And that’s EXACTLY the reason you are not supposed to date co workers or employees, shit in your own nest, dip your pen in company ink or whatever you want to call it!!
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That fact he slept with so many co workers in the first place is a red flag but I’d find it odd why he would tell you about the others but not her, would make me think maybe she wasn’t before you and him got together. Either way, as a supervisor when you write someone up ideally you have proof of the reason or a record basically of each time something was discussed or documented for future reference so you shouldn’t need to worry there if you’ve followed proper protocol. But honestly he put you in a bad position if you’re the supervisor of all these girls he slept around with because any one of them can claim you have something personal Against them
Sorry u have to go through that but seems he’s the office h@e 
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Wow , this just sounds messy why would you marry a man who has been with that many co workers ! If all that has went on there is more still going on and he is still secretive is the proof . Get a std test and a divorce . Men like that don’t change . Your trying to make it work with someone who has a real issue . Im sure this isn’t the only red flag 
. He is careless with your heart and your career a real man does not do that a man child does . My husband has worked with men like this they have issues . Don’t keep putting yourself threw this . Consider a few life changes call the dr, the lawyer and a head hunter . When people show you who they are believe them !!! Better to admit the mistake and move on than to live the lie.
I would say just that! You had no idea that they slept together! As a supervisor you are supposed to treat all employees with the same level of fairness. If the write up is legit it should stand, just make sure you have proof. I understand you are hurt… I would be too! Good luck!
IM a Guy, you are in for more hurt. Your Marriage cannot be saved untill he grows up. He is a Hoe like someone already said. cut him loose while you are still sane
If you’re a professional with an authority to discipline you must continue like it,bring up the facts about this behavior have been for a time and if you follow the proper steps to issue a disciplinary action you must not worry about whatever she’s saying,what happen in her personal time and life it’s her business regardless you’re now the Mrs if she was sleeping with your husband and he didn’t marry her ahhh let me Guess,she was a callgirl around,I don’t know about sexual harassment policy but it look like it doesn’t exist,now if she brings retaliation because she ates you man,be clear to let her know you didn’t know about it and it was before you meet him,don’t let her plays you with a jealous revancha,fuck that bitch with love,you don’t bring personal matters to work.period!
I’ve been trying to give this page a chance to get back to nails so far nothing. I didn’t sign up for a relationship or parenting page. I signed up for nails and nail designs. As of today I’m going to unfollow this page.
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This is why you don’t date coworkers or marry heauxs
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Um thats just disgusting that he’s clearly a job wh0re. You need to find better that’s just not even acceptable to tolerate I don’t care if it’s before during or after being with you go get tested he clearly gets around
He’s a douche bag. He will never be completely honest with you. Don’t be surprised if he’s still doing it.
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Jesus how many people did he sleep with in one location?! Sheesh
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Gezz where do u work that ur man has slept with everyone …u never sleep with co workers ever so un professional
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Maybe he doesn’t remember sleeping with her. It sound like he was promiscuous before he met you. It happens. If you love him let it go.
Not sure, your choice
Your husband needs to be written up .You could do better for yourself
I’d question why he didn’t tell you about her but did the rest, and also if it’s a valid reason for write up and you followed the policy for it you should be fine
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Leave him! It’s not even worth it cus now he interfering with your livelihood. Seems like the whole office slept with ya husband and then for him to be so nonchalant about it is SO DISRESPECTFUL. You deserve better QUEEN. You can be with a man that would treat u like the queen you are and not have to worry about has he slept with what coworker cus I’m sure there is many more. Adjust your crown and let the office girls have him, he for the streets!
Thats strange that your husband conveniently left her out…hum. Sounds like your husband was/is a sex addict or player or has some other issues going on that he has to sleep with people he works with. Be honest with your HR/boss and let them know that you didnt know he slept with her until the write up and then focus on the reason for the write up. Hopefully your husband if faithful to you now…since he wasnt honest and all
What does this have to do with nails I wonder ???
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Never start nothing with nobody at work sounds like you got played by the work ho I’d divorce his tail ASAP unless you like being the work joke.
Ismt this person already breaking the rules by beinga supervisor dating an employee?
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Yeah I thought this was a page for nails and nail design but all of the post that I’m seeing have absolutely nothing to do with nails so I am unfollowing as well.
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You cant turn a hoe into a husband 
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Don’t shit where you eat. Sounds like your husband can’t keep it in his pants. He set you up. Get a different job and a different man.
I honestly don’t know why you put this on fb
Get rid of this guy !!! He sounds like trouble !
So you got with the work d… that everybody else had passed around… Lol smh sounds like it was time for a new job… And maybe a new man
Sounds like he had a flavor of the week there. I guess you could provide a list to HR of all the other women he slept with that you don’t have issues with to prove it doesn’t have to do with that. Also I’d ditch the husband.
SHE IS JEALOUS.
How many women did he hook up with at work?! 
Go to HR now and let them know, have your details set straight.
TBH if you’re a good employee and this goes against your record with the company and you’ve always been a good employee - her accusation won’t hold much clout.
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Kick him to the curb, marriage isn’t based on lies!
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I would be questioning my marriage. He’s obviously hiding things
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I wouldn’t marry someone who’s slept with the whole office 
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That’s because she really likes him and I still messing with him.
Sounds like he slept with the whole place before you.
3.7 billion men on this planet, and you are putting up with this one? Go do your hair, makeup, nails and go smile at one the the other dudes. This one is trash.
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But are your nails pretty?
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As long as it’s before you why be mad? I personally don’t want to know or hear about the women a man has been with before as long as there is no other women while we are together
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This has nothing to do with nails what’s so ever!! But my personal opinion the reason why he didn’t tell you about her is one he still involved with her or 2 he didn’t think it was a big deal. But either way I still think he is cheating and not honest or faithful, I would question this marriage for sure I would not stay with this person due to his history and making you look like a complete idiot and you deserve a lot more and better. Leave his ass and find someone who will make you happy 
I’m not trying to be rude but sounds like your husband used to be a hoe bag and you know what they say you can’t make a hoe a housewife 
He is clearly a loser.He finds his meat where he gets his bread.If he lied about this,what else is he lying about.Cut yr loses now or yr in for a world of heartbreak
What was she written up for? Was it a legit reason you wrote her up? If thays the case, I wouldn’t worry about it. But in the other hand, she can’t say that you are picking on her if you’re not picking on the ones you knew about.
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Unfollowing. False advert.
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You shouldn’t shit where you eat… This is a live and learn deal. Good luck.
Your husband slept with the whole d*mn company. You should not be working there. SMH😳
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How could u work there and know he slept w the whole department? That’s gotta make for interesting conversations
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Dang sounds like your husband slept with the whole office. With that said. He’s a liar first. Nope by Felicia.
I actually followed this page for creative nail ideas…
What happened?
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Can we get back to creative nails? Or is this Dr.Phil?!!
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You knowingly married the office ho3 and he somehow didn’t tell you about THIS particular female…? 
It’s been 3 years since you’ve been married and all of a suddenly she gets written up and wants to use her sleeping with him “before” you guys got married as an excuse…?
Girl… leave that man and that job 
I’m about to unfollow this page. I thought this was a page for nails
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Never settle for a rnam who threatens your career. He’s let you look stupid. He’s let you risk your professionalism. It also sounds like he has bonked a fair percentage of the workforce.
Under normal circumstances this isn’t your business, but in this specific situation, it very much is pertinent information.
As for work, make sure you’ve got your evidence ready to show you were responding to a work issue not personal. Insist your husband make a statement that he never disclosed the relationship with you.
This sound fishy af. Why tell you about all the others but not her. Sound like he has a thing for her or they’re still messing around. I’d leave his ass. Fuck that.
Why hide one? Because hes still interested. Secrets are same as lies. Id be mad and not waste anymore time married to him.
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There are a lot of crybaby whiny relationship groups that you could join!
I think it’s time for the page admin to change the name of the page to something entirely different than nails, why not change it to Drama Kings and Queens. LOL
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This is why you never mix business with pleasure
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Keep your supervisor hat on and stand up for yourself and let them know why you wrote her up and that’s it. Keep it professional they try and bring up anything else don’t bring yourself down to her level. Let her show her ass
Don’t date coworkers. It’s Messy
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Why would you even marry him in the first place??
Also i agree with other people why the hell is this shit on this page when its supposed to be about nails???
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Lol i forgot this is a nail page
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You don’t shit where you eat you kinda brought this
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About to unfollow this page. I thought this was about nails. Y’all need to take this to Zane or Dr.Phil page.
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First off if yall werent together it shouldnt matter because if he hasnt cheated on u and yall love each other then thats all that matters and second of all if the company u work for isnt going to trust u enouph to know who u are as a supervisor and that u are doing the right thing then u dont need to work for that company anyways
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Never shit where you eat.
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If there are that many women he was involved with…its likely not going to stop. I would be prepared for what may be coming your way. Get ahead and look elsewhere for employment.
As long as you keep your notes. Your company should not have you working in the same place. This causes problems. You should be in a different department than your husband. I wouldn’t want to be involved in all that
No no no. Divorce that boy
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Stick to your guns at work… tell them same thing that what happen BEFORE you git married is not your concern and she is using it to get out if trouble. As for your husband damn what a douch. Leave him before its too late.
Work place romances usually end in drama even more so when you throw ex’s in as co-workers.
Him not telling you is a double edge sword cause yeah the past is past but given you work with his ex’s you have a right to know seeing as he told you about the others but not her making you find out by accident looks bad cause it looks like he was leaving a window open with her.(not saying he is)just saying everything here is drama & should get couples couples counciling.
As well as both cut the ex’s out even that means y’all changing jobs.
Js 
Not to sound rude but this was the risk you took as a supervisor to date someone who has been with a bunch of people under you. Problems were going to happen.
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You know he’s slept with almost everyone in the office and you still married him…you’re on your own with this one…Fing the whole office should have been a red flag unless your color blind.
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Why would you marry a player.? Once a player always a player. So whomever he slept with at the office you have slept with as well. Being upset that he didnt tell you is strange to me. Since you both work in the office for what seems to be quite a while, you would have heard the gossip and the rumors about him. Instead you chose to ignore it. You got into a relationship with him. Your mad at the wrong person, you need to be mad at yourself. People write their own story, and yours needs to have a rewrite. If you r pissed, be pissed at yourself as well. You are also to blame
But how yo nails look?
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Damn girl how many women did he sleep with?! Yikes. Why not just find a new job?? How old are y’all?
Hell no you’re not overreacting and his response “it was before you so I didn’t have to tell” welp buddy you told her about all the others why not this one? Prolly cause they were still messing around. That’s why you don’t turn a hoe into a housewife 
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Nope …If he kept that from you …I would be wondering what else he’s hiding!!
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Kay so ra whatever will be! Life is short! So forgive and enjoy it!
He’ll probably do it again if he isn’t already…
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Why did you marry him? He is a cheater
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But do your nails look good?
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“Leave after the first lie.”
-Advice from mom
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Just make sure you have crossed your Ts and dotted your I’s on that write up. Make sure that you have examples ready of other employees you have written up who were not involved with your husband … Do your job, and let the gossip mongers gossip.
He didn’t tell you cause he still has reservations, basically, he still wants her🤷🏼♀️
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Oh girl! Not overreacting at all!! I mean, if he hadn’t told you about the others then fine, but he did tell you about all of them except her!
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You have the right to feel anyway you want too! Doesn’t mean it is right or wrong!
But my first question would be, “why didn’t you mention her along w/ the other women?”
But now that
“The truth is finally out!”your husband should be asked to address the whole thing before your grievance board! Since that woman addressed that issue first than the whole topic is fare game!
I am an old fashion older woman & most left our pasts behind! And we didn’t ask our men either!
For a lot of us, we were the future the past didn’t matter much!
Why were you ok with marrying someone who slept with the whole office that you BOTH work at??
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Just defend yourself and be honest you didn’t even know about them. If my husband feels that he doesn’t have to tell me things we don’t need to be married.
If you kept good documentation on why you disciplined her then it wont matter however if you didnt then its fair game and be prepared to battle and defend your actions. Good luck.
On a side note i wld maybe think about some more serious conversations with the hubs about the situation and maybe y was this one left out!!!
Three words. Office Slarrrrt Boy!
Be glad he never told u because now u can truthfully in court say I didnt know he did that, and it’d be the truth then divorse him cuz hes hiding more then that, he lies
Sounds like to me you were another notch on the belt but you the one that held out until
IJS
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Your husband needs to zip up his pants
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No you’re not overreacting. He may be still sleeping with those women. Ask him about it. I wouldn’t be with some one let alone stay with some one who told me who he’s been with at work
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Another thing is that your husband knows she’s wrong for what she’s doing because you’ve had problems with her before and have only just found out why now. Which means you don’t really have a legit problem with her, but she does with you. Apparently he couldn’t prevent her from allowing their personal lives from spilling over into both everyones career and your marriage.
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Dont get involved with coworkers.
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My question is why did he tell you about all the others and not that particular one?? Looks a bit suspicious in my opinion
Sorry, but I would have been gone at, “He told me EVERYONE at work that he’d been with…”
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Yes your husband should have told you about her. But the reality is if she is under preforming or whatever is the problem then it’s really completely irrelevant that she once slept with your husband before you were with him. If she has really done something wrong in her role at work this could be her way of trying to get out of the reprimand. Tread carefully
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