My boyfriend refuses to let go all out for my sons Easter basket

Send the boyfriend back out the same door he came in…

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Your son comes first. The boyfriend is second

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Bye! My kids would never be 2 to a man! I’m sure this isn’t the first time.

Tell him to butt out. You will regret letting him make the decisions. This is YOUR child, not his.

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Get him out of your house only gonna get worse

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You just do it !!! Bugger him

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Your son is #1 leave your boy friend enough said

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Do you want a bf telling you what you can or can’t do for your son or anything else? I hope you have your priorities in order.

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In a situation like this you have to eliminate the problem so it’s safe to say by getting rid of the problem your life will be so much more enjoying imagine all the gifts you can get for your child without that added headache get rid of him asap

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What you do for your son is none of his business!!!

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This is a beginning step - what is going to happen for Christmas or his birthday. It is your son, either the boyfriend accepts that and treats him well or he can move on.

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How do you handle this ??? Tf ? That’s you house , your money , your life , your child . Leave that bum ass man . Tf you gotta ask social media for ??? That’s an invalid question tbfh , cause’ tf ? If that was even a option in his mind just imagine what he would do to your child . You can’t trust people around your baby . The smallest things or even things like this I’d instantly take my child away from period . Especially a new “boyfriend” .

It’s not his son. Be careful.

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What’s it got to do with him? Your kid, your house, your money. And why does he have a right to yell at you let alone have an opinion. Tell him to leave the parenting to the parents

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Ummm do what you want for your son.

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I agree with him. Christmas has also lost it’s true meanings

Go all out he’s your son

If you pay all your own bills, do what you want with your money. Period

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Don’t let a man ever tell you how to parent your own child …you know you are describing verbal abuse…please discontinue this relationship now it will only escalate…you don’t want drama with him, tell him to jog on

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Your son, I’m sure is more important and loved more then your boyfriend! You can always get another boyfriend but not your Son! “Just Sayin”

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RUN, don’t walk away from this guy.

My granddaughter thinks it’s her birthday lol. Do you momma

Dump him. Now. He’s an asshole and doesn’t deserve to be in your life or your son’s. It will only get worse from here. Get out now.

Dump the boyfriend. He is probably an abuser and this is the beginning.

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Your SON comes first.

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Easter basket is not going all out, your boyfriend should remember when he was your sons age, what he got for Easter

If you have the money do what you want. I’m add mines 5 and really the cheap dollar tree crafts or toys are always her favorite over anything else.

WTH! Kick his ass out! Your child is your number one. Do keep an eye on your boy Friend.

Love your son and do what makes him and you happy

Kick his ass to the curb. He is your child and i would not tolerate any man telling me whats right and whats wrong. Red flag my dear…put your son first

You have been with your BF for about a year and he’s telling you what you can do for your 5 year old . Your kids always come first and for him to act like a fool , maybe time to get a stepin for the boyfriend . Hun you do for your kids and you. God bless you and stay safe :heart:

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Kiss the boy friend good bye there are other fish in the sea.

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you only lost a year, don’t lose anymore time with him…Your son is forever. Scars of your heart will heal, your sons won’t

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Make the basket for your son! Your boyfriend should have no negative input and If he does, you may need to question that relationship. I mean, why does he care so much to voice his opinion on an Easter basket for your son. Seems like a red flag to me!!

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Do for your son and toss the loser.

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Enough concerned people have given you their honest opinion, it’s up to you to follow through! Hoping you make the right decision for your innocent son, who is only under your roof for about twenty years! But part of your life for a lifetime! Choose wisely for your son and yourself!

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Don’t let anyone come between you and your son, it won’t change and you’ll always find yourself making choices about something!

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men are replacable but not our children!

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Take care of your baby !!!

Tell him to get lost.Bye bye

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Go all out for him, tell your boyfriend to f**k off

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Put your child first and kick that man out. Do what makes you and what makes your child happy…continue to be consistent, he will remember everything you do for him. Now, question yourself how much of you and your wishes how to parent your child is a priority over someone who sounds needy and possibly dependent moving it? It sounds like he is in the route of grooming you and dictating that he needs to be followed. It is your tradition towards your child, be with someone who supports you and your child’s happiness as well. Kick him out if he does not respect self-preservation.

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Give your kid a great Easter and tell your little whiny man to grow up and let a kid be a kid. They’re only kids for a while so enjoy. If he doesn’t like it tell him to stuff chocolate eggs up his nose so he can smell the holiday! Happy Easter to you and your kids

Your child was there before ur boyfriend and your child is or should be your number one priority

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Pack his shit and tell him on his bike. This is the start of his dominance over you and your son. What will the next thing be??? Send him packing. :hibiscus:

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Your. Children come first. Get rid if him. Not worth it!

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Kick the boy friend out. Then go all out

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Leave him and choose your kid

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Don’t let any man tell you how to raise your son

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Do what you want to do for your son. Boyfriend hasn’t been around long enough to even have an opinion. He has no place to tell you what to do, and, why are you torn?

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Boyfriend has got to GO!

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Sounds like boyfriend needs to go!

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Kids always first!!!:hugs:

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If he won’t let him have a Easter basket what’s he going to do at Christmas 1 gift? It’s your child a basket is not spoiling him Stand your ground or kick him out Wouldn’t want him around my child

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You do for your child!

Go all out!! I use to get my kids their bathing suits, beach towels, etc… They are only lil once!

we all do it like our parents

Get rid of your boyfriend. He’s not your husband or the boy’s father, so he has no say in this matter. Do not put up with verbal abuse either !

Your son! Not his ! he’s a boyfriend! I say if u can afford it & gives you pleasure to see your boys face at Easter :hatching_chick: so spoil him,

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Get rid of the live-in boyfriend and take your Son to Church and show him the Real meaning of Easter.

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Bye Boi. He’s a controlling jerk. Get out now before you spend 2 more years with him. A year is NothinG! Thank you, Next! I’m

How bad do you want this guy in your life and how much are you willing to put up with where he is concerned?

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Girl, go all out for your kid.

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Wow ,Get rid of him Now !!! Yourpoor son ,letting someone like this stay in your life will cause him years of harm ,if you think I am over reacting. Tell him you want him to move out ,you made a mistake and you dont think this is a good situationfor you and your son ,see how he reacts. It wont be a good reaction

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FH!! It’s your kid!! Do what you want to do!!

I will always put my kids before the guy especially one I am only dating and dude it isn’t your money!

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Tell him its your son! Tell him to kiss your ass, and tell him to get out!

Go all out for your child! Boyfriend needs to grow up.

Did you use your money to buy the stuff? Are you dependant on his money because of the money you spent? He has no right to yell at you for what you buy your son, unless, of course, it involved his money. Otherwise, I would not let a man come between you & your child. That being said, in general, I think many moms, me included, do sometimes get to much for our children, thereby giving them a very false & unhealthy sense of entitlement while also taking the true meaning of the holiday away.

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Dont be such a shiddy arse, :woman_facepalming:t3: your kid was here b4 he bought his grumpy controlling arse along…Its mums like you that ‘feel torn’ all because you cant stand up to your man for your own kid… nek minit he’ll be saying ‘you’re too soft on him’ bla bla bla…

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You go all out for YOUR KID!!! He is a boyfriend. Not the father, not a fiancé, not your husband. It is YOUR HOUSE!! This is something that means a lot to you and if you can afford it, do it! Even if he disagrees, there should be no reason he should be getting upset and causing drama. Your son is only a child once. Enjoy it the way you have been. Just don’t ask or expect any help from your boyfriend

Get rid of him This is just the tip of the iceberg

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Keep on doing what you have been doing all along. I have some doubts about this boyfriend…

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Lol. How do I handle this . You’ve been a mother for 5 years, mothering the way you do and a boyfriend of one year is going to confuse you. Really? Smh

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your kid is number 1 do it anyway ,

Show him the door and don’t let it hit him on the way out. Your child should ALWAYS come first, not some ‘boyfriend’ who is not he boy’s father. Say bye, bye!

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Your son is your main project to worry about and if your boyfriend doesn’t understand then show him the door. Believe if he starts this early in the game telling youbwhat you and cannot do for your son it just gets worse. Take it from one who lived it and it is not fun nor his business. The son will look at you not him except to hate him.

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He’s your son, if making him happy makes you happy-he should have no say! I’d be concerned about the whole ‘why’ he is so against it for a 5 year old!

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I’d like to know what she means by “going all out”. If she is indeed spoiling her child, she is the one who will pay for it in the future. Kids don’t need things, they need direction, love, and your time. Do things with him, don’t buy him. You’re only one year into the relationship. If you don’t like it, you know what to do.

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He just moved in and is trying to tell you how to handle your child? Hell no!!!

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Don’t stop treating your children the way you always do for a guy who probably won’t be around for 5 years. Kids come first

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Seriously? F the boyfriend. You doesn’t need to be telling you how to parent.

Guarantee you picked the man over the kid so why even ask this question :woman_facepalming:t3:

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Kick his ass right back out!

Depends on if it’s his money you’re spending…:thinking:

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WHAT! Your child, your the mother! Mr boyfriend really has no say in this. This is what you do, if he doesn’t like it well there is the door buddy use it!!!

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What the H - - - are you doing letting some guy move in with you and your FIVE YEAR OLD SON ?

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Do it behind his back! What he don’t know won’t hurt him and you even extra more all out since you know it’ll piss him off

Tell him to mine his business…thats what I told my last bf we finally broke up I’ve been so much happier without someone telling me what to do with my kids and my money!!!

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Easter isn’t a mini Christmas but who cares what others think :woman_shrugging:t2: I’ve done mini Christmas’ some years and basic Easter baskets other years. If I work and want to spend $1000 for each kid regardless of when I do it, that’s my business. Not all parents and kids are that fortunate but that’s the world we live in and real life :unamused:. Your boyfriend can get over it or get out :grin: I wish my husband would tell me what I can or can’t do or spend on our kids let alone a boyfriend :facepunch: I pay $5000 alone each softball season for our oldest and if he ever felt the need to argue about what I spend (as long as everything else is well taken care of), it would be his last argument with me :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Do what you want It’s your child and if he can’t understand to bad.

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Do it. If he don’t like it he can go rock one.

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You had the child before boyfriend. He needs you most .

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I’m not into holidays amd especially this one. We don’t eat candy but do what you want. He isn’t payin

Get rid of the boyfriend!

Get rid of boy friend!!

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Kid comes first if man can’t handle it that’s his problem. Single mom since mine was 5. They are only little for a very short time, enjoy every second while you have it.

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It’s your son and if the guy is like 5hat now it’s only going to get worse. Spoil your kid.

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Your child comes first!

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Make memories for your son because in the end your son is your child if the boyfriend doesn’t approve than maybe it’s time to reevaluate what is most important to you.

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