It’s your child, do what you want. My hubby knows that I go all out on holidays, and says nothing about it anymore.
Ya no , spoil your kid if you want . They are only little once an only believe for so long …. Sheeesh
One keyword boyfriend. He can easily be out the door. It’s your son. He should know not to come between yall
Your son comes first!!! Boyfriend needs to go, he will only get worse 
Darn, get that man out of your life!
YOU have say in what goes for YOUR CHILD. If that doesn’t settle right with him then he just has to deal with it cause your son comes before ANY man. I’m sorry you’re going through this hardship but know your child is more important and that he should always come first.
Wow he came in trying to take over you want to reconsider him living there
Go all out. You won’t regret it and if it’s a problem for him. He’s the problem.
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I’d get rid of the boyfriend?
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Whose the parent?? And yelling at you… hmmm red flags please listen to yourself…and happy easter!!
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Girl what??? You better RUN!!! He mad over EASTER imagine Christmas OR ANY OTHER HOLIDAY, ITS YOUR KID. YOU SPOIL HIM. HE CAN STAY MAD!!
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This is the start of him controlling everything. Bye boy. Tell him your going to be saving money AND spoiling your son because he’s gonna be gone. Why are you worried about causing drama with him, he doesn’t care about your son by the seems of it.
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Please do not allow him to make ANY decisions about how you parent your child
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That is YOUR child, you spoil the hell out of him if you want. If he’s going to get upset over something like an Easter basket to the point where he’s almost yelling at you, that’s a red flag because how’s he going to react when there’s a real issue to deal with
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I am torn on this one as I can see both sides
I wouldn’t go all out for just Easter tbh but doesn’t bother me the once who do as each to there own but what I wouldn’t allow is my partner telling me what I can and can’t do with my own kid na put the foot down tell him like it or lump it you do you hun
They are only young once if you choose and are financially able to do it for your son that is your choice to make not his. I’d keep watch with this boyfriend of yours, sounds to me he’s controlling and it may get worst In time. Much love to you and your son 
If this is the way , how that guy is already “mis-treating” both you and Your son , than I would get rid of him now . Things will only get worse Dear . Speaking from experience.
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get rid of the boyfriend
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Kick that loser out! You do for your son all you want! Your son comes first over anyone!!
If you have done this other years and don’t do it this year what is your child’s reaction going to be? It is your tradition and boyfriend needs to but out.
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Depending if you see a future with the guy. Tell him you will keep something back, that your kid is used to getting this amount for Easter and you’ll slowly reduce amount alittle over time then agree to keep an item to give him as a reward or special treat another day soon.
First off he should not feel comfortable yelling at you about what you do for your child 
. Second none of his business. Sounds like a complete douche. Tell his ass to take several seats or gtfo. I will say this will only get worse if dudes getting bent over Easter gifts. I’d say dodge a bullet and find a dumpster to put the trash in and be done with it…
First I wouldn’t let my bf dictate what I do for your son. But secondly, Easter is so much MORE than Easter baskets and things. It’s about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ!
If your out of control on your spending maybe he has a point I’m not sure what you mean by going all out
I agree with others that Easter isn’t like other holidays. As a child we got lovely Easter baskets and that was it. I did get my kids more than I did, and I’d never let a boy friend tell me what I can or can’t do for my kids. Maybe your boyfriend didn’t get stuff for Easter.
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He’s not the kids dad, and even if he was you can do whatever the fuck you want. Screw him. Tf. He can’t just come in and act like he has a say on how you parent YOUR CHILD. no. just no no no. Spoil your kid all you want. Don’t let your boyfriend have any say of what you do and how you parent your child. He’s your boyfriend, not your child’s new daddy.
How you gonna let a man that ain’t your kids father for one tell you that you can’t celebrate Easter with your child smh girl bye
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Set your boundary now. If can’t respect it then he doesn’t respect you.
Fuck him get your baby what ever you want and if he still wants to be a dick dump his ass! They are only that little once and when they are older you will miss getting the Easter baskets for them and seeing their faces light up.
Your kid comes first always
Who is he to think he can come in and change the way you celebrate with your child?
He is your son and if you want to go all out, go all out… at the end of the day YOU are his parent and the ‘boyfriend’ has no right to say anything.
I would reconsider having him around to begin with
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You’re boyfriend is not for you hun, get away now that you have the chance
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Wtf! That’s your baby. He just your boyfriend! He just a BOYFRIEND thats jealous of your son. Or probably mad cause he can’t afford to do that for his child…
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It’s not his buisness!
Are you kidding me
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Eh your kid your rules that is a bit of a red flag tbh
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Tell him to kick rocks and fill that mf to the BRIM with candy! What a fun sucker!!!
Kids first. I still get a small Easter chocolate bunny for all my kids. Oldest is 40 and youngest is 30. It has been a tradition.
Leave him. If this bothers him than so will much more.
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Do what u was doing before u met him…but why would u spend so much they just had xmas …birthdays that can run into lot money…your son would b happy just going for happy meal yall go as family and to park…
If your paying for it do it! He cannot say what you buy for your child. If it’s what you do do it! Maybe your best needs to go.
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Huge red flag!
Not even a flag a full on essay about how your life is going to go
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Get him away from your son right away
Kids come 1st. Period.
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Tell him to shut his dirty whore mouth.
You tell the boy friend, my kid will be done my way. Don’t like it move on.
Um your boyfriend is new here he can gtfo 
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Have you taught your son the meaning of Easter? Does “Going All Out” include going to church on Easter Sunday? Are you treating your son within your financial means? Your son, your decision.
I mean I agree with the it’s not Christmas but he handled it way wrong.
I PERSONALLY don’t go all out for Easter, Valentines, etc, but that’s all me, and I don’t particularly care to see other people do it,BUTTTT ITS NOT MY LIFE. He definitely should of taken a different approach if he felt so strongly about it.
What do you mean? The man has to go!
I don’t even know where to begin on this. First of all, a grown man shouldn’t be yelling at you. How you spend your money in your home on your child is your business. Period.
I’d choose the route either him mature or him move. My Easter plans wouldn’t change. 
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Your poor Son 
I will never understand Moms who do this
He’s boyfriend and not husband for a reason. He should probably stay in his lane
Child comes first. You might want to consider your relationship though.
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You need to do what you think is best! Anyone who doesn’t like it can get over it! They’re only young once. You only get these moments for a short while.
You go all out for your kid PERIOD
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Thats your kid u do as u please
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Umm it is your kid. Is it your money? I agree with the bf because I think gets get way too darn much for holidays but that is for my kids. They don’t get a crap ton but they also don’t get spoiled through the year or bdays. To each their own. Just know once you start it if you have more kids or come on hard times it hurts worse to not be able to give them the same level of stuff as you would have before than if you just never do it in the first place
I’m sorry it’s YOUR son. You do what you’ve always done!!!
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Good grief don’t let him rule you take your son this is his time to enjoy Easter not your boyfriends your son must come 1 st he’s already trying to rule you don’t let him do this this
I spoil my kid every holiday and yes Easter is like a second Christmas except I scatter the toys in the yard and do a scavenger hunt for her basket with eggs all over and cascarones all over the place!! Do not let that man take that away from you and your baby… I will say this tho, plan to go all out every year lol cause they dang sure remember lol and holidays are like what once a month I mean it’s not terrible to want to spoil your kids
Laways put your kid first! Fuck what your boyfriend says! Your house your child, your decision! Your money!
I’m not being funny but my kids (I have identical twin boys) will always come first no matter what and if any guy didn’t get that I would be kicking them to the curb. Xx
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He is your kid. Boyfriend doesn’t get to make the rules.
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Some times less is more. Put have the money you were going to spend in a savings or similar.
Go for it he is you son
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Ugh. I’d tell him, that you’ll continue doing the things you’ve done BEFORE he entered your life.
If he has a problem with it. I’d leave him.
Let him go! Any man who has an issue with the care you give your child will have an issue with your CHILD. Keep moving, he is not one!
BF can move right back out, yell at me once…lol
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That’s YOUR baby. Do what you want tell him to be quiet. You’re the only voice your child has. Speak up
Throw the bf out. He doesn’t get to decide how much you spend on YOUR child.
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That sounds controlling to me.
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Do it. He will only be this age once.
You do you hes the new person coming into you n your kids life n your kid shoukd come first if he doesn’t like coming 2nd then he’s a jerk who needs to hit the road assp
Do not let your boyfriend tell you this. I say, do what you want. I would go all out too, and my boys are 14 and 21. Do not let your boyfriend tell you how to do your holidays.
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Is this the first red flag?!! Because this is definitely a red flag!!
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Get him out now!! He trying take total control!! Your son is number 1
Your kid comes first and sounds like your BF needs to go away!
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Go all out for your kid?
Sounds like a real douche.
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Tell him to mind his own damn business your kid not his.
Ewwww boy bye no one is going to tell me what to do with my kid.
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Go all out for your kid, beware of jealous grown men!
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I feel the same way. It should NOT be another Christmas morning🤷♀️
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I would say as long as you aren’t putting yourself in financial trouble then it’s fine. As long as your kid is appreciative and respectful.
Take the boyfriend back where you got him and return him for a refumd! Then do as you please with your child! My husband may side eye me for what I spend on our kids for holidays, but he would never say anything about it. Also, if the boyfriend isn’t paying for it, he has no say!
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Kick his ssd sorry ass out. The boy is your son and you can do as you please. If this is the way your boy friend is going to be now, he wouldn’t change if you got married. He has no connection with your son in any way and obviously has no feelings for him either. Don’t make your son suffer because of that jerk.
He is your boyfriend. You had your son way before your boyfriend. This shouldn’t be an issue.
Do how you do and he can kick rocks. I go all out for mine too and they grown this year 
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Who comes first… Your son or anew boyfriend. Easy choice… And while you are doing this get the guy to make like a rabbit and hop out of your life
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Ewww definitely a red flag.
Tell him you’ve always done it and don’t plan on stopping because he thinks it’s ridiculous!
Toxic behavior. See that as a red flag and run. Take it from someone who’s been there. Kick him to the curb and do what you’ve always done for your child!!
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Also I don’t know why everybody’s so quick to leave their boyfriends you can have a conversation 1st period and if hes gonna be in the kid’s life and be helping raise him then he should get to voices opinion whether you follow through with what he says or not is up to you but if hes playing step daddy why doesn’t he get a say? It’s hardly a reason to toss out a relationship ffs
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Your kid your choice- no man should control how you choose to parent your kid dump him
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If it’s a crazy amount I could see him saying something but to yell at u about something you’ve done for your kid for years prior to him coming into the picture umm no!
Do what u want!
And he has a say why?
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I totally agree with him… BUT THE DAY A MAN dictates, what I do with MY child. is the day that man leaves…
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Get rid of him. This is just the beginning.
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It’s your child you have your ways of doing things so enjoy while you can you did this before this boyfriend so continue with it
Never chose any man over your child. If he doesn’t like it, he can get out. Plain and simple.
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If he wants an Easter basket too he better not stop you doing one for your kids