my heart goes out to you exponentially! it is so hard to have a child who is acting out in ways that we as parents can’t wrap our minds around. if the therapist she has been seeing isn’t aware of what has happened, please be sure to tell them. generally when a living creature is involved that a child tries to harm, that’s a signal that in patient intensive therapy is likely needed. they can run a battery of tests as well to rule out any physical medical anomalies, including mental health issues. it is tough right now due to covid to get proper hospitalization care, however with the help of their therapist and this being considered a bit of an emergency, that is certainly your best route.
Why are people saying she’s a spoiled brat!!! That’s insane. Thats condoning this behavior. Oh discipline… lol. No she needs mental help. I bet Jeffrey Dahmer was a spoiled brat too.
Sorry to be one of the masses, but your daughter is dangerous and needs assessment and treatment.
Yikes. Idk what to tell u except keep loving her and showing her love. And stay United with your husband. A broken home won’t do her any more good. I’m praying for y’all!
She needs military and therapy asap.
It’s time for mental healthcare. Use the resources that are available to you. First step is to identify what you’re dealing with before jumping to conclusions. Most of the time this is neurological and not them just making bad choices. Start with your family doctor and get a referral from them.
I would take her to have psych evaluation so you know where you need to start with helping her. It was the dog this time but it could be you and your spouse next. Help her before it’s too late.
Signs of a serial killer js
Please get her help through inpatient services. Jeffery Dahmer had killed and hurt animals before it led to him hurting other people. I dont want another person killing other people just because their parents didnt get them psych help when they truly need help
Baker Act her, for her and your marriage. She needs help asap. Inform Drs about her behavior. Strickening out at animals is only the beginning. Love her enough to get her mental help.
Does she have a diagnosis? Therapy won’t help without knowing what you are fighting. It sounds like a personality disorder. You need to get a diagnosis while she is young so you can force treatment before she is old enough to refuse. And you need to do it before it gets to the point the law takes over.
She needs impatient and fast this can turn into her hurting you your partner or other kids do not wait until she kills someone.
Get a diagnosis and medicate! I know most people are afraid of medicating; but it worked wonders for our oldest. We learned to manage, cope, and fight together in a battle. He’s such a different kid now. I strongly believe in medicated when necessary and when all other things fail!
Praying for you all!
I’m not a psychologist, but I’m thinking, asking for recommendations from a Facebook group of uneducated laymen is not the best place to ask for advice.
Everyone has said everything already…. I just want to say I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s gotta hurt even reading the comments, even if there is truth. Hold your head high, love your child and do all you can for her. Find a new therapist and the right approach for her.
I went through this with my daughter trying to harm herself and her little brother because her brother needs a lot more help than her. this was a year ago but they kept her 2 weeks at the hospital until they seen a improvement in her medications. It sounds like she needs her meds reevaluated and another hospital stay tbh. She should’ve been discharged with a psychiatrist and a psychologist not just any therapist so it’s definitely time to find a new one to get her help before it’s to late! She definitely has something else going on like paranoid personality disorder, maniac bipolar, or far more serious than that! U are her mom and u can not take no for a answer! Sounds like she can also use a neuro scan that’s used specifically in diagnosing these issues so that would be my next step… best of luck mama it’s hard but don’t give up
She isn’t apologizing because her mental health is not allowing her to see her action the same as you see it. You need to communicate on behalf of your daughter with her pediatrician. Therapy and the pediatrician are great resources but your daughter needs a psychologist who specializes in youth. Please get her help she is probably just as terrified of herself as you are of her !
Most of these comments are going to scare you!! So they should ur daughter needs major help!! Like a psych ward that is not normal behaviour at all!
Prayers God bless you and your family
As a person who has been through sexual abuse by a teacher, a peer & family at a young age, you really need to be cautious of her surroundings as in who is she around & when does she act out. Are there any other signs besides just “the bad” when did you see the sudden change? Compare her personality & behavior before the change & to now. A lot of those things will be a telltale sign that she has possibly experience some abuse. I was so scared to tell anyone anything every time stuff happened to me & I felt so dirty & uncomfortable & like it was my fault something I was doing wrong to warrant 3 different people to do things to me. I never wanted to talk about it. It put me in a depression state where I attempted suicide several times all around 12/13yrs old. I had a lot of anxiety bc of what was happening & keeping to myself. Even if you don’t suspect the husband or anyone else for that matter even women you should still stay on high alert & see if she can confide in someone & make sure she is & feels protected. Hope this helps.
Perhaps there is someone bothering her under your roof.
Maybe you need to find the poor dog a safer home to live in.
Take her into and get an evaluation she needs some major help.
Video tape her answer and actions. To show therapist/ doctors. Take her to the emergency room for mental health evaluation. She is a threat to others. All therapists aren’t created equal. Find a different therapist. Talk to God. Give your daughter back to Him. He can help her, ask for guidance on how you can help her. Praying for your family. You are doing your best mom. Hugs
Has you daughter seena psychiatrist? And possibly a psychologist? Maybe get a 2nd opinion? I was diagnose with severe depression and anxiety. None of the medicines ever worked. About 5 years ago, my family doctor took me off all meds( psych ) meds. She put me on a new med that worked fantastically. Turns out, I’m bipolar.
Maybe a new therapist? Maybe an inpatient stay to dig deeper? I’m so sorry mama. Hang in there. I know it hurts your heart to not be able to help her level out, and also terrifying for her to go to such extreme measures. Seems as though she needs some intervention though for sure.
My bonus son is 12 and he started doing mean things that would hurt our dogs around 10.He has ADHD and defiance disorder.He also never says sorry and doesn’t seemed bothered when he does things that hurt others or the animals…It’s scary to think your child could be one of the those that you watch on tv.Its not easy but you have to tell yourself if ignoring the signs and trying to make excuses for them really helping them or is it hurting them and making it worse?Your child needs you to get them the help they need because they are just kids and clearly are not capable of making good changing on thier own.Dont be scared to punish her she needs the consequences.I would have her evaluated and put in an inpatient program.Shes not understanding how she’s making others feel when she’s doing hurtful things so you both need to express your feelings to her on everything good and bad…If she wants something have her earn it don’t give her anything except necessities unless it’s earned in some way…Also have her talk about her feelings good and bad as well do this everyday start off small then let more and more info out.Things take time so don’t stop doing things because it’s not working after a week.With kids like this everything takes time to see results.Put cameras up,Lock your door when your aslepp.Make sure all knives and anything that can be used to hurt herself or others are locked up.NEVER LEAVE HER ALONE WITH THE DOG OR ANYONE THAT SHE CAN HURT.You have to unfortunately do things like this because you just don’t know what’s going on.If something happens like this or something else real bad take her for a 72 hour hold.DONT FEEL BAD ABOUT DOING ANY OF THE THINGS YOU NEED TO YOUR HELPING HER BY DOUNG IT.YOUR NOT ALONE IN THIS FIGHT YOU GOT THIS…PRAYING FOR YOU ALL
Find that dog a safe place and get your poor child help this screams something is wrong
I am so very sorry you and your family are going through this. This is NOT your fault and there is nothing that could’ve been done to prevent this. Quite honestly it sounds like psychopathic behavior and she definitely needs to be in some sort of facility under 24 hour physician care - atleast until they have determined what is going on and until they have deemed her safe and no longer a danger to herself or anyone else. If she is still with you I would hide any and all potentially dangerous objects/medications etc. I would also keep a private journal of her daily behaviors to potentially establish a pattern. The more that you document the easier it will be for her doctors. Lastly, make sure you notify her school counselor. Good luck mama
Sounds like she needs more than just therapy. That sounds like a child who needs extensive help.
Almost every single antisocial personality disorder case revolves a sibling, family pet or an animal being hurt, maimed and/or killed during their childhood. Not to scare you but it seems like you’re already scared.
Do NOT let her fly under the radar any longer. Without intervention now she could grow up to have a really difficult life.
Children retaliate the best way they no how to when they don’t get their way … But acting out in negative ways is usually a way to get your attention of something bigger usally going on!!! Has someone she been close to pass away or are u spending more time at work??? Something that seams small to us adults can be big for children and us not realize it !!! Our family has went through similar … But ours was resolved with communication and repeating and who she was hanging with and who we let her see … But u as a mother has a feeling that something is off not right (without someone else helping influencing those feelings) then I would start with her pediatrician !! But children have poor impulse control and that might be some of it too !! (Ex…if someone tells one that they can’t buy something one start getting upset and cussing and saying bad things and hitting and slamming doors)
My heart goes out to you. Get her to a psychologist right away. Make sure there are major consequences for her actions.
Does she have any younger siblings? If so, I’m sure you’re already keeping them extra safe.
question Is the partner male or female
First thing that came to mind was imbalanced mind…clinically
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There is something she isn’t telln and something u don’t know about in ur home.
She needs professional help ASAP.
I am not saying this to scare you… but most serial killers start with harming animals.
She has major mental problems an needs lots of help , Before she does something really bad to a person , My son has Bio Polar , an threated to kill me he lived in my home for awhile a few years age an assulted me an i had to take a AVO AGAINST HIM … i wont have him near me as he would problably stab me said he cant stand … AN IM FINE WITH THAT JUST WONT HAVE HIM NEAR ME WOULDNT TRUST HIM . AN HES 65 …Hope it works out for you …
You’re describing a narcissist/sociopath
This is not your fault but this dog needs to be moved to a home with someone that you can trust that will care for him. Maybe a close friend that’s a animal lover or even an aunt or grandparent. I would be terrified for the dogs life at this point because what’s stopping her from doing it again? Good luck, mama.
Also look up O.D.D ( oppositional defiant disorder)
Praying for your family. When you say she’s in therapy, hopefully it is a psychiatrist or psychologist specializing in adolescents. It also seems like family therapy may also be beneficial to help you and your partner learn techniques to help her. From your description, you know there is something very wrong with your daughter so don’t delay getting further treatment for her.
Keep all dangerous things locked away in a cabinet (especially drugs). God forbid she would have gave herself the shot! Safety 1st.
Instead of everyone bashing this lady, we should be lifting her up. I know all too well, trying to get the right help for my child and nothing and no one seems to have the answer or helping to find the solution. This mother sounds like she is trying everything she can think of and is reaching out to other moms who may have experienced the same situation with their child to see what worked for them. She is making sure there is something she isn’t missing or has not thought of. I know this is an extremely dangerous and unimaginable thing for her and her family to be going through. With that being said, there have been often times that mothers do often have the answers all from trial and error. This mother is probably dealing with a great deal of anxiety and depression, due to this situation and her mind is probably in a fog. Please everyone be kind; send only positive vibes her way. Put yourself in her shoes, would you want to hear some of the comments you are making? I know I wouldn’t. Everyone have a blessed day!
O.D.D.- She needs therapy NOW before she goes the Antisocial Personality Disorder route and you do NOT want that!
Call a therapist. Get your daughter back.
She needs to see a psychiatrist and a psychologist! ASAP ! This is not normal behavior . She may need in patient treatment but the psychiatrist will help make all decisions
Your kid or not, she needs far more help than she’s getting. Like, inpatient stay kinda stuff.
I think that dog needs to go to a different home until you can figure things out, if you have younger children then that should be addressed too. I’m sorry this sounds so hard
Instead of self diagnosing, you should have her checked into a local behavioral treatment center for kids her age.
Having her being treated separately from the family is vital especially when she is acting out violently towards others. It’s only a matter of time before she hurts a person or herself.
Old fashioned here-- personally I would have kicked the shit out of her! You have babies her because she is different!! She’ll start with the dog and work her way up to a family member!. I know the new way is to talk to them— but guess what-- it doesn’t always work. Blunt as it comes-- sometimes the old ways are the best ways.
Um she needs to be in the psych ward… She definitely needs to go for a while. Maybe get her on some meds. Because clearly whatever you are doing isn’t working
Two questions. Did you drink while pregnant and could this be fetal alcohol? Or when she was a baby did something traumatic and painful happen where she could have developed attachment issues? Was she in the NICU a long time? Have some sort of hospital stay after as an infant where you weren’t there? Did she have multiple caregivers as an infant? That would need a different therapy than normal. Good luck.
You said yourself therapy isn’t helping. That’s obvious. You need to be doing a lot more than therapy. She needs to be sent to stay at a treatment facility. If she’s willing to kill her pet, what’s stopping her from doing it to you or someone else?
Look into “Healthy Young Minds” through your health insurance. Theyll do more than therapy. They’ll help you professionally diagnose her and get her the right treatment. And I know your dog is family, but her life is in daily danger. Please look for a family member who can safely take her in.
Boot camp comes to mind
That sounds like a lot more than anxiety and depression. I would say try having her committed for a while to a mental health facility. Not one of those one week and done ones, but something that actually takes time and gets her on track so she can be seen by psychologists and psychiatrists not just a therapist.
Sounds to me like she need a few good ass whoppings and you need to put your foot down. Anxiety and depression don’t make you want to harm animals. She sounds like she’s not being disciplined to me and the fact that an adult fears her makes it sound like y’all are being to soft on her.
Sounds like the young girl has a deep frustration from a possible trauma. I would get her a therapist along with have a full psychological examination done. My son and I both had one. Not invasive kinds fun. It gives IQ too. Also some groups in the community that offer help. I could go on. I have a worse situation. And many resources message me if you’d like. But to me that girl is hurting
This is VERY serious. I would get her committed ASAP. So many red flags in this post… please, for the safety of her & everyone in the family, move quickly & swiftly… love her enough to see her for what she’s exhibiting & do the hard thing! GET HER IMMEDIATE HELP
Speaking from a mother who also has “difficult” children and I say difficult because what else can you call it ? My son has been in and out of therapy since a young age killing pets having obsessions with knives (3 & 4 ) years of age to now have caused actual harm to other kids aggressivly and without any consideration into consiqenses or actions which may follow (my son is now 11) and I don’t see his situation getting any better sadley and it makes me absolutely terrified as I’m about to step into his teenage years on my own no father for my son and regardless of the help I’ve tried to get for my son ( FACS therapy, NDIS countless programs and information sessions and sadley I’m in the same boat with him I was 7,8 years ago I worried everyday what his future is going to be like if I’ll have to sit there one day and visit my son in jail, what did I do wrong ?? All you can do is be there for that kid love that child and always listen to them Goodluck mumma
This is my first time ever even spending a moment to share my thoughts on something I’ve read on FB but I couldn’t resist to leave this thought here that every single response I just read blows my mind how heartless and ignorant you people are that sit around on your behinds with all this free time to comment and be opinionated. To the person whom wrote this concern: seek proper guidance and direction from a qualified PROFESSIONAL. Not FB. These are the kind of answers you want to read about your delicate situation? Everybody has an opinion and they are derived from STRANGERS whom have no business in your business and no connection to your emotional condition with respect to what you’re dealing with.
I’m so sorry your family has to go through this. Therapy is definitely a great plan to start. You said it’s not working, please find another therapist. For me personally, I had to see a handful before clicking with the right one. Their are also programs at psychiatric hospitals, either inpatient or out. I know right now it’s difficult with covid, but be pushy. I have the feeling a therapist is needed daily. A psychiatrist is best for diagnosing disorders and maintaining medication but psychologists are better for talking, in my personal experience. 2 working together would be very beneficial. Good luck <3
She sounds like she needs a professional diagnosis. Hurting animals isn’t normal, she could be on the spectrum. There could be a few things that she could have as well! It would be worth getting her checked by a psychiatrist
Be ready for some very awful news about your child. This is the definition of lack of empathy. It is also how personality disorders present. Put her into permanent treatment.
Sounds like you need to accept your child and place her in a home that has children same as her. If you hurt animals you will hurt humans. You are the best one to speak for her. And it’s your duty as mother to gain the help she needs. Not every thing can be explained when someone is ill. Mental illness is complicated but with love and understanding and help she can make great strides. Also punishment yelling and grounding don’t work for the who have Mental illness and they don’t understand what you are punishing them about. This is why being in surroundings same as she will be beneficial. Look in to a group home that has long term help.
I’m sure this sound straight frightening but next thing you will trying to figure out is why she killed a friend’s child or something crazy out of left field that you would never think she would do. This is where is starts. So as mom start with the Dr’s asap. It will help all!!
Praying for your family
Has your partner ever did anything to your child that u are not well aware about in turn tried to take it out on a pet …surprise child services isn’t involved after she tried killing the pet
She needs to be admitted before she actually kills something. It doesn’t get better without serious help.
Sounds like it has nothing to do with depression or anxiety! She needs a psychological evaluation before someone else gets hurt. I wld rehome that poor dog also.
Poor baby, she needs help. All I see in this post is your cry for help for yourself, and your marriage. You daughter needs more help than just therapy. You need to seek a diagnosis, ask for a psychiatrist, and perhaps medicate her. Her whole life is at risk since she is acting on her violent desires. She is a kid still, and needs alot of guidance. You need to look around mama, and find her help asap.
Home placement… that’s how serial killers start
She’s needs to be placed in a home so she can get the mental health medical attention she needs because therapy is not enough for her. She needs a team of people looking and helping her
Find your pets another home! They do not understand or deserve to be mistreated! You need to find her help for everyone including her own safety! Please don’t wait another day or minute and risk the chance of her harming others or herself cause it can’t be taken back! It will be hard on you and hurt your heart like hell, but it’s what’s best for her and you love her enough to do what will make her as better as possible. If she hurts anyone or herself you will live with that guilt and you don’t need that! Keep us posted and my heart goes out to you momma!
She doesn’t have empathy. Drop that therapist & get someone who specializes in personality disorders before she kills someone … I wouldn’t allow her to be alone with animals or kids
By keeping her around the rest of the family you are putting them and your pets at risk. Also you are doing disservice to your daughter by not placing her somewhere they can address the psychological issues that she has. Momma it’s hard I’ve been there but you have to do what’s best for your family as a whole.
Have you done a chemical/ hormone imbalance test at the doctors?? This sounds very serious… beyond normal teen age crazy. Have you checked into in-patient care??
Therapy is not the only thing she needs . She needs a medical opinion . That is very a dangerous child who will one day harm you and your husband . You should of taken her to a medical doctor beside just a therapist . If they can not find anything wrong in her brain while she is in therapy then you might just have to accept your daughter has some mental issues. Schizophrenia is a person who does not have the ability to think feel or behave clearly . If they diagnose her with some for of that then you will have to fight to get her the right therapy and medication . You have to be a strong person to get through the system but its a start or lose your marriage by not trying to get her the correct diagnose . That is a clear sign of something medically wrong in her brain causing this and that is scary not getting her the PROPER HELP SHE DESPERATLEY NEEDS . Good luck.
Beki Davis- I would answer you, but I can’t find the post???
This is a very bad sign. You need to get her committed so she can get proper help while keeping her and everyone around her safe. Its great that she’s getting therapy, but she needs more intensive care. Better now than later. If she gets the help she needs now, she has a chance at living a decent life. If you wait, and she does something she can’t take back, her life will never be the same. Im not saying abandon her, because I’m sure that’s how it sounds, but you can love your child and support her while putting her in a facility that will help her. What if next time a friend upsets her and she stabs the friend? That would be catastrophic for both children as well as all the parents involved. So please seek help where she is out of your home, getting the help she needs while keeping her safe. Im sorry you’re going through this and I hope everything works out for you.
I agree with others. She needs to see a psychiatrist and get a proper mental
Evaluation for diagnosis and the form of help she needs. It sounds like she is potentially unsafe to others and possibly could be to herself. Every parents nightmare Eid not being able to help out children but sometimes we must face that the best form of help is within someone else’s hands. Sounds like she needs some time in a home that can give her what she needs and keep others safe until there are more answers. Doesn’t mean it has to be forever but at least temporary. With our the proper help she will continue to worsen and the behaviors may become more damaging and frequent. My heart goes out to all of you but please consider what advice you are being given from people that don’t know every detail and are the outside looking in.
I’d take her ass to Mexico, spend some time down there with her, and she will have a change of heart. She’s refusing to get better so she will end up having to learn the hard way. Her freedom would be taken away and I’d be watching her every second. Your partner needs to separate himself until you get your daughter under control. She doesn’t understand how good she has it, until she doesn’t anymore.
She is mentally ill. Sounds like Antisocial disorder. This is not anxiety or depression. This is psychosis.
This isn’t anxiety and depression. I suffered from both as a tween/teen/adult. That is antisocial personality disorder. Or worse. She needs a dr that specializes in that, and some serious psychiatric help.
Sorry but I’d be getting her out of there, not the dog. She needs to be where she can’t hurt ANYONE or ANYTHING. What’s she going to do next?? You better all sleep with one eye open!
she needs more than a therapist. You need to get her medical help cause it could be schizophrenia which cases a lack of emotion in a way towards that type of stuff. But if left untreated she could do it to another animal or god for bid a person
So none of what I’m going to say is meant to be judgmental so please don’t take offense. Your daughter has displaced hostility and if she’s hurting the dog or family members that’s a very big concern. She’s suffering from mental illness and needs treatment asap before she does something fatal. I don’t mean therapy I’m mean a treatment center, a psychiatrist and medication. This is a tough admission for parents and often delays the necessary treatment for the individual with the condition and the family members that are suffering along with that person. Please please reach out to her pediatrician asap and seek a referral for a psychiatrist. This will be the best thing to do for everyone. I wish you the best of luck
It sounds like the whole family needs to learn to communicate FEELINGS.
Too, does the dog get more one-on-one attention than your daughter?
Therapy doesn’t sound like I enough. I’m with the others. She needs a treatment facility. Unfortunately you can’t just get rid of the animals to solve the issues. However id remove them until she’s either not in the home or better mentally.
Harming animals is a step in the wrong direction for things to get worse. You dont want to look back and wish you’d done something earlier, once she’s hurt another person. It’s not fair your partner is scared… That’s no life. I’d act immediately.
She needs to be checked into a facility, and don’t take her out till u know things have changed. My husband has a niece like this,×10. They have to have camera in every room and constantly checking her in to hospitals. Unfortunately they always feel bad an go get her, u cant. That just makes the behaviour worse. Careful, its only a matter of time before she really comes after u. You won’t even see it coming.
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I suffer from both depression and bad anxiety. I do not have these feelings and have never reacted in such a way. Like everyone else is saying she needs to be taken to a mental health hospital be more seriously and closely monitored. These are signs of far worse problems and I would really hate to see that something had happened to anyone else including you dog.
Your asking in the wrong place for help. The internet should not be the place. People saying “she has this or that” they aren’t a physicists. You need to take her to her Dr and get her in intensive therapy with medication if you really want help. I’m sorry but not sure why you would waste your time here when clearly medical attention is the answer
Rehome the dog. Your daughter needs a real psychiatric evaluation and treatment beyond therapy. Based on what you’ve shared, your partner should be terrified and so should you.
Her body is going through so many changes, it sounds like she wants to know her parents love her and will put her first no matter what. I feel so bad for her. Some of these comments, people care more about a dog than their child and wonder what’s so wrong with these kids? Smh.
I have the same problem with my son. Sadly he has killed our chickens, rabbits and a cat. I had to lock the rest of them in their coop to protect them. Now my son is threatening to kill us. He’s told us how and when. He’s even told us who he’s killing first.
We have had a very hard time getting help with him in our state. He has a disability so all they do is baker act him and send him home in less than 24 hours. He violently hurts us and his siblings, but we feel they’re forcing us to take his abuse.
We are gathering documentation of everything and then we are petitioning the judge to ask for help. We are told he’s the only one who can help us. Keep documentation and photos for everything. I’m sure you will need it. Good luck from Florida.
If I were your partner I’d take the dog and leave. Don’t be surprised if he/she does. I know I would if I were them. This is psychotic. She needs comitted now before she turns into the next serial killer. The scariest part - she has zero remorse. This needs to be taken far more seriously than it is currently being taken.
Don’t rehome the dog, find help for your daughter. Real psychiatric help, this is NOT depression and anxiety. I would be terrified if I was you or your partner
For one, the people saying “sleep with eye open” “get the child out”. That’s ignorant to even say due to a child of a serious medical condition and needs help. The last thing you want to do is make her feel like she’s alone, like she has no one. Understanding it’s very scary but you still can’t let someone feel less about themselves because they can’t control it.
This was happening to a friend of ours child. Once the therapist heard what had happened they got them a specialist. Their child had to be evaluated and help with what was going on. They found the right medicines to balance out. I hope you find the right people to help her out:pray:
I would honestly be seeking psychiatric help. If it were me, I would be looking into an inpatient stay so these things can be dug into deeper, therapy is in place and along with it and figure out safety plans etc. This will help everyone as a whole. I have gone to inpatient for my bipolar and honestly is the best thing I have ever done for myself. I know many others as well this has helped—whom which have received a proper diagnosis as well. Hang in there—and get the help she needs.
Your daughters behaviour is not your fault. Some kids are born that way and those that say that she needs special help are absolutely correct. Check her into a psychiatric hospital for kids her age. It is still possible to get her on a better path, but you have to understand the problem first and only professionals can do that and help you understand her.
sounds like a democrat in training
This sounds like a child who is under spiritual influence/attack. You may not agree, but the very best advice I can give you would be to allow Jesus into your home and lives. I have seen with my own eyes what the power of God can do.