Wise man once said fuck em all while you can bc later in life you wont be able to!
He lied…trust is not there
Overreacting, yes you said it yourself leave the past in the past his and yours move on, you have no issue as long as you keep it professional at work let her grievance run its course if the write up was called for you’re good now apologize to your husband
Stand your ground with the girl and send your man packing (to move in with her) something isn’t right… He had no problem telling you about the others, why is she different? There’s more to those two than he is saying
He is not truthful now you will have problems in your marriage for sure because you will not believe him anymore. Hope the big boss know how you treat and handle your co/workers so you should not have a problem with her being wrote up,she did wrong she is paying the price not because of him.
Companies need to go back to a no fraternization policy . Screwing around with Fi workers starts so much drama and detracts from work. Mine has also had issues at his jobs and i swear some people use work as a live dating pool. I would speak with HR about it and tell them the situation. If you can’t discipline that many people in the company because your husband slept with so many… wow. This is a mess.
Your husband sounds like a real man-whore. If he was banging everything b4 y’all got married? He’s most likely still doing it behind your back. If a man can lie like that to your face and/or withhold information like that, you can’t trust him. Imagine wat he’s doing behind your back and easily keeping it from you.
Most won’t admit it, but most men think with their cocks.
U are aloud to feel how you do, they are your feelings and you should talk about it with him, communicate what you are wanting if you don’t know what you want too move forward talk about that also might need to give it time to see things clearly. But communicate that too… With work you know you are handling that like a BOSS so just stay true to who you are!
All you have to proof is why you wrote her up, and if she made does accusation juts tell them you were clueless about her… No a big deal…
Damn… how many co workers did he sleep with
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Looks like he spread himself all over that job. What else came with that marriage? Get him checked
I would be more worried about his sleeping with all of his coworkers lol.
I don’t know what too say about this !! Of this is the case how can you do your job ! If you write up someone else and they do the same thing , it’s putting your Jon at risk ! Just tell the truth too your bosses ! Sounds like your husband needs fired
I wouldn’t say overreacting
…but definitely no grounds. It was before you. They don’t matter. Don’t let previous sexual partners seep into your marriage.
As for the manipulative little girl with her grievance. As long as it was called for and you have documentation your fine. The grievance will run its course.
So you made the comment that you can’t be upset at the fact that he slept with other girls prior to entering a relationship with you yet what is the difference between him sleeping with other girls prior and telling you about it or not telling you about it? You are definitely overreacting and the people that are saying he lied to you and now there is no trust is absolutely ridiculous! Did you sit there and disclose every man you slept with before you guys entered into a relationship? Most men and women would opt not to hear about previous relationships especially one’s including intimacy prior to entering a new relationship
I don’t really understand why he left her out but told you about everyone else. He should have told you about everyone so you could avoid this situation entirely however it kinda works to your advantage that he didn’t because you honestly didn’t know when you were writing her up. My best suggestion with the work thing is stick to her problem within the work place. If they question you about it being about your husband sleeping with her, I say tell the truth. You had no idea when you wrote her up. Then she’ll be looking pretty stupid, or at the very least immature. I wouldn’t be too mad at him cause in a way him not telling you should work in your favor.
She’s retaliating because She was dumped & you got the “philanderer”…certainly don’t sound like he was Prize? File grievance against her… I’ve had same Lolita types are bitches; remember those usually slept with more at work so you might be complaining to another of her exam sex “conquests”…dont get upset at either & if he didn’t remember sleeping with her… she wasn’t worth it… believe it or not; others been in your shoes? If employers don’t listen; also contact DOL “management” relationships but don’t count in them being helpful either?
Yeah I wouldn’t put a lot of thought into it before you and him not telling you would prob worktoyour benifit when she tries to use that as a reason.
Omg that’s a weird situation but I would most definitely try marriage counseling after putting some space between you guys for a bit. That’s so unfair to you. I’m sorry.
You have work at a car dealership!
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I sure as h*ll hope this one is fake! I know people don’t always use their brains to their full capacity, but this is down right stupid! And this is one of the most farfetched stories anyone could come up with If it were true, I couldn’t even feel sorry for her
Leave that guy to the curb. I’m sure he’s still sleeping with everyone.
She said before being married does that mean that you guys were together when he had sex with another woman
This is exactly why you shouldn’t meet someone at the same workplace. It turns into an issue 9/10 times , people have a weird thing for messing with relationships if the couple works at the same place together. My workplace is known for the infidelity scandals, I mean trashy people are everywhere you go but one thing you don’t ever do is create a relationship with someone you met through work, it’s just weird and sometimes you can even get in trouble for having relations with a fellow coworker. There’s a reason it’s not allowed some workplaces… keep the drama under your own roof at home and outside of work, you got yourself into a predicament now and it prob won’t ever go away.
The most disturbing thing to me is that your husband slept with multiple people at the company… What kinda place do you work for? My job would never .
One should not have sex with coworkers.
You have bigger problems than him not telling you about her. I’d be way more worried about the job and her lying to get you fired!
Should’ve never taken him seriously after he told you all those females he was with, he was definitely fishing that warehouse to see how many fish he can catch and you fell into the trap… you should have been disgusted after he told you he was a thot straight to your face and you still went ahead so deal with it now we all make stupid choices every now and than but In your position you definitely put yourself in a worst spot because now they can all challenge you on that same card this one is pulling on you !!!
Leopards spots never…
A little word from the wise. Never ever ever date/sleep with your coworkers. I cant believe you went as far as to marrying the dude… As someone who’s been in this situation, sounds like trouble is brewing. Working and living together never works. In Texas, we say “dont shit where you eat” just a bad situation all the way around.
Sounds really fucking petty. For sakes, people need to grow tf up.
Find a new job, then find a new husband
My thing is keep relationships out of the work place it never goes good
Yeah your over reacting… Youve been together how long and this is the 1st time you wrote her up, stick to your guns and put your big girl panties on and go to your boss about it
Just tell the truth and hope for the best. Can’t change the past. I would start looking for another job though, while you have time. Sounds like a hostile work environment
He probably didn’t tell you because he knew you and that coworker had issues and didn’t want to make it worse. He messed up. And now you’re in a complicated situation. I’m more concerned about the work stuff… I’d honestly tell the board you didn’t know and have the husband corroborate the story. I’d then seek some marital counseling. You can work thru this. Good luck.
Ooh…I always say “don’t pee where you eat”. I don’t believe he did anything wrong. Fight the fight. Find another place to work.
If he’s defensive now, things between them haven’t ended. Don’t worry about her. If your write-up on her is justified, just have proof of your claims.
Leave the guy cuz to me if there isn’t any trust you have nothing… There has to be a reason he didn’t tell you about her and he did everyone else?? Just my thoughts but as for your job… Tell them what you told us… You didn’t even know about her… So why would you pick on her if you didn’t know?
I wouldnt say its his fault in this case, since he opened up about few imcidents . Its rare ill say this but in this case the other woman is just being spiteful
Yes, you are over reacting.
He didn’t tell you because he was probably still sneaking around with her… he ain’t going to give up all the names only the ones that probably wasn’t to his liking anymore… Simply tell your boss you don’t care who he slept with because this is not our home I’m writing her up because this is our JOB not our personal conflict if that was the case id catch her ass outside of work and whoop it… Just go in don’t panic don’t get nervous people sleep together at a work place it’s going to happen you can’t stop it. But just because they slept together and ur supervisor are you not post to do your job because ur husband was a hoe. If that’s the case tell them my husband slept with several people am I not post to right then up ? If what she did was legit wrong and a good reason to right up don’t worry about it but if it’s because she sneezed in your direction then be concerned other then that do your job.
Don’t sleep around where you work. Nothing good becomes of it. It is where you work and not a dating pool.
Nah if he told you about the others and not her there was a reason
You are valid but so is he… especially since y’all always had issues. Honestly it sounds like the other gal is jealous because you got married and they didn’t work out and is trying to use the situation to her advantage… which im sure hr will not look kindly on because its unprofessional… i think you should reflect and realize he made a mistake… i mean no offense but if he slept with that many of your coworkers r u really surpised he forgot one? I think your more offended that she is trying use y’all as a crutch and its easier to project that onto something else.
Don’t get your ass where you make your bread!
You don’t sh*t where ya eat, that was the 1st mistake.
He didn’t meantion her bcus that’s still he’s side nigga" u can’t give them all up " u got to save one just in case for emergency "
Yes, yes you’re overthinking and overreacting. One of two things. If he omitted one because you don’t like her why invite issue when you already said “everyone has a past” or two sometimes you forget one during the “conversation of past lovers” and why would you go back and say “oh yeah i slept with her too” thats just unnecessary.
You deserve better fr girl and FYI all you had to say was my husband slept with this coworker and that coworker and I have no problem with any of them js
Yet he told you about the other women he’s been with. Oh well, so be it. Suck it up buttercup!
Hes still sleeping with her. Bet.
Don’t shit where you eat!!
There is always scum who will make a great company or a hard working employee’s life miserable. Apply elsewhere and move on.
If you didn’t know about it and weren’t bullying her what do you have to worry about.
All I got to say, men who have sexual relationships at work will continue to do it even after being married. Married to the Flying J slut and now divorced because he kept sleeping with the coworkers there! Once a player always a player and it don’t work out especially if both of you work at the same place!
Don’t sh*t where you eat!!!
Just stay professional, you will come out on top.
He probably still sleeping with her, and I’m not sure if I would have been comfortable dating or especially marrying a man that has slept with numerous coworkers and we both work there, He is more like community d*** not husband material
Don’t stress yourself out. Men or Women are going to do what they want to do. You need to pray on it and let the Lord handle it for you. He does a better job.
God just how many women at his company has he slept with???
Why are you with a man like that in the first place should really be the question dont u think?
Yeah, he didn’t just sleep with her once, he’s still sleeping with her. That’s his lil work girlfriend, your husband got community dick
You’re husband sounds like a h o
Damn that’s community dick. He be sleeping around. Stop being a dumbass and leave his ass.
You deserve better than that.
He didn’t tell you because she was special.
As long as you have the documentation to back up why she was written up there should be no issues
Let her file🤷♀️ burden of proof is on her… Worse case it’s a slap in the wrist… Word of mouth usually doesn’t go anywhere…
I think you knew about it. If not from him, from another fellow worker therefore you were taking it against her. Yeah, I believe he’s still messing around with them and if you’re not a nice supervisor, girl, they’re gonna get back to you one way or the other. Hmmmm, you’ve got some thinkings to do. BUT THINK ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST. YOUR DIGNITY, INTEGRITY, YOURSELF RESPECT. DON’T LET YOURSELF DOWN MORE THAN YOU HAVE DONE IT ALREADY.
I wouldn’t of married him. He has community work dick.
I am so fixing to unfollow this page. Garbage! Sound like a Dr Phil BS
Nope- not overacting! If he has lied about this, I would not trust him. Your job and defending your decision has taken this mess to another level. Especially if he has relizsed that your job is at stake. That crap right there should tell you where you stand with him.
He never told u cause they are still freaking
He,s a dog U knew that
If it was before you them it was before you. It was before you bottom line.
Throw his ass out they do it one time they will do it again
Need a new job. They using you at this point
They want to put me in FB jail for my comment I had to delete it how unfair I can’t be honest wow
You sure have landed yourself a can of worms! Show him the door, he doesn’t have the brain to support you in your role and is thinking with his little head instead of the big one!
You knew who you were marrying
Ditch your job and the mainstreet dog you married, start over completely
Run girl! Run very far away and fast!
I wonder if it isnt the opposite. Knowing which women he had been with actually kept you from how do I put this… Putting your foot down? Just from the wording it sounds like if you knew he had relations with her you wouldnt have fired her. If there is a right up for legitimate reasons you shouldnt have anything to worry about. I would tho re evaluate if these women you knew about atent getting some kind of special treatment so you dont get into trouble like this. If this is happening it could backfire as well. Please dont be mad at me im only thinking in a different direction of treatment and for what.
You’re not overreacting, if he told you about all of them… why wasn’t that 1 made known? This effects your job. Now this has become an issue sure… But hey … you didn’t know! , your reason for action/report is 100% justified… make sure that is known .
GORL (yes GORL) WHY WOULD YOU EVEN GET W A MAN LIKE THAT?!?!
He’s probably still sleeping with her.
Why do you work at the same place??
You knew exactly who you were marrying and still said yes
He shouldve backed you up. Get another hob. He sounds like he might still be playing you
Not a nice predicament to be in, it’s very hard to separate emotions work principals.prior
Remember that you were writing her up prior to any knowledge of the alleged relationship bear that in mind and carry out your responsibilities and your duties to your employer
Put a note on the bottom of the report that it was written prior to any knowledge of any relationship between the two parties
Happened before he got with you so yeah your over reacting he dnt have to tell you about everyone he’s dated and slept with before u
I agree with some of what he said and disagree with it at the same time. He should have told you just for the fact that she works for you and is your subordinate. I also feel like he doesn’t have to tell you about all his past partners unless there is a reason to like this. Now you’re in a terrible situation with your own job possibly being in jeopardy. I would be pissed.
Don’t sh*t where u eat…one of the best advices I had said to me…
Can’t make a husband out of a hoe
Keep an eye on the motive as to why he left her out and are they still on
Sorry - if you marry someone from work who told you he’d slept around with a few co worked before you married him, but “whoops” he forgot to tell you about one that you Supervise? Sis, I assure you he did not mention it on purpose. There’s going to be fallout from this. This is not “judgement” by the way, it’s an observation. Best of luck.
If the write up is legitimate…let her file a grievance and your write up will stand. If it is a flimsy write up then she may prevail. As for your husband…sounds like a ho…and he needs to make amends with you.