My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?

If you know all of this has been going on why haven’t you filed a police report?

Bull! You don’t need anyone’s opinion to know when to protect your child!

You and/or your husband need to be banging on his front door and then the principal 's.

Get a lawyer. Discuss the harassment that has been going on. Take the lawyer with you to see the superintendent. Insist on what you want. File a lawsuit against the teacher and district for allowing it to go on and not dealing with it.

Why are you even asking??? Go to the school board, police and if that doesn’t work go to the media!!

Bring a can of whoop ass to the teacher parking lot what I would do for real especially after you asked nice once. A large can too

Call the cops or put him in the ground. If it was me personally he would already be wheeling around like Stephen Hawking. If we heard about this before the cops you definitely aren’t handling this right.

Restraining order? Police report? News agency?

Have the cops not been called? This is a sexual predator…

Why have you not already contacted the police???

What school is this?

Go to the news . get other girls to not want him there. I’m sure she is not the only one.

I’d lose my mind. Go above the counselor. Don’t let this go. Obviously he’s doing this to other young girls. Don’t let it continue.

FILE A REPORT WITH POLICE N SCHOOL BOARD!!! if he’s doing it to her 9/10 he’s doing it to others as well

It doesn’t matter who he is, this needs to be reported.

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file a police report… and get a restraining order so he can’t be within 600 ft of her. problem solved.

I would be in jail thats all I’m gonna say, and I wouldn’t be asking FB for advice.

Press charges. Get a restraining order. Sue the school district.

Have her dad go in and explain it to him

File a police report. That man should not be anywhere near students

This should have gone directly to the police. No compromise.

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Police! If they don’t respond, go to the media

Stop dealing with the school GO TO THE POLICE!

These attention-getting stories try to bait people in.

Put a restraining order on him.

Ummm call police…I only read a few sentences in…police!!!

This man has no business being a teacher at this or any school, file a Police report ASAP, when it comes to sexual harassment of students the school will never do right by your daughter for fear of their own reputation so you have to fight for her, get together with other Mother’s whose daughter’s have also been harassed, and going to the media sounds like a good idea as well, too much of this goes on to young women and until we make these schools responsible our daughters will never feel safe enough to get the proper education they deserve!!!

File a police report. Call your local news paper. Notify the school board.

Police report with medical records, school board with medical records- tell the school board ‘i am recording to assure quality care’- take police report, medical records, and recorded conversation with school board to the press. Do all this fast, we are so close to graduation

Police. Superintendent. If that doesn’t work, baseball bat.

Police and Title IX Offices, file a report.

Police, attorney , school board, media,

Press charges, go to the police…don’t stop at the school

Consider putting in the newspaper…

Wtf? U didn’t go to the school administration?

Police need to handle that perv. The school should be ashamed of the way they dismissed this.

get your husband to sort him out

Have you daughter’s father,beat the sh!t out of the guy.

Definitely police the mans a pedo

Put this perverts name on blast. News station, Facebook, police, everything

I’m not reading pass the touching and inappropriate comments that were made. REPORT HIM!!! He should have been reported to the police as soon as that started. He’s a predator. Your daughter is being tormented by a sick bastard. I’m so sorry she has this story to tell of her senior year.

Ewww…there was a highschool teacher that told me I reminded him of Michelle from American pie and said people say he reminds them of Jim. Gross. Report him.

Well if the school won’t do anything file a police report and get a restraining order for sexual harassment. He won’t be attending either event that way and your daughter can attend both events comfortably

Report him and the school for not firing him NOW that is not under any circumstances acceptable

I bet your child isn’t the only one and unfortunately it seems that a suspect has to have several offenses before he can be accused of one and that’s where the problem lies. As soon as it is put into question there should be strict protocol, a whole mess of stuff invading their private life, something so drastic that they would never do anything to put themselves in a position to be questioned, I mean the adult teacher not the victim.

Go to the police. He nneeds to be removed from teaching. Shame on the school authoritiez foe ignoring this pig of a man

This needs to be brought to the police, now. File a restraining order.

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He’s a pedo sis you find a pig farm and well…

File a very detailed police report IMMEDIATELY

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Go to the police and school board

Go to the police and school board

And you or she has never thought once to kick the s*** out of that bastard? Stop him before he finds another female student and maybe she can’t get away

Notify the police!!!

Are you serious? Your daughter is being sexually harassed by a TEACHER and you just go to the principal?! Seriously? WTF?! No you call the damn police and file a fucking report and sue the goddamn school. There’s no fucking compromise when it comes to your kids. No matter the age

Wtf are you asking on Facebook for!?!?!? Report him to the police.

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Police. Secretly record all that you can to

File a police report

Also, let the school know you will be going to the media if they dont get their shit together

Fuck the school distruct, they are covering their own ass. Go to the cops and file a report and a restraining order.

Police and lawsuit against school for hiring a child predator

WTF???Why have you not turned this asshole in to the authorities???

Call a lawyer… ASAP

Call the damn police.

Police now. He is a perv.

Name of teacher and school.

Report him to the police

File a police report.

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File a police report

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GO PUBLIC!!! Fuck this anonymous shit and start yelling from the roof tops because that fucker already hurt your daughter and has probably done worse to another kid.

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Call the local news station and make this as public as possible. This man should NOT be a teacher. Maybe some other girls who have been mistreated by him will step up too and help your daughter. So sad. Please tell your daughter its not her fault and she is a strong young woman! Prayers for your family

POLICE. ABSOLUTELY. YES, I AM YELLING! I rarely use caps but I hope this gets through as your first and only appropriate choice.

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To touch someone inappropriately after being told no may be a chargeable offense. I would hire an investigator to send someone around him, even posing as a student or friend of a student
Maybe also ask her for names of other students he may have been inappropriate with.
Public school? Talk to members of the county board of education after getting your legal information to back you up

Talk to the police. This happened to my daughter in first grade it was a student but the teacher did not do anything. I filed a police report and then went to the school. She wasmoved classes and the teacher was fired at the end of the year.

Absolutely sounds like this “teacher” is grooming your daughter and may also well be grooming the head teacher, police department, etc. People who do this often appear charming on the outside but in all seriousness this “teacher”'s behaviour is at best completely inappropriate and at worst paedophilic. Please take this further to stop other girls who may be in a similar situation with him in the future from having to go through this. Where I live, allegations of this sort of behaviour would be treated extremely seriously and procedures to make the child/young person safe would be the absolute priority of the school and police.

Skip the school. They clearly are not going to do anything, it was their responsibility to contact the authorities when you came to them, but they didn’t. So go to the police yourself. Call non emergency dispatch and have an officer come meet with you and your daughter. If your daughter is hesitant, just gently tell her that it is important for her to do this so you guys can stop him from hurting her and anyone else. They will open an investigation and while they investigate he will not be aloud near the school or school functions. I would also suggest you get your daughter into therapy. I could be completely wrong but just based on your story here I feel like your daughter may have spared you some of the details. She needs someone she can talk to freely, which you being her mom complicates things if she is scared or ashamed.

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Contact your local motorbike club tell them whats going on and ask them if they would escort her to, during, and after the graduation.
I have friends in clubs and they are really sweet men and women, they are just tough as nails!!!

If you have not already it is best to document specifics, anything you can recall about dates, situations, who else was present. This can help later.

Let the girl’s father uncles cousins handle the situation. If you don’t have family you will have to do it yourself. You take care of business.

A talk with a detective to quietly investigate this “gentleman” would be appropriate and a free consultation with a lawyer specializing in education rights

Go to the police and open an investigation. There are more girls than your daughter being abused. He should be in prison.

Tell the school that if he attends graduation you will be making everything public on social media and the news paper. Usually they won’t want the word getting out.

This has to be reported. Your daughter has support in you - others may not. Do the right thing.

We threatened to call the news after weeks of me going to the principal daily, mad as hell over my son being bullied. Time after time nothing was done. So we told her we’d like to see how the news would handle it. She changed her tune real fast and the boy was suspended. Threatened to call the news or school board. No principal wants that kind of attention on their school. But don’t just threaten. If they call your bluff, do it! I mean at this point I’d do it anyways. Who gives af about the teachers feelings?! I mean I admire them for teaching but if they are making children feel unsafe then they need to go.

Report him to the police, school principal, school administration and school board. Hire an attorney and press sexual harassment charges against him (and the school district, etc.). No child should have to endure this from anyone!

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Hes your neighbor? Go knock on his door and give him a piece of your mind, call the police, post on social media and see if anyone else is willing to come forward. This is your daughter, stand up for her. It doesn’t matter when she told you, be grateful she did. Speak up and don’t settle down until something is done.

Police, and child protective services. He can lose his teaching license and he forbidden from coming anywhere near a school

Much respect to you mum for being such a supportive parent. Such a pity a teacher can cause you both so much stress, heartache. For the sake of future young women take him to task with a formal complaint. Its uncomfortable but do the right thing.

I feel for you may you find a solution so she can attend her graduation . You should have reported the inappropriate behavior a long time ago.

I would call the police and report him. I would also get a hold of the school board and tell them. I would also tell them that if they didn’t do anything about him and fire him you will get a lawyer and sue the school.

Call the local law enforcement file a complaint and follow up she should feel safe. if they do nothing then screw the grad and look to college grad. Mental health is so important

Call the local news station, and file the police report you should have filed months ago

100 percent go to the police, charge him with unwanted sexual attention, harassment and bullying. Have them look into his actions. At the very least he will back off of your daughter. At best his actions will be watched documented and he will not do this to anyone else. I find ( in Canada ) the schools cover up so many actions of bullying, the schools have policies in place. Ask to see their policies on bullying and harassment. Or look them up in your board website. Then file to have this teacher written up for breaking policy. We had to get police involvement with our sons school recently , even though the school denies any wrong doing, as the officer said. Now we have a recorded police report in the matter. So if it happens again ( with your case a different student ) the police can see a pattern . I hope all goes well for you. I hope your daughter can move on with her life without this jerk holding her back. I would suggest that if you see him creeping by your house, peeping in your house. Contact the police. Best of luck.

Formal complaint with the police department. Then bring a copy of the report to the school. Then tell the school you plan to go to the news if the teacher is not banned from both events :woman_shrugging:t2: trust me, schools do not want the media involved.

Or show up to the neighbors house and put the fear of god into him :tipping_hand_woman:t2:

Go to the TV stations. That s#!t will stop then. My daughter was stalked once. No one would do anything. So I took things in my hands. I stalked the “HELL” out of that sob. Yeah, he stopped. Oh, I also had someone with me. A baseball bat.

If the school refuses action take it up to the police and then contact a lawyer as that seems to get their attention!!

I had a teacher in 7 th grade English in Virginia. He creeped me out. He’d be looking at me if I looked up in his class during study time. I’d see him looking at me when I’d walk down the hall. I couldn’t wait for that school year to be over. Brenda S. you probably know who he is.

Well we just went to a memorial last night for a young girl who was sexually assaulted and killed by a 13-year-old boy in her class in St johns county … my daughter is currently on a mental health break from school because of sexual harassment from another student… Now you’re talking about the teacher!!!
I would hire her a personal security bodyguard and I would tell the school that he will be sitting with her… they don’t like it I will go to the news media!
But make sure it’s a classy standup security guy …a dad preferably💪🏼

Report ! report !report !
No question about it … after she graduates there will be others… you have to stand up for all of our daughters❤️
I would send my daughters statement to the school board and the news media area churches and anyone else that would recognize and listen to his name… because there will be more problems later with other students.

Thanks for sharing … it helps other parents to realize that the most important thing we can teach our daughters is recognizing inappropriate comments or actions and reporting it!
Prayers coming your way !

Why the hell haven’t you called the police and are pressing charges on this creep!? He needs fired and charged my god! Then it’s safe 4 other kids from this creep too!!!
Include his creeper peeper shi* into your home! The school won’t do anything if you haven’t don’t that otherwise they’ll say it’s all lies schools rarely take accountability bc in the end it looks very bad on them!
Call today. Right now.

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Make the serial complain formal. Send it certified mail, return receipt requested, to the principal and superintendent. You’ll get a response!

Are you kidding me?!

  1. Report his behavior and words to the School. Provide witness names. Call other parents your daughter mentions in his behaviors. She isn’t the only one.
  2. Call the Police and … Provide witness names. File for a restraint order against him… he won’t be able to attend her graduation.