The next time he does it ask to see his phone. If he asks why just say you want to see something. If he throws a fit etc then your instinct is right. He might snicker like your crazy, but he should hand it over with nothing to hide.
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I’m so sorry, but you already know the answer. Confront him, and move on.
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The woman’s intuition doesn’t lie.
Get a job and put money away for your rainy day.
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Sit down and talk with your husband about this, soon. Be prepared to make hard decisions. Good luck
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Trust your instincts. When I asked questions, my ex told lies… many lies, and used our money on the other women. “Let go and let God.” I got out and good things happened. For your child’s sake as well, get out.
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Trust your gut. Better have a talk with him, but he may deny it. Doubt it’d be hard to add lying to the list with cheating.
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Gut is always right! Screw hole in boat…
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You all giving bad advice. The man is simply out planning a surprise party for his wife. You all should be ashamed of yourselves. Judging this poor guy without hearing his side of the story.
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Sounds very suspicious but first and foremost sit down and have a talk to him.
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Talk to him and share your observations. You are a team and owe it to each other to get to the truth no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Observe his reactions and words then follow your heart.
Why don’t you open your mouth and ASK him what’s going on???
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Trust in your self. I had that feeling too - i was right. I am now alone after 17 years of marriage.
You can probably go online and look at the phone account and see who he is calling and texting because he is definitely up to something
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There are many places to help woman and children b.c start over. I would try to talk to him. But know your not stuck
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you can do this, no one should be disrespected like that! Be strong, he can pay child support, and alimony!
You can’t shake the feeling because he is cheating. If you can’t even adk him about it, that is a big problem in itself. Ask him to give you his phone so you can go through it. See how he responds. Then you will have your answer.
He is most definitely cheating… you have discovered his patterns don’t ignore then dig deeper get your evidence and you can ask for spousal support
First off you know exactly what’s going on. Secondly you shouldn’t be relying solely on someone to be taking care of you!
He’s cheating or being shady somehow. Be honest with yourself. Get the proof and have it so he can’t destroy it. If you divorce I’m sure he’d have to pay some type of child support and or alimony. Our gut instinct is No joke!
Thats what my ex was doing. Call the phone company and get itemized information about calls and text.
Talk to him.
It sounds quite obvious what’s going on but you can’t just assume shit. Go get yourself proof if your instinct isn’t enough
My ex husband was being the same way and he ended up being cheating. Good luck.
Would HE be okay with you doing all those things to him??? Probably not… Leave girl.
Something is up. Have an honest conversation. Don’t be angry until you have a reason. Take some time without kids around and get talking!
I hate to tell ya but hes cheating. Clean out the bank account and pack his shit and throw it outside. Been there done that.
There are websites that spy on your significant other phone and internet use but you already have the answer you didn’t need us but I understand you want the facts so just be ready for the truth
Here’s my advice.
1.Trust your intuition
2. Make a plan
3. Build yourself up and make plans on how to get into the work force, any job will do, babysitting, cashier, receptionist etc but take initiative and start finding work to become independent financially.
4. Save Money, hire a private investigator. if the private investigator provides proof of your husband cheating then at least if you file for divorce, you can get alimony and support for you and child.
5. Last but not least, allow yourself to heal.
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Hate to say it but sounds like it or drugs? Got to get him to talk
Time to start looking for a job so you dont have to rely on him if that is what’s going on. On another note, maybe talk to him? Ask him why he is being so secretive?
Trust your gut. It could be a porn addiction or something else that is going on. I would find a way to look at his phone!
Leave or cope with it he won’t change . Your gut is telling you something isn’t ok and you shouldn’t have to feel that way . It will last years you will become bitter and its not worth it
All the red flags are there, you should ask to borrow his phone cause yours “died” and if he refuses with every excuse or sticks right by you to make sure he gets it back after your done he’s most likely guilty. But I agree come up with a plan just in case he decides he wants a divorce I have been through one and it got ugly real fast. I was like you I had no job no money but if you need advice I’m here for any questions.
Ususlly your gut is not wrong .get a job and save up so you can support you and your child . he might not be cheating but, if he isnt he wont mind showing you his phone content or giving you his password. Make sure you are willing to do the same .
If you think he’s cheating, he is! Women’s intuition is 99% correct. Make a plan and get out. Cheaters are not worth keeping around for any reason. If not for yourself do it for your child.
Call that show cheaters maybe they can help you out! But if he’s gone for hours most likely he is cheating!
Correction : I want to know if all the questions are about the same couple?
Women’s intuition girl. Try not to be accusatory, but dig till you get the answers. If it smells fishy, it usually is.
I would ask what’s going on first, then make a decision based on his response
That’s a “BIG RED FLAG” RUN!!!
Take his phone when he is sleeping and go to the bathroom check it out start with the texts to see who he is talking to and than you can go from there if it has a Sims card in it take it out
Girl, I couldn’t shake that feeling for months… Turns out I was right… Trust your gut instinct
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Trust your gut…when he does sleep do snooping
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Trust your gut and respect yourself, never let a man disrespect u.
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Get a job on his riverboat
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He has to fall asleep sometime… take that phone
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Trust your instincts and talk to him.
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Ask him ? To be honest
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Unfortunately I think your assumption is probably correct. 
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Get off Facebook…and ask him…
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Well if you have a gut feeling, I wouldnt let it go. U can communicate and go from there
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If it walks like a duck…
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You intuition NEVER lies. Sadly.
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Start doing some things for self…so you can take care of self if need be…
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Get a job and save money to get out and away. He is probably cheating
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Wise up girl. You know what he is doing.
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Go with your first intuition 
You already know the answer.
Wait till he falls asleep and go through his phone
Your gut is always right and that is a sign of cheating 
. I’m sorry for you and your family 
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If you suspect it that much, he probably is.
Everything you just said leads to cheating
He’s cheating or doing something shady af
Suspicious as fuck. Seems like he’s talking to someone else
It will be on your phone bill online. All numbers he calls or texts.
TRUST your instinct. ALWAYS. A woman always knows.
Listen to ur gut. Consult an attorney on ur rights before confronting ur husband.
get a job help u with self confidence and self worth take his phone find out whats going on
Signs say he’s cheating.
So take his phone and go through it, duh 
Are all of these complaints about the same husband? Cause if they are I mean Damn!!
Def Cheating, take care of you & yours. Don’t stay because of the $. Best of luck!
My thought, he puts dow n the phone to hide pornography.
2. He is texting a girlfriend.
3. Another wife
Call the show cheaters and see if they’ll investigate
yep time to confront him and see what is going on and if he is cheating time to get a lawyer
My husband read it and said he’s cheating 
Child & Spousal Support
Trust your gut and talk to him about how you are feeling.
Always trust your gut instinct. It never lies.
He probably is cheating
Cause it sounds like he is doll I’m sorry to say! 
check his phone for confirmation and then you’ll have your peace of mind with th e truth in blk n white
Trust your gut it’s never wrong.
Trust your gut feeling.
Oh girl he is DEFINITELY CHEATING!!!
a needed honest conversation
Call get a copy of your phone 
they will send you a complete printout
Trust your gut instinct .
You are probably right!
Investigate if your gut tells you so
Leave him honey. He’s cheating.
Trust your instincts
When you ask him, if he gets defensive, he’s guilty.
Chris Spicer. Read this!!
Girl he’s a cheatin snake.
Honesty is the best policy just ask him and if he is doing what you think he is doing then you may have to think about yourself and baby financially. But in saying that there could be a good explanation you need to ask the question and go from there. Best regards to you and your baby 
Trust your instincts. If he has locked you out of his phone then he is hiding something. If you are authorized to talk to the mobile phone company you can have them send you his texts and call records. Go see a lawyer. Make sure you get good alimony and child support. I have friends that are are almost destitute and their exes make 6 figures because she stopped putting up with the bullshit.
Been threw it before girl I’m still with the man go with your gut filling ima tell you what I done when i had it. I caught him a sleep got his phone an looked threw it. When I fount all the stuff on the phone I confronted him. Im still with him because he a good father to my children an in my heart I still love him you jave the choice to work threw it if he is or walk away no one can tell you. But one thing for certain the trust will never be there again an it is work every day for me to trust him ive been with him for 12 years he cheated on me when my little girl was 3 now she 8 an we still have problems this is my advice
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This hits home for me except three days ago I found out my suspicions were right, now figuring out how I’m going to do it on my own. It’s not easy it’s super complicated and super messy make sure you know for sure don’t ignore the red flags I wish I hadn’t and do what’s best for your family
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Girl you better grab that phone and shake that feeling. And get the hell out of there. U can and will prevail. Don’t stay in that mess. He’s doing what he wants because he knows you depend on him. Exactly why I refuse to depend on anybody and take my ass to work everyday and make my own money.
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if he’s hiding his phone there’s a reason. I would go through it and send yourself screen shots as evidence. you don’t have to tolerate this
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