I don’t care who I’m with. Also at The end the day he’s your son!.
Go all out. Make memories.
5 year old son remembers these things for a very long time, and it will effect in ways we cannot imagine, how he may treat his own children, your grandchildren, down the road. If your boyfriend “just” moved in and is yelling at you about how to raise your son, imagine how he will be yelling at you down the road, in front of your son. You can get another boyfriend, your son is not replaceable. Just my opinion, I was a sole custody parent, my son was physically abused by a ‘boyfriend’, so watch out.
Is this a serious question. If I want to give my son the best he will get the best. Wth do i need my “boyfriends” permission. Let me just say red flag
Give him the best Easter gift ever and get rid of him for good better than anything you can buy by sounds of it put the kido first…
Go full out for your kid anyway
Your son, your rules.
Go the fuck out.
The end.
Lol Spoil your baby, it makes you and him happy.
Show him the door. This is just the beginning of a bad situation.
You need to tell him to butt out of your doings with your child. N if he doesn’t like it tell him to leave. The song goes Got along with out you before I met you. Gonna get along without you now. N say goodbye.
I mean technically they both have to deal with Jesus. So yes it’s a second Christmas if you wanna go all out, you do it. If he don’t like it he can leave
Chose your son over this bossy guy. Do as you do every year. Next the guy will try cutting the Christmas fun out.
Um thats yo kid. Point blank periodt
Go All Out for Your kid ! Tell your man to shut it !
DO what u want if he doesnt like it then maybe he needs to go
I say that you should let the boyfriend go and go out and get your kids their gifts
Throw the whole boyfriend away! You spoil your child the way you want! Especially if it’s with your money!!
Beware. You have a controlling man there and that all too frequently leads to domestic abuse. Get rid of him.
Tell the boyfriend to find another place to live. But you need to teach your child that Easter is about Jesus Christ. Praying you will put the priority about teaching about God!!!
Show him the door. Children grow so quickly and never can get it back
THROW HIM OUT. THESE ARE YOUR CHILDREN
Kick his ass to the curb
Throw the whole man away
It’s your son not his. He shouldn’t have the say.
Need a new guy. Kids come first.
He’s your child do what you normally do.
No one stands in the way of my children I don’t care who they are
I could not be seriously involved with someone who did not love my child too. Can you?
It is your kid not his, he has only been around a year
First I’d kick him out for yelling at me. It basically shows a lack of respect for you and how you are bringing up your child. You may be over doing it but as long as spoiling your child isn’t an everyday thing, and your son appreciates it shouldn’t be a problem. Also maybe his idea of spoiling is what most people call normal.
Red flag he’s gotta go
This guy already sounds controlling. Go all out for your child. It will bring him so much joy and it’s wonderful you want to spoil him, this guy sounds jealous of your precious child.
You tell that man to fuck off and do what you want for your child.
I don’t understand how you could be torn. Your child comes first.
Red flag…he yelled at me…get out
you do you and forget (not the word I wanted to use) don’t let him disway you from doing your thing. it starts with the little things and the next thing you know, you are living to make him happy! NOT you or your son. kick him the curb if he keeps up the controling because that is what he is doing. Guilt tripping you to his will.
Kick that guy to the curb. Do not want to hear,but i love him
You continue to go all out ! That’s your baby. & he can find the door real quick.
Throw him out . And treat your son to a Easter full of the joy of the holiday.
If he’s yelling at you about spoiling your son …. It will only get worse. I know this from experience. Kick him to the curb
He just moved in and is now expecting everything to be his way or the highway? I don’t think so. That’s your child and if you wanna spoilt him for Easter then go for it. If he wants to complain then let him and just ignore.
Buh bye asshat! My children will always come first and if I want to go all out then who’s going to stop me? Nobody!
My kids are 29, 26 and 9 years old and they all get an Easter basket! I say go all out! Memories for your child are more important than any man! I’d rather be a single parent than listen to his negative attitude Easter Basket above and beyond!!
I agree with mama! Do it, they are only little once! Your son will always cherish those memories, Mom!
Tell him to kiss your toe and do whatever the heck you think is awesome for your kid
He should be kicked to the curb
My child I’ll do what I want! But in hind site are you going all out like Christmas? Or a simple Easter basket with a toy or two? Having kids of my own going all out for every holiday gets pricy so I left the big stuff for birthdays and Christmas. Kids are brats when they don’t get as much stuff as years prior so you have to keep up the  façade and if/when you have more children can you still do the same as now? Once you start cutting back when you have more kids you think your child will understand and not resent their sibling bc they don’t get as much as before? I’m not downing you nor taking his side I’m just totally speaking from my own experience!
Your boyfriend needs to grow up Sounds like he’s a little controlling !!! Your son is more important than a boyfriend
Get rid of this dick
Your kid comes first always. I’m an ‘extra’ mum and do the same thing for ALL holidays, I love spoiling her. Not necessarily spend tonnes of money but I do the whole bunny footprints, art projects the entire week leading up to it and decorate the house full on, bunnies and stuff everywhere. Stuff men, do what you want for your baby
Your child > your boyfriend ALWAYS
ummmm Your kid your rules, he should be together or , get a better Man
Define all out. A basket full of sugar? Hell yes! Presents and a new pet? Not so much.
Boyfriend needs to get lost he will be pain in the but if you keep him. You can do better and so can your son who is first in your life
Nothing wrong with that I go all out too♥️
Your child comes first period.
Kick to the curb. If he can not except that this is your son and you will continue as before, then he doesn’t love you or your son. You are a package deal.
Boyfriends come and go, but your son will remember his childhood and who was a priority.
Your kids come first always
First off YOUR HOUSE, second it’s YOUR son, third he doesn’t have a say, if he doesn’t like it then he can move out, you’re the one taking care of YOUR SON so his opinion is just that an opinion!! Get a backbone girl you don’t need his shit!!
This is a big Red flag!
He’s your child. Do what you want. Unless your boyfriend is paying for it, he needs to mind his own business.
It’s bigger than Christmas, Jesus died on the cross for us…He would be happy for the children.
Don’t let him tell you what to do. I wouldn’t suggest spoiling him, but there is nothing wrong with gifts. Mine get a gift or two and some candy. They got more when they were younger. They are 11 and 8 now.
It’s Not About The Easter Basket It’s About Our LORD And SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST !!!
This is when you decide to be a mother or his girlfriend. Please pick your son because it will only get worse from here.
Screw him! Do what you want. That’s YOUR kid and you shouldn’t be screamed at because you want to make a holiday special for your kid. Especially if it’s not his freggin money. Plus, if you do it every holiday and now suddenly stop, not only will it make your kid feel like he did something wrong, when he finds out it was bc of your bf, it might cause issues. He sounds like he’s going to be controlling now that he’s moved in and that’s a big red flag. I’d dump him and make him leave and move on because if you have to say “I don’t want drama with him.” It’s only gonna be worse later on.
Um. Easter isn’t about gifts. Idk why that changed. But I agree with bf. I don’t go all out for damn near any holiday just bc it’s not necessary (and I don’t have the storage space or want the mess). But I was raised on resurrection Sunday, so there’s that.
Find someone who wants to please you and start over again while you are still young
Easy choice your son comes first
Get rid of the boyfriend!
So what is it? Just forget your kid, and what he’s used to? A mother who loves him, and goes all out to make those special occasions, special? I’m 63 years now and the saddest part of my memories is how I got with someone who made our life hell. My son was robbed of a peaceful life so I could be with someone who was a nightmare. Do yourself a favor and get the hell out now. Your child will always be your child, but you may discover (hopefully sooner, not later) that to be happy in life this guy is not for you. For the sake of your son.
You handle it by doing what you want for your child. Respect your partners decisions when it is needed. But he shouldn’t have a say in how you treat your babe ! If you had been married and he is a step dad and was a joint decision for financial reasons or something I would understand. But he’s crossing a line. SPOIL YOUR BABE.
Ditch him !!! He won’t change !
Your kid is family that you carried for 9 months he is ur. Blood n SOUL YOU TELL ur new boyfriend don’t let door hit u n ass ur SON COMES FIRST YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE GOOD BYE BOYFRIEND
Children are little for only a little while. They grow up so fast. Give him what you wish. Boy friends may come or go but your child will always be there with you. God bless.
Kid is forever….men come and go…it’s your kid…do what you want mama!
Don’t ever choose between a man and your son ! Your son comes first before anyone , if your boyfriend don’t like it tell him don’t let the door knob hit his ass on the way out !!!
He has no right to tell you how to take care of your child…which should always come before any boyfriend. I would be cautious with this relationship…
If you can afford it it’s your child do it
I am sory, but he doesn’t control you. he can’t stop you. If he wants to behave like a child and have a tantrum, send him back to him mum.
Put your child first…Sounds like he’s not the right fit for you & your sons little family… Don’t start out letting him control…Im sure if you go back and think about everything you’ll see many red flags…will lead to bigger issues later own, than an easter basket js
Your child your choice…he can hit the road if he doesn’t like it🤷🏽♀️
Kids always come first and if he doesn’t like it show him the door
Do what you usually do, trust me, changing tradition only breeds resentment.
Kick him out! Your baby always comes first!!
Go all out for your kid
It’s your kid, you have always gone big before your bf and you will go big long after he’s gone, your child always comes first, if that’s what he us use to then do it and tell your bf to either deal with it and man up or kick rocks
That screams red flags. I wish someone would try to tell me wtf to do for my baby, including her own dad.
I wouldn’t be with any man who thought he could move in and dictate what I do or don’t do for my kids. And he’d be out the door the second he thought he could yell at me. Time to reasses what you’ve brought into your child’s life .
Boyfriends don’t get a say in how you parent. And…why would you want him living in your house before at least a commitment to be married.
You need to let that duche bag of boyfriend GO!!! Your son should be the important one in this picture.
Kids before men!!! Always!!
He moved into your house, if he had respect for you he would honour the customs that are already in place
He’s your son tell him it’s your choice not his. If he can’t handle that move out!
Throw him out! Never think about him again. Your son is number 1!!! And the boyfriend is jealous or don’t like the son one. There’s your sign. Kick him out!
Your son comes first
That’s wrong, your son should ALWAYS come first and after all he’s 5 you go get what ever you can afford & he doesn’t like it, well he’s not your boss, you let him start telling you what to do now, it will never work believe me I have already been through that:sob:
I would say his allowed an opinion but that’s it… and he doesn’t have any right to “not allow you” to do what you like
Get rid of the boyfriend. Seems like there is a little jealousy there that maybe he didn’t get what your giving your son. If he’s not the father then you have a right to do what you want with your child. Not him
Dump the boyfriend spoil your kid hes your flesh and blood and will never leave you alone with unanswered questions
You break up on the piece of shit and spoil your baby!