You should be recovering…
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If he can do it faster he’s welcomed to step up and do it himself.
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Wtf does his lazy ass do for the baby? So sorry you’re going thru this.!
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He can get the baby 
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He helped make the child, he needs to get off his ass and help.
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Why can’t he give a hand?
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Why is it only on you to tend to the baby fast enough? You’re doing a good job, being a mom is tough but it’s the greatest. You’ll get into a routine! Hang in there.
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If he got time to get mad, he got time to be dad.
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So he thinks he can do better?
highly unlikely!
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Tell him instead of worrying about how fast you get to the baby he could be there just as fast
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He/she is not only YOUR kid. His too. He didn’t just give birth 12 days ago. He’s perfectly capable
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Throw him away and find a new fiancé. He should be helping you not getting angry. He made that baby too not just you.
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Maybe you should be reacting sooner.
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Tell him to get off his ass and get the baby then
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Uhmmmm I know for a fact that my vageeen was NOT healed in 12 days. He better watch who the hell hes talking to. Not fast enough ? Pffft
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Tell him if he feels youre not fast enough, he’s more then welcome to step up and do more, instead of expecting you to handle everything. There’s 2 parents.
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Tell him to get off his duff!
Tell him to go push a bowling ball out his vagina and see how fast he moves in 12 days to get to a crying baby. He has two hands and 2 feet. He helped create that miracle. He should be helping. You are recovering. If he cant help then he needs to shut his mouth :-/
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Uhm ew lol
Leave him
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Sounds like my ex fiancee who ended up being an abusive narcissist just didnt know until he attacked me over our child 
Umm id tell him to get off his ass and help
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Fuck him. Throw the whole fiancé away.
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He’s Dad. He can get off his ass and do his Dad Duties. Your baby is not your soul responsibility. Next time he does it, remind him of that. If he gets mad about that, kick his ass to the curb because that is not a man, it’s a man child.
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Um so what’s he doing? 
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Tell him to get off his lazy ass and help you then if he has a problem with it if not he can sit down and shut the hell up. Your a new mom and exhausted and need to heal it is very hard navigating at first and can require lots of help. My fiancé left for work 4 days after our child was born and she was colic but you bet your ass he helped me and didn’t say a single word on if it took me a few minutes because he new I was exhausted and recovering.
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He can step up lmao. My husband always helped mostly after we came home! He would let me sleep!
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Tell his ass to tend to the baby then and stop bitching
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What’s he doing that’s too important to tend to the baby?
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Tell him.to fuvk off …
Like honestly if he hif time to.be angry at you over the baby .then he got time to.deak.with the baby too .
Or just leave him
Dnt stay because off the child you leave for the sake off the child.
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Tell him to get off his butt and do something it’s not all on you momma
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Just leave before it gets worse trust me. Or you’ll be dealing with that and worse your whole life.
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Tell him to help out like wtf
Throw the whole man away 
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What’s wrong with him? Is he incapable of helping you? Punch him in the nads
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How about HE get off HIS ass, and tend to the baby sometimes? I swear, some of these men…wtf is their purpose? 
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I would tell him he can help then and explain that you just gave birth and are trying to heal as well. Keep your head up, you’ve got this!
Um tell him stfu & tend to her if he’s getting upset with you! I mean seriously!?!?!? My husband never wanted my youngest to cry. He used to say he’s gone through so much in a short time (he was a premie & had 2 surgeries in the first 6 months) he shouldn’t cry! I’m like dude, he’s fine, he will be ok if he cries for a few mins while I am getting what he needs!
Your doing your best! Don’t let him bring yu down it’s not good for you or the baby!!
You’re going through a range of emotions and the possibility of pnd, … baby won’t hurt if you take a few minutes getting to her. He’s the dad, why can’t he do anything ?? What an arse.
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Sounds like he needs to grow up. That’s so pathetic. He has a responsibility as a father and he needs to help you tend to the baby.
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Tell him to fuck off!! The baby will not die if you aren’t there the second she cries. He really needs to get over himself and his ideas of what you “should” be doing.
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I have to wonder if maybe this is a cry for help…maybe someone close to this person needs to step in before his anger goes any further. It is an unreasonable anger and that is never good. Please reach out if you need help.
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Smack him upside the head and tell him to act faster than you.
The baby will be fine.
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Sometimes, I miss the days when men went off to war and never came back.
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You’re still recovering, why is he not being “Dad”?!?! Tell him to step up or get out
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Throw the whole fiance out and get a new one 
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It’s just HARD. Let him bitch and you do you. If he’s not helping you can always point that out.
Why isnt he helping take care of the baby?! He gets upset over a baby! Just to be honest I wouldnt live that way! You aren’t the only one that made that baby! It’s both your responsibility!
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46 comments in 6 minutes 
I’m sure ALL these woman are saying the SAME thing too!
You’ve got this Momma! Good luck with your fiancé 
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He can attend the baby too eh
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Omg seriously, tell him to respond faster oh and also remind him that babies are meant to cry to develop their lungs and vocal cords
Should you even be engaged ?
After my first with 47 stitches
I can tell you that I was Not FAST!!
He can get off his ass
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not to be rude, but he doesn’t sound like a fiancé, he sounds like a fuck boy. you didn’t make the baby alone.
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Middle fingers up high girl cause your partner is just as capable. Walk over and hand him/her the baby and say here you go and walk away. My husband use to constantly bring me the baby when she would get upset till one day I made him deal with her cause I just couldn’t do it every time plus get ready on time. If you don’t put your foot down your gonna have a breakdown at some point.
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Tell him gap it what a dick for getting angry🤦♀️
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Girl…make that man help you or make his ass get out…
Tell him if he does not like the way you do things he is more then welcome to do it himself.
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Tell good ass to do it then
Tell his ass to go get her.
Tell him to get off his ass and get to the baby when he/ she is fussing if your not moving fast enough for his liking . Clearly he can do it better so let him flex his skills ! Or he can shut the fuck up ! Problem solved !
Fuck that I would tell him to get his ass up and help TF!
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You’re already taking care of one baby. Your fiancé shouldn’t be a second one. Sell the ring for diaper money and get you a real man who is proud to take care of his daughter.
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Tell him to get off his ass and do it . Instead of barking orders
Run!! You are human, you are sore, he has arms. Take your baby and go!!
Go off on his ass 
Im jk…tell him how you feel and see if you guys can rotate shifts. Make it a game. Like “Tag it’s your turn.” But don’t be hard on yourself love. Being a Mom, especially first time mom, is tough. You can make it though 
Tell him to get off his lazy ass and tend to his daughter and to STFU. If he’s not helping, go to counseling or get out now. You shouldn’t have to deal with that.
I would straight up tell him to shut the fuck up and help me instead of being an asshole. Some of these men nowadays are unbelievable. Don’t put up with it. Nip that shit in the bud now before it gets worse. It took two to make a baby and both should be caring for that baby. Teamwork.
I just read something about catching flies with honey, but you can catch a whole lot more with a corpse
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Tell him to fuck off or grow the fuck up and help. And if he wont choose you choose for him.
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Have him get off his arse to help. Like really…wants the glory of parenthood without doing the work???
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If he sees you’re struggling and could use help instead of criticizing you he should get off his ass and help you. You just gave birth 12 days ago don’t be so hard on yourself.
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He can get up and help bring her to you. I know from experience that this only gets worse. With my first. My Ex ended up staying home while i had to hire a babysitter while he was home and i worked to pay the bills because he still wouldn’t help. So the sooner you notice these things the better girl. You just birthed a child. He needs to be your support not an ASS.
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It’s his child too he can fucking help! If he doesnt like how you’re doing he can gladly do it himself and see!!!
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Idk if he is a good man he will listen to you explain how hard it is with your body healing and your emotions everywhere and a tiny beautiful overwhelming amazing new addition that youre adjusting to. Be patient with yourself and keep doing the best you can. I dont know him. But u hope he listens and cuts you some slack. If not you have to ask yourself if thats the relationship you want to teach your baby about. Imagine 20 years down the road and your daughter asks the same thing. Its not a simple answer but please continue looking after you and your baby.
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Tell him to get off his ass and get the baby! I know I wasn’t healed in 12 days and it takes 2 to make a baby! What a jerk
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Punch him in the wiener. You’re doing great. Hang in there!
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Smh sounds like he needs to help more, im not sure of your whole situation but I will say my husband who works over 40 hours a week and comes home dead tired still helps with our child because he knows it’s part of his duty of being a dad, I hope he helps you tho I just hope he’s not using the “ I’m so tired” excuse because these days who isn’t tired!? Best of luck momma you got this!
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He can help with the baby… Tell him to get up off his ass.
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It’s hard - I would ask him why he isn’t moving fast enough to tend to the baby? My husband got upset more with hearing the baby cry (it’s like he would get really flustered) and not at me, he felt that especially at that young the baby just wants me and my boobs. I would seriously though if he said what your fiancé is saying say he can get up and tend to the baby for a minute, babies cry sometimes it’s what they do.
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That’s tough especially with your hormones out of wack and being a first time mom no matter what just remember that your doing a good job and try to explain to him how your feeling
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Wow! Tell him to get off his ass
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Tell him if it makes him so angry to stop being a fuck boy man up and help to tend to the baby.
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Why doesn’t he fucking tend to the baby fast?
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Hmm…he sounds toxic, Momma. But you probably already know that. Good luck and stay safe. He won’t change
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If he thinks the baby needs to be tended to faster why is he not getting up to help?! It’s his kid too…smh
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Ohhh is it interrupting his sleep, play time, tv time?? 
no way!!
Tell him to grow up and parent too. His the dad hr should be doing just as much as you are! You deserve to be able to have a shower or watch an episode in tv by your self too.
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So what’s he doing to help?
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Did his hands stop working? Can he not tend to the baby? Maybe remind him that the baby is both of your responsibility…and you just carried he baby for 9 months and gave birth to the baby which is something he could never do.
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Not my fiance, but I was a nanny once and the dad told me that “we could not have” the baby crying while I warmed breast milk… so I handed him the baby and took the toddler out for the day. Oddly enough he never told me that again and was much less jerky moving forward.
Hand him the baby and go have a shower or a nap or a coffee. It is his baby too and he can get off is f’ing ass and help you out. Especially if he knows how to do it so much better.
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Tell him to go get the baby his damn self if u ain’t moving fast enough. Smh…
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he has a long ride ahead of him. Tell him to get off his ass and help you.
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Tell him to get off his arse and tend to baby himself…honestly I would throat punch him if that was my fiancé
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Um… smack him with a frying pan, tell him to go F himself… and make him take care of it too…wtf
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Tell his ASS to go tend to HIS child
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If he has you running In circles its to distract you from the fact that he will not help with the baby. Shut him down or lock him out.
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He can get off his ass and attend to baby as well if you cant. It takes two make a baby!! Lazyass
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You are doing great…if he has time to get after you he has time to get the baby…you are still healing and emotions are freaking crazy!! I’m sorry you are having to stress over this on top of it all…
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I was so exhausted after our firt born I remember my man waking me up telling me up sit up put two pillows behind my back and held our swaddled son to nurse while I slept. Don’t take any of the bullshit Mama’s, old fashioned or not a father can help !
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Is there a reason he cant do it?
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Find a new fiancé…kidding…kind of! My husband works 40 hours plus a week, is a full time college student and he gets up EVERY night with our 8 month old. He doesn’t do it because I’m too tired…I mean, we have 5 kids, I am tired…but he does it because he wants to spend time with him whenever he can. Tell your fiancé to get up off his ass and spend some time with HIS baby!!!
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