothes or summer toys. It’s not a second Christmas but it’s still fun for kids with what the “easter bunny” brought them.
Goodbye boo…let him go…small problems now lead to bigger problems later
He should be proud of you for taking such good care of your son - who absolutely comes first - If he can’t see these things - he should leave so you can live your life the way you want
Your bf is NOT his Dad. Maybe he’s jealous. Go all out for him too.
This is abuse…open your eyes, then stand up to him & stand for your child.
I’d suggest doing it how you want to do it it’s your son, your money. However if you’re trying to build a life with this man then he needs to be allowed to express his opinion. He’s going to become a father figure to your child, so he needs a say too. You can find a compromise on how much you spend or how much chocolate you buy. It’s these situations that determine the dynamic of how much say your partner will have. It’s up to you at the end of the day and what ever you decide now will determine how every Easter in the future goes. If you do decide to listen to your partner here make it clear that your child for 5 years have experienced it your way so you can’t just dive into a different approach. It’s had to be gradual and subtle. Good luck babe
Get rid of him he’s an assh—-. He will never change. Your son is your responsibility and until he’s grown he comes first always.
Do what u been doing for your child and it’s one thing for him to have an opinion but for him to actually be mad that its making u feel torn is to much . Buy your son even more shit now and I’d even make your bf a basket to be extra gooo all outtttt
Your son should always come first… especially before your so called boyfriend whom you just met a year ago. What do you actually know about this person? My advice, don’t ever leave your son alone with him, you’re asking for trouble. Make him move out. If this is only the beginning of living together and he’s already trying to control you, girl, you in trouble.
Tell him he is your son and you will do what you want for him. Mind his own business.
Easter is about Jesus Resurrection Glorious grace from the Lord.
Go all out!! You will never get this time back with your baby!
Your child comes first Remember that.
Tell him to shut it!
Ad still go all out and tell him to deal with it. You know the relationship/connection you have with your child and no-one should question or take that away from you.
everyone wants to spoil their children. Just keep in mind the pattern you are setting. What will be expected every year and what behavior will you see when he doesn’t feel he got enough or what he wanted when he is older. Some children are always grateful, but some expect it as they get older
Your child should always come first. Go all out now because when they grow up the fun is over
spoil him with time an outings.
Get rid of him too controlling from the start probably jealous of your son kick him out for your son’s sake please
Get rid of boyfriend!
Show the boyfriend the door !
Tell him to move the fuck out kid first. And he hasn’t even been around long enough… nope.
Choose. Your. Kid.
Also, he’s refusing to let you go all out? I’m assuming you’re bringing in an income, so that’s unreasonable on his part. And what makes him think he can just move in and start making demands to change your entire way of life you’ve established with your child?
You’re not hurting anyone. Buy your kid the Easter stuff.
Your child, you do what you want. I’d be afraid of getting to involved with that boyfriend. He should be more supportive of you and your son. Your son needs you. Spoil him! There’s alot of fish in the sea and you will find the right one eventually. Good luck and you and your son have a wonderful Easter!