Given the COVID situation she will be lucky of they allow her husband in.
You can ask the head nurse to handle it for you. They are usually really good and tactful.
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Hahaha what a joke!
People need to consider the mother far more than they do currently. Youâre the one sacrificing your body and life for 9 months and then going through labour which is often traumatic. Who is he or your mother in law to dictate what/who you should and shouldnât have around at that time.
Such a private and special time. Do not give in. It is YOUR body and YOUR choice xx
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Your body your choice.
Itâs your birth story. Itâs your body and private parts that will be out. It is your choice who is part of that personal moment. Donât let him push you around
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Would he expose himself in front of your dad? That is the exact question
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i think thats pretty shitty to only have your family in the room. but eh i cant tell you what to do, i can only give my opinion.
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Lie and say that COVID wonât allow it!
YOUR UTERUS, YOUR CALL!! Next baby he can give birth. F*ck that.
Ok so silver lining⊠Covid may make the decision for you. They are only allowing one person beside the mother here⊠sometimes not even that.
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Until heâs comfortable and willing to lay naked, spread eagle on a table in insane amounts of pain while taking a shiit in front of your dad he doesnât get to think ab having an opinion. Itâs YOUR labor you donât have to allow shiit
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Iâm surprised they are letting more people then just your husband in the room. All the hospitals I know of are not letting anyone into the hospital except for one person.
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Come have birth in my area, they are ONLY allowing the dad or your partner for your whole stay at the hospital. That way it doesnât matter if he is mad or not.
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You have 2 people to support you, have you thought about him. He needs some support also compromise instead of your sister itâs only fair to have your mother and his mother.
Better yet just make it you and him everyone else can sit in the lounge.
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I always had 1 person in the room with me and thatâs was my mother and I told him to everyone to fu off
This had to have been written prior to Covid because there is NO 3 people allowed right now⊠anywhere.
Iâm sure poster already gave birth and is preparing for them to go off to college. 
Your vag your decision
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Your vagina your choice. Would he want your mom in the room while he was naked. Itâs about who youâre comfortable with not him. Youâre lucky to even be allowed more than one person as most places only allow one person because of covid.
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This is YOUR birth, not your MIL. If it makes you feel uncomfortable in any way then donât have her. Your husband will have to get over it in my opinion 
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If he exposes him self to your dad first then sure 
lol
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Youâre the pt and youâre in charge. Tell the nurses what you want and theyâll make sure it happens. Luckily, with COVID being a thing, MIL shouldnât be allowed anyhow.
With COVID only one person was allowed. I took my mother. My hubby stayed home with my other child. He saw the baby 3 days later
Heâll be lucky if heâs allowed in. My friend was all alone. Her hospital said not even one person.
I wanted only my husband and I. Itâs a pretty personal thing. Plus ppl do tend to piss you off when in labor, so the fewer ppl there the less likely you will yell at them or say something mean
I told my sons father that if his mom wanted to be in a delivery room to watch her grandkid be born, she shouldâve had a girl itâs your vagina itâs your decision
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Your choice not his and with covid they likely arent gonna let anyone but your husband in anyways.
Tell him to whip his penis out in front of your family and stretch the pee hole out to oblivion and see how he likes it.
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Tell him first he has to spread his legs on a bed and let your mom see. Iâm sorry this just kills me that people think they can make that decision when theyâre not the one pushing a baby out.
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His opinion is irrelevant in this situation. Back in the day HE wouldnât even be allowed. So play your position, daddy, and get your mother in line.
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Tell him tough titties. Youâre the one laying there in the open for everyone to see everything. If youâre not comfortable, youâre not comfortable. Simple as that. If he canât understand that, then heâll just have to be mad. 
Or tell him if heâs gonna throw a fit, he can set out too. Lol
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You are the one giving birth, itâs not about anyone but you and what makes YOU comfortable. A smooth labor is what is most most important! Anyone who says differently is way off base! Other family can come in the room once the baby is born.
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Only people there at conception allowed in the room during delivery!
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He Is Not Giving Birth! Not His Decision!! Wow, He needs to show you support right now not arguing about whoâs in the room!!!
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Heâs not the one with all his âpartsâ on display. Plain and simple.
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Your body your decision. That is a huge experience in your life and you should not be uncomfortable.
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Do whatâs right for you. This will simply be the first of many
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Tell him when he is the one pushing a baby out of his vagina then he can choose whose in the room and who is not
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You are the one giving birth, not him. Your decision, not his.
Tell him to grow up .he is supost to have your back and respect you. If he cant. Tell him to move on
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3 people? Most hospitals its one person. Id have your husband and no one else
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No is a complete sentence and answer. Donât do anything youâre not comfortable with
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I will be giving birth to my third baby in about 7 weeks and Iâve made it clear that only my husband will be with meâŠwhoever gets butt hurt oh well idc
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That is the most vulnerable you will ever be. The fact that your hospital allows that many people in now during the pandemic is shocking. If you say no. Thatâs the end of it. Itâs not him pushing it out. Iâm normally all for compromise but not on this
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Just limit it to him. That way your not â playing favoritesâ
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Next time yâall have sex, tell him to invite his mom for a threesome since he wants her there to see your vagina busted open
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She wonât be able too. Chances are itâll be a 1 person only policy.
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If he is treating you like crap now I would just leave.
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Your choice, honestly right now be lucky you can have anyone other than him there due to COVID
He should fucking respect your decision since yore LITERALLY THE ONE GIVING BIRTH?!
This is your birth. Heck I kicked my own mother out and I tried to kick my dr out and my husband. The pain made me crazy. But hey I needed the dr so dr stayed. But I didnât want everyone looking at my vagina going through birth. TELL HIM WHEN HE PUSHES THE NEXT BABY OUT OF HIS PENIS HIS MOTHER GETS FRONT ROW SEATING. Cause new medical science will help him achieve this goal. Donât feel guilty, you wonât be the first or last mom. I bet his mom didnât like the choices she had during her moment of pushing either.
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I think it is your choice but as a mother of four boys I never got to be in with the birth of any of my grandkids .It makes me sad to think that I couldnât be a part of any of that .
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Tell him to get bent!! Youâre one carrying the baby and will be doing the bulk of the work. You have who you want to have in there with you. Tell MIL she can get a straw and suck it up!!
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Your body, you are giving birth. Your choice.
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Tell him if he wants her in there so bad then she can take his place lol
Of course I am joking because that might backfire but it is your choice.
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Tell him when he lays down spread eagle for HIS MIL, for hours on end, youâll reconsider. 
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Are they even allowing other people on the delivery room? Iâm due in 8 weeks and I was told only one person can be in there with me due to Covid. Why should it be her and not the father?
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Sorry but your body, your rules. If you want your mother him and your sister, then thatâs who it should be. Donât be pressured to have someone there that you donât want.
Also, I donât know what area you are in, but with rising COVID cases thereâs a good chance that you will only have 1 birth partner. Iâm going in for a csection tomorrow morning and am only allowed one person in the hospital with me and absolutely no visitors allowed.
If you tell them you donât want her there, she wonât be in there. This is about you giving birth, not about you making someone else happy. I only had my husband with me both times I gave birth and Iâm glad. Itâs a very vulnerable time for both of you.
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Your birth, your baby, your body. No one else should ever ever make you feel bad about how and where and who has a part in the birth.
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The choice is up to you I however did have my mnlaw in the room up until the delivery then she came back in afterwards I didnât mind her there sheâs always been real helpful to us and my parents weâre on their way and no problem waiting in the waiting room I didnât even have my sis in there but my sis n law was there because sheâs our kids god parents my sis didnât mind and besides my family knew they would have plenty of time with my kid after he was born we even went to live with my parents for about a month till I recovered to go home so everyone had their time with my son we all just understood and have respect for each other
Please donât attack me, but Iâll be expecting to go in the room if and when my grandchild enters the world 
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Youâre the one giving birth, itâs not his choice.
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Tell him if he keeps making a fuss about it heâll be out in the waiting room with her
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Kick his ass out too then.
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Tell him when he pushes a baby out then he can decide who gets to watch
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Well, be grateful im due any day now amd only the babies father is allowed in.
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Birthing your baby is one of the most magical moments we experience in our lives. You need to be one hundred percent comfortable with who is in the room, and if he cares about you and how this experience is for you then he will do whatever you want. Itâs not about him. He doesnât have to sit in the styrups while your dad watches him get probed. Would he be uncomfortable? Yes. Thatâs all there is. Up to you and you ONLY mamma!
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I personally would compromise. Making him feel like everything is only your decision will discourage him as a parent.
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Your body your choice
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Your right. Itâs your body. Your choice whoâs in the room. Especially during these times. He should understand that. If it was him spread open for everyone to see Iâm sure heâd be singing a different tune.
Its YOUR delivery. What you say literally goes. The nurses will chuck Hubby to the curb if you tell them to. While I understand wanting your support team there, it is understandable that he feels like his mother is being left out since yours will be there. Is there any way you can just have it be the two of you during delivery then theres no favorites?
Perhaps you could have both of them visit while your labor progresses and then wait outside during the actual delivery?
Honestly your husband isnt the one doing the work. His opinion doesnt matter. You pick who you pick. End of story. If he gets pissed then hes clearly selfish and blind to the situation at hand.
Tell him if hes willing to lay naked in front of your mom with his legs in stirrups and squeeze out a turd, then his mom can be in the room
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Your body your choice but like others said because of covid they are only allowing one person in with u and no visitors.
My mum came in immediately afterwards. So she could do that, she should be part of it but so many people in the room isnât really necessary
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It is the most vulnerable time of your life and your basically naked?! Why would your MIL want to invade such a private moment? You need your mother and husband by your side for supportâŠat least I did 
Tell her you just donât feel comfortable,she and your husband can wait in the waiting area
I only had my mom & my fiancĂ© (kids dad) in the room! Donât feel any type of way about it. They were mad/upset at first but they got over it⊠and to be honest even if they didnât get over it I would not have cared! It is my body, I am birthing the child, my choice. I am and always have been very modest so it was just that way with me. I wouldnât even let my mom stand any further down than my head
Donât do something thatâs going to take away from the experience of having your baby!! Heâll get over it
My opinion is that is her grandchild just as it is your mothers grandchild. Imagine telling your mother that she canât come in the room when her grandchild is born? Or say that to your mother feel that not waiting to hurt your Mother in your gut? Watch the look on your moms face the absolute heartbreak. Thatâs what your expecting him to do. If you are married you should treat your Mother and mother in law with the same respect.
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All of you can agree with her if you want but she still has to deal with her husband and his feelings!! That is his mother and he feels if yours can his can not your sister!! I guarantee you will have backlash about this!! Sometimes we have to give. Please reconsider to keep peace and love!!
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Pretty sure hospitals donât allow anyone else but the birth coach in the room during COVID times. Ask the hospital about that?
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Just say right out NO!!
Its a good thing youâre the mother. And what you say will go. Your nurses and doctor will listen to you. So, if you tell them you donât want anyone in there then you tell them. You speak up mama. Goodluck to you!
It is absolutely your choice but think of it like thisâŠif you had/have a son/s wouldnât you want to see your grand babies born? It may seem far off but trust me, it goes by quick. To add to that wouldnât ypu want your son to have you there with him if he wanted you there. Not trying to make you feel guilty but tbh in most cases you wonât even be paying any attention to who is there once ypu are in active labor and you likely will not care at all. Just saying. Try to see it from the other side.
Still your choice in the end. I would suggest letting her stay until push time. Bu then ypu may decide you donât care anymore and if you still donât want her to stay she can go. I would say discuss it with your doctor so they know your plan.
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My husband said the same thing I told him if his mom is gunna be in there hes gunna be in a bed next to me legs in stirrups with his junk hanging out for all to see âŠhe wanted her in there for his emotional support ⊠Told him he wasnt the one pushing a human out of a tiny hole that he doesnt need support he was mine âŠi got my way and it was just me and him in the room 
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If youâre not comfortable then she shouldnât be in there. Giving birth is a big deal and heâs not the one doing it. She can see the baby afterwards.
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Pick the three ppl YOU want in there. You need to be comfortable and free of stress when delivering your baby. Have you mother in law wait in the waiting room or have her come after you give birth.
I was my daughters birth partner along with her partner but I wouldnât expect to be in the room when my daughter in law has a baby. I was there for my daughterâs needs only and no other reason
Tell your husband itâs not his coochie and when he pushes a child out then he can have a say!! Nobody wants their mother in law looking at their lady bits thatâs crazy! You can tell the nurses and they will insure to follow your wishes! Tell him his mother can come in as soon as your lady bits are covered up!! Your body your choice!!
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My husband would never have even asked me about his mother. But in order to avoid any feelings about the situation, I opted to only have my husband. With my first, both of my parents also hung out while I labored (dilating and that whole bit) but everyone but hubby left when the pushing started. With our second, I didnât even bother with that and just had my husband- so much more preferable, IMO. If this is your first, Iâd highly recommend considering how special an occasion this is for you and your husband, and just have it be the two of you.
Youâre giving birth, your choice. She and anyone else you chose can wait in the waiting area.
You do what makes you happy. If youâre uncomfortable. Then sheâs not allowed in the room for the birth
The only person who needs Support is you that day so itâs only right you get to choose whoâs there . He shouldnât be making it a big deal especially now . You donât need stress .
I had MY MOTHER in there. Not my husbands! Sorry she canât see my coochie, sheâs my mother in law⊠
Gross! I donât want you see hers either. Sorry bout itâs weird she even wants to be in there!
People fail to understand that it is YOUR body on display. YOU are a patient that needs to be tended to and monitored as well as the baby. Nobody has a right to watch you give birth if you donât want them to. The last thing you need is to be nervous, uncomfortable, angry, resentful, stressed out, etc during labor and delivery because someone is in the room watching every detail and hearing your private medical business that you donât want there. People fail to think about the mother because all they want is to see the baby.
Since virus I think they only allowing one if that now.And sure it still be here in two months
NOPE! JUST NO!! You have only who you are comfortable with. No way do you have to have her in there. Wow some dudes have no idea heyâŠ
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You do exactly that! Donât let her in!!! It is co.pletely up to you and if you are not comfortable. She should not be there period!!!
Stand your ground. You are the one giving birth. Do what YOU want.
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May not allow anyone
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Hell no,
Donât do it. Your day, your body. Itâs not about anyone else but you and what you want. Itâs the one time you can be purely selfish and everyone has to accept it. Itâs a once in a life time moment and you donât want to look back and only remember being uncomfortable with her being there. Both of them
Should understand that itâs all about you on the day and if they donât, theyâre being completely unreasonable.
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Not your body, not your choice who sees it 