My boyfriend refuses to let go all out for my sons Easter basket

As old as the hills - the battle to be centre of who’s universe

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Your child. Your decisions and he sounds toxic and controlling already… I think deep down you know. He got to go sugar cos your boy don’t get a second childhood and this selfish person is already trying to influence and change THAT childhood!!! THINK… this is ONLY the beginning and no he WON’T change. But your boys childhood will if you keep that man around.
Hugs, be strong and build a future for you and your son. Better more understanding partners will come along. You only got one of that boy :child:

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Please spoil your baby like you do. Do not let HIM change anything. Your baby deserves the world. You don’t deserve to be treated that way. I can’t imagine how he’d treat your kiddo if you weren’t around

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Tell him to EAD and show him the door . Your child you do what you like mumma

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You get rid of the bf!

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Nope. Kick him out. HES TOXIC. :rage: AIN’T NOBODY EVER GONNA PARENT MY CHILD OR COME BETWEEN MY LOVE & AFFECTION.
IF YOU WANNA SPOIL YOURE CHILD DO IT. IF HE GOES OFF. KICK HIM OUT. HES WORTHLESS. AND CANT HANDLE THE FACT YOURE CHILD WILL Always BE NUMBER 1 and I’d be worried he’s gonna hurt the kid out of jealousy or spite.

Major red flags.

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Red flag girl
Get rid of this guy!

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Bit of a red flag that you’ve moved him after not knowing him that long, especially as you’ve got a child and their safety and happiness comes first so get rid of him. If he’s this controlling over a bloody Easter basket then what is he like over the serious things.

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Your son is your priority not him…And if this is a taste of what you are going to be dealing with I would not trust him, especially with your son.
Show him the door as quick as he walked into it. Sorry, but alarm bells right there. Find someone who will treat you with respect, because children say what they hear, and do what they see.

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Your child go all out and if he doesn’t like it then he can get out.

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Stingy arse do what you like with your own child

Tell him to fuck off to tosser

Dont feel torn, thats your child dont let some dumb ass tell you what to do. If that stuff has started the bf needs to go on down the road.

Tell him to fuck off you don’t need to be in a relationship with a prick

Get rid of him NOW … Before it’s too late!
He doesn’t like your child deep down. He resents him.

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Your child comes first Mam.

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F the boyfriend do what you want for your baby

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Kick him into touch!!!

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Read this as many times as you need to. He’s YOUR SON, do what you want. Don’t change who you are or what you want to do with YOUR child!!!

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You get rid of the boyfriend, that’s how you deal with it.

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Dump him he’s acting like a child!

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Tell boyfriend goodbye. Bc ain’t no man or woman for that matter going Tell me how to spend on My kids period. Men come and go kids do not!!

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:scream: he has no say! I’ve been with my man for a year now and he never once told me how much money I can spend on my children. I think you should definitely make that known. You’re the mother and he has only been around for a year, so he needs to realize that you’ve been doing this for years and if doesn’t like it then he needs to go :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Go all out, you can find another boyfriend… Your Kids come first.

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Your son is #1. Sounds like your boyfriend needs to find a new place to live.

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Go all out. The boyfriend is jealous and replaceable. Your baby is not. He’ll be grown before you know it. So go all out. If the BF can’t handle it, help him go all out too…

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Tell him that he doesn’t control how you celebrate your holidays. You don’t need to change for him. He needs to accept that this is how YOU do Easter. And he sounds like a narcissist.

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Dump the boyfriend!!
Go ahead and spoil your son!!

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Kids dont have their time all the time as they growing old…
Be there when they needed you.

Tell him to mind his own business, you’re the parent. His opinion isn’t needed. You do you mumma and spoil your kid!!! x

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Kick boyfriend to the curb!!!

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Get that horrible boyfriend out of your and your son’s life, he is bad news

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Put your kids first. Your bf needs to go this is just the start of disagreements in how you want to parent your child

Not hid child, not his business!

You do you, go all out for your kid, if bf wants to tantrum because you spoil your kid on special holidays, then id buy him a pack of nappies and tell him to get over it… Sorry, not sorry.

Your child will be yours for the rest of your life…the boyfriend may not I say the child comes first

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get rid of the boyfriend. big red flag!! dont let anyone tell you how to raise your child. you can do it alone if you have too but this guy sounds like a narcissist. get out now

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Your children comes 1st…let your boyfriend grow up…

Just do not forget the true meaning of Easter.

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Tell him to f@ck off it’s your kid and you only have so much time actually do these kinds of things

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Out with his belongings asap

You do what you want for your kid! The boyfriend will either learn to deal with it, or he needs to go.

You can usually judge a man by the way he treats kids that aren’t his. That being said I see a lot bigger problems on the horizon. Get rid of him now. Your children ALWAYS come first

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if it was me he would been gone the min. he said that.

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Sounds like boyfriend is jealous of your attention being on your son…this is controlling behaviour & should be seen as a warning

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Buy anyways , heck with that boyfriend, he doesn’t understand the magic of the easter bunny to a little child, that lasts a lifetime :heart:

Kids first!! They’re only young once. This is the time mom’s and kids enjoy themselves. To feel like a kid and to make them happy. Guaranteed he will be like this every holiday that you have with your son. Tell him it’s time to leave. FYI there are other FISHES IN THE SEA!! Don’t let one destroy your dreams with your child!!!

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Time is precious!! Live every second with out regret. Buy your baby what you want for easter. You only get so many easters with them! That’s your baby and you deserve to spoil him!!

Tell him to fuck off your kid is more important

I agree with Betty. You are going to have a very confused son.

Tell him to go jump in the lake and do for your son, boyfriend come and go your child is forever!!

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Kick out the boyfriend

How is this even a question? More moms need to be putting their kids first and sad-ass men LAST. Especially if it isn’t his money. If it’s his money then it might be a different story. Even then, you should take it as a foresight as to what the future will be like with him. That kind of behavior doesn’t go away, it just gets worse.

Buy away!! The boyfriend will either get used to your holiday ways or he won’t…either way doesn’t effect you or your son. Your money…your son…you choice…
Happy easter!

I mean yes its your kid so do as you want. I agree that Easter isn’t another Christmas and never go extra for holidays cause they get and have enough junk. But thats me. Either have a talk with the BF or cut the ties.

Find a new Man! who makes ur son his priority too. Your kid is innocent and should be ur 1st priority. I also go all out to make holidays and celebrations special for my kids. It’s normal for parents to spoil our kids after all, what and who do we work so hard for? To hell with what he thinks! This guy sounds like a selfish looser. I’m sure if u went all out spending money for him he wudnt have a problem with it. Creep!

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Big red flag ,he sounds very controlling,move him out asap

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definately tell him to trot on dont put up with it

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I’d be movin him right on out the door!!

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Time to give the boyfriend the Order of the Boot.Definitely a red flag.

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Good luck with that👀

He can take a hike. Because he will never change. Children first!!!

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Just do it yor son is more important than him xo :kissing_heart:

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The bf is most likely temporary because if he acts like that on Easter imagine the other holidays, keep doing for your son,any real man wouldn’t care,hope all works out :blue_heart:

A spoiled kid makes a spoiled rotten adult

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You moved him in, now move him out! This is how it will be in the future with him…why put your son’s happiness on the back burner for this jerk?

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He’s gonna be trouble you had better cut him loose now or you will regret it. I know of what I speak honey, believe me!!

Your kid your decision.

That is your son. Don’t change everything just to make someone else happy.

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If he’s not paying for it, he needs to zip it!!!

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tell him to fuck off. your kids been yours for 5 years…Asshole has been around a year?? No contest. Send him to the curb

Should of never moved in with that attitude. Anyway your child is only a child for a limited time. Go ahead & get what ever you want for the son. Tell the adult, hit the road if he is going to deny a mom from spoiling her child.

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Your child comes first

You’ve been with this man for a year??? And you’re questioning if he or your son come first !!! Shame on you💔 your children ALWAYS COME. FIRST… If a man tried to stop me from doing for my child… He would be SO gone. You are your child’s advocate…you are his protector… This man is obviously jealous of your son… Don’t subject your child to him… You will be sorry!!!

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Bloods thinker than water. Tell your boyfriend to deal with it or get walking lol

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Wait…so he’s not the father of the children? Anddd you obviously like to be festive for holidays with the kids since ya know creates memories and he’s going to tell you no for kids that are not his only after a year together…GTFOH…the fact that your torn over this kinda makes me think you value his opinion way more then you standing your ground on being their mother and doing what YOU want with your kids :neutral_face:

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You get a limited about of time to spoil your kid. Make the memories now! You’re boyfriend is replaceable, your child is not. Tell him to f*%k off and do what you want.

Your son comes first!

Give him his walking papers! Your money your choice!

Some things are worth the drama. :woman_shrugging: Spoil your baby with that basket!

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Get rid of him asap. He actually has no say so over Your Son. Do what you want .

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Ummm that’s your kids luv.

You go all out for your kids… like I have always said… “men can be replaced… my kids ain’t going anywhere”

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Be careful you may have a control freak on your hands! Next thing you know he will be beating on you and your son.

Do what you want! He has no say so in this at all. If he doesn’t like it, then he needs to go. Period.

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It’s not a second Christmas maybe just an basket and do an Easter egg hunt I like spoiling my child also but you can go overboard with it and they will grow up as a spoiled adult (imo )but it is your child not his so you have the say

Buy him a new dummy, then move on…

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Your child, your choice!! Doesn’t matter what he thinks!

Honey, your child. Your child will always come first and your boyfriend needs to understand that. If he can’t understand that then he isn’t man enough to be with a woman with a child.

Tell him to get lost

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Kids are first priorities,if boyfriend can dealt with that,then get out.

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Laugh and go build your Easter basket as you wish for your son.

Your son should be treated like a little boy go I’m for getting him a basket

You do for your child - period!

RED :triangular_flag_on_post: :triangular_flag_on_post: :triangular_flag_on_post: :triangular_flag_on_post:! If he is trying to control this, it will only get worse. I speak from experience.

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Your child is just that! Your child! Don’t start letting your boyfriend tell you how to raise him. I was in the same spot but stood my ground. These men who move in and take over need to know their place and raising YOUR child ain’t it!!!

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Do what you feel is right , just remember your son will come to expect this. If the time comes when you don’t have the money to do it, you’ll feel guilty and he’ll say you don’t love him anymore