Leave.
If he’d calling you any names and isn’t helping with HIS KIDS!!! starting over is hard but it’s something you deserve
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I think you know what to do
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Leave. Find someone who adores you. Life’s too short to feel miserable and unwanted
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Leave. Coming from a girl who games and has a gamer boyfriend no just no. He’s doing more than just gaming if he’s playing all night and day with her. Him being mad at you when he does spend time with family is a red flag. He’s infatuated with her. I’ve seen many gamer girls purposely get into entanglements to ruin homes. Give him an ultimatum her or you and you will know exactly how he feels by that answer.
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Take his hint and get yourself gone
When does he work ??
But you need to leave and don’t look back .
He’s only going to get worse .
Leave leave
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Kick him out baby girl… it’ll only get worse from here. Be happy with your little boy and you will eventually find somebody who treats you the way you deserve. 
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It doesn’t matter if he says there’s nothing going on, he’s still prioritising this girl over his own family.
What matters most is what you and the kids need and how you feel, always trust that compass.
He’s a red flagged abuser and for him to deny you have any reason to be upset is a form of gaslighting. Ignore what he says and watch what he does, anyone who doesn’t respect you, DOESN’T respect you enough to stay loyal. You’ve had a baby not long ago and being treated this way is the opposite of how any good man would behave towards you. You and the kids deserve a strong, nurturing man and he’s not it!
Look at your options because it can be hard if you have little support but he will continue to selfishly erode your confidence if you let him. Just know that there are people who you haven’t met yet, much better than his waste of space. Never take him back, he’s a bad investment to grow old with and his parental neglect is abuse. I feel so badly for his other kid and hope someone protects this kid if you leave, it’s worrying.
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Instead of her having 3 children with 3 fathers for the sake of your child stay and say nithing WHILE BUSY WITH HER FRIENDS AND RELATIVES
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Just saying this is how my mom met my step dad while she was married to my dad soooo… I’d leave
Is this how you want to live? Also do you want your kids doing this n grow up knowing this is acceptable to treat woman like this?? Sure it hurts but your bettering your life n kids to…DITCH HIM!!
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Sounds like my ex and yeah they were not just friends… we are not together anymore
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Run & never look back
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He’s already fallen for the girl he is playing with. He won’t be your fiancé much longer because he will be trying to find a way to get to her. My husband and I met in an online game except we were both single. We played together all of the time.
He is already neglecting his kids and that shows he is not interested in you guys being a family any longer. It’s time to either make him go or you guys go. Your relationship is done.
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He hasn’t grown up yet.
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Look… u already know exactly what you should do. Time to stop thinking with the heart and turn to the head…u don’t need our advice…maybe some help with finding other accommodations perhaps…
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I think you already know the answer is that how you want to spend your life
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Why isn’t he with his first baby mama?
I see no problem with playing a game but u should not tolorate being disrespected and called names.
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He calls you names. Get him in the bin.
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It’s called leave you got 2 kids not 3 he’s an adult time to act like it
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Take your baby and leave
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As a gamer I have to apologize for this kids actions, making the rest of us look bad. Even without all of the rest of what you said…just the fact that he spends all of his time with someone else and gives you no time, thats cheating. You need to find a better person.
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Nevermind the other girl, if he’s playing video games all the time, you’re raising another child.
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Kick his A$$ to the curb. Theirs better guys out there. Sounds like your raising another child.
Leave that overgrown man child
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I met my husband online playing online games. I was that girl. My husband wasn’t in a relationship or anything but yea we played everyday until I moved 3000 miles away to be with him ect. Idgaf what anyone says there’s plenty of people playing these games, if it makes you uncomfortable he should stop. This situation is sus
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Ask yourself why you are still in this relationship??
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My husband and I met on an online game… He’s neglecting you and the kids. And he calls you names when you express your feelings? 
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Leave him, he is obviously hiding something with that girl, and the way he’s acting is complete bullshit. You and the kids don’t deserve that kind of treatment. He obviously doesn’t work if he lives on video games… he sound worthless 
either kick him out or you leave.
He won’t change anytime soon if ever. You need to leave because he needs to grow up. If you stay your allowing him to be lazy and disrespectful to you. Any guy can be Dad but takes work to be a Father! If he’s not helping you or taking care of the boy. Looks like he never will help you. Please don’t stay in that type of relationship.
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I think you know the answer.
Wishing you the best. You can do it 
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You really have to ask ???
Run and don’t look back
Leave… that’s it, save yourself a lot of heartache and headache…… there’s so many things here that are unacceptable. His behavior towards his family… lack of support in parenting… priorities are gaming (nothing wrong with a hobby as long as your priorities are straight)…. Continuing to interact with a woman that you specifically said bothered you…. Nope nope nope
Pack his crap up and sit it by the door!
Take the kids and leave. I read another post about one gal sold the game station and her guy was pissed and threatened to kick her out if she didn’t get it back. So in my books hes made up his mind and it looks like you and the kids dont matter. I would pack up and leave. Like when he goes to work or something pack everything you need for yourself and the kids and when you need to run to the store or something leave and never go back. Hell he probably wouldn’t even notice that you left.
Run,don’t walk this guy will never grow up!
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Just leave him. Trust me when i say, life’s too short. You know he’s no good. People rarely change.
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Leave the man child… you’re already doing it alone it sounds like. If he wanted to spend time with you and his family he would.
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So is it that he’s playing all night or that its a female. Men are allowed to have female friends and vice versa. I guess for me it all depends on how you address it. Do you try and calmly rationalize or come in full force snappy and accusatory?
Time to find an adult for a boyfriend
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Hey lady run. My last relationship she laid in the bed and facebooked other men .texted them. I go sick of that. Run save your life
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People like this don’t change leave while you can people like him only know how to destroy it’s not immaturity he is a narcissist and it won’t change
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I was like that … well my husband was then when I voiced to him I let him bitch and gron then told him it’s me or the game last I check u married me and not the game. He still bitched and now it’s more like hey game time is up time for family time and he gets off and spends time with family
He must not work… Doesn’t help out. Make him leave
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Get on his game and block her if you can and then leave with your kids and don’t come home
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LEAVE!!! LMAO… ain’t gonna change for you. He’s already in love with this gaming woman unfortunately
Leave. Nothing wrong With playing games at all but. Disrespect and not. Caring about and taking care of your family is wrong… stand up for your boys. Let the person he met online deal with him
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Why do you stay with him?? Does he work? It sounds like you have 3 children - take the two little ones and file for child support - -. He sounds like a loser.
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That sounds like a boy not a man.
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He’s no good for u my hubby’s a game but when I ask him to do something he will stop playing games and help.
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Don’t let him suck the life out of you
You need to get away. He is not going to change.
You need to go. No letting him cry and beg you for more time just go that’s horrible
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Calling you names? That’s straight up emotional abuse. He can’t be doing that around your kids. You need to leave before he tries to break you down.
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Playing games all night is only part of the problem. Sounds like he’s verbally and emotionally abusive too as well as selfish. You need to run and not look back.
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Not to project but I was in the same situation and now they are living together with their 3 kids and have absolutely nothing to do with our daughter 
trust your gut and start making an exit plan
Eta. It also became extremely abusive, “name calling” was just the tip of the iceberg. He legit put his hands on me over a disagreement about her and I had to seek medical treatment
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Put yourself 1st. Leave
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I was in prison when my then wife had continued doing this (after the similar situation listed above) beat her ass in the visiting room and lost my good time. Oh and I went to prison for FALLING ASLEEP AT THE WHEEL AND DYING. So since they brought me back to life they charged me with harming myself. So I was already upset and vulnerable. She just pressed go.
Have you maybe asked if you could also play with him? Both women and men will, when having relationship issues, find someone else that does not give them the headaches but that they kbow is just meaningless. Not all, most, I’ve done it with my ex, checked out before I actually left. Have you tried talking to him without sounding like you are accusing?
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Nope. If he’s that addicted to playing with her it’s not just friends. Sorry. File for child support asap and get the heck out of there. It won’t change. I know from personal experience from a friend.
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Its time for u to kick him to the curb.
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Sweetheart it’s time you move on with your life . You deserve more than your getting and so does your son. You can do it.
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If you don’t get away from him now.somethings gonna bad happen…your gonna get so tired of that other person in and out of that relationship your gonna finally flip out…trust me I know…listen if he truly loved u. He would be playing games with u instead of her…my last relationship was sick…she would lay in bed messaging other men…facebooking other men…I caught her cheating so many times…I don’t miss her at all.and I promise u the first few months may be a bit rough but when u least expect it the right one. God chose will come along and you will be like my god what was I thinking…run girl run. I promise she done u a favor. Run
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Please take this advice and leave. He doesn’t care about you or the babies… save as much money as you can, quietly get out of the lease and leave. Once the verbal abuse starts, the physical isn’t too far behind.
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Leave his sorry gaming lazy lowdown POS butt and go find you a real man.
Leave now, it is only going to get worse.
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Shine on like a diamond never give him control over your happiness .if he loved you he would not treat you this way tell him to kick rocks your better than that situation.
Let his ass go care for yours and his meanwhile he’s got another
Do not marry him. This sounds really shady. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. Get out now while you still can. It only gets worse after you get married
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Family comes first. What your child sees is what they’ll learn from.
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I don’t think him playing with the girl is necessarily the problem. My husband did that before and even helped her through some issues she was having. Him playing the game avoiding responsibility is another thing. I would maybe offer to try and play with him or even watch him play. My husband really responded well to this when we had this issue in the past. He loved me taking an interest in what he was playing. I know it is hard with a baby, but it is worth the effort. He may just be overwhelmed especially if he has a hard job. If this doesn’t work maybe couples counseling?
What you allow will continue. I’d say he needs to find out how not having you all around feels.
Watch out !! My granddaughters husband,
Was stationed in AZ, found a couple to play his on line games with. 11/2 yrs later. He is living with that " Couple ". RED FLAG…
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It’ll only get worse. Just leave now. Divorce is stupid complicated
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Lies there( just friends ) home wrecker on line … been there done that girl move out and move on
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Leave girl. Find a man who deserves you and that you don’t have to ask to do things. A real man takes care of his kids and his partner. You deserve better and I hope you find it.
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Don’t marry him. Try and talk to him about his behavior, explain that you don’t want to get married in this environment and maybe he’ll wake up and grow up. Playing video games isn’t the problem, ignoring his family and responsibilities is the problem
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My husband and I used to be try hard casual gamers on cod lol we met, fell in love and 6+ years later we’re married with 2 kids. Let me tell you that it’s not just a game and she is not just a friend. They’re both completely zoned out in each other’s company and getting a thrill out of whatever online game they’re playing. I’m willing to bet it’s an emotional affair. Personally I would leave.
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Get rid of him or leave urself
I know men like their video games, my husband does too. But he shouldn’t stay on his game all day. I don’t know why he is curl to you he needs to grow up. My husband likes his games but he doesn’t let it get in the way of our relationship and he definitely isn’t rude when I tell him to get off. He does moan though when he has to change a kids butt but I don’t tell him to change anyone’s butt, he just does it. I’m sorry your husband is choosing videos games over you, he shouldn’t ignore his family. And yes I would be pissed if my husband spent all his time on a video game with another girl because that’s my spot I’m his video game girl. You know what you should do.
Get naked and put a robe on, walk in front of him and drop that Robe, no man will choose a video game over a naked woman he loves.
Get out don’t let this go on! Hugs you are worth so much more than this!
Gaming is an addiction just like every other addiction. Can you live with it or not? Can you get him into counseling to work on having a balanced life?
You already know he won’t willingly help with his children. If you can’t live with this and if he won’t get counseling, it is time for you to leave.
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Dump him. You deserve better
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So why do you want him around?
Mine did that and he was having an ea with her. Run away as fast as you can
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Few different issues with that. Firstly having friends on line isn’t an issue but building a relationship online with the opposite sex spending hours at a time hanging out with them is an issue especially if you’re not present in your real life relationships. Secondly if he calls you names he doesn’t respect you and if he’s not respecting you the door is always open for new lines to be crossed. If I were you I would call off the wedding. I would let him to whatever he wants and start making moves to leave that relationship without very much communication. If he wasn’t calling you names I’d say give him and ultimatum but since he’s being a jerk to you I’d just pack my shit and leave without saying a word.
Why would you want to spend time with someone like that? Not judging, just asking… I did the same thing for a time until I figured it out. Time to love yourself!
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You say day and night. Does he even work? I think you better leave and make a new life for yourself and the baby.
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You got a boy you need a man
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You n kids deserve better👍
Sounds like counseling is needed or a split . I’m sorry ! No one deserves that treatment .
Up all night online 
I put up with this exact same crap for 13 years!! I finally said enough was enough and left him. He met another girl and got married…and treats her EXACTLY the same way. Gamers always choose virtual family over real, because it’s hassle free. Don’t live your life on the sidelines… find a man not a boy. Or better yet stay single for a while and enjoy your little family with no worries of something as ridiculous as a lazy man child!!! If he didn’t stop when you told him how you felt, he never will. I guarantee he tells his online friend he’s a single dad with a evil ex or soon to be ex. I wish you nothing but happiness, you will not find it with him I’m afraid.
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Sounds like he is not marriage material. I would leave and move on unless this is the life you want for the next 40-50 years.
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Leave or throw him out.
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You deserve better than that
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I am a gamer and have a lot of male friends online that I play with. It all depends if you trust him or not. I’m married, all my online friendships are strictly platonic. I’d ask to talk to her on the mic privately and see what’s going on. If he declines or if she doesn’t want to talk, then you definitely have a reason to not trust him. I know a lot of other girls who game that are single, taken or married as well and I never would assume they would be flirting with any of the teammates just because their the opposite sex. Trust is what it comes down to.