And it could be worse he could of cheated bit instead he watches people he will never touch in his life
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You have the view of porn being wrong. Nothing wrong with it.
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He is Deliverd from that sickness. Amene.
I prefer my fiancé not to watch it without me because I feel a little betrayed by that. Maybe your husband needs you to be a little more spontaneous and watching prom together can be fun.
I understand you say it against your religion, but he is not perfect and GoD will forgive him . With that being said you being a Christian should be like GOD and forgive instead of judging. I think saying you’re disgusted or you can’t get passed it is taking it a little too far.
And as you stated he often lies to you because he is scared of how you react, you must place judgement to the things he does which is wrong considering you are Christian. I find Christians to be hypocritical for this very reason… he should want to run to tell you what is on his mind or what is going on because you should be the most forgiving just like GOD is with us.
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Good grief, just because he’s a Christian, doesn’t make him perfect. No it’s not a good idea but you have sins too. Let ye who is without sin cast the first stone. Don’t let this tear you apart.
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Good luck finding a man that never does lol
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It’s apparently not against HIS religion…
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All these people mocking you are the same types of women who will be quick to tell you your man is cheating if you found inappropriate, secret texts between him and another woman. Smh. Double standards are everywhere…
All you can do is go to your counselor and talk it through. Remember, God is a forgiving God. You might struggle a bit to get past it but with prayer, faith and support you will. If he truely wants to stop, he will with help and support. All you can do is pray, forgive and move on. Good luck.
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Oh honey if he’s just watching porn you got a saint of a man… 
least he isn’t talking to other women meeting up cheating etc. Men suck. Yours sounds like a good one. Don’t throw something away just because he watched porn. God damn
I’m probably the last person you should take advice from but…I’m gonna give my opinion just in case it helps any.
Religion is very restricting. Humans, in general, are bound to eff up but we already have so many “restrictions.” People speed, lie, cheat, steal, etc. Religion adds more restrictions and more pressure and it can become overwhelming. There are multiple well-known (though extreme) examples of this, one being josh Duggar. Obviously, what he did is not comparable but it’s the potential WHY that is…the restrictions, and the high expectations.
In saying this, some people (religious and not) just dont believe in porn and they find others who dont either. But it seems like hes not actually against it. It’s what he runs to. Think about it like this… a man is dead set that he hates cheaters but you guys go through a rough patch, or stress, or whatever and he runs to another girl. Wouldnt seem very anti-cheating, right? You may wan to consider the possibility he wont let it go
How nice of all of you to laugh at a woman asking for help, I don’t care what the subject is. I hope when any of you need help, no one laughs at y’all!
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Been there. Dealt with that. It use to make me feel like shit. Made me feel like I wasn’t good enough and even felt like he was cheating on me. But after 10 years and 4 kids…more power to him lol hell I even tell him now “ain’t you got porn hub and a hand” cause im just too tired and not interested 
We have 3 kids and one due in feb. I don’t even want him to point his shit at me lol I love him though with all my heart don’t get me wrong. But I just don’t care if he wants to watch porn anymore:woman_shrugging: no sense in me getting upset about it anymore. I just tell him if you’re gonna do it then hide it cause I don’t wanna see or find the shit.
I personally don’t see the issue with porn. It doesn’t make you a bad person. But if it is a big part of your religion maybe he isn’t as into the religion thing as you are? Just try to talk it out and come to a common ground. And while you are not happy with it just remember it could be worse, he could actually be out doing things physically with other women, instead of just watching it on a screen… in marriage there is compromise. You you guys just have to figure out what is worth compromising.
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pork is not the worse he could do and Cleary he doesn’t believe it is wrong so y’all may need to reevaluate your beliefs
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Be lucky it’s porn and calm down
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Watching porn is totally normal unless they’re obsessed with it or addicted to it, but I wouldn’t freak out too bad, maybe bc he lied about it, that would piss me off, but he shouldn’t have to feel the need to lie about something as natural as watching porn.
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Its 2020 it’s not a big deal unless said person is addicted to it.
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i went through the same thing with my husband during my whole pregnancy. lied to my face the whole time till i caught him a week before i gave birth. 2 and a half months later i’m still working on forgiveness. i still don’t look at him the same. he stopped. but that doesn’t change the fact that he cheated for so long and lied our whole marriage. YOURE NOT BEING UNREASONABLE. it’s a betrayal. a big one and sexual pleasure outside of marriage in anyway IS cheating. don’t let anyone invalidate your feelings
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He isn’t physically cheating on u. I feel u are blowing this way out of proportion. There are much worse things he could have done. Talk to ur counselor as u said and try to move past. Don’t make urself dwell on it
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What religion bans something that didn’t exist when the religion was created and is there like meetings that somehow update it that whichever God it is attends and gives his orders?
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Having trust broken is very hard to heal from. There are ways to work through it but it takes time. It also takes a willingness from both.
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So, the stand point on porn I don’t agree with, but to each their own. As far as looking at your husband the same way again… You love him. Sit and listen to his outlook. May be the reason he hid it stems from something more. I know that you have your religious stand point, but something to remember is that sex is something completely biological, and how each person is aroused is different. I think counseling, as you stated, is a good idea. I think, from my own experience, that perhaps your husbands self esteem is suffering for whatever reason, which is why he has kept things from you, not necessarily to hurt you, but more out of embarrassment. Before judging the action, find the reason behind it, and work on that. I think you both need to work on open, honest, and non judgemental communication.
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Counseling is really the best option for now. Porn addiction is real and it destroys families. He even said he has tried stopping but gets tempted so that in itself is a red flag. I’m sad for those that think Porn is ok because it isn’t. I’m not even religious and I know that. Objectifying women, and giving men false ideals of what women should do is wrong. Sorry you are going through this.
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Most men watch porn. Not sure this is a reason to get divorced
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So you are upset… because he watched another man fucking another woman? Because why? Because at 1 point you convinced him it was wrong under the guise of religion? Because he touched himself? Is that wrong to? At what point do you not understand that you are controlling him? Not allowing him to have bodily autonomy. You dont think its wrong?
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So firat and foremost that is your brother in Christ and he came to you and admitted his sin. Your job is to now come up with a plan that helps him stay on the path you choose as husband and wife
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You have bigger issues in your relationship than porn. You do not have an equal partner relationship if he feels he can’t be honest with you, acting like you are his parent rather than his partner.
I’ll say this … Nobody is perfect. We all have our own quirks and imperfections. I use to focus on what wasn’t perfect in my husband, and my children, and felt it was my job to remind them of their faults. I was so busy looking at them that I never once looked at myself. I couldn’t be the problem. I knew I wanted my husband and my children to look and act a certain way, and felt it was my job to push them to be what I wanted them to be. It took me years to realize that I’m not perfect, either, and that I was trying to control and manipulate my family into being what I wanted them to be, instead of trusting them, and allowing them to be who they are, and loving them and accepting them for who they are. You are not your husband’s keeper, you are his partner. He is not perfect, and neither are you. Sit down and talk with each other about what you want out of life, and what you expect from each other as partners to contribute to your life together being successful. If everybody knows the rules, and everyone is working toward the same goal, then everyone should be happy. We do fall sometimes, though. Each of us has our own demons, or downfalls, but we each have to accept personal responsibility for our actions. If you feel porn is sinful, and your husband thinks it is sinful, then you work together to overcome it, not fight and argue about it. Fighting, accusing, manipulating, etc. Gets you nowhere. It just delays the inevitable.
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Let the man watch what he wants to watch. Everything fun is against religion. I’m still not sure why religion is in our bedrooms 
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Watching porn doesn’t actually have anything to do with you, nor does it affect you in any way, other than you don’t like it and you want him to stop, and that sounds like a “you” problem.
He’s normal…Leave him be and don’t make mountains out of mole hills. Also, why don’t you take a look see at some porn designed to entice women to watch. It’s quite sensual and you might actually have an orgasm for once 
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I am LDS, watching porn is against my religion too. This sounds like more than porn. My husband acted like this too then I found out he cheated 5 times on me… no advice other than look out… there’s more.
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Well if he is choosing to watch it and not have sex with you that’s a promblem. Counseling is a good way to go about it
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To those judging her for what she believes…shame on you. I am incredibly disgusted with this group after reading some of these comments.
I think it’s important to remember that we are human and imperfect. We ALL have temptations and are guilty of sin. One of his weaknesses happens to be porn…it’s not your job to judge him. It IS your job to support him…“through thick and thin.” If your husband was able to let go of whatever reasons he had for initially hiding this from you and open up about not only having watched porn, but also admitting that it’s still a temptation, he is looking to you as that person he can lean on. Can you imagine how hurtful it would be to learn that he reached out to a friend or family member for support before you? I would realize how difficult this step must have been for him and though your feelings of being hurt are completely valid, he has chosen to open a door of communication with you probably in hopes of working past this as a team. If his view truly matches your own, then I’m sure he is going to be more than willing to do whatever he needs to do to beat this said temptation. Let go and let God!
I also agree with some of the others. Unfortunately, this was not the best group to turn to with this sort of question.
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Girl wtf is this a joke?
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I love Jesus but that doesn’t mean I can’t have my own pleasures 
maturation is completely natural… some people just need a stimulant.
I wouldn’t judge him or make him feel badly for it, if he didn’t tell you then he obviously doesn’t want to disappoint you or maybe he doesn’t want you to look down on him. Just try and understand his POV.
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As I am against porn if your In the relationship and your available to have sex every day. BuT you said he did it while you guys lived in different states that j would understand. I would understand if my bf or husband watchee porn if we were in different states. BuT if j am right there then their no need to watch it I am there
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First it’s just porn we are all human be happy it’s not another female and just a video to help release all the stress. I’m Christian too but not against porn AT ALL. we are human we have needs. Think about spicing up the bedroom
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Let he who is without din cast the first stone. Are you living a perfect life by the Bible? Must be hard being so perfect on that high horse of yours. I hope he seriously rethinks this relationship…doesn’t sound healthy to me. Get over it, move on or file for divorce…which is a sin too.
I can see it has affected your relationship, you just didn’t realize it until now. It’s not just the fact that he watched porn. It has gotten in the way of you both. He has admitted his problem. Admitted he needs help. You are seeking counseling. You are on the right path. I’m not going to undermine your feelings and say it’s “just porn” . Your feelings should be validated. Just remember to keep open communication about this if you want to move forward. Good luck
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Pray, pray for him that God releases the spirit of perversion from him. Ask him to help u to forgive him and forgive u for not forgiving him. Release it into Gods hands and ask him to help u thru. Ask for his guidance and to give u both a clean heart
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Porn is addictive and difficult to stop. If I were you, I would ask if he would be willing to go to counseling to work out your issues. This is definitely not worth splitting up over. He should feel able to talk to you about anything, and not be afraid he’ll be reprimanded over it. A marriage is a partnership, not one sided. You’re not his parent, you’re the love of his life. You are his best friend. Work on your marriage and give him a little encouragement and confidence that he won’t lose you and that you both will come together and make things right.
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Any woman that thinks a MAN DOESNT watch porn regardless of religion needs there head checking 
there MEN
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I’m so glad I’m not about this life lol.
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Oh my lord…let the man be a man. It’s porn it’s not the end of the world.
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This is simple. He is a man and they watch porn. No big deal
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Honestly. I would tell him if he wants you he has to pick you . and stop watching porn.
I just want to know why you keep capitalizing Porn.
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Appreciate he has come to you in honesty. Ask him to pray with you for strength for both of you to overcome. LET GO AN LET GOD. it is not your job to punish or condemn him.
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Your not his judge god and only god is. If you love him do what Jesus would do not judge but love and forgive.
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First off…I’m a Christian and Ive watched porn…gasp…
Second: My man (we’ve been together 8 yrs and have 2 children ages 6 and 3) watches porn…gasps again
Third: we are not as intimate as we used to be when we were first together…no one persons fault, but after working, taking care of kids, etc all day, we just want to go bed as soon as the kids are…we are simply just “too tired”.
Be thankful he finally admitted to you that he has and maybe take a look at how u react when he is honest with u…maybe that’s y it leads to arguments and he feels like he can’t win no matter what…
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If you aren’t sinning, why did your Jesus die for your sins?
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So I’ve been listening to this one guy on YouTube who does videos on sexuality and he said that it is engrained in evolutionary psychology for men to want to have sex with different women. Which doesnt mean he doesnt love you. I see this so much on here, “my man watches porn” or “my dude is liking other girls pictures on instagram”. Carnal urge is strong. I once had a man tell me he overcame drug use but pornography he couldn’t shake. If both of you are serious about trying to make it work, go talk to your pastor (if you have one). Get him plugged into a Male group at church so he can talk about it. But hun, you need to understand this is a natural urge. It isnt because he doesnt love you or wants to leave you for another woman.
Btw: you need to let you freak flag fly. No one likes vanilla sex.
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Its porn … id rather them watch porn then go out and cheat . I dont understand why porn is a huge nono all of a sudden
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Your reaction to this will be how he models telling you the truth in the future. I done personally understand why porn is such a big deal but to each their own. If you can’t put aside this resentment then it’ll never work
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The bullshit people are throwing in these comments is hilarious. He’s scared of your reaction so he doesn’t confess anything to avoid. How does this part of your post not say ANYTHING to you??
You’re sitting here judging him instead of trying to fucking help him through it. Maybe he has different views than you. Over something so damn minior you don’t know if you can look at him the same way? What world does this make sense in…
I would seek counseling together. I’ve had friends go through this and make it out stronger. 
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If this is something you both agree on and it was known and he went behind your back and lied, it is wrong.
Also him saying he’s tried to quit but can’t is not good.
I would suggest a counselor for you guys.
Its not like he’s physically cheating, honestly I’d rather my boyfriend watch porn then actually go sleep with someone. Its not that bad.
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Lol it’s porn not like he’s going out and cheating on you
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He’s a man. LET HIM BE!!! There’s nothing wrong with watching porn. I watch lesbian porn all the time!! You’re not gonna be holy ALL the time. You guys aren’t saints… JUST BY you judging him you’re committing a sin. Might as well watch it with him. Nothing wrong with trying to spice up your sex life
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Seriously? I dont think it’s a big deal. Worse things like affairs, hiding drug addiction, etc. If he cant even tell you comfortably about it then maybe you should be more open to him and accepting. Idk.
Why are you so controlling and a Bully. He doesn’t talk to you because you act like a wild Bully to your husband.
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As a Christian who has gone and still deals with this. The only way through it is through having Grace. Most of these other moms do not understand what you are feeling, yes it is normal for men to watch pain but through the eyes of a Christian it can feel a bit different.
I tried to fight the porn things for YEARS but it was not for me to control. You must give it and your partner to God and trust that he will repent when it happens. Grace is the only thing that saved our relationship but it was not easy to get to that mind set, as a Christian it is important to understand that EVERYONE sins, everyone. Even yourself, you may not be watching porn but you may be guilty of something else that does not align with the word of God. It’s a very strong addiction, lust and if there is anything I have learned throughout the years is that behind closed doors many Christian couples experience this at some point or other in their relationship, even the couples that live that “perfect” model life.
Another thing that I have come to accept it letting go of control, he WILL do it again. Be prepared and when he does come to you and repents know that it was HIS choice to do so, have Grace on him and he may look at you in awe that your faith allows you to speak about sin and not be so condemned.
Message me, I have been through the lowest point of feeling this. To the point where I would be extremely insecure and jealous and check his phone DAILY to make sure he wasnt watching it anymore… he just got better at lying to me and hiding it. It’s been a long 6 years with him but I can honestly say that with God in the center of our relationship we made it through.
I no longer feel the need to check his phone, or stop him, or feel inadequate in my worth to him as a woman, it took time to get there but it’s possible.
I understand where you are. Feel free to reach out to me if you need to talk to someone who gets it.
I’ve watched porn. I think most people have honestly watched porn at one time or another. Some movies Basically have sex seems that are even comparable to porn. I guess I just don’t feel like it’s that big of a deal. It’s better that he watches porn then to go out and Cheat on you. At least he told you the truth, even if it took him a while to admit it. Appreciate his honesty and try to work through it. If you make a huge deal out of this and blow it out of proportion he may be hesitant to tell you the truth next time.
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Also I feel compelled to say that your feelings should be validated as well. Just because he has not slept with someone else and that is enough for most of you does not mean that what she is going through is not as every bit of a betrayal as she feels it is in the moment. She is feeling something and is being disregarded and patronized… not all of our relationships match up and are the same. I know some couple that are polyamorous and are ok with their spouse sleeping with other people as long as they know and are open about it. How one couple feels about one thing doesn’t equal all couple or individuals will feel the same way about. This kind of jealousy and pain hurts, thankfully none of you have not gone through it but if you dont have actual advice to give her, get off her post. Respectfully.
This is to the OP, you must get there on your own and THROUGH God. He is the ONLY way through this no matter how many people say to get over it and be thankful he is not cheating. It may take you some time to get there but it IS OK. You will get there. Hang on hun.
Get god out your marriage… Might help
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Just watch porn together 🤷 maybe you both aren’t satisfied in bed. I watch porn all the time.
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I’m going to believe YOU have the view that porn is wrong and he just agreed so you would shut up about it you don’t control your husband. Don’t like his choices, leave. He would be better off without a wife who wants to act like his mother. Oh and he’s not having sex with you because you’re obviously a nag and that turns him off.
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Why is porn so terrible? I guess I’m confused on what is so wrong with it. It’s not real. It’s fantasy. I feel like women who don’t want their men to watch porn are missionary only type of women and are scared their husbands will get ideas. News flash he already has those ideas and porn isn’t going to change it. Maybe y’all could learn something watching with ur men. Maybe y’all could learn a little more about what ur man likes and dislikes. I dunno just my opinion.
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Porn is better then him cheating!! even thou it probably feels like he is betraying you with his lies…sounds like maybe he is bored and maybe its easier for him to do this in his spare time but he should be honest at least you say your Christian…if u look at it like…your keeping a stallion locked up hes gonna break down that barn door to experience things he hasn’t…talk communicate maybe go to counseling…
I was in a 12 year relationship 1 penis and I’m not Christian but when I broke down that door and experienced what I needed it definitely helped me so if hes not cheating on you and just with porn 
Hahahahaha Jesus let the man watch some porn. Maybe gets some ideas. Maybe try some butt stuff. Then you wouldn’t feel so insecure. Blame it on your religion but at the end of that it’s allll about jealousy and insecurity. Don’t worry though he won’t actually have sex with the porn stars. I promise you got nothing to worry about.
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Okay I don’t understand why everyone is critizing this woman.
If she is against porn and isn’t comfortable with it her partner should respect that. That’s marriage. Is it cheating to watch porn? No. There is no intimate connection between someone and porn. But if he is using porn instead of having sexual relations with you then that is a HUGE no.
You should discuss what you are comfortable with between you and your husband and a compromise should be brought into light. If you can’t come to an agreement on what works well for the both of you then the relationship probably won’t last.
My partner openly watches porn and I’m fine with that. We have no sexual struggles in our relationship and our sex life is very healthy. I’m a stay at home mom of 2 young children so I guess you can say I’m not always “in the mood” so that’s where porn comes into play.
See if you can work out a compromise that works well for you both.
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My husband did something like this but instead of watching porn he would get pictures and videos from just about any female he could. I tried running him over with his car and that still didnt change his mind so I threatened to take our son away from him and so far so good 
I still want to hit him with a car though. Dont think I’ll ever get past it because every time I caught him he told me I was crazy and that I needed to trust him. He literally would mock me.
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I watch porn every now and then, I told my husband, he’s told me porn never did anything for him , but have at it"
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What’s wrong with porn?
Y’all leave her alone. If she and her husband don’t want turn in this marriage then it’s not “wrong” of them. Porn is unhealthy and I’m not even religious.
OP- I agree that porn is bad but please forgive your hubby over this. It’s def not the same as cheating but it is wrong. If he can’t give it up then he could do counseling.
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My advice, watch it together and spice up your love life with it. I know you’re not a fan but maybe try it…
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I’m weak #womencanbecontrollingTOO
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I’m a Christian and I have never watched porn. Ever. It comes as a shock to most. Some think I’m lying, some try to force me to watch, and others understand and respect my views on it. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and have a 1 year old son together. My boyfriend watches porn as well. I honestly don’t mind though. He felt guilty but I understand. He’s a man. Men and women both alike watch porn. It’s not for me as I am not even interested in it, but him watching porn is better than him cheating, being a druggie, or anything else. I see your point of view but you need to see his as well. I’m you know premarital sex is a sin as well. It goes both ways girl. Can’t be a hypocrite about the bible when you’re only choosing sections to pick out that matter to you.
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From a man’s point of view. He feels guilty because your against it, not him. Maybe try to be open to the things he is watching, if you can’t see yourself doing those kinds of things. Let him fantasies about it. I would think your sex life has become none existant because it became a boring routine. Sometimes fucking is needed and sometimes love making is needed and sometimes fucking love making is needed. And as for him not wanting to tell you is your fault. Not everything needs to be an argument you know. You’re two different people, with two different chain of thoughts . Be more open, less confrontational , and learn to let things go. It will help him feel more comfortable with you knowing things about him that you might not like. Lot of people don’t think sex isnt that big a deal in a relationship, but that’s not true. Some people’s needs are higher than others.
Better that then him sleeping with someone else.
Obviously he doesn’t share that same view if he is watching it. I am sure you both do things against your religion daily so I doubt porn is the big oh no. You can’t control what a man does and if he is using his hand verses another woman then let him, in my opinion. If you don’t believe in it then that’s fine but you can’t control every aspect of your marriage.
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I personally am not religious at all however, I respect other people’s beliefs. In my opinion it sounds to me like he clearly doesn’t have the same views on watching porn as you do. I think he lied because he didn’t want you to judge him and look at him differently so out of that fear of judgment he has said he is against it to keep you happy. I believe because he is Christian he finally felt enough guilty to come clean. I think seeing counseling will help but it sounds like there is a a communication issue with the two of you. He may just be watching it out of fantasy of what he may be wanting more of in the bedroom and out of fear of judgement again he may not be comfortable telling you what he wants more of in the bedroom. You’re Christian please don’t judge him for watching it, it’s not an unhealthy thing to do a lot of men and woman watch it. Sit and talk with your husband and just straight forward ask him have you been watching things you would like to try in the bedroom. Now I know people can be addicted to watching porn so it is most likely one or the other an addiction or he just wants to try new things.
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Could be worse he could be cheating but picked porn instead
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The fact that he feels the need to hide it from you is the problem. Watching porn is totally normal and there isnt anything wrong with it. He clearly doesnt have the same view as you and just agreed and doesnt tell you to avoid an argument. Maybe you should talk about your relationship with him and how you can be more supportive and open with each other rather than make a big deal over porn. Counseling maybe with a therapist not a priest so you both can sound heard and he wont just be shamed because he watches porn
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These comments are utterly disgusting. As stated, her husband has said he is against it NUMEROUS times in the beginning of their relationship. She didnt say that she beat him into saying it. Then he has turned around and lied about doing it. She has every right to be upset because he LIED about it. Come on people. She is asking for advice and you are doing the complete opposite. Either give her what she wants or keep scrolling!
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Advice: You need to communicate with your husband more about this. Your post makes it seem like you two havent had a deep conversation about the issue at hand. Remember. It’s you AND your husband AGAINST the problem, not you against your husband. It will take some time, but with proper coping mechanisms and keeping up with counseling you two can do this.
I honestly don’t see why porn is so bad. It’s not like he’s cheating on you do you think masterbation is bad too or just porn in general? What I do believe is wrong is that he just agreed with you because he was afraid of how you would react about him enjoying it every once in awhile. The him not having sex with you part is most likely not because of porn, but from deeper issues that you both should seek counseling for.
I recommend getting counseling to help you guys work through this.
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And ignore the peple here saying porn is no big deal, because they don’t get to decide your values.
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Obviously hes not as against it as you think he is…or as you are… Its not cheating but if you cant move on from it then definately get into counseling to find out why it bothers you so much. Chances are hes watched it more than 3 times and will probably watch again…
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Some guys are addicted to porn. He may not enjoy it afterward or may even feel guilty.
Talk about it with him.
Set some ground rules. And turn up your sex life.
If he already had a good time with you and came, he’s not gonna watch porn and cum again.keep your man happy 
These comments…damn some of yall are just terrible. I literally forgot what I wanted to type to her. Wow🤦
Counseling. Because on the contrary to what people say that is “normal” and “it could be worse , he could be cheating”
Porn can become a straight addiction. Yes like a drug. To watch other people having sex and you need that is not normal no matter how many people try to paint it pretty. Counseling together as a couple is the way to go. Not here on FB where we have the perfect couple therapists. Not with those who are going to mock you.
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It. Is. Porn!!! Omfg. He isnt out cheating on you! And you cant look at him the same?? What? Also ETA I’m Christian myself!!
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It sounds like your husband either lied about being against porn or after watching it, he has since decided that he isn’t against it. You have 2 choices now, you can forgive the man you claim to love so much and accept that he isn’t against porn, or you can decide that porn is a dealbreaker and file for divorce.
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Do you also not want him to masturbate? I’m actually very curious…
He lied probably BC he knew how you would react.
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As unfortunate as it is that he lied to you about his feelings regarding porn, I think women need to realize that it’s unrealistic to think men don’t like it, won’t like it, or are telling the truth when they say they don’t watch it. Men are fundamentally all the same in that sense. They enjoy seeing those things. And so do a lot of women. Even though it’s against your values, it doesn’t make him a bad person or a bad husband. Talk it through, be intimate with him (otherwise you’re just giving him more reason to watch it), and maybe even compromise with him. He shouldn’t have to feel ashamed for it and you shouldn’t have to feel like you’re uncomfortable being close with him. Communicate and stick together. This is something you can overcome if you’re willing to
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It’s porn…it’s honestly harmless. You shouldn’t be looking at him differently. Just keep voicing your feelings to him, and ask him what you and him can do to get past it and get back to normal. You’ll get there!
It’s just porn. He’s not cheating. I think you are overreacting and possibly controlling…
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Girl let that man beat his meat!!! Atleast it’s not another female
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Give him a blow job & swallow
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