He can get up. The baby can wait the few extra seconds. You gave birth either 1 or 2 ways. All he’s doing is sitting on the couch being a baby. Did Hubby have an accident where he can’t walk, a leg amputated? Arm missing, major stroke? If not, he can always go get the baby, soothe the child, while you get the stuff.
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Who the hell is he that he can’t go get the baby?
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What’s wrong with his two feet and heart beat. Bye Felicia 
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I would tell him well if I’m not going fast enough, get your ass up and do it otherwise stfu 
My mom always said, `than do it yourself! You are a fine mother and your baby will survive just fine even if she cries a minute or two.
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Tell him he’s just as responsible for caring for the baby as you are and if he wants her picked up faster to get off his ass and get it done.
What is wrong with him, can’t he get up, ask him
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What the fuck is wrong with him? Tell him to go fuck himself mama you’re doing great.
Tell him when he can squeeze a human out of his body, he can talk. In the meantime, throw his ass out!
Tell him to get off his ass and tend to baby. Its exhausting as a new mother.
Ummmm, he can get up too! You’re doing great Momma!
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How bout HE tend to the baby if he can get there first… or bring baby to you.
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Run away now. This is a serious red flag. 
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Tell his bitch ass to do it then. What a dick. I’d reconsider the wedding
If he doesn’t like it tell him to jump on it. How can you get mad at someone for not doing something fast enough if you’re not even helping. Girl bye. 
Why isn’t he getting the baby?
He’s got two feet & a heartbeat. Perhaps he could move faster than you? 
this would literally just make me take even longer just to piss him off until he decides to get off his lazy behind and help instead of complaining.
Childbirth hurts. Babmare learning to be outside the womb. Your baby’s only language is to squeak and cry.
You and your nanny are all learning.
Avoid a lifelong stress by attending your baby in ‘good time’. And ‘good time’ is not, I said not, leaping at the first squawk.
You need rest too. And it is your partner’s baby too. He could indeed help a bit.
When we had brought our baby home,my fiance was so scared of something happening to her that he would get her when she cried before I could. I had enough and asked him why ,he said he’s scared of SIDS. Everyone is right you need to heal . Tell him he could go to her if he thinks that
He is socially retarded not fit to be a father or a friend. He has little to offer . You have to be the strong one. Always. Anxiety for him is the cry of the. Baby. Encourage him to help with all efforts for. Baby. If he won’t well your have to tread lightly till he snapps out of what he has no clues about
Can’t he do something? Are his legs or arms broken?
Tell him if he wants it done in a certain timeframe, he can do it/help!
Edit:
You just had a BABY. He can help! You’re going to be a bit slow moving, regardless of delivery method!
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Tell him get up or shut up
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He can help! it is rough having a baby and you’re still healing! tell him to either help or shove it!
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Tell him to get up and do it himself or stfu! The baby has two parents. If you’re the only one doing anything then you can do as you please.
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Tell him to get.his fuckin ass up…u just push a baby out of ur vagina!! And honey from experience if he doesnt learn to help or get involved…leaveeee…
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What is he doing to help? You can’t do it all. You have just given birth. Your body needs time to heal. Your emotions are going to be all over the place. He needs to step up and help and be more supportive of you.
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Tell him to get his ass up & do it himself
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I’d tell him to get Bent That’s ridiculous. He is just as capable of helping. Ugh!!!
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Tell him to pick her up! He’s part of this equation too 
if he has enough time to complain about you not being “fast enough” he has enough time to walk over and pick up his daughter. At 2 weeks pp you should not be tending the baby singlehandedly while he is home. You have to heal too!
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What Melissa Hudgins said 
My question is if he doesn’t think you’re moving fast enough why doesn’t he get up and help?!
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What’s wrong with him to where he can’t get her? Is his arms and legs broke?
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I mean… if he’s got time to judge or complain then he has time to help
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Tell him to get off his @$$ and get her himself, otherwise tell him to shut it and you will get to her as soon as possible because you did give birth 12 days ago…
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Get rid of the fiancé. Easy peasy.
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Are his arms broken?
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Then he can do it. Do not allow him to make u feel bad! It’s good for babies to cry a bit
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Get out now he has no respect for you or your baby. If he did he would be jumping up everytime your baby needed something. His a selfish arsehole
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Tell him to grow up and help if you have told him how this makes you feel and he hasn’t tryed or doesn’t help .
Get out now before he puts you in a dangerous position and high risk of postnatal depression which will put you and baby at risk .
Your a new mum your only priority is you and your baby .
You dont need someone acting like another child when your learning to raise one yourself
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Congratulations! he needs to get up and bring her to you, and get you a glass of water. And a snack. And a foot rub. And anything else you might need.
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You are still healing after major major trauma to your body. He needs to help too you just went through 9 months of growing and carrying a baby and however many hours of labor. The least he could do is bring baby to you for feeding or mix a bottle or whatever the case is. Change baby and hold baby so you can sleep and rest and he should get up in the nights too even if you are breastfeeding he could get baby up for you. He had his fun Inside of you so he’s equally responsible.
Its his baby too. If he has time to get mad at you he has time to take care of the baby too.
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Get mad at him for not getting her fast enough!!
Or throw the whole man away.
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Tell him he’s got fucking legs and arms and helped make the fucking child so either shut the fuck up or do him damn self 
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If he’s like this on day 12, I can’t imagine what he’ll be like on day 15,768. You need to stand up for yourself now because it will get worse. That’s a fact. Good luck!
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He’s perfectly capable of helping, you’re still healing.
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He can get to her too. Tf?
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You need to have a man he trusts sit him down and tell him about his ass. You just had a baby. Your body needs less stress, more rest. You need his support.
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Tell him if he can do it any faster to get off his ass and do it. You had the baby. He helped you make the baby, tell him to do his part. Let you rest and make him take care of the baby!!
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Who does this shit… smh men who don’t care for you that’s who it’s so sad
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Well if he’s so god damn fast why doesn’t he tend to his child?
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Tell him if he can get there faster he is more than welcome to
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Tell him to get off his butt and help take care of the baby
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Tell him it’s his damn baby too so he should suck it up and help! Or throw his ass out!
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How angry is he getting is the question?
I’d be questioning leaving the baby with him alone if he’s really frustrated.
It’s not acceptable either way.
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I hope you have a mom or friend who can come over and help you with your baby if your partner refuses. I would also tell his mom how he’s treating you.
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The him to shut up or do it himself! He could help too instead of bitching at you!
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Csn HE get there faster???🤷🤷🤷 I’ve had 3 and pregnant again… My man can get to our babies first and faster he does… It’s hard af it’s ur first… Make it ur LAST with his ass… Lame ass man… My opinion tho
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Are his legs painted on? If he’s so worried you don’t get there fast enough maybe he should tend to her if you don’t get there fast enough 
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His arms and legs broken? 
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Maybe he should move his ass and help sounds like a douche bag
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Have a talk with him and explain how it makes you feel and ask if he could help you while your healing. Reacting back with harsh comments might not help the situation. Has he gone to the doctor follow up visit with you? Have the doctor help to explain that mom and dad are equally responsible for caring for the new baby, and how you might heal quicker with help.
My advice would land you in jail… listen to these other ladies though
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Look for a door, and walk out it, with your child!!
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LEAVE! If something like that makes him angry, then I’d be scared for him to even be around the baby.
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Tell him if he doesnt like you taking so long then to get tf up and do it himself!
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You’re still healing. Tell him to shove it! Tell him to step up and help out or step out! He’s the parent too. He’s just as responsible
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When he snaps tell him to feel free to jump his ass up and father his child. Or just to get out of your ass. My husband has done this and I say if I’m not doing it right feel free to step in DAD. He has learned to set up or shut up.
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What is he doing??? Why isn’t he getting the baby??? Men are sooooo useless I swear
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Tell him to get off his ass and do it or get the hell out!
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Soooo your to slow but he does not make it to the baby first seems like he is slower
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Tell his ass to get up and help! Wtf
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He can help too if your not moving fast enough my son is 1 I have neuropathy my husband will actually take our son overnight so I can get a night off
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Tell him that he helped make the baby and he can damn sure help take care of it. He sounds like a dick.
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JFC seriously?!? You birthed a child 12 days ago, tell HIS lazy ass to get the baby. What in the world!!???
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Does he not realize that you just pulled a tiny human out of your vagina literally 12 days ago so you need time to heal and reset and I’m almost positive you probably tore have some stitching or are having pain. On top of the amount of blood that you’re dripping out maybe you had a cesarean which makes it even harder because your muscles have to heal after major surgery whatever the reason or whatever the case there’s a reason why employers give you time off after you have a baby they give you a minimum of at least two months TO HEAL AND GET NORMAL AGAIN so dad needs to wake the fuck up and realize that he needs to help because you’re healing you literally just created a whole ass human
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Can you be clearer, are you leaving bub to cry and he’s upset about that or are you qakong and going to bub and “it’s not quick enough”
Is there a reason he’s not tending to bub rather then getting angry at you?
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Sounds like you’re afraid of him being angry and leaving if you stand up to him. I hope you have family that can help you out because that’s no way to live, specially if he isn’t compromising for whatever reason.
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Why is he not getting the baby if he feels she isn’t being helped fast enough? As if he isn’t just as capable of tending to her needs as you are. If he isn’t helping, just bitching, then he is the issue. Anyone can say stuff, but rarely can they DO it.
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I’d tell him to shut the fuck up. Babies cry and if you’re not getting to the baby fast enough to stop the crying that he apparently cant stand hearing, then maybe he should get off his ass and hop to it. He’s the one that seems to have the problem with it. He’s the parent too, not just you.
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If he doesn’t like how fast you do it tell him to do it himself. Or better yet, help you by getting the baby for you.
Ummm, then if he can do it better then by all means, ask him to show you how to do it for a few days and you will take notes… (Flippen dick head!! )
Your fine Sweetheart, keep doing what your doing. Mom on! You got this.
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Ask him, if there’s a piano tied to his ass
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Get slower and tell him he is to slow and tending to the baby
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Leave. He should be helping and not judging.
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Shove a watermelon up his ass. Tell him to birth it and move his ass faster to pick up the baby!!!
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You didn’t make her by yourself.
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Get angry at him for not getting to the baby first
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He needs to step up and help you it is his child to
Ew. Fuck that. What a complete asshole! Leave!
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Tell him to help too. I’d be livid if my man was getting mad at me for not tending to my child…ooo I’m in the bathroom I’m supposed to stop my business while you sit on your ass?? I dont think so!! I’d have a talk with him smh …
Questions you need to ask your partner are; is the baby safe when she is crying? Do babies cry? Will the baby be traumatised? Perhaps explain to him that babies do cry. This is what they do! You are not rejecting your child when she cries and in fact you are trying to either make sure you can get to her without giving off any bad vibes. You need to be calm with a baby. He needs to be calm or the baby will sense the stress. You only have one pair of hands. Ask him if he is free when she is crying and why is he not tending to her? If you let this continue you are making your life harder, you need to have your partner support you rather than making you feel inferior.
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How about he tend to the baby?Run!
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Tell his ass to tend to the baby!
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Last time i check it takes two to tango…
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Woo he sounds like a controlling jack ass. It’s not gonna hurt that baby to cry for a min, unless being let cry for long periods of time. If he is so worried about how fast you get to the baby then make ho him get to it. And you need to stop letting his narcissistic, controlling put downs get to you and realize that you’re doing a great job and it’s up to you how long you take to get to the baby… Btw crying helps to strengthen the lungs so a lil bit of it is actually good… Consult your pediatrician if you don’t believe me.
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He’s welcome to step in and help and quit acting like an asshat 
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Tell him to get off his ass and do it then. You gave birth less than 2 weeks ago so I imagine your still pretty sore and cant move as quickly as he’d like
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Watch out. If hearing the crying makes him get angry I would worry about SBS with him. If he can’t help soothe baby and portrays anger due to crying I’d be outta there. Just being honest.
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