Uhh…when you marry, two families join into one. At least that’s how I grew up seeing it. If YOU are now his family, then the rest of your family also becomes his. It’s a package deal.
If he always choose his mom not you as his wife, Hes a man child! Take him back to his momma! He aint ready!
In-laws are considered Family to me…
my ex Mother in law I still consider Family and my ex Sister-in-laws…
They are Family to me because of my now grown children and always will be! I was blessed to have great ex in/ laws!
When you get married, you become one family - including both sets of parents and siblings. If he can’t see that, maybe you need to parent alone.
You are right. When you get married they are family. My mother in-law doesn’t treat me like her daughters. At Christmas they give each of there kids Christmas card with money in it. Us in- laws don’t get anything. My Birthday is right after Christmas my Birthday gets overlooked most of the time. They might text me Happy Birthday.
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Honestly your and his priority should be the family u have created- u 2 and the kids…then loop in the rest. Yes they are all family but sometimes u need to remember the 1 u (or him in this case)created is most imp now
Maybe reconsider him as “family”.
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I called my mother in law mom and my father in law dad. They excepted me as family and as I did them ! Some people are just weird!!
And that whole spill is why u should have packed his titty jug ass up and sent him home with his momma dearest
My mother in law is more a mom to be than my own mother so yes in laws are family unless they are toxic
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Not part of his blood line but related for sure. It’s all in the wording.
If you’re Mexican then not only your Mothers are family. But, cousins, uncles, aunts and nephews, nieces, and everyone else. It’s one BIG happy familia 
It takes a village 
Time for a divorce. Sounds like that’s what he wants anyway.
He sounds like a baby to me very selfish. My husband loved my family as his.
Nope she is just as much family as his mom. Sounds like he has a bit of control issues and a huge mommy’s boy. If he isn’t willing to make an effort in changing it NEVER will.
If that’s how he feels he should not be married because he maybe a father-in-law some day!
When you become husband and wife, she becomes his MOTHER in law.
I consider my cousins inlaws my family so I can’t help you there. Your husband’s comments are red flags. But these kinds of thoughts are not easily changed. I’m sorry girl.
Your not in the wrong ,when his mummy comes to visit tell her straight to her face to take him back.because he still needs training
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Just because someone tells you daylight is dark doesn’t make it so!
I get where your coming from but sometimes even after being married a dislike to a parent is possible in some marriages. My mother didn’t like my husband from day 1 and had no reason for not liking him and I tried to force him to like her and vise versa it’s just not possible, they still has some respect for one another but she doesn’t even consider him her son in law and we’ve been together 6years married for 2 and have 2 kids. I don’t like his mom his step dad or any of his brothers even the slightest and he is ok with that because I have reasons for not liking them and he knows my thoughts won’t change. No your husband shouldn’t threaten divorce on you because of it but maybe take a step back and understand why he may not like your mom as well as him understand why your don’t like his🤷🏼♀️
Sounds like he is listening to his mom. And sometimes parents can be wrong.
My husband considers my mil family and vice versa we would help then if needed but he and our kid is my top priority and my mil will have to fend for herself if it hinders our bills he has and has always told me he will choose me before his mother and i would choose him before mine. My little family is more important 
That sounds toxic as hell, I for one love my mother-in-law as my own mum, and I consider his family as mine and he is the same but geez your man sounds like a bitch. 
If my husband told me that,I think I would get a divorce and tell him to marry his mother. He apparently don’t read the bible.
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They’re not family persay they’re extended family!!
How old is He , Five ?
Is he an only child or Mama’s boy?
Does your mom treat your husband with respect?
Everyone is related. Tell him the moms are even related…and he should go back to his until he can grow up.
Everyone is related but you should come first being the wife and mother of his kids. And clearly he would rather be married to his own mother.
Good luck with that guy.
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What is wrong with people. Family is all the family. Learn to get along.
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I guess I’m selfish maybe I would never have considered marring a man who didn’t love my mother like his own
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A daughter is a daughter for life…a son is a son until he takes a wife…
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DIVORCE HIM ! He appears to be a control freak !
I don’t considered my mother or his mother family.
Get the divorce. He obviously doesn’t think of you as family either.
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Girl run. He sounds like a complete asshole.
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Family are people you love it create, gather to you. Yes your mom is now his family and his yours
I have zero contact with my MIL. We’ve been married almost 6 years and I’ve never met her. She’s in TX and we’re in WA state. At some point moms don’t matter. But then my mom is dead.,
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He sounds very one sided and toxic. No reasoning to his dislike for your mother and let’s it be very known he doesn’t like her, but yet expects you to worship his? That’s a big NO and not going to be a resealable issue and you will only be made to feel like it is your fault. My ex-husband let his mother ruin our marriage along with his own faults. I was made to be the manipulative one. RUN!
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When your married . The families are now one .
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Mother-in-laws are DEFINITELY family
your husband is not a nice human get counseling
Yes parents are family. Sure hope my son in laws don’t feel this way about me
Divorce him, then there will be no question as to who is family😡
Your husband isn’t thinking about the mentality he’s showing your kids regarding family, which sets an example to them.
Take the divorce offer, this will never stop. Or, I mean stay if you want, but accept you’ll always be having this fight.
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In-laws are family. Point blank.
No , you are not wrong , both mothers are FAMILY !!
Definitely are family
But doesn’t meant you have to like it.
Sounds like he’s a douche
Get that divorce send him home to mama
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Throw the whole man away
My mother in law is my family 
That’s rediculous of course she is family even if he doesn’t like it… too bad
I’m too close with my family to be in a relationship with anybody who doesn’t at least respect them. I also would not feel comfortable in a relationship where I didn’t like my husband family or didn’t get along with them.
When you get married you are marrying the whole family! Maybe mama’s boy should go back to her! When considering marriage look at the relationship of the intended’s parents.
I consider my In laws family and my hubby considers my mom his family.
Sounds like your Husband would put his mother before anyone,if you cant get along with my mother then we should get a divorce?My reply would be,does that work both ways,if it doesnt ,then your better than that,give him a divorce,tell him to marry his mother
Anything outside “husband/wife/children” unit is considered extended family, but still is family.
Need find a real man not a boy. He’s probably still suck tit and won’t let go.
You’re right. Maybe he struggles with the fact that his mother isn’t as loving as yours, sometimes resentment takes over in relationships and without acknowledgement, there won’t be a change anytime soon. Hope you guys figure it out, its never fun being on opposite sides of the fence.
In my opinion, a marriage is a Union of TWO PEOPLE NOT THREE!
Get rid of him while you can and find a “Real” Man who will stand by the “Vows” he promised you when you married.
"To Love and Protect in Sickness and in Health, etc . . . . . .
Double standards that he should suggest divorce if you don’t get along with his mum yet doesn’t even consider yours. All parents should have equal importance in the grandkids lives. It’s natural you will favour yours and him, his but surely you can alternate every so often. Marriage is give and take on both sides but he’s asking you to give whilst he takes! I’d insist on seeing my mum n that she sees grandkids with or without him!
She’s his kids’ grandparent so she’s family.
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Divorce him immediately! Sounds like he’s not ready for the family y’all built .
You need to bend over an tell him to kiss your ass.
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Sounds like he needs to GO AWAY
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Divorce the mama’s boy.
Someone needs to GROW UP. Sounds like he should have married his mother and is willing to break with you so he can be with her. Such are immature momma babies.
Family is what we make. If he doesn’t see your mother as family, then he really isn’t your family.
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I use to see my in laws as family until I started to notice how shady they are to me and my children (their blood). Those people aren’t anything to us. I don’t teach my kids that based on position people deserve a position in your life. Its based on the love and genuineness towards them. My mom has passed away so it use to sadden me how his family acted. Now I don’t care and I don’t even take their feelings or advice into consideration. I nor my children are barely around them. I don’t care about my husband’s opinion either
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You are all family.
Does he consider you family? If yes then so is your mom.
Your mother’s are both grandmothers to your children how are your mothers not family?
Sounds like SO is a mama’s boy & needs to learn how to stick up for his wife.
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Sounds like he needs a good kick up the arse, your parents are your first family, & should be blended with your new family, supporting your wife or husband is a priority in a relationship, if the support is not there neither is the relationship.
They are in-laws. Technically related by marriage. You should divorce his stupid ass immediately if he doesn’t understand family!
So he doesn’t like your mom but expects you like his? He’s real one sided… I personally couldn’t live like that.
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You’re married to a mommy’s boy. A man child. Good luck w that. As long as his mother’s alive. Her opinion is the only one that will matter & she will always come first. That apron string & or breast, has not been cut
I would divorce him… sorry your mom is family and his mom should shut up
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I find that very sad for the sake of yourself and your kids. Your husband is being nasty and needs to wake up. Yes, you are all family… your husband needs to either grow the hell up or accept the fact that y’all would be much happier accepting each others moms as family. Life is to short for all of this and your kids will see how he acts. I am sorry you are dealing with this and I hope it gets better.
My sis in law includes my mum in all stuff with baby. Mum considers sis laws daughter with another man, pre my brither, as a grand daughter. Has her photo up. Sends her gifts.
Family what you make it. My bro is a jerk and probably doesnt count anyone as family
But mum and his partner seem to
He in the wrong your mum his mother in law and his mum your mother in law.tell him that the twat .and you should be he stick up for as your the mother to his kids ? What a dick head you married.feel sorry for you get rid of him if he brings his mother be for you got the wrong one there
Sounds like your husband was not only dropped, and thrown but just plain raised wrong.
I have been divorced for 32 years and still refer to my mother in law as my mother in law. Same for the rest of the family , I consider them family and they do me
Get out while you can. He’s a man child who obviously cares more for his mother than he does for you.
Sorry, but in my humble opinion he’s being an ass. Like it or not she’s your mother.
Your. Mother-In-Law. &. Mother. Are. Family. If. He. Thinks. Otherwise. He. Is. Stupid.
My husband says that he is a asshole
Mommys boy, kick him to the curb.
Why did you marry him
Wow, your mother is definitely family!! Where does this fool get off saying she isn’t?! That is your mother, his mother-in-law. Even if he doesn’t like her! If he considers his mother “family” then why not your mom!! I never heard such horseshit in my life! He sounds like he needs drop kicked in the head! Good Luck with him! 
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Always 2 sides to a story, she might be nice to him in front of u but nasty behind ur back. It’s his mother in law alot of couples dont like their in laws 
You can’t reason with IDIOTS!
He’s being a ku#t…end of.
Send him home to his mum and run away
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I don’t like my mother either. Bitch ain’t family.
he seems self centered and childish
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