Your child, your rule. The grinch has come to Easter.
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Do what you want because that’s what bad bitches do!
Sounds like a goner!
If you keep him around you will be just as bad. The child first in all things!
You choose your kid. Don’t let the men in your life dictate how you treat your son. Sounds like a huge red flag.
Who cares what he says lol seriously im sorry but he is your child not his and as long as its not that man’s money he doesn’t get a say so. He can voice his opinion but cant tell you what to do or try and make you feel bad if you do not agree. He should support you when it comes to your child and if not then it shows how much he respects you, or rather how little he respects you. Its your decision not his
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If your boyfriend is yelling at you about wanting to make the day fun for your son, you’ve made a mistake moving in with him.
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Ur kid always comes first
Kid should always be first. Get rid of boyfriend
Throw the whole boyfriend out. That’s your kid. So as you please.
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He’s your son, and if boyfriend can’t adjust to what you do that’s his problem, just because he’s moved in doesn’t give him rights …if he doesn’t like it he can move out and just be friends… of course he maybe objects to you giving your son a lot of attention. Be careful as there is no strong bond with the little lad and him so it will be a rocky road for a while .
Your son comes first boyfriend last
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Dump the boyfriend. He wants to control you. He probably had a crappy childhood. Poor your foot down. He’s your kid.
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I fail to see a question here, but if there is one, I fail to see a Mama here….
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Do what you want. I go all out for my sons too. My husband has learnt to deal with it.
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Your Child is always #1. I would tell him to hit the road it’s your money and your child
Pack the man’s bag while you over stuff that boys Easter basket and never look back!
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Boyfriends come and go, your kid is permanent. Your kid should be put first. Unless he is trying to be step daddy, screw his opinion. Do you what you want with your son for holidays. This should not be a question. And this is the only times I’ll agree with the saying “just throw the whole bf away”. Tell him if he doesn’t like it, he can respectfully fuck off.
Kick his ass to the curb, a year in…lol. What a loser.
Kid comes first, don’t change how you do things for him. this is a huge red flag for me
what did you do before you met that jerk
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I think you already know what to do. The guy basically yelled at you for wanting to make Easter special gift your child?
- He shouldn’t be yelling at you.
- He shouldn’t begrudge a 5 year old fun.
- He shouldn’t keep you from making memories with your little boy.
- His presence is causing you stress not joy.
If he had a religious objection then I’d say discuss and compromise.
But I’d venture to say his objection has nothing to do with God.
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Kick his (the boyfriend) ass to the curb! Our Children ALWAYS come FIRST.
I’d pack his belongings and show him the door. My children are my priority before ANY man.
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Get rid of the boyfriend NOW!
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Nah girl GO ALL OUT FOR UR KID. and when ur boyfriends birthday comes around don’t get him shit. Just say there is no point going all out 
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Get a new boyfriend!
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Tell the man to piss up a rope men are a dime a dozen.Your son will be yours within reason.Hes only five soon enough he will be grown and the times of buying stuff all out will be done.The joy of make believe and appreciation will go .Enjoy him being a baby while you can.
Your son comes first… tell him tooo shut the hell up and go away
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I dont do alot for Easter bc I teach my kids Easter is about God. I give them a basket full of candy and bubbles and we did a fishing pole last year for each kid and this year just a small toy but my kids know its about God. Don’t need gifts to cwlebrate
Throw him to the curb he has to deal with it, your kid comes first always if you want to spoil your kid do it that boyfriend of yours needs too step back because remember your strong never let a man or boy take control of you or whatever you do with your kids
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You go all out for your kid! He came first…he stays first! Tell the boyfriend buh bye!
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What you do for your son is your business. How is going all out affecting him .it’s not. Sounds like he’s jealous of a five yr old. And needs to Grow up …This is not someone I would want to be with …and it’s only going to get worse …it never gets better …your child always comes before any man …
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- Easter is not second Christmas, do you teach your son about the holidays and why we celebrate? 2)Can you afford it? Can you pay cash for his holiday gifts without neglecting other bills? 3) Since your boyfriend moved in, is he sharing equally in household expenses or is he paying for everything? If you are not neglecting bills and not going into debt or expecting him to pay for it, do what you want. If he’s yelling at you, a grown woman, because he doesn’t like how you run your household, you need to reconsider him.
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spoil the kid he is only young for a short time If the boyfriend has a problem with it thats his problem dont change to become what he thinks you should be
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Do your child… they are forever and men come and go
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Realize he’s a “controller” and get him out asap
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Your kid comes first
Move friend out
It will only get worse
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His your child to decide. Kids love the Easter bunny etc. How will this guy be in your future with him?
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your gut is telling you something isn’t right, take the hint and move on
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You do what you want to do for your child and he don’t like it then he needs to hit the road …
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I’ll be damn if another man tells me what to do with my kids. I’m always going to choose my kids first, idgaf about his problems with it. Clearly he’s not the one for me because the right guy will be ok with it. I have to work through childhood trauma of coming last in both my parents choices and I refuse to pass it to my babies. Choose your son first, men come and go, children are ours forever
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He’s allowed to have an opinion but should not be harassing you about it or blocking you from what you feel is best.
But also consider that maybe he has a point 
Remove yourself from this controlling,toxic relationship; put your son first and go with your wishes for your son
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Kick his ass out now
He hasn’t earned authority on those issues yet do it anyway
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Kick the boyfriend’s ass out. Now.
Your kid comes first!!!
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He is not your husband the relationship is still new he has no right to tell you how to spend your money the only time he would be allowed to say anything about how much you spend is if he is supporting you and your child
He’s not the the child’s father, no BIO relation. YOU have raised him for all 5 years. Spoil him while you can, you never know what tomorrow brings. Tell the 1 yr BF this is how you are raising/ treating YOUR child. If he doesn’t like it, LEAVE! AND don’t EVER yell at you… EVER, EVER… Also, Don’t tell you how to treat your child unless he has something positive to say. He knows where the door is, dont let it hit him in the ass. YOUR CHILD COMES FIRST AS HE SHOULD! Sounds like you can do so much better! YOUR CHILD SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST… FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS! JS
I wish a man would tell me what I canning cannot do for my children! Put your kids first, you guys aren’t married!
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Throw him the Fuck out
Hope uou don’t have pets.
God forbid he might hurt them. What is wrong with u?
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Kick him out and keep putting your kid first.
Put the eviction notice in an Easter basket for him.
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Why would you even consider listening to him. No Brainer. Do whatever you want with YOUR son.
No ring. No rules. HE HAS NO SAY.
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Throw the entire boyfriend in the trash. He is obviously garbage.
Tell him to pack his bags and leave.
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Kids come first, do whatever you want to do for your son, if he’s like this after only one year, I think it,ll only get worse luv, listen to your gut feeling xx
No, go all out momma! Do whatever you want to make your sons childhood magical!!! If it’s within your budget, I say make it happen!
I kinda agree with him to a certain extent, Easter is a holiday, but as far as going all out like Christmas… Nope I don’t know if you are in to Religious Faith , but first and foremost EASTER is a Christian holiday celebrating the resurrection of Jesus Christ 3 days after his crucifixion. ( I am of the Baptist faith).
Not knowing your faith, I do not know what your idea of Easter is…. But you should teach your child what in your faith Easter is…. I know they are kids and many people celebrate differently… But I have to say a Easter basket, a few little things, toys , Candy, and Easter egg hunt and a nice dinner, that’s how I was brought up, and I raised mine the same. I just can’t see going all out like Christmas or Birthdays, Sorry. But on the other hand he should not yell at you for doing what you believe for your child. If you have your own money and take care of your child then it’s your business…. But just remember it should not take $$$$ to make your child love you or appreciate the holidays.
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He sounds like a jerk.
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Get rid of the dude, not your son!
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The only acceptable reason for him to be upset with you going all out is if the two of you shared finances and were absolutely broke. Honestly though? I’d still do it. He sounds like a dick.
He’s not even related to your son. He has no say in anything related to his upbringing. He sounds like a control freak who needs to be kicked to the curb.
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What’s more important to you, your son or boyfriend kick him to the kerb if he’s gonna treat your son like that
if he doesnt want give to jour son he is most likely not giving to jou either.
he has no dsay in this. its jour son
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None of his business your child spoil away they’re not kids forever
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Yea he can go. Is it even his kid ? If not, more of a reason for him to kick rocks
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Kick him out and fill the extra space with Easter gifts 
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Ummm I buy Easter stuff for my boyfriend’s kids and they’re adults
Don’t let anyone get in the way of you and your kid. It’s sad that he can’t join in on your family traditions. And I agree that it’s toxic if he’s yelling at you over something so little…
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jou have jour own place? he doesnt have to be there. kick him out
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Nope. Lose the boyfriend.
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Well he is right it is not a second Christmas. However this is a very important holiday, As well Christmas is so my opinion is use Yor own judgement and maybe take yorself and Yor son and boyfriend to a good church that teaches the true word of God. Pray for knowledge and understanding of Easter and all things and that hopefully will help u w many choices, Jus-say’n 
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Ur kid do what U want
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Do it for your son. He will only be small for a while and believe me he will cherish the memories. My kids are grown from 40 something to 25. And the still love getting stuff for Easter. They cherish the memories
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I’m the same way… I don’t intend for Easter to be a huge thing but I do go overboard. They are only little once, and it’s such a fun age. Your boyfriend is not the father, he can feel free to give his opinion but ultimately it is up to you and he should not be demanding. I’m not saying go crazy and spend a fortune, but he’s your son.
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Stop people and listen to what she said…she said he YELLED at her about it. Obviously that’s a huge no no.
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Ohboy so sad .kids are little for so long sounds like boyfriend is jealous so sad .Big Red Flag 
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I hope that kid gets a Happy Easter
Easter is not a second Christmas however it is to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ and that needs to be taught to your son as well to your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with buying your child candy and some small toys to celebrate but I wouldn’t go overboard. Teach him the meaning of Easter
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Your boyfriend sounds like he’s trying to be controlling. Be careful and look out for signs because he might me a narcissistic person! Things are always great in the beginning but once they get a hold on the prey shit starts to change! I do not see the big deal on wanting to spoil YOUR son! If your boyfriend feels your doing to much it’s because it’s easy to point the finger!
Tell him to kiss your ass, go all out for your child. Your child was there b4 the boyfriend! That’s what I would tell him and exactly what I’d do!
It’s your kid, you’re not married so he has no say what you do for your kid. Even if you guys get married, if hes not paying for it tell him to butt out
It’s ur child and u do what u want.
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Get rid of your so called boyfriend.
I am 62 just lost my son this past year. I am going to tell you there is NO man that would ever tell me what to do for my children!! You had your son first if he can not understand that he is not the right one for you! Life is to short I would give anything to spoil my son one more time.
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If you’re the one buying it, I don’t see a problem. 
Time for boyfriend to go. Sound like the boyfriend is living with you, so he can set down and be quite.
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Red Flag for future abuse of you and your child.
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just take it from a 70 year old woman who was married once for 3 years 68-71 and very independent, If you let him tell you what you can do with “your” son he will tell you what you can do, where you can go or who you can have for friends…Take this from me, " you may “want” a man but you “don’t” need a man"… Do for you and your son not for him…
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Woman should never let boyfriends move into their house.
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He ain’t the parent. He ain’t got any say.
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Ditch the man, keep the kid. Give him all your love. He sounds jealous.
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You go all out! YOU do whatever you want to. If he doesn’t like it then he can get out. Don’t ever let a man tell you what you can and can’t do for your own child.
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Your child comes first fuck him
Both supposedly holidays r false and r worldly pagan holidays anyway! I’ve read the Holy Scriptures/Bible n nowhere n the Scriptures does it gives a day or date when Jesus Christ was born. It does say after His resurrection he rose that third day morning. n that’s it.
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He’s just moved in… worried that it’s the start of controlling you? Maybe jealousy?
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Be smart, get rid of the boyfriend
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