Well he’s your neighbor so make sure he don’t get to graduation. Call the news stations, radio stations, put up signs around your neighborhood and warn others.
My daughter is not comfortable around her teacher due to him being inappropriate: What should we do?
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My first trip would have been to the POLICE station not the school. She’s told you he’s sexually assaulted girls!! I’d have let the police go deal with the school
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I would call the cops and make a report . What he is doing is sexual harassment. Hes probably doing it to others as well that yall dont know about. I would raise so much hell the whole country would hear me. He could be a pedi to. Don’t let them do this to your daughter or anyone elses.
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I would of been slashed his tires, made several police reports and been up at the school everyday until something was done
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If the school won’t do anything about it… go to the media and the police. What you’re describing is entirely inappropriate for a teacher to be doing. Public attention from outside sources will put pressure on the school board to fire him like he should have been already.
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Go and bring as many big men you can find,bring bullhorns and all kinds of things that make your daughter feel safe and happy.if the school won’t help then you do what’s necessary.
Wow!! You need to get ahold of news outlets ASAP!!! Try reaching out to Marty Griffin - GET MARTY , Maybe he can help? I would also file a police report. He should of been fired!!! Has this teacher done this before? I would not feel comfortable with him being my next door neighbor either, with him being able too see through your windows that is CREEPY!!! If your daughter can’t find curtains she likes then put up blinds their are all kinds of different ones out.
Omg turn him in! Contact the fbi who hunts down predators! I assure you he is looking at child porn and is moments away from assaulting a student if he hasn’t already. I had a teacher in high school who was like that. This was back in the 80s and he started out my favorite too. But before long I started feeling like he was a creep. Sure enough a few years after I graduated he got fired (and divorced!) for having an affair with a student. Back then nobody did anything about that stuff. Today he would be in custody.
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It sounds like because your daughters school has a good teacher ( their interpretation) and he makes the school and school district look good, they refuse to do anything to him Back in the mid-80’s I went to a very small high school. Our band director was like your daughters OEP teacher but he went a step further. He actually slept with his students ( if they were willing) Of course the school knew what our band director was doing but because he brought our band from a little known band to one who got I and II’s in competition and a band that all the other schools wanted to be like. He did this in only 3 years. He stayed at that high school until he was too old to do his job so they moved him to a desk job in the main school districts office. I suspect that he also was moved there because the kids finally started telling their parents what he had been doing You know what your daughters teacher was doing and there are probably other kids. Keep pushing for what your daughter wants for graduation but if they still won’t ban him from graduation, at least she will be graduated and can finally move on. I’m sorry this has happened to your daughter at such a important end to her high school days and into the next phase of her life
Start finding more students he has done this to because there most likely are more students. Contact the police and let them know everything. If the school district refuses to do anything with this predator then the police should. Do not stop til that man is in jail.
You should go to the police with your concerns and call the local news station. The news will be all over this like white on rice. It would force the schools hand and they will do something about the teacher. If he’s doing this to her then he’s probably doing it to others.
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I used to have a teacher that touch me and pop my bra strap! And I was always so scared to tell anyone! I never told anyone until recently! And I was mad at myself for never saying anything, but now if this is what happens when you say something then! This is what makes every girl want to stay quite ):
File police report. Reach out to other parents. Child Protective Services may also be helpful. Your daughter is not his only victim. He’s a child predator. He’s probably got a computer filled with child pornography. I hope your daughter is able to overcome the trauma he’s caused.
One of my daughters had an incident with a male student in middle school. He was touching and verbally assaulting multiple girls. He was flagged as a sexual predator as a teen and later went to jail for a related crime as an adult. This teacher has easy access to his prey! It needs to be stopped!
Go to the media with her story if she is okay with that. The school wont want that kind of attention and he should be fired with his teaching lisence revoked. If there are others students willing to come forward that hes done this to, that would break it wide open. Unfortunately, your daughter probably isn’t the only underage student that this teacher has had inappropriate conduct with.
Find out all the facts first. Police should be made aware, as should the superintendent of the school, the principal of the school, and the school board. If she has concrete proof of anything on her side (dates or times, if anyone captured it on video, any witness willing to sign an affidavit), it should be presented to them along with the doctor’s notes (as you feel comfortable sharing, HIPAA I’m guessing, would factor in here). If any other student has experienced the same behavior and is willing to share, they should be coming forward as well. In the meantime, document, document, document!
School board first. And local news media if nothing happens. He used his position of power incorrectly and there should be immediately actions taken Against him.
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Why are you questioning this at all? Obviously when all this started and your daughter felt uncomfortable, this should have been reported. Why did you, as her parent, let this go on for 3 years. And being your neighbor you should have called the police and let them handle this. You have failed to protect your daughter. Shame on you!!!
Think you should file a police report about the matter, not only you would be helping your child, but all children too. He sounds like a creeper and maybe even a pedophile that didn’t act on his urges for the time being but eventually he will, if not already.
I would have secretly recorded him to have as proof of the sexual harassment she is enduring. If she is enduring this, then many other girls in her school maybe experiencing this as well. I don’t know why the school nor superintendent are not alarmed by this obvious groomer who is around young girls. Hire a PI and do a deep dive into him, guaranteed there is something in his past that shows he has a pattern of abuse
Go over their heads to the superintendent. Go to the media! Go to the police! Document every single thing and do not take no for an answer. This is not just about your daughter. He’s clearly a risk to underage girls in general.
I am a teacher and his comments and touching are called grooming and sexual harassment. We have had training on it. You need to press charges and make a big deal out of this. He should have been removed from his position immediately.
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File a police report - specifically with your local child advocacy division(if you have one). That’ll get the school’s attention. What that is is harassment. He told you he can see into the house. He touched inappropriately. The police can’t do anything really but it’s a paper trail. Have any other students mentioned this - is your daughter comfortable asking? If you have an attorney available ask about what options you have available to you. Bring it up to the school board and ask for their advice and guidance. Document all interactions with authorities both past and current/ongoing.
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File a police report 1st and foremost. Go to the school administration next. Forget the principal. File a report against him/her and anyone at the school that acknowledged his inappropriate behavior and did nothing about it. Take it to the school board because admin won’t. Document EVERYTHING. Every conversation you had with everyone on every day. You will need it to bolster your case. If nothing comes of all of the above, call your local media.
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Tell her don’t let him win look dead at you as she walk across that stage and tell her that her feelings are valid and get a restraining order on him
I would definitely contact the police. Especially since he’s gotten much more bold over the years. If the school does nothing about it he could continue this behavior and end up going even further with another girl. Plus any unwanted touching is assault. She point blank asked him to stop and he continued. She’s seen him being inappropriate with other girls, have you tried speaking to those girls or their parents? Maybe if there were more people coming forward they’d be forced to take this seriously and terminate him. It’s disgusting he can act that way and the school won’t do anything about it. I’m so sorry your daughter has had to go through this.
I was sexually harassed at a job by my much older boss, when I was 20. The comments, the unwanted touching which got worse as time went on and he ended up slapping my ass one time as I walked past him. He’d come up behind me and start rubbing my shoulders and his hands would get way too close to my chest. He was harassing another girl, not as bad, but she went over him and reported it to the President of the company and told them about the harassment I was experiencing as well and he was forced to retire. Come to find out the company had already settled out of court for 2 sexual harassment lawsuits involving him in the past. So I highly recommend going to the police or something, do not just drop it. From experience he won’t stop doing it and will just get worse.
Wow just wow sorry but same here i would be in jail if that was my child and he wouldn’t be no ones worry no more for sure
TO THE OP: Go above the Superintendent and take it directly to the school Board AND file a report to your local police department. You could probably get a free consultation with a lawyer at the least. Consider a civil suit to pay for your daughter’s medical and mental health treatment. Schools have a legal obligation to protect their students and your daughter had the right to expect it as well.
Don’t wait to go to the police.
Honestly have your daughter file harassment against him. If nothing else just can get an emergency protective order and then he can’t be within so many feet of her which may keep him out of the graduation if she decides to go. But make no mistake this could ruin his career and put a lot of stress on your daughter to move forward with it.
I am going through this exact situation with my daughter , she went to the councilor and reported it. The superintendent , police are now involved. What is happening is not ok…
Like everyone else says, GO TO THE POLICE! The school will not do anything until they are forced to! Its supposed to be reported to the school first, then the police. It needs to be reported. The school will just try to sweep it under the rug. They all do.
They see nothing wrong…the school sounds like they dont want to make waves with the teacher, something further has to be done…not sure what because it would be a he said she said…maybe school board could get involved…good luck, i hope your daughter gets any help she needs, weather its from the school or health wise…
Look into an attorney. If employees can sue for unsafe work environment, and sexual harassment, why couldn’t a student? Also the media is a great place.
Inappropriate comments and touching is sexual harassment. Grabbing the other girls hand and putting it near his crotch is molestation/abuse. He needs to be in jail. Guarantee they aren’t the only ones.
Like everybody else said. Call the freaking cops. show up at school in that mans class with the damn cops. He choose to put his job and career on the line so dont feel bad. But put his ass on notice. Because next year when your daughter is gone (and still tryin to process this) there will be a new girl. And she may not be so aware as your daughter until it’s too late. Also take your daughter to a PTA meeting and report your concerns to them over this teacher. Please, please, please scream it from every mountain top. You dont want to find out later you could have done more but didnt know if it was the right thing to speak up. And dont feel bad or think about the consequences for him because he already choose them when he decided to step over that line. And see if you can report him as your neighborhood peeping Tom too.
Subtle grooming attempts are never ok. There are HUGE red flags here. I would take a civil rights attorney in with you and simply say my daughter doesn’t feel safe with Mr X - what are YOU going to do about it? If what you have told them is not enough then ask for a full investigation and file a formal complaint for misconduct. Usually the truth is much bigger in the end. These are only the glimpses she has felt safe enough to tell so far. Often they let out a little at a time and see how information is received before they feel safe enough to talk about it. Individual therapy as soon as you can. Good luck.
Media, police, and get a restraining order. He should have lost his job for being verbally inappropriate. It’s bs that the school is just brushing it off.
Make sure he is in the hospital during that time! I would have had him unable to walk ever if he touched my child inappropriately. I mean he could take a trip to the wilderness up north…
This is so extreme. I couldn’t even read in entirety. I definitely agree to go to the police. But I would also really consider doing additional things like making it publicly known, and having others contact the administrators and authorities as well. Her aligning herself with his other victims, posts on local school district groups and forums asking of other victims would like to come forward. Feel free to let me know school and teacher name as well as superintendent for your district , and I will call and write to let it be known that people are watching them… this is absolute insanity.
Filing that police report is a piece of paper but that dam iron skillet is a sure thing
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My high school science teacher is behind bars for that exact same reason. I hope you documented everything. I would take it higher up honestly.
Video if you can when he’s touching the other grile and tell the police and see if the can help with this children are at danger with this man before it gets to bad don’t wait do it now hes bad news good luck to you c
Why is this on Facebook versus a police report?
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That teacher should have been fired and removed from the premises, banned from the events, like a sexual offender. Because that’s what he is.
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I would report him for harassment and tell the principal I want her pulled from his class. Also I would want a meeting with him and the principal. I would want to confront him head on
First off this is beyond scary… but it was also allowed to linger on too long. And he lives next door… yeah I would have been tapping on his door with a baseball bat…
In the meantime, after you file reports on him, Both parents stay near the daughter at the graduation, make sure he can’t get anywhere near her.
My daughters 2nd grade teacher was just accused and arrested if molesting 4 different girls. The first time my husband met him, he came home saying, ‘there’s something about that guy, I don’t like him’ my daughter always felt uncomfortable around him. He would call her a different name and the kids would make fun of her. It’s a form of grooming the kids. It’s disgusting and it’s abuse. I’m glad they found out before anything happened! Report it and do it now!
Take it to the Media. Rattle their cage and watch them do a 360 don’t just let this go. I can guarantee you that she’s not the only one not will she be the last. Unless he’s stopped dead in his tracks.
I agree…take your complaint to a higher authority superintendent, school board, city counsel, file a police report, and encourage other parents to do the same if their Dghtr experienced the same thing! It’s never NEVER too much to make authorities aware of the abuse!
I would get the police involved you don’t know if he has done this to other girls let them investigate the matter,
Just go to the damn graduation and leave the teacher alone. She probably got a bad grade and now is trying to ruin him and his family.
Is this not assault on a minor?! & this guy is also your neighbour? Go to the Gardai make a report ask for restraining order & make a complaint against the school…
Your poor daughter, sexual harassment should not be ignored or tolerated. We would call our lawyer & ask his opinion on how to proceed.
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Sounds very creepy. Needs to report to a higher up. Principal, police etc.
Call the cops. Find a school advocacy center near you. Attend the next school board meeting and make it aware there of your concerns about inappropriate behaviour and sexual harassment. If that doesnt get their attention, go to a local news station
Why hasn’t a police report been filed?? That should have been the first thing done! Screw the school! He should be reported to the police and child protection. Period!
his behavior is illegal and it’s time to show up at the school with a lawyer, police behind you.
I’m so sorry this is happening!
File a police report, go to the school board, go above the school board all the way to the top of the totem pole if you have to. That teacher does not need to be around children. Period. If he is doing that to her, how many other students have had to deal with this kind, or worse, of harassment that have not spoken up? If no one does anything, post it on social media. Go to the news. You have a right to a full investigation. Make this school known if they won’t do anything about it.
Put his name out. If nothing is done he will find another victim. He has to be registered as sex offender and everyone n the neighborhood would know what he does and who he is and that children should stay away from him. I don’t know if you are able to move but that would I be my first instinct. He is overly comfortable doing this and will continue to do this if someone doesn’t stop him. I also understand that it is not easy for you and your daughter. I know I would probably be in that class beating his ass. I know you probably had millions ways of how to handle it but start somewhere. Don’t be afraid. Also don’t worry about him losing his job. If this is how he chooses to teach he needs his teaching license taken away bc god forbid he is transferred and starts all over again. Just don’t overthink or worry about what other people would say. I’m telling you as a mother I feel you will find more supporting your community once you speak.
File a grievance at the school, file a police report, get a protective order against the teacher. Also file a report with the state teaching licensing board. Contact the state’s attorney general’s office.
Go to the superintendent. Bring a written complaint listing all facts and dates as well as direct quotes from the teacher and principal.
I would file for order of protection so he can’t come near here n hopefully it would keep him from graduation
Call the police, report him to the school board. If the school doesn’t want to do anything about it, report the school to the district. That man shouldn’t be around children AT ALL.
Side note: I have a son with Tourette’s if you ever just need to chat.
Police. Now. And get a lawyer. Sadly that’s what the district will listen to.
Check your school district and speak to a lawyer. There is a law called Title 5 (I believe) you have the right to sue a school for failure to provide a safe educational environment. Generally the schools want to stay away from this because (1) it’s extremely expensive for them (2) negative publicly for the district. Look into it and threaten with that…see what happens
Check with 5be other parents in tbe class and see if anyone else will complain. Makea restraining order not only against him but from tbe school
If the school isn’t taking you seriously go to the police.
I don’t understand why you have to compromised with that man,you and your daughter are the aggrieved party,they shouldn’t make the demands! He should get fired and jailed
File a police report and go public/ media and don’t waste any more time . Don’t give the pervert a chance to bother another student.
From what I’ve read it is time, really pass time to get the law involved.
File a sexual harassment charge, peeping tom charges, go to ALL of your local newspaper and TV stations.
Once he is charged the school district HAS to either fire him or put him on administrative leave until a investigation is done or he has been proven innocent which from what I’m reading he’s not innocent at all.
I’ve got a 16 year old daughter myself and if she told me just half of what this teacher has done hell wouldn’t be safe for this S.O.B and everyone in the state of NC would know about it
simply because I wouldn’t shut up until this guy was put away.
If we as parents don’t stand up for our kids in my opinion we are sending out the wrong message to our children we NEED to make damn sure they KNOW that no matter what we are there for them.
Well I wouldn’t be asking people…id be trying to come up with bail money to get my man outa jail for beating said teacher bout to death…
Why haven’t you filled a police report?
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Police, victims services, etc
Any accusations as such should have seen him pulled from duty and investigated.
Why is she online asking for advice? Report him immediately. It’s close enough to the end of the year that they can complain without any (unfortunate) backlash.
Why haven’t the police been contacted? Why no restraining order? Why no legal action against the school? Why haven’t you moved? I get that graduation is important, but it’s nothing when your daughters well-being is at risk
Since teachers and coaches are in the role of “caretaker” you can also make a child protective services report. The standard of evidence is not reasonable doubt but a proponderance of evidence and it is a comprehensive assessment. Call tomorrow and make a report of suspicion of sexual abuse and give the grooming behaviors and indicators that there is more that you simply don’t know about yet. Poor kid
This has moved into a police matter that is harassment and for multiple students
Once you get the media or police involved the school will do something. It doesn’t want the negative coverage so it will do something.
Btw, my husband has studied law. His adoptive sister is a lawyer. They both have stated you DO have a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Why aren’t you reporting this, instead of asking people on fb. You know what’s up, and how you feel in your heart.
Get a lawyer and go to the school board. And absolutely get a restraining order on him and an official police record of all of this.
Tell the school you will file a sexual harassment case with the police dept. if he won’t decline going to graduation.
Go to the police department. This is not to hard to figure out. What IS hard to figure out… IS WHY ARE YOU WAITING SO LONG TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT??
WOW…
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File a police report for sexual harassment, and once the police get called in every one wants to cooperate cuz they want that to go away
I would file a harassment charge and take it to the school board
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Press charges. Go to the school board. This guy is dangerous. Think about a restraining order.
First, why hasn’t dad kicked the guys ass? Second, can I have his address so I can?
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What the heck? How is this guy still teaching?! Can’t understand why he hasn’t been fired for his pervy ways already-
Not quite sure why you are taking the time to post this for direction. Step it up and get moving, this is your child.
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Why are the police not involved???
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Go to the police ASAP.
Go to the local news media tell them the school district is well aware of a teacher sexually harassing a student.
POLICE REPORT. It’s not his first time conducting himself this way or his last if he’s not stopped.
Why have you not gone to the police to report this abuse? Please do it ASAP.
I’d call the police and ask around there’s probably other students this guy should not be teaching
Go to the police station explain to them what is going on. What he’s doing is sexual harassment. If the school isn’t going to do anything about it take it higher then them.
Wow you are so clueless when she first brought this up why were you not on the phone to the police to your lawyer And haul this guy up on charges bring the media into this Look at what happen cause no one did anything with that hockey coach This guy is trouble and if you dont do any thing you think it wont turn into something more serious to some one else
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Can you get a restraining order against him?
Why the hell weren’t the police called???
Should’ve handled that when the first incident happened
Walk up to the teacher and stand there beside him and when asked why are you standing by him say I’m watching him to keep my daughter safe and to try and reframe from going to prison because if he so much as looks her way this her skillet that i would be holding is going up side of his HEAD!!! Look her way and find out 
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