It’s YOUR body, period.
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My husband is the same way he thinks tattoos on women look trashy I have 2 and there a good size he likes them. I think if they look nice and like classy in a sense then it shouldn’t be a problem. I want a sleeve and my husband thinks it’s a great idea. I would say just be proud of the tattoos you get and that if he can have them then so can you. That’s what I told mine now he’s doesn’t argue
I don’t like my husbands beard and I really don’t want him to grow it out, but he’s gonna do what he wants with HIS beard. It’s HIS body. Just like it’s YOUR body. Please do NOT let a man control you!! You are not property and whether he likes it or not it’s your body and your choice on the art you display on your personal canvas. It’s not a bit tattoo problem if the others are fine, it’s something different.
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I like small tattoos on women. So if I were to get a tattoo, I’d get a small one. That being said, one of my daughters has several small tattoos and one has lots of big tattoos. It’s their choice what to put on their bodies and it’s your choice whether to do what pleases you or what pleases your husband. There’s nothing wrong with either choice.
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He didn’t tell you that you couldn’t have it done. He said he doesn’t find it attractive. So for me, that would make my decision because I want my husband to find me attractive and if having a tattoo meant that I lost the zing between us ,it would lose all its appeal to me. In fact, I would hate any thing or any tattoo that came between my husband and his love and desire for me. 
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That sucks that he is annoyed. Your body, your choice. He will get over it or he won’t.
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He doesn’t have to like it. Honestly, do what makes you happy. Appeasing him won’t end well usually. You’re married to him, not owned by him. If it’s a deal breaker, then I guess he’ll have to go.
Umm, do it. He’s supposed to love you for what’s INSIDE, not what’s on the outside.
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Do you. I personally think he’s just being honest with you. I’d respect that more than lying. I have several smaller ones because I don’t like big ones but mine has big ones and they look good on him. It’s all a matter of preference and he’s not wrong on his feelings.
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If he doesn’t mind it being on your butt, back, legs, then he’s not against tattoos. He just wants them where they can be covered it needed. Do you but I’d never do something my husband wasn’t on board with.
I mean it’s the wrist. You can’t possibly have that much room left… LOL finish it up:joy:
He knew you before he said I do so he is stuck. Do what you want. It’s your skin. He has large ones. What’s the difference?
My husband doesn’t like tattoos at all. Out of respect for him since we got married I have not gotten any more
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Who is paying for it?
Your body your choice
GIIIRRRRLL, Get/finish the tattoo and then get 100 MORE!! 
Your body, YOUR canvas your choice,YOU do as YOU WANT!!! 
My husband told me he wouldn’t “sleep” with me if I ever got a tattoo. He said they are a turn-off. I got one the day after my son died in a car accident. I got his signature on his last Mother’s Day card he gave me with a fancy written Serenity. When I showed my husband at the funeral home he told me that is a tattoo he could like. If your tattoo is good I think your husband will like it. No one should make that decision for you
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Wow call it quits over a tattoo… sad. Personally I would respect him and do as he ask because he is asking you to not finish that one, not ever get any. He doesn’t like your arms covered is all. You even said he doesn’t care if your a$$ and thighs are covered. But you do you. If you want to get it done the do it.
Your body your choice honestly. And it sounds like it was already planned, a whole piece. And he would have known that already. If a tattoo is going to color his feelings about you, that’s a red flag.
Get the tat! Love is supposed to be unconditional
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If he has tats then you can have tats. But also even if he didn’t your body your choice.
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This sounds controlling.
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You get whatever tattoo you want and a new husband if he makes it an issue.
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Have you sat down and talked with him ???
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It’s YOUR body!!! Do you as you dam well please! He married you for you not your body…if that’s not the case tell him to step off.
nope keep getting them your body
I’m not a huge fan of tattoos but I wouldn’t dream of telling a partner what they can put on their body. Do what you want.
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Tell him you don’t find shitty controlling attitudes on men attractive.
It’s your body. Get what makes you happy. If he’s this superficial and is attracted to you for what’s on the outside rather than the inside, then they’ll likely outlast him anyway, js.
I would never allow my significant other tell me what I can and can’t get on my body 
It’s my body, so it’s my choice
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He can get a big tattoo but you can’t?? Leave the whole man at the door of the tattoo parlor.
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Divorce his ass. Find someone who isn’t a douche
That should have been something he mentioned when you both went together in the first place. Just a casual " I love what you got, I’m honestly not a fan of large tattoos on women." His opinion is valid just as your opinion would be as well. However whats done is done and honestly if you think it looks good how it is, leave it. If you prefer it filled in go do it, let him know what you decided. He simply said he’s not a fan of it and that’s alright, he doesn’t have to be.
My hubby is against them too but totally for piercings. I’m getting mine done either way it’s my body. He also says he doesnt like it but to do what makes me happy so🤷♀️
Not his body.
You know what comes next.
Go get it finished. He is over reacting. It’s your body. Do what you want. I love tattoos and have 12 myself. Thinking of getting another one
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If it’s his body his choice then you also get that same right your body your choice! The fact that he has a whole shoulder done is being a hypocrite for saying he doesn’t like big tattoos on woman sorry sir but If he didn’t have to ask for your permission then you shouldn’t have to have his approval either🤷🏻♀️
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Your choice==a tattoo OR your husband…
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Wait?! So he can get a big tattoo but it’s unattractive if you do? Ok? That doesn’t seem fair. Honestly, similar thing happened to me. I got a rather large wrist tattoo…well, more forearm than wrist. My husband at the time, hated it. Mine was a one and done situation so I didn’t need to go back and finish it. At the end of the day. If you feel the marriage will be over, over a wrist tattoo. Than there’s deeper things going on. I’m a big fan of tattoos and have several. I’m in the camp…if you want it, get it. He’ll deal with it. If he chooses to treat you any differently because of it…that’s on him. That’s HIS issue, not yours. And you deserve someone that loves you regardless of your wrist tattoo!
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Why. Does anyone want to mar the beautiful body that God gave you?
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Well explain to him that you haved to at least finish it then show him this
I say it’s your body. Your choice. You only live once. Might as well enjoy it
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My boyfriend isn’t a fan of tattoos or piercings, so he doesn’t have any. He wouldn’t exec try telling me not to.
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I don’t like tattoos period so I’m no help
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Tell him that you don’t think men with big tattoos are attractive so he shouldn’t get more and should get rid of the ones he has and see how he likes it.
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Go get it done. Don’t let him run ur life
Your body. Your choice. No way would I let anyone tell me what I can or cannot do especially with my tattoos.
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If ur willing to get a tattoo and just “call it quits” with him, then u obviously don’t love him. No way would someone who is truly in love with a man contemplate “calling it quits” for a reason like that, AND need to go online to get strangers to agree with her.
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Not his body not his decision
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Respect yourself and get a new husband lmfao seriously
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“So when you say you love me, you meant only when i look “attractive”?? Or when you said you’d love me unconditionally til death do us part, that was just to what?? Are you telling me you will stop loving me for who i am because of a tattoo i want on my own body??!!??”
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My husband doesn’t like the tattoo or the piercings I have but I got them anyway. It’s my body. It’s not about what he likes it’s about what I like. Just like he likes long hair but that means if I ever wanted really short hair I shouldn’t get it? I don’t think so 
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My husband (second marriage)doesn’t like tattoos but he said it is your body and always as beautiful to me no matter what if I get tattoos or body piercing so I basically have both. My husband only like body piercing on him don’t like tattoos we both are good and do what we like. For example if my bf or husband forbidden me or doesn’t like me to have any kind of tattoos the relationship and marriage are over. It is my body I do what I like. Actually my ex husband (first marriage) forbidden me for having body piercing he was pissed he said I told you I forbidden you are married to me I ruled you for life. I took the ring off and walk out. He said you are not allow hav any tattoos I have him a ugly look and told him you don’t own me like property or own my body. He was furious with me. I had the nerves to do it whether he like it or not. So my number one rule of tattoo is never put any man’s name on my body unless he passed away for reason. For marriage or whatever I will not put any man’s name on my body. My husband agreed and we both know it is bad luck too to do that. It is our opinions. But for my children and grandkids definitely will put on my body. They are my life.
This is my opinion, i get what tattoos i want where I want, I decide what color my hair is and when I want to cut it. I also decided to get my nose pierced one day when I was out. It is my body and my choice. Just as my husband gets whatever tattoos ect he wants. His body, his choice. I love him for himself not his tattoos ect. I feel like that is a little shallow for him to tell you where to get tattoos to be attractive. I always take my husband’s opinion into consideration but it is ultimately my decision
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In the OP. Imma make a few things clear they were not in the post. Yes my husband is alittle controlling. What I wear how I look etc. always has been. When I said I was calling it quits I did NOT mean my marriage I meant the whole argument. Y’all are crazy if you think imma call it quits in my marriage over a tattoo.
Yes I am respecting him I asked his opinion. He didn’t like it. I’m deciding to still do it. It’s more of where it is that he doesn’t like not the size. Cause he said I could cover my thigh and butt with one. Yes he did say he didn’t find it attractive but I feel like my appearance isn’t what should make him love me or not. He also has tattoos even one on the wrist where I want mine. I think he is just trying to control another thing regarding my appearance and this time I’m not just gonna bow down and take it. Thank you all for your opinions they are very well appreciate and I read everyone of them.
I’m not leaving my husband because of this just to clear that up! I am getting my tattoo and I do respect his opinion. I’m just done being controlled. That’s it
Women giving up power like you giving him autonomy to make decisions regarding your body is how the good ole boys club got Roe v. Wade overturned. I said what I said.
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If this wasn’t important enough to disclose before you got married it does not matter now. He’ll get over it and if he doesn’t then it’s about control and that’s more of a red flag.
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It doesn’t sound like he’s against big tattoos, it sounds like he’s not keen on tattoos that you can’t cover easily with clothing… Has it got to do with social events, work, something else? You said that he doesn’t care if you get your whole thigh or butt done… So big tattoos isn’t the issue.
Live your life. Be your most authentic self!! It’s so unfortunate that your partner can’t just lone you for you, and have to make it about appearance. If getting tattoos make you happy, and make you feel better, GET THEM! Life is way to short to not do what you want. If it’s a deal breaker for him, then thats the validation you need to LEAVE
Who’s body it? Ask him that.
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Get how ever many tattoos YOU want your husband doesn’t have a say just because he’s your husband. It’s YOUR body.
I can’t relate because my husband and I respects each other. After all I look at him and he looks at me. We are both getting our first and they’re big. We showed each other what we wanted and we both asked, “What do you think?”
I love this site, usually its about parenting or relationship issues but today its 2 train cars arguing about their graffiti
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Do what you want. You only gave one life, don’t live it with regrets
Tell him to stfu and go get your tattoos. He’s being controlling and it’s gross
Screw his opinion and get it finished
Tattoos doesn’t stop stop someone from loving another person
It’s art and if he can get a big tattoo to cover up his "ex’s "
Name then why not finish yours
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a persons tattoo has a story behind it.
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Fuck him, get the tattoo and keep getting them. If he can be “put off” by your tattoos then Id be questioning if his love is just skin deep. Shouldn’t matter what pictures are on your body
It is your body do as you wish, he is not your parents
get all the tattoos you want
Dam Girl. Go and get a full body tattoo. It will either change his controlling or leave. Either way Girl , nobody should be able to tell you what to do with your Body. Giver 
. Enjoy Life to the Fullest. 
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Reminds me of when my brother in law told my sister not to get a kitten. She didn’t. SHE GOT TWO!
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Your body not his tell him
You do as your husband ask you to do make him proud
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What but he has tattoos lol huh how’s that make se se thang
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I don’t think big tattoos on women are attractive.
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Your body is the one thing you have that is supposed to be 100% yours all your life. That’s all imma say
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It is your body and your choice. He doesn’t find them attractive on women and he let you know. So when he becomes unattracted to you you can’t complain. A tattoo sure as hell isn’t worth it!
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He can’t help not finding them attractive, can he? Neither do I, I think they’re ghastly. But if you like them and want them and think it’s worth repulsing him….
It’s your body, your choice.
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My husband doesn’t like my tattoos lmao I don’t give a fuck I just got one a couple weeks ago 
and I have a sleeve lol
Oof. My response woulda been “damn that sucks. Sounds like your not gonna find me attractive then” like ok cool dude that’s fine. 
My husband thinks long hair looks better on women. I have a shaved head because I like it that way. He has never told me I could not shave my head. Sometimes I get a “aww… it was just getting long” but he’d never dictate my personal choice or sacrifice my comfort nor happiness for a beauty standard.
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I’m sorry, but why would he even marry you if he didn’t like YOU for YOU. If he can’t get past a tattoo love, there’s men out there that would love to look at them. Carry on 
And to you other women agreeing with him…. Do you lack brain cells? She said he was getting one too… lmao.
He doesn’t like her getting large ones. I think he’s having an issue with his ego. He should fix that 
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Ink my whole body I don’t give a motherfuck.
He knew what he was getting himself into when he married you. Did he expect you to stop what you like because of him??
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N husband needs to do all he can for his wife n make her proud
No. Your Body. Your choice. Not his
Paint YOUR temple!!!
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My partner is the same way. He hates tattoos especially on women. He is over the top against them. This was never an issue for us because I’m afraid of getting a tattoo and have zero interest in them. If I came home with a tattoo it would be a very very big deal to him. I hate motorcycles and he loves them. I get over the top upset when he drives one because I feel it’s dangerous. Relationships are about compromise. You need to figure out in your heart what means more to you right now. Do you really really love this idea of a wrist tattoo? Do you love the wrist tattoo more than he hates it? If it was me, I’d remove the wrist tattoo to show him he’s important to me and tattoo other places on my body instead. Unless of course you love this wrist tattoo alot and it means alot to you. Marriages have to reach a compromise on many issues and this is one of those issues for you guys. Sit your husband down and come up with a compromise that makes you both happy enough. A tattoo should not be the end all and be all of a marriage or happiness. You guys can figure this out.
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U should do u and if he don’t like it tell him to kick rocks! There’s nothing wrong with tattoos on a female and he got them so there’s no reason to why u shouldn’t be able to get what u want , it’s ur body!
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It’s YOUR BODY! Pfuck that controlling p.o.s! You do not compromise on your own pfucking body 
and inam beyond shocked at the number of “women” in these comments who are doormats . The misogyny is coming from inside the house
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Unpopular opinion alert…Next post will be my husband doesn’t find me attractive anymore, need advice. I mean, if it’s that important to you, go ahead, but if it changes things for your husband, don’t say he didn’t warn you. Get the leg and butt one done if you want to respect him and have a little fun with some ink.
It’s not his option he has a right to his opnion but that’s as far as it goes
GET THE TATTOO!! if he doesn’t like it he knows where the door is.
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There needs to be some give to his take.
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Get your tattoo it doesn’t change who you are, your body and only you own it. It’s not like he’s against tattoos
Your body your choice he knew you had tattoos when yous got together.
Narcissist alert on him!!!
As I tell my husband and I have tattoos he dont my body my choice and im.about to get my next one here soon. I have several in hidden spots and want one I can see every day
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I wouldn’t get any more , you are a woman , stay that way
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