Find a better boyfriend
You do what you want with your child.
Kick his ass out now!!!
Go out for your kid. Boyfriends come and go not your kids
Does he not realize the importance of easter? This is the day to celebrate our Lord Jesus rose from the tomb to reign forever and ever.
He’s obviously never had kids are felt excited enough to spoil a kid. Your kid your choice. If you wanna go all out, Do it! Don’t hold back because he never got spoiled as a kid and it shows!
Are you spending YOUR money? If it’s your money, do what ever the hell you want. He’s your son!
Ma’am if you don’t do whatever you want for your child…you better
DUMP HIM AND BUY THE BIGGEST EASTER BASKET FOR YOU SON!
Enjoy Easter and God bless
Boyfriend is not the boss of you AND your kid predates him F that
What concern of it is his what YOU do for YOUR child?!
Go big ! My girls can say mom always gets us Easter baskets even if we are older . Trust me if u have the funds make his day
Screw the boyfriend. Tell him to accept it or leave I had a step dad like him and it ruined my relationship with my mom. My mom cries and wonders why we aren’t close and the reason is the guy she’s with. YOU have to decide what YOU want to do with your child. This irrelevant man shouldn’t have a say.
l get pald over $ 130 per hour w0rking from h0me. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $ 15196 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
Hun, that’s your kid, you do what you want in regards to spending money on him or not, the bf has no say in that especially if he isn’t footing the bill for it…
Do not ever let a bf try and discourage you from doing what you want to do with your children!!! There are memories to be made, go ahead and make them with your child …… and get rid of the miserable bf
Is he paying for it? He’s a BOYFRIEND not husband or kids dad. Do what u wanna do with ur kid
Go all out for ur child . When everyone is gone ur baby will be right by ur side
I still make my grown children easter baskets.that is your child…
Boyfriends come and go. Kids don’t. I say go for it.
Try to explain that this is how you do it. And who is paying for it. If you are then it is your decision on how much to spend on “your child”. But be fair and ask him why he feels the way he does also dont know how old your child is but remind him as he gets older things can and do change.
Not his money none of his business end of discussion. Imma drop a flag on this one
Your boy will always be there in your life, but boyfriend maybe not. Do what you always do with your son.
Your kids comes first before any boyfriend or husband or anyone
When u say all out what do mean?
Your kids are only kids once, he had no right to ask you to not go all out for your kids, if he don’t like it fuck him, put your kids first,
Who’s the momma?? That’s all i have to say.
Get rid of your boyfriend it your son hun xx
I just started dating someone, I told him right away I go all out for holidays and birthdays. He was excited.
I think communication is important. Can you have a conversation about traditions and expectations?
Do it he is only a kid once
Boyfriend can be replaced. Children can’t
But in all seriousness, that is your only child. I told my boyfriend that our child is the only child and she can be spoiled to an extent and he agreed. It’s not okay to let someone who is not the father of your child tell you what you shouldn’t/should do with your child.
He needs to back down or dont let door hit you on way out.
Perhaps needs enlightenment of some things, perhaps moved in too fast, kids are only kids for awhile. Single mom i did big for my kids for christmas, easter, other holidays, their memories, let them be good and if he doesn’t agree then red flag
Kick him out and move on. Not many will EVER stop me from doing something for my child and the second he tries, he’s gone.
Your son comes 1st and whatever you want to spend your money on that’s what you do!! Never let a man tell you what you shouldn’t do for your child!! I wouldn’t trust him around my child nir would I ever leave him alone with him. Get rid of this dude, sounds like he’s going ruin your relationship with him.
You don’t want dram with your boyfriend so you present it to strangers online. Figure it out yourself. Who’s more important? Your son or your boyfriend?
You’re for real choosing a boyfriend over your kid… hell with him.
It’s your child go tf out
Go all out for your kid, him.
First key words YOUR CHILD! He has absolutely no say when it come to anything for him. He needs to remember that he is replaceable not your child. You child is consistency. Second, who is he to say how you spend YOUR MONEY on YOUR CHILD. I had this happen to me once. I am a boy mom too and spoil the hell out of him (when he is deserving ). The guy was like nope you can buy him an Xbox for Christmas. Needless to say he spent Christmas not with us
YOU are making Memories with YOUR CHILD they are only little once YOU dont get a second chance.
BF just moved in looks like he is just moving OUT if he thinks this is worth a fight.
Ur son comes before anyone except God! So i say ur his mama do what u love to do. If he don’t like it. Then maybe u need to question his intentions. Js…
Who’s money is it? And who’s child is it? He’s not your husband. Who cares unless you’re using his money.
I agree with the boyfriend but u and still do your tradition without buying him everything. If u plan on staying with this guy u need to let him know plan and simple this is your child and yall are not married so he has no say so what u do for your child
You handle it by kicking your boyfriend out!
Your kids are supposed to come first before anything
Two words for him. BYE FELICIA! Spoil that baby all you want mama. Holidays and birthdays are HUGE in our home. I was a single working mom for 6 years with my two. I worked 2-3 jobs at a time to maintain our life. So weekly mommy and me date days became a norm and I went all out for holidays and birthdays. I wasn’t able to be around a ton bc of schedules and they were with their nanny a lot. But. We made the best of the free time we had which was mainly holidays. Don’t let that DB get into your traditions and ways you and your son do things. If he can’t get on board, then he can get out.
Oh hell no don’t let that fucking man tell you what to do about your son you do what you want to need to with YOUR CHILD not his. And walk away because never let a man do that
I didn’t even read but the first 2 sentences put his ass the hell OUT
Drop the boyfriend; if it’s your money and your bills are paid, then do what you want for your child!
Tell your boyfriend to shut his mouth.
Your boyfriend has no say so…
Bye bye to the boyfriend…Sounds like a Jealous asshole!
Its not his kid and he just moved in and started wrong you should not feel bad and if he doesnt accept how you raise your son he isnt the one… my bf also told me a few times that i was spoiling and doing to much but never yelled or got mad… however we did discuss how i raise my baby and he told me his family never celebrated any holiday so it made sense as to why he felt that way but now he is the one who likes to get big presents for my munchkin so its all about communication and boundaries
I spoil all four of my kids do it
You go all out for your kid. Don’t change what you do for your children because someone you date.
yikes. I teach my hubs to go above and beyond because theyre only little once. As long as its not butchering your budget, what is the harm? Id ask him that. Because if its not, regardless, he sounds a little controlling. Do what YOU want to do for your kid
You might be, but he should be supporting you and saying it’s the day Jesus rose from the grave, lets go all out for your son!
Get rid of him. He’s jealous of your kid.
Tell him in the kindest way to fuck right off as he’s only been round a year ! Hate meddling partners.
Who’s son? Yours? Tell the boyfriend to piss off and raise your son how you want.
As much as is a huge part of your son’s life… I’d remind him ur hardly suggesting by his a Bentley to keep for birthday it’s friggan Easter, go BIG and tell ur bf he’s to wear the bunny costume aswell xxx
You do what you always do 1- not his choice 2- do you want your kid to wonder why bf comes around and things start changing in a negative way. Not that kids need a ton for Easter but I’m a mom - it’s what we do lol. And 3- tell bf bye he’s already tryin to control you
Why is this even a question! That’s YOUR son! Do whatever you want for him! If you don’t… who will?!?
Bye bye boyfriend
Why change now ? Do what you’ve always done !
Take what he’s saying into consideration and talk about it. He shouldn’t be stepping in and telling you how to parent your child, but maybe there is something to what he is saying. Maybe you are being excessive? But why should that UPSET this man? Does your child show attitude and signs of being spoiled? Can you tell him know without an arguement? Maybe it’s constructive cristism that’s not being communicated well.
Boyfriend needs to go. Kids first and what YOU want to do because you are mom.
Girl spoil them we only get to do it for so long or until we die hehe so do it that’s your son trust me you’ll thank me later
Tf it’s your kid you do what you want for your kid
Drop him… No man will never STOP ME MAKING EASTER BASKETS/ BAGS FOR MY BABIES … AGES 33, 29, 23, 16 AND 9
MY 2 SON IN LAWS AÑD 3 GRANDBABIES
Always choose your child over boyfriend. They come and go. Your son will remember what you do
I’d find a new boyfriend. He’s only going to get more controlling. You do what you want for your kid.
Be reasonable. He should make it fun taking an interest in a nice picnic and egg hunt
Choose your child.
Dont need to take someone that jealous and sour
You handle it by doing what you’ve been doing for your SON!! Your bf can step away if he doesn’t like it but that’s your son…DO FOR HIM. Your bf doesn’t call the shots for your son, you do. Period.
He’s not the boss of you but I agree with him on not having to go all out. In reality all these “holidays” are just hyped up to take yalls money and you all will fall into it so easy. The masses are easy to manipulate.
I don’t get it…it’s your son so you do what you want. Why is this a question?
Do what you want for your son! I have been married for 16 years to the father of my 3 kids and he never tells me what to do for my kids for holidays. He leaves it up to me and goes with the flow. This boyfriend shouldn’t even have a say.
Oh HELL NO seriously!? Its not his kid! I go all out for mine too especially when they are little they won’t be for long! He has no right to even have an opinion on the matter he hasn’t been in your life long enough… do not let him take these special things away from you and your son.
Your child comes first. You do what you always have been doing. Don’t let a man tell you how to not spoil your kid. Nahh get him gone… my boyfriend doesn’t say anything on what I get my and our kids for holidays. (Been with him 5yrs) I have two with ex husband and two with him. He knows my love language is buying things.
Tell him to kick rocks he can bounce your child comes first
You simply, Spoil your Son, and if that “Man” gets mad, then Toodle Doo M.F.
Happy Easter to you and your boy!
Go all out for your son. Your boyfriend has no say in the raising of your child
If Easter is a big deal to you, and you want to do it up. Don’t let anyone tell you how to celebrate your life with your son.
Your kid do what you want. But Do keep in mind…not all kids can get a huge Easter. Mine dont. 5 Christmas and birthdays in Dec. So easter is easy going. I dont want them going to school saying they got a new bike and the kid next to them got some candy and a dress. When i want to spoil my kids i do it on a regular day. Why does it have to be a holiday? We go get bikes or surprise them with something they really want.
Bye bye your child comes first
Boyfriend needs to go bye-by
Go all out as you usually do. Your son was there first therefore you had your way of parenting and doing holidays before you boyfriend, him telling you to do it, and expect you will just listen to the point you feel as though you need advice about it is a BIG red flag . You shouldn’t allow anyone to control how you spend your money on your child, that’s the line you need to draw now or it will forever be a problem.
If he don’t like it tell him to move out, it’s your kid not his.
Never ever let someone without kids tell you how to do stuff for YOUR KID!!! 10000% TOXIC
Yeah, hell no. He’d be moving right on out. He’s not your son’s father. You do whatever makes you happy and spoil that boy. I always do the same for mine. I understand the need to make holidays special!
Do NOT CHANGE WHAT U DO!!! pick ur child every time
It’s your house, your kid and unless it’s his money than you do what you want to.
Make happy memories with your son. You’ll regret it in the future if you dont. They dont stay small forever, and they can have have memories of their childhood, but that’s up to you.
Do as always have. It’s your tradition he has to deal with it or leave.
He’s your child. You do what you want to do. Don’t let that man take away from yours and your sons happiness.
Does he have children
Your kid your choice
It’s your child ! How can someone say your doing to much for your kid !!
Gift giving is my love language.
My son will be 2 days shy of 6 months. Will he remember this? No, but I will.
He also has baby/child CDs, matching baseball hats from MLB with his dad, plates, Bowls, and a busy mat for starting BLW.
And we still have a week to go lol