Ummm… throw the whole damn husband out. That’s a lot of weight gone instantly.
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My wife tells me daily how fat I am. It doesn’t feel good.
….READ OUT LOUD IN THE MIRROR EVERYDAY……Tell Your Husband From ME, it’s NOT about the Physical Appearance of Someone !!! You are the life giver of his children, You DEMAND Respect Lady, You Damn Well DESERVE IT 
Just My Opinion:purple_heart:
I’m sorry… I’d be pissed and hurt too… that’s mean… and I guarantee If you did that to him he would be butt hurt… ugh men
Men!!! That’s all I can say. Men!! SMH. They don’t realize how sensitive we can be about our weight
Throw the whole man child away 
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Go to a nutritionist, they can definitely help. I lost 70 pounds by following her advice.
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Oh hell no. You just don’t say that to anyone. I’d be really upset and pissed. That isn’t okay.
Ima say this when a man has to give birth and carries a baby then they can say something, until then shut your 
! It is easy to say when you are a man.
You are not over reacting, he’s being aweful 
And you are beautiful and wonderful at any weight, strive to be healthy, happy and SUPPORTED
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Ouch!! He could have totally been a lot nicer on how he said that, if he loves you then he loves all of you!!
Any man EVER comments on my weight id show him another man who would like it 
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Men need to know and take serious that us women don’t play about that “F” word. Not nice
Very insensitive! .That’s a douche bag thing to say, and no, you’re not being sensitive,or over reacting!!!. That was an arsehole move from him!! You have brought life into this world! Pregnancy permanently changes your body!!!. Tell him ““next time you want a barbecue, seriously think whether or not I should fire up this grill for just a small Weiner””!!!
I’m sorry that he would be so thoughtless, insensitive, and heartless. You don’t deserve that.
He can’t tell you how to feel. No one can. Classic manipulation.
You are a beautiful lady
know matter your weight.
you know your Husband best
you need to listen your try
to remember how he said it.
only you can decide to take it
to heart.
Long story short…probably a bit reactive do to raw emotions. I feel ya. 
Tell him, “the bigger the FUPA, the tastier the chalupa!” and then go get you a man who loves chalupas 
What a d-bag!
With my 1st I was like 160-170 or so and then I jumped all the way to like maybe 260, and then a few months after having the baby I jumped back down to 216. Then I was like 170 when I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd a year and a half later. After just having him I am now 212. I have more stretch marks, and I have more belly fat than ever. And my husband thinks I’m “sexy” and “beautiful” anytime I put myself down, he always tell me I’m beautiful regardless of my weight. My husband is 22. If a 22 young dad can accept the fact that you gain weight after having a baby, then YOUR husband should too.
Jerk move on his part. I was once married to someone like that. Ugh. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
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Dump that dead weight husband. If he truly loves you he wouldn’t say a single thing like that to you!!
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get rid of him, that would be half your weight 
don’t let him make you feel like shit.
WTForecast?!?! Like for real you birthed 2 of his babies &&&&&&& you were 20lbs heavier but have worked your a** off to lose that 20lbs && he has the audacity to say some shiz like that:thinking:
I’m very sorry you had to hear that at all, especially from the one person who is NOT supposed to ever say something like that😠
Shame on him shame shame shame!!!
I think he was being very insensitive and I’m sorry for that … You doing what needs done, do it for YOU, not him
You have every right. He should be proud to be with you always.
That’s terrible and something my ex would/did say. Sorry you’re dealing with that it’s no fun. 
Projecting his insecurities about his little p*nis I reckon
You’re not overreacting. And the fact that he thinks you’re overreacting is insensitive too.
Tell him to f off! Sorryhe said that too you. Remember you are beautiful just the way you are momma! Best wishes to you😊
Don’t let people have power over your feelings of yourself. If you don’t like the weight get it off
Me personally, I would want mine to let me know, but everyone is different I guess.
He’s rude and insensitive. And your feelings are valid.
Words are literally violence… U shud get him done for domestic abuse…
Two words!…. Throat punch! 
lol
It’s not what you say … it’s the tone you say it in !!!
I would have instantly chosen violence.
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I would have said “and you love these fat rolls” pop locked and dropped It right infront of him. Make It clap 
What about you Amber Wilbanks?
Tell him you are well aware of your weight 
(I’ve been in your shoes) and you don’t need negative comments from him.
You could loose 200 lbs quickly ()
You need positive energy and when you are ready and stress is down YOU will get to it.
Then ask if he’d like to be reminded of _____ all the time.
He needs to be a partner not a pound policeman.
Hope hes on the cover of gq. Sounds like a jerk.
If he refuses to apologize, or keeps gaslighting your feelings like that just tell him you’ve felt bread harder then his d!ck and then go make yourself a snack babe 
Remind him that I m fat cuz I bring your kids to this world… The audacity 
Date night would have been without him if that was me…just saying. 
Not overreacting, that is horrible. Im very sorry love
No he was very insensitive. So sorry
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Daaaaamn!! He could have at least picked a more tactful way of saying it!
What a pos. I’m the exact same size as you and my husband cant get enough of me and loves all my rolls. I’m sorry you have to deal with that.
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Divorce. Be done.
There’s a man out there that will NEVER comment on your weight. Especially after having two kids. Screw him!
Just lose the weight you feel better, n he will b nicer
No you’re not wrong that was totally uncalled for
He should have held his tongue
For starters, wear whatever the hell you want when you want and if he doesn’t want to go out in public with you, then he can sit his ass at home. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ would of called the girls and gone out anyways. He can starve.
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You are not overreacting-that was insensitive and so rude
Are you wrong with feeling this way??? NOOOOOO!!! Not one bit!!!
“Sorry, I gained weight while growing YOUR babies and giving them birth” Fuck all that. For real.
My ex used to do this
Tell him his face makes his dick look small and see how he likes it.
More cushion for the pushn mama😉 hehe.xx but seriously virtual hugs your way… my petty ass would throw some shade back lols but hey cry all you need…more hugs❤️
You are not wrong to feel that way, your feelings are valid. He shouldn’t be such a jerk about it and I would call him out on his shit.
Tell him you miss when he had less wrinkles and a better hair line 
Total dick move. He don’t deserve the 
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Lipo is 3600. Get it and get a new boyfriend
I am curious how he looks 
Tell him to get in the sea
That would have torn me to shreds. My husband has been with me since I weighed 140- all the way up to 300 lbs and I’m 5’5. He never judged me or made comments to me. I lost 100 lbs and now have a ton of loose skin. He never says or said a word. He said “I love you for you not your skin suit.” So girl, I would talk to him and tell him that hurt your feelings and you won’t tolerate that. Love yourself, you are beautiful, and don’t listen to his negative rhetoric.
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That was a disgusting thing for him to say.
No husband should ever say this to his wife.
Well rolls are what keeps Texas roadhouse in business so he can f**k off 
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He really should have shut his mouth…
Well I mean we all did learn in kindergarten that if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all.
I personally know that if I am sad or unhappy I can not lose weight so if someone said that to me it would only make it harder for me to get to my goal. You r not overreacting and your feelings r very valid. I’m sorry he hurt you.
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Instead of saying that he could have said you look great the way you are! You had 2 children from this guy the least he could do is respect the new body you now have! Even if he doesn’t like all of it! There is so many different ways he could help you to lose it instead of saying something so rude. That would hurt my feelings also even tho I would want the truth!
Get your thyroid checked
You didn’t overreact. If my husband come out with something like that I’d have flattened him - fat girl pun intended. Rock what you’re wearing, he’s the one missing out! My fat rolls show all the time, my husband knew what he married and what I was going to look like for a while after a baby 
Your feelings are valid no matter what they are…you aren’t overreacting you’re just making him feel like crap. Read that again
Tell him his d*** is small. That’ll make him shut up 
I would have pointed out his deffects as well in a very harsh mean way. And then cancel the date.
Not ok, he is a complete a*s for his comment…
You’re not overreacting at all!! That was very mean and if it were me I would’ve told his ass off!!
He should have used more tact to tell you the shirt was unflattering.
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I’d use his credit card to book myself a mommy makeover
Your partner should always be supportive no matter how you look. If a spouse makes you cry, then you’re not overreacting. Think about it. Your spouse is a louse.
My late wife was 5’1", and gained a lot of weight before she died at 71, four years ago. I avoided ever saying anything about her weight because I did not want to hurt her feelings. It was a harsh remark and he should not have said it.
Idk what else to say I would throat punched him as the tears rolled down my face. Probably reason I’m not married anymore.
However the program that Literally saved my life and drop inches and weight off I lost 100lbs in less than a yr doing this program ever day for an hr max
DDP yoga. Buy the dvds you will be amazing at it. And the kids can join too.
Look at his di*k and say awww it use to be bigger 
Marriage counseling pronto.
Your feelings are absolutely valid. He needs to see the error in his ways, or get the fuck out. Period
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What a @hole like seriously. That’s no way to speak to your wife.
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No, fuck that guy. He needs to take responsibility for making you feel that way. Period.
Sounds like a hot cast iron pan to his head
God. I would LOVE to see men coping with pregnancy, childbirth and then the baby weight-gain. Your husband needs a slap. Tell him so from a menopausal British lady who would also like to see him cope with the menopause! Fat shaming by males has to be one of the worst forms of unkindness and misogyny there is.
You’ll Drop 200 lbs fast when you leave him 
Throw the whole man out 
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I literally just posted this. Read it. Then read it again until you know for a fact you are incredible just as you are
I’m sorry you are hurting 
Sit him down and explain how it make you feel. Some men are totally absent minded when joking about weight. To them that’s exactly what it is, a joke. If he understands that is doesn’t make you feel good he’ll either stop or just be more conscious with the jokes. Sometimes all it takes is communication
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Your husband is an ass and should know better than to ever talk to anyone that way. This is not normal, so don’t let anyone here tell you it is. If a shirt isn’t flattering, blame the shirt, and say something like, “Your ____ shirt really looks great on you. This shirt doesn’t do you justice.” Seriously… he’s an ass.
I’d be pretty chapped too if that happened to me… that’s hurtful and it’s okay for you to be hurt. Feel your feelings. There are better ways he could have said that the top wasn’t as flattering or didn’t show off how beautiful you actually are… However men are dumb and they don’t think of feelings or how hurtful their comments are. You’re not overreacting, I do think that he knows he shouldn’t have said it and is turning it around so that you feel bad about reacting to something that he knows is a trigger. You need to feel safe, loved, appreciated no matter the number on the scale or on your clothing. Sending you the best
Maybe he really didn’t mean for it to come out that way. Lets face it… men are stupid. My man says stupid things like that sometimes. I also struggle with my weight but when i tell him it hurts my feelings he stops. Maybe just tell him not to joke
Well I’m glad he is concerned. But he should have had a better convo with you. How he went about it is wrong. When you love some one you need to love them through the good, bad, sick, healthy, weightless, and weight gain. So he is being a bit of an ass. At the same time, it’s also his job to look out for you. I don’t have any helpful tips cause I would be bawling too.
Maybe you should just tell him how you feel/ felt at the time he said it. Men are seriously DUMB sometimes. Especially when they’re nervous.
When I was on the table being cut open for my c- section having my daughter… they pulled her out and instead of my husband saying something like “oh look at how beautiful she is” or “omg, how precious” he said “look babe, she’s got a double chin just like you!”
To this day he feels like a dumbass because it was a really stupid thing to say that really hurt my feelings. I know now he didn’t mean any harm. He just said a really dumb thing🤦♀️
What an ass… seriously I’m so sorry your husband said that… tell him his dick game has gone down too… anyway. When you have kids back to back like that it takes a toll on a women’s body… its a natural thing. And who tf has the energy after running around after two little ones.