But I love him. ROTFL
Welcome to the real world Honey
Your with him why? Better to be alone than in bad company.
I would leave i did life so much easier
You seems to be managing your side well. Do the right thing,just leave him he is a liability than an asset.
Time for him too go.
Leave him . That way you wonât have to support him you wonât have to be bothered with him
Iâd leave. No reason to stay if youâre not happy
Why u stay with him?
Run! You already do everything yourself!
Itâs hard but to the curb I go
Just pray it works out
Tell him to get the hell out
Get rid of him. Youâre doing all by yourself anyway. You donât need him
Why are you with him then?
And youâre still with him, why???
Change your locks, send him back to his parents.
Well. I say. Run. Get out
Leave his butt you can get more help.
That is not a husband.
Do what makes you happy
Maybe it is time to move on.
File an annulment case against your husband for lack of conscience and support. He is an irresponsible head of the family.
Why are you with him???
So sorry to hear you are going through this, please seek help.
Donât put up with it 15yrs like I di
Time to start packing, lol
Either he helps out 100% or bye bye.
Open your eyes, tell him good bye, maybe paying chilfd support will open his
You know what to do.
He will not change unless he realizes he needs to change. Best wishes
Hold on for one more day, things will go your way. Only you can have the things you want. Make a decision and go.
Why are you with him?
See ya bye Hubby, no Iâm not leaving you areâŚ
Get out of the situation and b happy
The only that can change that is you !!!
God will take him out
Tell him bye- bye, u proved u donât need him so go. He needs u more.
Read your article back to yourself , you may fined the answer , itâs in there . No Judgement!!
Get rid of his sorry. Ass prayers
You already know the answer. Now youâve got confirmation. GO!
He would have to go!
Why is he still there?
Leave him⌠of course his having affair⌠Just leave that Jackass
Whos this pointing 
at ??
Why are you doing this?
You will do better by yourself
U will be better off DUMP HIM
What are you waiting for?
If heâs doing nothing to support you why stay?
Time for you to dump him
Tell him to step up or step out.
Talk to a legal aid attorney about divorce
Basically youâre on your own.
Clearly he dint care. Leave
NO more martyrs! They all died already. Leave and be happy.
Why keep him around? Really!
Then let him go be by himself
If heâs not paying for anything why is he there
You are doing amazing
make him leave ,not you. make him pay hild suport! or go to a marrige theripist
Let him take care of himself
Get rid of him
Bad thoughtless man
Just leave his sorry ass.
Get rid of that Jerk
Leave. Or give him an ultimatum. Get off your butt or we are leaving/tell him to get out
What difference would it make if you leave him? What will you gain once he is gone in your life?
You know the answer, deep inside you. Just decide on what you think is bestâŚno matter how hard⌠Start anew! No matter how hard the change would be. Anyone who is working hard for her kids, God will help and rescue. It may take time for things to get better but at least you are no longer stuck in pain and disappointment.
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ITs no wonder he doesnât want anything to do with you and your whinging, get off facebook an do something useful.
Stop taking care of him. No cooking, cleaning laundry. Personally Iâd go.about my life as if he didnât exist. Kick him out, youâve already proven to yourself that you donât need him⌠Donât forget to seek child support.
You are an amazing lady. Please ck out alanon and co dependents anon. They are both on line. Your asking for support and all of these people are here for you. Grab a hold and begin your journey. You are modeling for your kids. Turn the page and choose yourself. Choose them. Give yourself permission to heal and grow. You. Are enough. No one can change him Itâs difficult to have a relationship with someone who is already in a relationship with the bottle. You however can do this. And weâre all here to support you
I donât have enough informationâŚ
Sometimes starting off a wife may start off doing everything and will not ask for help⌠and even when the husband tries to help, the wife puts him down or wants it done their way⌠then after awhile the husband stops trying and feels worthless, but most men will not voice their feelings⌠so they just act out
that sucks! So the difference in your life right now is having another person to tend to (except heâs not a kid!) . I think it would be best for you to divorce him since youâre doing all the work yourself. I know itâs a hard concept to take but he not pitching in to chores and finances are making you depressed. Get rid of the toxic factor in your life: HIM.
Girl, I have been married almost 40 years. My husband won my heart by washing dishes for me. We have three sons. Two of the three would have preferred their dad had been the one to stay home. He cooks, cleans, does cloths and even now that our sons are grown. He takes their calls and is on the phone for hours. This is not bragging. This is me telling you, your already doing life without his help. Kick him to the curb. A judge will see you get child support. Money is not everything but its a start. Get a sitter for Friday nights. Plan on going to a movie, soaking in bubbles, reading. Anything you want to do. No chores! That is your time. If only for two hours.
When asked out donât judge the book by its cover. My hubby is average in looks. But above average In everything else Trust me, I would not trade him for the hottest man on earh. I pray you find someone worth your love.
If your doing all this by yourself you are a strong woman why even be married anymore its all on you anyway what kind of man letâs his kids down you do whatâs best for you and your children is it fair to them that their father is there but not there donât bring them up in that kind of energy try thinking about how to survive this until you can do better for you and your children women have raised kids on their own for centuries donât stress pray and ask God for guidance I hope it works out for you 
When I was only three here is what my mom told my Dad before she left. âIf I can take care of three I sure as hell an take care of twoâ. Food for thought.
Leave him u do it all
No need for another kid on top of the 2 already
Sorry I am not as nice and polite. Your married if those are his kids and does NOT help then pack your kids and any crap you need and leave. Never look back and NO second chances.
Youâll have to sit that husband down and have a serious talk with him about helping you. In my opinion, if you can do all this by yourself, you donât need him at all. If he still canât listen to you after you sit him down and have this conversation with him, youâre better without him. Thatâs one reason why there are so many single mother and women out there in this world. Kick his ass to the curve and that will minus that extra stress off you. Youâre pretty much an independent woman and I praise you a lot for it. Love, peace and good luck to you. 
I would have the locks changed and his belongings sitting outside when he comes âhomeâ at 2-3oâclock in the morning with a note saying you are not his mama! Or better yet divorce papers!
Then why are u keeping him kick his lazy ass to the curb if u are doin it all by yourself u really donât need him
When you leave go for child support and if you have a house keep that to
My ex husband and I tried to make it work after our divorce. He went home to his parents when his dad got sick and was gone over two weeks. I asked him when he was coming home, he said he didnât know ( I was sending him money for food, gas, etc). I asked for a time frame and he said he wanted me to see how it was without him. Oh, was that a mistake. I let him know, âI only want to know if youre coming back so I know whoâs watching the kids ( he had no job). Otherwise I donât care. Fact: I pay all the Billâs so I donât need you for that. You donât help around the house, so I donât need you for that. You drop the kids off to my mom half the time so I donât need you for childcare. I donât trust you or even like you anymore. you have not made you presence necessary or even wanted. So stay away. Cuz weâre better off.â And we have been. Youâll have less stress not having to waste time worrying about someone who is not worrying about you. And the kids donât need to see you so unhappy. You donât need him and they donât either. Trust me, whatever he weighs will be a weight off your shoulders.
What you have is a parasite not a husband or a father. Do not warn him, but prepare quietly to leave him. You would not want to take the chance that he would become violent. Take a look at your support network and if possible live with your parents until you can get on your feet.
You obviously donât need him, since he is not there anyway. Kick him out, or leave with the kids.
Stop doing anything for him. Youâre technically already a single mom . if he refuses to leave then you need to make arrangements to leave.
You can do bad alone get rid of him. I donât understand women that heâll hold onto a man for just an occasional romp in the hay, not worth it
I went through the same thing. I left.
Iâm not going to say itâs an easy decision but it is one that you have to make. If you are doing everything alone including your marriage then what is keeping you?
He walked out on his vows the second he stayed out and drank instead of coming home to his family. He made the decision for you.
Ask yourself what are the pros and cons of this relationship. You might have to struggle a bit but trust me in the long run you will be happier.
Change the locks on the house and donât give him a key. And tell to go where the sun donât shine.
Itâs time to leave you kids deserve better kids need dad and you need real marriage wearyour respected,and supported leave
Divorce his but make him pay child support and get on with your life heâs a sorry excuse for a husband and dav
Sounds to me like hes having an affair and youâre letting him get away with it!! Fuck him off!!
Your already coping on your own without his support⌠kick his ass to the cerb and sue him for child support and find yourself a man who can support you financially and emotionally.
Go away for the weekend with friends. Let him see how hard it is for you daily.
Said every woman ever since the beginning of timeâŚ
Divorce his lazy ass
make a planâŚdont tell or let anyone knowâŚthen soonâŚcarry thru and get out of that house with the kidsâŚgo get a judge to have him removed for reasons hes not supporting you and the kids⌠and hes a threat to all of you when he gets drunk⌠or plan to get help planning for shelter⌠they are always willing to help women with this⌠get the tel number in your town or another town⌠and get it done⌠time to get out!!
What are you going to do about all of this that you dealing with ?
It will never get better. Trust me. Leave now
Kick him out change the locks or pack up with the kids move out go stay with family make him see what he is missing