My fiance thinks baby gift cards are for him to spend on himself: Advice?

Strange and selfish on his behalf are the only words that come to mind :woman_shrugging:t5:

Sounds like he’s going to be a great dad :roll_eyes:

Sorry dear…he is selfish.

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You’re having a baby with this “Man-Child”‽‽

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Has an ex for a reason

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What a total douche bag!! Get yourself someone better!!

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Ima just say this, theres a reason his last marriage didnt work out. Run.

I think it’s time to find a real man !!

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This does not sound like a partnership.

Some people in the comments need to humble yourselves smh.

Sounds like a deadbeat.

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This is just the tip of the iceberg.

Selfish. And it won’t change.

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You need a new fiancé!

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He is totally wrong!

Lose him. You obviously have got this on your own!

Run while you can or you will spend half your life “trying to understand him or fix him!” So sorry!

If you were my daughter, I’d tell you you’ve saddled yourself with a selfish, self-centred loser. I’d tell you that if you married him, you would put yourself, your baby and probably more children, on a fast track to nowhere. I’d tell you that any ‘man’ who cared more about benefiting himself than providing for his child is devoid of a moral compass. I’d tell you that this is the last person you should partner with to build the foundation of the rest of your life, because he builds himself at the expense of his child and partner. I’d tell you take him back to where you found him and leave him there.

Please do not get married to this man

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Your fiancé… get out now while you can… RUN

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3 are for the BABY. Restaurants are for you and him :unamused:

Run away as fast as you can

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Sounds like you need a new fiancé

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Divorce him! Quick quick quick!!

DONT marry this guy.

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Bad choice for the baby daddy. Run away

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So when are you getting rid of him ?

Think it may be time for a new fiancé :rofl:

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What a jerk. You’re having a baby with him??? Run

RUN… And never look back. :pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray:

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Yea I would not be with him

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Sounds like a total prince

Get you your OWN bank account an start saving NOW! Your gonna need it

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No offense but you have a total f_(k boy for a baby daddy…

Oh hellllllll nooooooo!!!:face_with_symbols_over_mouth: His ass would find his bags packed and on the front lawn when he got home!!! No way in hell those cards were intended for only him or his kids from a previous marriage… they were intended to be used on things needed for the new baby and the food cards for both of you as a couple for after the baby comes when you’re tired and don’t have a routine, so cooking a meal isn’t in your plans!!! The fact that he’s that selfish now tells me you need to rethink your relationship and do what’s right for your baby because it sounds like his priorities are him and his other kids!!!

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I have one word BYE !!!

Tell that selfish prick your gonna call his boss and ask him what he thinks about what he’s doing!! MEN SUCK😡

Find a different man!

Sad that you are having a child with this creep.

Selfish if you tell me tbh.

DON’T…MARRY…HIM!!! Get out while the gettins’ good.

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Why are you with him. Good luck. Very selfish man.

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DO NOT marry this person…

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Everything should be Split in half that’s equal

Sounds a little selfish to me.

You need to dump his ass. Before he dumps you. He is a selfish moron

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Don’t marry this selfish sob.

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Hopefully he grows up before baby does

He is very selfish, lots of problems ahead.

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Tell him he may have one.

Those cards are to be used for the baby.

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Selfish sod. Get them off him and spend on baby.

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Don’t marry this guy :slightly_frowning_face:

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Running away sounds a great idea

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I’d find me another man, that one sounds petty

it’s to buy stuff for the baby, not him

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Tell him to feck off

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I think you need to join the ex-wives club…

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Haha yeah he’s cheating on you, definitely

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I think you didn’t do enough thinking before you said I do

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They should go to the baby

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Dear God what a scumbag. I feel so bad she is having a baby with him.

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He’s a self-centered a-hole!

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Take this as a sign of your future with this dude.

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Sorry but Leave this Sorry state.

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Wow that’s alot and he sounds very selfish!!

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Huge red flag to what to expect in a future with him. Don’t say no one warned you🤷🏽‍♀️

He sounds gross af. Run.

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Good god…grow up before reproducing…God help this baby!!

Run now and don’t look back!

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the true colours are showing

What an insipid tool.

You need to drop that “boy”! Eewww.

On tonight’s episode of “When children having children goes wrong”

Sounds like a selfish douche.

Men are usually big babies. Maybe that’s why?

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he sounds like an asshole and huge loser. run and fast!

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Toxic af… run girl, run fastttttt

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You need to leave this man now Clifford the big Red Flag :triangular_flag_on_post:

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Do yourself and your baby a favor and don’t marry that selfish man!

Good luck im your marriage. You’ve got yourself a real gem…

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That you would have kids with this selfish person is shocking. Why would you have children and not be married to this thing? You sound as selfish as he. Take the children that are “yours” and run. He is nothing but a sperm doner and a selfish one at that. Let him have the gift cards and anything else his boss gave. Make sure when you write the thank you card you specifie the thank you is from your boyfriend for gifts to your boyfriend alone.

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He seems like a controlling selfish asshat. RUN

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Do not marry this man. Dump him as soon as feasible.

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Your marriage is in trouble before you even reach the alter.

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Kids should come 1st

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No it’s gifts for a baby use not his murk.

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I hope you both grow up soon.

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You’re a family now. It’s all “ours”. No more yours and mine

Run. Run now. Don’t you dare marry this man-child. You will be dealing with his complete bullshit forever. You all are supposed to be a FAMILY!!! What the hell kind of family man does this!?

He sounds like a keeper.

He sounds very immature

Very selfish!! Thinks only of himself!

Sounds like you need a new fiance.

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Well you know what you are in for

Sounds like your fiance is a douche

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Tell him to ask his boss who they’re for :person_shrugging:

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Time To Throw The Whole Man Out. That One Is Broken.

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That’s what I say get out now selfish