If he lies about 1 hes lied about many
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No and that’s not fuckin funny douche bags. Nah, he doesn’t have to tell you nothing about how previous relationships. You’re not his mama or therapist. Not your business. With that said, yes this time he should’ve told you because y’all work together. You’ll always only know what someone tells you. Stand your ground.
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I could never work with my significant other!!!
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Honestly, yes, you are overreacting a little. To prove your motives and to protect your status, I’d advise getting a written and possibly notarized statement from your husband to give to whoever is above you- or talk to your super and see what they recommend… I’m a firm believer in CYA- Cover Yo Ass! But if he told you about others, why not her? Maybe IM overthinking, but what was his reasoning for hiding her, but not the others?
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And that’s exactly why they say "Never dip your pen in the company ink."
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So he slept with everyone there and you married him:woman_facepalming:
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It’s possible that he didn’t tell you about her because they are probably still sleeping together. He had no problem telling you about the other women.
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The big D, I don’t mean Dallas after you fire his cheating ass.
Maybe he didn’t tell you because, as you said, you and her had issues before you were even with him. He knew it would upset you to know about her.
But aside from that, gather any evidence you have in regards to your disciplinary actions and be prepared to defend your job
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This is why they have the term don’t shit where u eat…
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. You got yourself into quite a pickle, I’d say. Dating and marrying, someone you work with, ( first mistake)
He has slept with SEVERAL women at the same job already.
All whom STILL work there. That’s a level of ignorance, that can’t be explained. 
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My thoughts… Your man is is hoe! He running around the whole company trying to poke everything… Should of seen those red flags dear. I wish you the best of luck and you should just kick him to the curb. Just saying…
You’re not overreacting AT ALL when it comes to your job
You have no real right to get mad at him. He loves women! And you know he does. He was honest with you. But if you still want to get upset. Get upset at yourself. For knowing he was a dog. And you STILL married him. There are a thousand faithful guys. Who are faithful to there families, to there spouses. Regardless, when you marry a guy. You marry his past too. Even if he’s not living out his past.
This is why you don’t dip your pen in company’s ink.
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Wow…hubby gets around…hubby either needs a new job or you will continue to have issues.
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You should’ve had your radar up,being that he’s been around with a few at your work place,about him not telling you about her,I’m pretty sure most of us don’t speak about our exs & you having issues,show & prove that it’s not personal,that’s it’s an on going issue.
This is why you don’t get involved with anyone from work.
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Right now dont worry about him or his past. Get your stuff together for a strong stand as to why you wrote her up and prove its not your picking on her. After you get your job straight worry about what to do with this situation with him. No he doesn’t have to tell you anything about his past if in fact it was before you;however he should have been straight with you about anyone within your company. This is one reason you dont mix business with pleasure.
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Get rid of that piece of garbage. He is a liar and once trust is broken it is gone!!!
Keep your job dump him!!
Sounds like your husband isn’t a hard worker just saying. You knew he was a Fuk boy before you married him.
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If you’re ok working at a job where your husband works and has slept with multiple coworkers then yes you are overreacting
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You should never of married this man, he clearly wants the best of both worlds, one a cheat theses always that lack of trust
This is why you don’t date coworkers…,
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Seriously disturbed by how many ppl are bashing him for sleeping with ppl before you were with him, yeah it sucks he didn’t tell you but it really isn’t that serious I don’t know all the ppl my spouse has been with before me because there’s only me now. Just ready yourself up and show valid reason for disciplining her explain you had no idea they had been together of it comes up and that you have had issues together before him and you were together. Your husbands past sex life is invalid when it comes to your job and I would inform them of that. If you are worried that it will be used against you again I would maybe look into finding a different job where they appreciate you
never date a co worker!!!
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Sorry but he’s a douche
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I’d say focus on work and what is happening there. The truth is you had no idea and your husband will be able to attest to that. Secondly, he clearly understated the number of coworkers he had been with. I’d just assume he has been with them all and either be ok with that or find a diff job. It sucks but you will prob always have this over your head. I feel he was wrong to not tell you.
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1 don’t ever get involved with a co worker’s. 2. Husband dated few women not knowing one won’t cause trouble for you since you are supervisor now they going to to think you writing them up because they were involved with your husband! To many things can go wrong with that situation!
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Definitely overacting.
When guy tells you he been with few ladies at work should be red flag!
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Clearly work is his place of choice to flirt and meet woman. That should have been a hard pass if it was quite a few im no expert. But im certainly jealous and I’d always suspect any coworker with his track.
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Well I think it’s time one of you find a different job. I mean tell that mf to find work else where. Your higher up then he is. It’s only going to cause more drama. With it ending you without a job and him working with a whole bunch of people he done fucked. So it would make cheating a lot easier. If he loves you he would find a new job
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Never get romantically involved with someone at work. There are always complications and it’s the cleanest way to lose a job
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I hope this isn’t you risking your job over a shitty husband lol move onnnnn
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He’s got more form than Sergio Aguero, get rid.
Don’t risk your job! Go somewhere else with your talent. At this rate you have to look at EVERY WOMAN there as someone he’s slept with… that’s stressful
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I think , He didn’t tell u about her because he wanted to continue to sleep with her .
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U dont fuck with the payroll…hes a douche and u need to bounce
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You should never get involved with co-workers and many companies have policies about that for this very reason.
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Yea you’re overreacting on the man he didn’t have to tell u about any of them but I guess quietly u probably knew about her that’s why u always picking on her she’s probably better looking more shapely and such and the man know how we women are so he didn’t tell u about that one bcuz I can’t see why he wud tell u about the rest and not her I think they’re something you’re not telling us
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No don’t think your over reacting.
I would divorce him he sounds like a man whore. Best question for him is who DIDN’T you sleep with at work
When you get questioned at work stick to the problem you have with this individual in the workplace and good luck
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Sounds like the husband is a hoe
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Fire him and move on!!
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Why marry someone like that in the first place🤔
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Considering the work environment he should have told you to avoid any conflicts.
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Your guy is a man-whore
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Good GRIEF. Does he have no boundaries?? Who the hell sleeps With so many co workers? You’ve found out more than you’re realizing. He needs canned.
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Never fish where you work
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This why you should never date people you work with.
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He didn’t tell you cause he’s still sleeping with her.
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If you have reasons to write her up just show it them and validate your reasons don’t make it emotional be professional and avoid anything that has to do with your husband if they bring it up just let them know you had no idea and that is a personal issue you will address at home with ur your husband and you would not like to discuss it with them… just keep it professional
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And this is why you don’t shit where you eat.
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Slept with A co worker. Sounds like he’s slept with a Few Co workers … And unfortunately as the supervisor this is the crap you deal with … Stand your ground. Have her terminated. You’ve had multiple issues with her you say. So sounds like she is right up that alley for termination.
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Can you fire this woman? That would be my first move.
Walk away, you deserve better!!
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Maybe, since he knew you didn’t like her he was nervous about telling you?
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First off why get involved with someone from your job anyways. You knew it was a strong possiblity he was involved with multiple women at your job. But you wanna be upset cause he didn’t tell you every single one he slept with at y’all job. Yes you should be angry. But at yourself for yourself in this toxic predicament.
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Why do people find love at work? Especially someone who ran through all their coworkers. Stop it already. You can be confident all you want, but there will still be issues, and drama.
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What he did before you is none of your business… Perhaps she was so unimportant she slipped his mind…The only thing demanding such information does is make a person insecure anyway…I personally would not want to know…js
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Sounds like your man is a POS, and put you in a huge spotlight, that could ultimately cost you, your job… I would tread lightly, stick to the issue at hand… and hope that they all don’t try to gang up on you at some point and say you are discriminating against them, I would divorce his punk ass and either put in for a transfer or have him… relationships in the work place should never happen especially if one oversees the other, thats just asking for trouble… you need to be respected
Why would you marry a man like that??.From the start you should see he is a work place hoe.Girl kick him out and change jobs.He and these lady drama will be following you as long as you are there.Dont let them fire you.walk away before it come to that.Just saying.
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Time to fire the husband
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Time for a new job for you both.
Hmm. Not one comment about the slew of women passing this guy around the office…they all knew
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That man have no scruples, and you will be paying for that as long as you are working there.You never know he may be seeing some of them coworkers behind your back
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Find a different job then divorce him life is to short for that shit.
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He should’ve told you but don’t worry about it. All you have to do is prove that you didn’t require her skill set or that she was constantly messing up. They can’t prove that you fired her over something like that, even though you didn’t but still
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Is he banging the whole workplace? Geesh. This is just messy. I couldn’t be with a man if I’d have to constantly be around women he’s slept with. I’d give his ass the boot. That’d solve all ur problems
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It’s odd that your husband decided to leave out this one girl when telling you about his past with coworkers. He should have told you the entire truth. Honestly it looks like he is still or was still with her while with you and that’s why he chose to keep it a secret. My advice would be to try to keep things as professional as possible and show your evidence of why she should be fired. Leave out the sexual past stuff. And if brought up say you weren’t aware of it and you’ll be handling it privately within your marriage
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Is this for read or what ? High school shit right here … Why does it matter who he was with before you …none of anyone business … Also sound like your questioning your own motives for wrighting this person up…
Sounds like a bunch of drama id drop the job and the man and start a new life
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Sounds like he ran through half of the company and settled for the women who would keep him. He’s probably hiding multiple other ladies names as well. Just prepare yourself every time you write up a lady. He didn’t forget about her. He just stopped at a number that wouldn’t make him appear to look like the bad guy.
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If he’s slept with that many women at the same job, I’m confused as to why you married this guy when obviously he has no moral standards spreading himself around to several women in the same work place. I think you should have thought twice about marrying this guy from the jump!
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Any omission is hurtful, but it kinda sounds like he was a male whore…
On another note - whatever you wrote this chick up for, was it legit? In other words, would a different supervisor had written her up for what you did? If you have to have a meeting about it, be honest. You wrote her up because x,y,z. Your marital situation plays no factor in your work environment.
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- That’s why you don’t get involved with co-workers
- He didn’t tell you about her because he already knew you disliked her OR he’s still sleeping with her.
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Gross. Who wants to be with someone who’s been with everyone!
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I don’t think you are overreacting because now your job is at stake. And his reason for not telling you about this particular woman does not make sense because he told you about the others and they were also before you. And knowing that you were having issues with her already, she should have been the first person he told you about. Maybe he’s (or they) trying to get you fired or cause you so much stress on that job that you will choose to leave and he/they can continue to cheat in peace.
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Unfortunately it’s probably going to cost you your job unless you have physical proof of why you wrote her up
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It’s not about knowing his personal business!!
He jeopardized your job!!!
That is wrong on so many levels.
Who cares about his girls…
But to jeopardize your job says a lot about him…I would ask my company to move him…but I have that advantage
I work in a man’s world and of all the posts I have read in this group…girl…I am livid!!!
Ewwww. Sooo he f’d half of the company, and you still married him? I know my evil ways, I couldn’t do it. Everybody would be written up and/or fired!! I’d be running the whole company, alone, right before I get fired. I would leave the job and him alone.
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u knew aabut his sleep around habits before you two got married he told you he slept with a few colleagues there why are you two working at the sameplace anyway and why did you marry this jerk
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This is why their should be a rule about not sleeping with coworkers
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She needs to find a new job . Or a different WalMart to manage. Lol
You work in a restaurant!
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Ughhh sometimes I feel us woman are better off without a man !
Fire them all little by little and start with your man!
Just kidding leave him last hahahahaha again jk !
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big conflict of interest, yikes.
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This is now the coworkers “sex card” so she can’t get fired. The 2 women didn’t get along before he hooked up with now wife. So something tells me that the husband may be using this coworker as a side piece, ONLY because it conveniently slipped his mind from the list of women he has slept with. What does this guy have a dick that women brag about, that they’re waiting in line to fuck him. Kick the man whore to the curb!!!
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If you legitimately wrote her up then you’re good . It was before you who cares. This is a waste of energy
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There’s gotta be a reason he would leave out telling u about 1…
I’d be questioning his honesty n loyalty
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I don’t even talk to my coworkers. Lol!! I dont even know some actually sleeps together. I’m just there to make money and go home. 
There is a reason he didn’t tell you.
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To say it politely, yet bluntly… grow up sweet heart!
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Fire her and divorce him, after you fire her. My husband was a player as a young man. We live in a town where everyone knows everyone. I am 58 and he is61. It kinda grosses me out hechaschad sex with women I know! I went to to planning session of his 40th high school reunion. A girl named Laura was giving him too goo eyes. Another woman showed up drunk and then got sick. The hotel manager came to me because I had tried to assist her but I told him, I am in my Corvette, call her a taxi but I am not responsible for her. This Laura was going to then take her home. I know thecparrnts of this drunk from church. I knew they would be so embarrassed, but, not my problem. Anyway, it too Laura 20 minutes to get her car, I was holding Karen up sitting on a bench when Laura pulls up, opens her door and says to me while pointing at me," Don’t go anywhere". I went back into the area where committee members were sitting, and the only person in my social circle knew I was not pleased. He ordered me a Vape Cod with Stoli and I said okay, what is going on here,? Turns out the public high school is rough. The drink Karen us just that…a drunk. Laura is a slut who still has the hots for my husband. I thanked my friend for telling me. I grew up in a much different are in another part of the state and attended all girl Catholic boarding school. I told Richard I have had enough. we left. I told him I would never be pit 8n that type of experience again. He can go to his reunion, however I will not. I told him I do not like his extreme sexual past with a variety of now old and unattractive women. It makes me think less of him. He went. The drunk and thecslutvdid not. It was well known I refuse to be around drunk, trashy people and because my reputation is impeccable, no one wanted me saying a word. It does bother me he had slept with so many women in his youth. We do not live on his hometown anymore and never will again. It is a big thing to me.
I would divorce your husband in a heartbeat. If a man lies about one thing, he will lie about another. It will protect your job by divorcing him as well. The woman’s attempt to blame you is good reason to fire her. You will heal. You do not need him. Husbands tell you everything. I had hidden knowledge.
There can only be trouble when you dip your pen in company ink…
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Normally I’d say his past is nunya and your past is not his business. But if you’re in a situation where his past ho-hos are now working under you and you’ve had issues with one of his ho-hos, you are entitled to know. And it’s for this very reason. But what you really need to question is why he left this one out. And she’s still acting like she’s queen. Yeah, he’s still hitting that behind your back. That fling never stopped.
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Everyone acting like it’s just easy to kick him out and find a new job. Everyone has a past. Maybe he quit whoring around once he met her. Don’t act like everyone here is perfect. When you are in a marriage you work on it. Not just walk away at the first sign of trouble. She knew what she was getting into when she married him. It looks like she is asking for legit advice not just dump him and the job and move on.
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Your dumbass fault for allowing him to dip his pen in company ink
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… do you work for DOC… as supervisor… its always your fault…
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The main thing I would do is cover my ass. Get the proof or evidence for the write up. Be prepared to defend it professionally. And document everything.
As for your husband. He owes you a very grand romantic gesture of love, appreciation and to ask for your forgiveness. You can not punish him for his past, but he sure owes you for lying to you by omission. This is opportunity to bear all his secrets that he “forgot” to mention.