I would have kicked my husband out if he did that to me, too! Take some time away for a couple weeks then talk. I don’t know if you have a history of repeating the same thing but get marital counseling to figure out what the issues are and stop putting your husband through an emotional wringer. I get so furious with unfaithful spouses. It’s a horrible feeling to know that your spouse has feelings for someone else when they ONLY should be having feelings for you.
If your on the lease, you have a right there also, no police is going to tell you, you can’t be there. That’s a FACT
it is kinda interesting that 13 years together and 9 years married, instead of taking steps to fix or help your relationship, you started talking to another man… not even a mention of things you did or tried to fix things… did you try talking your husband to get to the bottom on the supposed rudeness and yelling… did you seek help for your relationship, or did things get rocky and you jumped at the first opportunity to talk to another guy… better yet, maybe you’ve been talking to this guy more then you care to share… either way… your story is fishy… and the ladies on here saying “ he talks to female cashiers “ blah blah blah… you’re ridiculous.
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He has to give a 30 day notice for you to leave since that is your mailing address
Do you have a house key? Wait until he goes to work and move out and take what you want. Ask the police to give you an escort to the house if you’re worried about him being there.
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What state do you live in ?? He can’t just kick you out and an officer would tell him that
Girl…what kind of mess have you gotten into. Stop being rachet and handle business at home and you wouldn’t have this nonsense to deal with. I have to say I am on his side at this point.
I feel like this is a joke question. Who would believe a person can kick another person out based on infidelity? Even if it was a blatant show of infidelity 
He must’ve been cheating during those months prior. Nobody changes just out of nowhere.
Plus with both on the lease if he decides to not pay they can usually come after you
Don’t think he can just kick u out for talking to someone… He’s probably the one cheating, and trying to make it all about u being the bad guy!!! I think the cop stuff is BS … Get a lawyer
Unless you’re in another country where it’s illegal this is fake. Literally the last 3 stories I’ve seen in here sound completly made up.
No he can’t. You need a lawyer not suggestions from facebook
Put a restraining order against him. He will have to go until you have a hearing in about 30 days
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He’s not allowed to kick you out. Don’t ask an officer ask a judge
Until you’ve walked a mile in those shoes you don’t know what you would do!!!
He is not allowed to kick you out for any reason. An officer despite what they may think does not know the full extent of the law. I would contact a family attorney ASAP. You have rights to the home you have built with your spouse. If not you maybe entitled to the equity you have put in the home. Have you painted, hung pictures, replaced linens? Yup, that counts. Get your ducks in a row and stop talking to that guy. Infidelity is not that solid in court anymore when it comes to divorce.
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As long as you receive mail thats has your name on it even if it junk mail he can’t kick you out my husband tried and the cops told me that
You voluntarily left so now you’re kinda screwed
If you’re on the lease he can’t kick you out. He’s bluffing.
I think he made it up and told u to scare u off
You’re on the lease… you can’t be kicked out
So was he the one who told you that?
You both are lying to each other. What the fuck did you expect?
In Florida he can’t kick you out if you’ve been living there. He has to give you 30 days notice if the house was acquired in his name PRIOR to the marriage. If it was acquired after marriage, whether or not your name is on the deed/mortgage, he cannot evict you.
He can’t kick you out Bc of infidelity. Good lord.
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I just kicked my husband of 9 years out for the same thing. I saw msgs to woman on his phone, said fuck that, get out. .
Difference is I didn’t treat him the way he treated you leading up to it and he’s not on my mortgage. But I 100% consider it infidelity.
Do not leave your house if you are on the lease. My ex husband did the same thing to me. Tell him to call the cops. When they get there they can tell you both that you gave the right to be there. He can’t change the locks or any if that.
Yeh that’s a load. Times have changed and both parties have rights to the leased house.
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Do not leave , he will say you abandoned the marriage. Stay there.
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Legally he has to give you 30 days to vacate the property, regardless of the marriage agreement. Go home. Sleep separate and plan to move out.
Check into the laws in your state cause that doesn’t sound right. Especially if you are both on the lease.
He can’t make you move out. You can stay and make him miserable
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I feel like this is a joke. Ur married… He doesn’t get to kick u out. Period.
Attorneys say never leave your home!!
He needs a new wife!
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United states that’s not legal
You need legal advice yourself. Womans aid might find you temporary accomodation. As you have been abused.
You fucked up. Go head an move out. You can speak to as much men as u want then without being kicked out 
He can’t legally kick you out! property manager here he has to evict you first If He has been treating you like crap he has probably been cheating
I wouldn’t leave. He has to legally evict you.
Depending on where u live he has to legally evict u
Have here any divorce women?
Either get a lawyer to get divorce and alimony or try to talk t him to work it out .
Everyone just looking over the fact this lady was going to be unfaithful if the husband didn’t find out??
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He went looking cause he’s guilty too.
Talk to a lawyer. Taking to a guy is not illegal.
You can not be wrongfully evicted from your home.the officer lied
No you’re on the lease doesn’t matter who cheated on who
1st delete all da data 4m phone …n go to mom plc …if mom nt helping you …tell him to help …don’t worry
This is a fake problem. You can make up something that at least sounds real
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How about not talking to other guys while you’re married? I’d kick your ass to the curb too. 
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As far as infidelity/cheating… thats bs as far as a reason to be kicked out. My ex cheated on me, admitted to it in texts and my lawyer told me to just do an uncontested divorce cuz even tho I had the texts it didn’t matter. She said you basically need photos as proof if you are trying to divorce for infidelity. So if he wants a divorce, fine, but don’t let him file for infidelity especially if you only talked to the guy. Infidelity is if you have sex with him. So your husband is lying
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Get a lawyer immediately, don’t take the internets advice
That’s right if you’re not happy then leave.
Call a Lawyer. Get proper legal advice. ASAP.
Never leave!! You have rights.
Go cry to your new man about it not facebook! You sound stupid… if there’s a problem in your marriage the only solution would be to talk to each other about it not other people… I’m with him, get out and leave him alone
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I’ve never heard of this in the US.
I call BS. This surely is Not real.
Maybe he’s doing the same thing
Infidelity is a civil matter he can’t kick you out if you are legally on the lease. The police have no say here this is a courtroom matter…
I see a huge double standard here. So let me ask all of you this… If she came on here and said she discovered her husband was having an inappropriate emotional relationship with someone, would you say “legally you can’t kick him out, he has rights”. Probably not. Most of you would say “you deserve better, you need to leave, or make him move out”. Because I have seen this type of thread many times before. A woman gets symptathy, and empathy when a husband does something like this and the wife finds out. He’s a horrible husband… But a woman does this, her husband finds out and asks her to leave, and yet the husband is still a monster?! I am not taking sides. I’m trying to understand why this street doesn’t go both ways.
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Wtf, you cheated? You literally brought this upon yourself. Deal with the consequences and leave.
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I would kick your ass out as well u cheated on him and proved that you are untrustworthy.After a few months you already wanna cheat that just one of many reasons marriages are jokes nowadays people arent commited to each other in the bad times as soon as theres a rough patch people just wanna give up.SMH
You can have him put in jail for kicking you out.
Burn the house while he sleeps 
Every state is different. Indiana for example doesn’t recognize adultery so I guess they don’t do anything. My now ex husband tried to be vindictive bc I didn’t want his abusive ass anymore and tried to have him kicked out. They told me here it was a family court issue and that I can only make him leave if I told my landlord to evict him individually, but otherwise nothing I could do
Better find a super 8! You knew damn well when you sent that snap that it wasn’t in your best interest! Your husband is hurting he trusted you with his all! You made that decision to tear apart your family! You made your bed now lay in it!! Harsh I know but if you want to be with another man then just be single. It’s no ones fault but your own! You decided to text this other man without your significant other knowing! That’s being sneaky. Unfaithful
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#stoparmenianterrorism
Hahaha the one and only reason you can have your name removed from a lease is to help domestic violence victims leave. You literally have to get permission to have your name removed which can prove difficult. You are liable for half the rent living there or not and he can take you to court to recover half the rent if you haven’t paid. He’s full of it. He can not kick you out
Where do you live? If the US, get a lawyer…other countries i dunno…wow. but hope you learned a valuable lesson about confiding in another man about your marriage…it was never gonna end well
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You should have talked to your husband not someone else. Those of you saying cheating is not a criminal offense, guess what, it is 21 states. It is considered illegal in those 21 states. So sorry hun, but you shouldn’t have done what you did even if you’re husband is an asshole. You should have had a conversation with a marriage counselor rather than turn to another man. Just move on, take it as a blessing.
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He’s not allowed to kick you out. Your name is on the lease. Do your own research and don’t trust what he says. And as hard as this may be to hear, I think he may have already been cheating on you
You absolutely cannot be kicked out of your home unless the landlord specifically does it. There’s a civil matter the cops can’t make you leave. like you would have to go through an entire legal process for you to not legally be there. personally I’d say if the both of you are not happy it might just be time to move on
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That’s not infidelity and even if you did have sex with someone you still get a right to your home. He is feeding you BULLSHIT. You been married over 13 years. An officer is not a Lawyer. Officers do not know the law they enforce, and this is a civil divorce issue anyway. You take your ass back to that house and if he gets physical or violent. You call the police and get a protection order and he will be ordered to leave.
Leave. No person needs an abusive partner.
Also, you did not cheat. Get a legal opinion.
Welp. Should have communicated. Maybe, instead of cheating.
Your just a cheater and i would of done the same
Stop posting ur relationship problems on Facebook and work it out with your husband
That’s what you get lol
Karmas a bitch. “They say”
Hope you stay homeless
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The officer is full of shit.
Tell his ass to leave
What do u expect him to do:roll_eyes:. Your not happy move on and find somewhere to live you wanna flirt and talk to other men then that’s what u get. You can’t expect him to say sure live with me while u try and find another man gee 
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I don’t know what state you live in but most that’s not the case it’s really hard to kick a spouse out. Not sure why you would want to stay with someone you don’t care for any more, emotional relationship are just as bad as having sex with someone, I am not judging it’s a slippery slope either way, then you mix in children and you have a hot mess; figure out how to be a parent for your children they are the priority.
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What state is this in? In most cases, he would have to serve you eviction papers using proper time frames? I definitely hope you stand for your rights, but also please be safe. If things are already rocky, are you safe with him alone? If not, just go file proper paperwork in your county & accept this one.
Your safety 1st!!!
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He’s abusive and you’re cheating why would you want to stay there. The way he was acting towards you before will be nothing compared to now. Stay gone for both your sakes
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Infidelity doesn’t even matter in some states and I can’t imagine a conversation would qualify as such, even though it may have been morally wrong. You have legal rights. Don’t give them up.
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How is this legal? Are you on the lease/mortgage? I’ve NEVER heard of anyone being able to kick out a spouse based on infidelity. It’s your house as much as it’s his.
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Out of nowhere he started changing (
it’s a chick on the side) … texting got him that pissed. No ma’am… (it’s a chick on the side 
) Any kids involved? The “local officer” is a friend of his??? This post need more details 
But anyway he would have had to drag me out that house like ole boy did in Dairy of a Mad Black Woman!!! 
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Get his phone records if u can. I have a feeling he hasn’t been faithful either. Just saying🤷♀️
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I don’t think talking to another guy is considered infidelity either, he pulling your chain unless of coarse they are sexually explicit talk and pics. Then yeah you bad. But he is also causing you mental and emotional abuse also
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Do not leave!!! He has no right to kick you out without exclusive use granted by the court. If you leave then it will be all in his favor.
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Honey, listen to your Gut instinct. He cannot kick you out ,if your on the lease. He has to Legally Evict You thru a Court.
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You should have called the police right then they would have take care of it they would not have let him throw you out and they would have made sure you were safe. You can still call the police for information of what you should do and what your husband did to you and let the police help you
He’s lying why would you leave your house what officer told you this oh my god he’s probably cheating on you go back into your house tell him if he doesn’t want you that he can leave go to court also get his phone records I bet you this is another woman someone lurking around stay safe and God bless:broken_heart:
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It is your choice to stay and fight for your rights or leave, in my personal experience my name was on an apt that I shared with an ex, I left anyway, I took what I could that belonged to me, took my name off the place and just left, the heartache and hurt wasn’t worth my sanity
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I don’t care that you cheated you better go back and the police can’t ask you to move he better legally go down and serve you an eviction and I doubt that the judge would grant it under those “ goofy” circumstances now once he file for divorce or Vice Versa then so be it I’m there like swim wear
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