Wearing a ring can be very hazardous for many jobs regardless of rules.
Doesn’t call you on his lunch break? So you don’t work? I think I found your problem, you have too much time on your hands.
You should leave him, he deserves better.
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my ex never wore it, new wife he wears it always yep, yep, yep
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My husband can’t wear metal bands but he can wear silicone and he never calls me on lunch break either but that’s cause he’s relaxing and enjoying his little break give the guy a break
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A lot of jobs don’t allow or advice against rings to be worn because it’s a safety risk. Google degloving and you’ll understand why. He may be able to wear a silicone ring, you could ask about that. But depending on the job, even that may not be an option.
But really, are you so insecure that you think he’s cheating if he doesn’t wear a ring or call you every lunch break? That speaks to deeper issues that need to be addressed with therapy. If there are other reasons to think he’s cheating, then those should be addressed
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Depends on his position at work. For example, I work in an inpatient pharmacy where jewelry in general is allowed. However, I work in an IV room, so for that position jewelry and makeup is not allowed. Doesn’t matter anyway though, I don’t wear a ring and neither does my husband.
I guess it depends on his job really. If it bothers you this much, try offering an alternative to the traditional metal band like a silicon band. I got one for my hubby because he’s a truck driver and likes it better than a metal one. If he’s super weird about it or flet out says no, I’d be more concerned.
Get a silicone ring. My husband really can’t wear his unless it’s silicone because he’s a welder. Or get it tattooed on the finger….
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I thought he ‘lost’ his wedding band? Now he’s saying he isn’t allowed to wear it? 
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If you are asking you probably know the answers!!!
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Vincent Robertson he doesn’t call her in his lunch break 
I’d be suspicious but unless you’re willing to face the consequences of what he’ll do if you confront him, then I’d just be quiet about it (and watch him closely).
What kind of work is it…?.some jobs like machinists and other jobs…it is like that because its not safe…and jewelry of any kind can not be worn for safety reasons…
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There are so many jobs where wearing a wedding ring is a safety or hygiene risk, you don’t say what kind of job he does
If it is a normal office job then you can be suspicious
It’s called an enso ring if he works in construction, get him one of these
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What does he do? Mine doesn’t wear his at work and neither do I. He does construction and I do autobody /painting. We would destroy them & god forbid it got stuck on something we’d lose a finger. Safety issue. I work in a shop with all guys but make it very clear that I have a man lol so 
also lunch is hard his isnt as structured as mine so we call just to say hello and that’s pretty much it.
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Oh HELL YES ! He is snowing you.
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- I dont wear a wedding ring ever. (I’m a painter and it get caught on stuff and trash and paint etc. In it)
- I dont call my husband on my lunch breaks and he doesn’t call me, our lunch is out quiet time.
If he comes home when he’s suppose to and doesn’t sit on his phone or have money missing from checks that should be there then he is not cheating on you.
I don’t see why you should be concerned. Even if the ring is allowed depending on the position I could see not wearing it for safety reasons anyway. I don’t wear mine at work and it’s just a band because I have smashed my hand before and smashed a ring and everything. Does he really need to call you on his break? I don’t see why he has to call you on break. Calling you can take up time he could be studding his face or going to the bathroom. I think there would need to be much more than as any evidence to be sus.
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He’s cheating on you creep on his phone and switch your name and hers lmfao so that when he calls you it’s you answering LMFAOOOOO
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Dishonesty is so sad
Yes…be very suspicious
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Yes , why do you have to ask?
What kind of work is it? Some jobs working around certain machinery can be dangerous to wear jewelry around especially rings. Having said that, if its not dangerous, and his reasoning seems to change raises a few flags. Drop by his work one day with lunch or a “love you” gift. Introduce yourself and if you notice someone, specifically a male, wearing jewelry, comment what a lovely piece and look at your husband. Then head to the bank and a lawyer!
Why does he have to call on lunch or breaks? Leave the man alone, you are smothering him. If he is going to cheat there is NOTHING you can do to stop him. Get a job , go to school or something, if your a stay at mom , maybe you need to think about going to work. If you can’t go 8 hours or so with out him calling you have a problem.
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My husband never wears his, he can’t at work, farmer- he broke 3 within the first year, plus it’s dangerous with the big equipment. I wear mine, but I like jewelry 
as for talking on breaks and lunch…I don’t call my husband, I’m taking down time from work and eating, I don’t have time to call him and will talk to him at home. I’m sure he feels the same.
I’d talk to him about it, communication is key. maybe he just doesn’t like wearing jewelry?
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Familiar with many construction workers not wearing their rings due to the fact they could get their fingers cut off. But, in an office,…don’t think they have such rules.
Google “de-gloved finger”.
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Your little voice speaks for a reason listen to it.
Uh Yes!!! He’s playin!
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If your gut is feeling something isn’t right then its probably not .
Yup… speaking from someone who fell for the no wedding ring gig… be suspicious
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it depends on the job if is working with machinery more and more are asking to take them off you can get a rubber one on line thats what my daughter got him if he wont wear the rubber one then i would suspicious
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Yes you should be concerned. Don’t accuse but also don’t be so naive.
How many Yes to do need to hear!!
Any industry where they are working with dangerous equipment like construction, auto repair,etc it’s dangerous. I never heard of it being banned though. Most of the guys use those rubber wedding rings to avoid the risk. But if he’s sitting behind a desk there’s definitely an issue.
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Is he a stripper?
That’s where my brain went after reading this… In that case it would probably hinder his tips.
You should ABSOLUTELY BE CONCERNED!! 
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Boy he’s lies to your face tell him to smarten up or you will see a lawyer take him to the river
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In some job fields it definitely is a thing that they don’t allow wedding bands to be worn, unless they are rubber. However this guy is trying to look single and is cheating or is going to cheat.
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Depends where he works. My partner isn’t allowed to wear any kind jewellery to work 
so buying him gifts with jewellery isn’t an option cause he won’t even be able to wear it half the time
Mine has never worn his wedding ring since married 17 years ago but his got it on his necklace as his a cabinet maker and says he will scratch the cabinets but I am not fussed women chase married men wearing wedding rings more then men that are not wearing wedding rings . Relationship is based on trust and he has to stand up to women advances ring or no ring he knows what’s right.
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My husband was cheating on me with a safety girl when he told me this.
Storm in a tea cup. If he’s a mechanic, make a choice. He wears the ring, or the finger. And lunch breaks are just that. A break. Insecurity breeds mistrust. Don’t ever assume. If you can ask here, ask him.
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Wow some of these comments, my dad never wears his ring neither does my husband but I guess to each their own
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Sounds like he’s using it as an excuse. My fiance is a mechanic/fabricator and is already complaining that he can’t wear his expensive ring when the time comes. He’s been looking into silicone bands for work.
I dont know of one place unless construction that you cant wear your ring. He’s on the move
This really doesn’t seem to be a fb question, rather then do you trust your husband? I have worked many placed who don’t allow wedding bands, I also hardly wear my ring since I use my hands alot. A ring doesn’t mean anything, and neither does a wedding piece of paper, but trust and communication does. I do feel he could easily not told you, and take the ring off before going into work, and putting it back on once in the vehicle. Buy instead he told you. Also, lunch break is that, sometimes my husband will send a text checking in and some times I don’t hear from him till he gets home. If you have doubts, or he has cheated before then talk with him. I will say, many cheat with a wedding band on, so I wouldn’t just look at that and think he is cheating. None of us on fb know yours and his story, we can only give advice. Best to go to the root of the cause
Time to get a sancho 
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Why is this even a question…
Tell him to put that damn ring on or else you guys can go and get tattooed rings.
Ring or no ring if a man is gonna cheat that ring won’t stop him!! No woman can be a home wrecker unless your husband leaves the door open!
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Is this a serious question???
He really does not respect u and thinks ur dumb… call him out on it in front of his colleagues… or go to lunch with him… surprise him…
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Reading through the comments and I feel like I need to point out that there are many women such as myself that are very connected to the ring. If you and yours don’t wear it and you guys agree on that then that’s wonderful and great for y’all. But It’s not fair to tell someone it’s not a big deal when obviously it is a big deal to them. If someone’s job deems that it’s unsafe to wear a metal ring on their finger, well I can certainly understand that but there are other options. The silicone rings are great.
With or without the ring if he wants to cheat he’s gonna cheat. 
trust your gut. The calling on breaks/lunch I don’t feel like he has to call you every time he gets a break, I mean he’s taking a break just because he doesn’t call does not mean he’s cheating. You know your man more then anyone. 
So does he work construction, with machinery or is he a mechanic? Those are the only jobs I know that say that or a silicone ring at the most.
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Maybe he sold it …thths what im thinkinggg🤔
Trust what you are feeling, there is a part of you that already knows
Some men don’t wear it if it’s labor work due to possibly loosing it. Also some men that are cops don’t want to either due to safety of their family members, in case someone gets upset and tries to go after their family seeing a band on the finger. I mean there could be many reasons as to why they can’t or don’t want to. I would just try and talk to your husband and see if something is going on or if he actually can’t. I’m sorry hope you guys can talk it out. 
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Why the laugh reacts. It’s. Not funny at all . I feel for you babe. 
My husband isn’t allowed to wear his at work because he is a panel beater. And the last time he took it he lost it 
. Bloody pissed me off. Maybe he told you he isn’t allowed because he doesn’t want to wear but didn’t want you to be sad about it? Idk but just talk to him
As in any relationship, if you don’t have trust; you don’t have much of a relationship.
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Yes you should definitely be suspicious
He’s lost it again and doesn’t want to own up
He’s a cheater - get rid of him 
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I work with Electronics and Power all day, my ring stays in my pocket all day, I have lost it once before, bought a cheap replacement to wear when not at work. There are many occupations wear you would not want to lose your finger over a ring. Doesn’t matter what it is made of. Even the silicone ones can get sucked into equipment and take finger with it.
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Both of them. Sad but if you have to ask you already know the answer
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Worked in factory and Machine shop. It is dangerous at times with a band on, and you will destroy it
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My hubby repairs gym equipment. He no longer wears his metal ring because he broke his hand and 3 fingers when his ring caught on a moving treadmill. Doctor told him his ring is what caused his fingers to bteak and not to wear it so now he wears a silicone ring at work. It certainly can be for safety if he works with machinery.
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If you have no trust you have no relationship. And why does he have to call you on his lunch or breaks….really…let the poor guy eat his lunch for goodness sakes. Some jobs can be dangerous if your hand gets caught in machinery etc. Don’t smother the guy so much. Have a talk
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Take yours off too. If he assumes you’re cheating, there’s probably an issue.
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My husband shouldn’t wear his to work but he does. I don’t wear mine sole because I worry about scratching our baby. I haven’t worn it for almost 2 years. I work with mainly men. I rarely talk to my husband during the day as we are both hard at work. You have to trust each other. You just have to talk to him about your concerns.
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I’m more concerned that you expect him to call on breaks and lunch’s?
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If he goes out for a night on the town with the boys and comes home sober and smelling of perfume and has lipstick on his collar you just might think something’s up . Or if he wants his underwear pressed .
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- Many workplaces (in Australia) you can’t wear jewellery, wedding ring or not
- He could have lost it and doesn’t want to tell you as it sounds like you’re very dependent- my ex husband lost his 2 weeks after our wedding and didn’t know how to tell me for ages as it was expensive.
- Why does he need to call you on breaks?
What happened to communication 
You asked, he answered. You don’t trust his answers or him by the sounds of it. communicate this to him
I don’t call my husband on my break either. It’s crash time. He is allergic to gold so no ring. Trust him but ask why.
Very much so indeed . I would be asking questions and getting some serious answers.
Is he acting differently toward you while with you?
My husband works with machines and not allowed to wear rings
Yea i would be turning up there on his break with lunch as a surprise to catch the mf out lying trash he sticks of
Does the ring make him married?
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You could always get him a silicone ring and see if he will still not wear it
The ring thing is have an issue with but in my lunch breaks I absolutely hate being on the phone with my husband because I would rather eat and watch TikTok in my car
You better tell him to come home for lunch. And you are dessert
as far as the call they only get maybe 30 min and to eat and maybe bathroom doesnt make a lot of time. I couldnt tell you about the ring [maybe ]
Wedding bands don’t make marriages. Love, trust, honor much more important than a ring on a finger.
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My hubby never used to contact me from work. Unless he wanted me to call in with something. I used to ring him from work if I needed a lift home.
Most workplaces you can wear your wedding rings. Or cover it up.
If he’s a blue collar worker, it would make sense that he not be allowed to wear a wedding ring or any other jewelry as it could be a safety hazard. Also, maybe he just wants to have his break alone without having to be on the phone? My fiance doesn’t call me unless it’s urgent. I don’t expect him to either. The question is, do you trust your husband? Or are these your insecurities talking? Figure that part out and then have a conversation with him.
Depending what his job is they usually dont allow them to wear jewellery in any hospitality industry or operating machinery he should just attach it a keyring or something sometimes I love my partner calling me on work breaks but if he doesn’t probably been held up at work he’s a sociable person talks to everyone maybe just wants his break to himself they will make the effort if they care enough doesn’t matter if it’s 30 mins
That’s not uncommon in the workplace. There is a lot of places that don’t allow jewelry and as far as wedding bands sometimes all they’re allowed is a plain band if it has settings or Stones it’s not allowed, it just depends on the place.
My husband does not wear one because of his work, any kind of machinery, mechanic or pipeline ring can cause injury.
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There are some serious trust issues emerging here. Has he ever given you any reason not to trust before? Are you carrying trust issues from previous relationships into this one?
I would be doing some serious self reflection surrounding why you feel you don’t trust him. Are you trying to catch him out?
Is your personal unresolved issues affecting your relationship or does he really have a second secret life.
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Yes, you should both be concerned and suspicious. Dude is lying.
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something fishy there
My husband is not allowed to wear his at work. Fireable offense.
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Depending on type of work, a ring is a danger.
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That’s a bunch of bull. He’s cheating on you.
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My husband isn’t allowed to wear his at work and now he doesn’t wear it at all but it’s no big deal to me
Standards: It’s okay to have them.
Also. There’s a lot of dick in the sea.
Alot of jobs require you to remove all jewelry. Because jewelry can get caught in machinery. It’s just common sense. I remove all my good Jewelry even to go hunting & fishing & rafting & stuff just so I don’t lose the jewelry. If you lose a ring, you can always get another ring, but smarter to leave it in a safe place!
I don’t really talk about my ex husband, but he got his finger caught in a machine because the ring was on. That’s why factories say no rings alot of the time!
And the calling at the end of his lunch… Imagine yourself on lunch . Maybe he’s trying to eat & can’t talk til he’s done eating? If y’all is married, there probably ain’t that much to sit on the phone & yap about for the whole half hour lol 
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My husbands wedding ring actually saved his finger from being severed off…
He was a garbage man & his hand got caught in the trucks compactor. He needed tons of stitching. His fat literally blew out the sides of his finger around his ring. The doctor said his ring is what saved his finger from being cut off…
Just depends on the job. My husband is now a supervisor for a precast company making manholes & he still wears his…