Plain and simple, just leave.
Know YOUR WORTH!! Value yourself.
Best wishes go with you. You will be okay.
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Life is better than that.
leave u will be better off no one needs to be treated like hes treating you
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Itās a red flag ā¦heās into that girl ā¦and hates being "bothered " when heās enjoying his virtual time with her .thatās why he gets upset
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You got that right girl!!!
Actually, you DO know what to do. Get out.
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Walk away and serve him with custody and child support papers.
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Does he ever work? I donāt know how anyone can stay on line night and day if they workā¦but he needs to take some responsibility now that he has a family.
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Thatās horrible. And overly playing video games I can relate toā¦ it really makes you feel like not a priority at all. You deserve so much better. So much better. Thatās totally cheating in my opinion, playing video games for hours with some girl. Did he admit to you he plays with her, or did you find out ? I hate how thereās an option to communicate with the opposite sex on certain video games.
Your little ones needs a happy momma and if there seeing how heās treat you then they going to think thatās how they treat you or a woman when they are older. And thatās not the way You want them to treat their other half. You are stronger then you think. And worth some much more in life and so do they.
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You had a kid with loser like that? Did he want another kid? Him being that immature, I highly doubt it . Get rid of him. You deserve better.
If heās playing games all day/night Iām gonna guess he doesnāt have a job. He whines n gets mad and has a crappy attitude when you ask him to do anything.
Heās not a 26 yro man
Heās a 16 yro boy.
A Queen deserves a King and your messing around with the court jester.
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You are livung with a kid. His mom did everything for him and he never had chores. Good luck raising him now.
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I think you do know what to do, you just donāt want to accept it. Just because you had a kid together and are engaged doesnāt mean you have to stay. If heās not interested in spending time with you or in participating in raising the child he created with you, frankly, both you and your son deserve better. Time for him to shape up or ship out. Stop torturing yourself by staying and allowing him to continue to treat you like garbage.
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you know what to do,not hard to figure out, there is no need to to but your personal problems of social media looking for sympathy
RUN! RUN FAST AND DONāT LOOK BACK! the fact that he gets mad when you ask about this other girl is a huge red flag. He is cheating or planning on it. If youāre really unhappy you need to go
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Do you really like being a doormat?
You and your son deserve better than thatā:heart:
itās not easy but once you leave youāll be much happierā¦ Your already doing it all by yourself nowā¦
Go be happy with your kid somewhere else and let him play his lil game 
Oh Look Itās a Bunch of Red Flags Sewn into the Shape of a Person
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Youāre gonna marry a man childā:woman_facepalming:t2:
Not to mention the dozen red flags with this āvideo game friendāā¦
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Pack up and leave or pack his stuff and put in yard and change locks on doors
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Hell naw girl walk away
What you have here is a child. Real men donāt play games all day and all night. And real men donāt ignore their responsibilities towards their partner and child. You canāt change him so you either have to put up with it or he has to leave
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Having to make this post and with how you already feel, I think that you already know the answer. You deserve better. <3
Leave it wonāt get any better just worse
Stop the internet!until things change then give restrictionsš¤·good luck
hun. he is having right now intenet affair. You need to get out get away before it continues on is only going to get worse!
Girl, RUNā¦. take the babies and GO!!! It wonāt get any better, just WORSE!!!
Iāve been through this exact same thing. You already know whatās going on with the girl. Theyāre always ājust friendsā. It doesnāt get better.
You know what you need to do. You just need the strength to do it
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Do you want your son to grow up like his father? Get out file for 100% custody with supervised visitations fees paid by the father until the baby is older file for child support. If you can manage without child support offer to let him give up all parental rights no visitations and no support.
Ditch the little boy and go find a man!!!
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Pack up and leave for a few days. Donāt tell him when you will be back. Tell him you are leaving to think and if he doesnāt realize what he has, then your done.
Leave better sooner than later. Isnāt going to change
Shoulda left before it began this much of a problem.
Does he have custody of his son or the mother of his other son what does she say honestly Iād leave Iād end it and move on if you can have a kid but canāt take care of your kids that is horrible
Pack up and leave. You donāt need negativity in your life, he should be willing to spend time with yall and treat you right 
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And this is the man you want to marry
One word to you.LEAVE.
Yeah run, run as fast as you can
Seek counseling.
If that donāt work leave
You know what you need to do, and I know you have the strength to do it. Run now before itās too late.
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Dump him and next time find a grown up to have a relationship with.
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Um hell no another female idts have you talked to him about it if to and he has done nothing even out respect for you than he has to go girl
Unless you want your kid to be shown that thatās how you treat your partner, leave and file for thw courts.
What you need to do is dump him and move on! Heās immature me obviously not ready for marriage or a relationship with youā¦ time to move on and stop wasting time with this fool.
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Girl pack his bag heās already made u less of a priority and u deserve better. Iād through his game box out the window. Lol. Pack his bags, big no no from me, xx
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Such an asshole thing to do! He canāt give you the time of day but, this other girl he does. Big red flag 
Leaveā¦too young to begin a relationship like that
First off why doesnāt he have a job? Sounds like an immature man to me. Time to say good bye. It wonāt change
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You already know the answer hunny
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Hes a child leave him
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ļæ¼ you cannot force somebody to treat you the way you want to be treated, the fact heās calling you awful names already that just means itās going to get worse as the years go by.
It is not your job as a woman to teach him what love is and how to treat a woman that was his momās job and clearly she didnāt do a good job at that. And just because you have a baby with him doesnāt mean you have to stay and be treated like crap by A man that has no clue how to love. ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼
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Hes checked out. You need to also. Your child and you deserve better
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Seriously? You actually need to solicit advice for this?
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Dump him! Youāll be happy!
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Yeah no tell him to move in with his on line girlfriend
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Heās abusive and heās abusing you. You need to leave. And heās definitely more than friends with this girl online.
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Guys these days are very immature and werenāt brought up to be men as soon as they leave home. They lack guidance from their parents and then all of their future relationships suffer. Most of them remain children well into adulthood until they hit rock bottom and find themselves alone, having to do everything by themselves. He needs a wake up call, and sometimes the best way to create that is to leave him temporarily so that he is on his own. If he misses you enough, heāll do what he can to get you back and come to the realization that you were so much more than he thought you were. Trust me. Iāve been through this.
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Leave him you deserve better.
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Get out now and leave
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Leave! There are much more important things to do with your life!
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Kick him to the curb!!!
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Leave. Pretty simple.
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Heās cheating on you. Your days are numbered with him.
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You definitely know what to do, you just donāt want to do it. Donāt waste your time, he is not going to change, he is abusive and abusers do not get any better. Leave. Save yourself time, effort, tears and money too.
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Doesnāt he work? If heās online all day and night with a girl? Heās checked out of the relationship it sounds like, and heās abusive. Iād leave now before it gets worse or you end up having more kids with him. Then it gets harder to leave.
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This is abusive. 
You do need to leave him. Which I KNOW is easier said than done.
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Firstā¦ hide the game console, games & controller. When he panics ( and he will ) tell him YOU are going to play tonight and HE can make dinner, clean and watch his kids. See if he likes that. Then have a sit down conversation and tell him, calmly, that you need help AND he needs to grow up !!!
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Wake up and leave!!!
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Can you say BYE BYE!!!
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FiancĆ©? You need to move fast before youāre actually stuck.
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Leave-run-donāt look back
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Kick his ass to the curbā¦ if he is playing video games with another female it probably doesnāt end there. He doesnāt help and respect you, but bet you a dollar he respects and talks nice to the other during video game playā¦
Leave with your dignity
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As someone who has this issue where my spouse plays games all day vs taking care of his son I can say from experience. Run. Take your son & leave. He wonāt change. Get full guardian ship over your child & leave
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Reread what you wrote like it came from someone elseā¦ What would you tell them?
I think you already know the choice you have to make. You kinda already said it yourself. And coming here asking others, you already know you deserve and want better! Relationships canāt be one sided girlfriend.
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Sounds like he likes her and Iām telling you from experience
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Can confirm from personal experience he is sending her nudes and divulging intimate details of your relationship to her. Heās gotta cut her offffff
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He clearly has no concept of priorities.
Iām sorry darlin, but it may be time for you to walk. That relationship sounds like it will get pretty toxic in the future and you and your son do not need that kind of negativity in your lives. You are both worth so much more than what he is willing to do! Take care and stay safe!
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You are raising another man child, leave him heās not going to change.
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Girl, you gotta get outta there 
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Coming from a man who does game a lot and I mean a lot. You need to leave him because even when I am gaming I still get up and help with kids or will make dinner on my nights off. The only time I donāt get up right away is if I am in a online match but right after i am i get up and helpYou shouldnāt have to put up with him being awful to you. Your son is going to see this and could lead to your son being the same way when they get older
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Sounds like he has more fun with her than you
He has already broken your heart. Heās a player. As bad as it hurts. he is not healthy for you. The video game isnāt the issue. Itās him. He is not loyal. Doubt she knows about you. Counseling helped me. Love is not a competition. You have every right to be upset. Heās defensive because he is wrongā¦ Keep it civil because of the baby. But get out please
Move on from the little boy you call baby daddy
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Run donāt walk away from this guy!
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Time to go, this aināt it. A real man steps up to the plate not out to do whatever he pleases.
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Why are you asking? Obviously you know the answer.
Iād be leaving his ass behindā¦ thatās not healthy for him to treat you like that.
If you need someone to tell you to leave that jerk here goes!! LEAVE !!! He will not change, his verbal abuse can turn to physical abuse, you and your child deserve much better!
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Tell him that āyour game may be important to you but you have kids now, our son should be your priority. Itās time to grow up and clearly, you have no problem hurting my feelings.ā
Hurting you is also hurting your kid. Walk away. Itās hard but you have to be wise if you want a better future. Donāt put up with his behavior if you want to be treated right. It only stop when you stop it. You have the power.
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Kick him outā¦ why on earth would anyone put up with thatā¦ he is a nasty vile cretin with no respectā¦ he doesnāt want to spend time with his sonsā¦ kick the deadwood outā¦ ur doing it by itself alreadyā¦ go find a grown up to be with 
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It sounds like a bad situation . I probably should get your own place and do not marry him . Heās not being faithful or fully into you
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Iām a gamer, be it with someone or without Iāll game all night just cos I love games, donāt mean anything, could the arguments be because heās just playing a game with a pal (who most likely lives in a different country) and only sees you being jealous? Of him and the computer or him and her, How longs it been going on for? Was he always a long stretch gamer? Is this new or has he always neglected the kids? There are too many questions needing answers to come to a sound decision as you think its neglect and have arguments over it and he could be seeing it as you only ever attacking him for chilling on his game, making him not want to be involved in family things incase thereās another argument. Gaming is an escape, what is he escaping from?
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Run Iāve been through this first he was verbal then when I finally caught him lying boom he tried to kill me
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