My husband wants to leave my for a girl in another country that he met online, what do I do?

Walk away file for alamony and child support.

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Let the fool go :woman_shrugging:

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Chances are heā€™s best buddies and in love with a man on that game site
If he can do this heā€™s garbage

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Itā€™d last 2 months and heā€™ll be begging to come back. Thatā€™s when you tell him to f*ck himself. Move on to better dear. Much love to you

I know it hurts but let him leave. Get your proof file for custody,alimony and child support. Make sure you donā€™t have joint accounts so he doesnā€™t drain all accounts. I wish you the best of luck

Let him go, itā€™s probably a fat hairy guy that lives with his mom that drinks slurpees and plays video games all day.

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Take all money from bank account and let him go.

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Let him go, change the locks. Men who prefer compete strangers should be sent packing. And as others have suggested the other woman will turn out to be a hairy lorry driver with foul breath and a penchant for gullible weak men.

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Grass is full of shit on the other side of the fence.See ya! Get a lawyer and cover your ass.

Let him go! If his willing after so many year with you to just throw your relationship away for someone his never met then that speaks volumes about him. Please donā€™t take him back though if he comes crawling back. And also protect your finances.

Thereā€™s nothing you can do but let him go and divorce him. Why stay with someone who says they hate you? You can so meet someone eventually who loves you. You deserve better.

Let him find a few more and he can have a harem

Mid life crisis :thinking: let him go. Sounds like a idiot anyway

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Sounds like a teenager :roll_eyes:

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Let Karma run itā€™s course.

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Send him to the streets and donā€™t look buy its probably a scammer man lol

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Put his crap on the curb

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Tell him :v:!
You and your children deserve better than some slime ball.

Do you rent or own? Do you and the kids have insurance? File for alimony and child support. If you donā€™t already have one, get a job! Start securing your future without him.

I love my husband to death and I am pretty positive he loves me the same but letā€™s get really ladiesā€¦Make that stash account! Better safe than sorry.

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Let him go. Heā€™ll be back when he realizes itā€™s not going to work with this chick. At that time youā€™ll have the power to decide whatā€™s best for you.

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I know it will be the hardest thing to do but let him go. He doenst deserve you. He doesnt have any respect for you with what he said to you and the fact he is doing things like talking to this girl etc. Have the self respect and dont accept that. Plus your the person your kids look up to the most so give them a good example of what behaviour is nog acceptable

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Buy him a plane ticket and fly him out to meet the chick.

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Let him go. Cut your hair and move onā€¦

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Drain your account and open a new one under your name file for divorce kick him out and let him see the grass is not greener .

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Be funny if it was a dudeā€¦ karma would get him lolā€¦I ll would leave his assā€¦

Let him go, you will be ok. Make sure to file for full custody! I know that it hurts now, but that pain will lessen. Do something fun, like a salsa class, that makes you feel free. Embrace your passions, while holding those babies close! One day you may find someone new. But YOU are what you need to be happy!

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I really hope he gets catfished

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Leave.
Thatā€™s what you do.

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Put him out the door

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Pack his shit. If wants to leave then you donā€™t need him

Oh hell noā€¦. Honey count your blessings. Kick him to the curb! Child support and alimony let him go! You deserve way betterā€¦ and this is the reason why ya canā€™t let your man have a female ā€œbuddyā€ I donā€™t care what anyone says ā€¦ if heā€™s attracted to her In the least and bonding with herā€¦ too close! Thatā€™s YOUR space!

I hope sheā€™s cat fishing him, u donā€™t need someone that can cut 7 years off over a person they never met. Heā€™s doing you a favour it wonā€™t seem like that yet but trust me it will soon xx

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Shitā€¦ tell him to pack his shit and let the :door:hit his ass on the way out! You donā€™t deserve this!!! Stay trong mama, youā€™ll figure things out and when you find the right one, youā€™ll truly find out that you and your kids to be treated with respect, and when u fond that, you know you made the right decision! Until them focus on your babies and let them be your strength! Good luck honey!

Kick him out and file for child support immediately

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I would personally pack all his belongings, buy him one way ticket and drive his ass to the airport! He doesnā€™t see your worth than let him go especially after you gave him three kidsā€¦gtfo!!

File for divorce let him be happy and find your happiness without him.

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Best way to show a man he messed up is to leave! I promise you it works and it also helps you realize you do deserve better. Youā€™ll be heart broken no doubt but Iā€™m telling you over time you will heal.

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Say goodbye, change ur locks

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It will get worse he is obviously obsessed. There is nothing you can do until time takes its course. Look after yourself. Eventually he will realise heā€™s been a mug and come crawling back. Hopefully you will have moved on and tell him to jog on x

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Bye, thereā€™s the door, if he doesnā€™t go Iā€™ll worry about how he will treat you

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Let him go and you go live your best life :slight_smile:

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Have you heard of a show called 90 day fiance? They just want a green card
Then their whole family will follow next.

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Omg cut this person loose n live a good life!!

Let him go, and refuse to take him back when it inevitably falls apart. Karma, imo.

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Get rid of that devil god will provide in time you will meet Mr right just have faith and keep praying

Be glad the trash is taking itself out. Go to the gym. Get some therapy

Let him go, file for child support and sole custody.

Canā€™t keep a man that donā€™t wanna be kept. For all he knows, itā€™s a man heā€™s talking to.

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Let him go, donā€™t look back. All he needs to do is provide for yā€™alls kids. He is doing you a favor. With all that said, Im sorry you even have to go thru all this. Keep your head up. Try your best not to show him that heā€™s hurting you, he needs to go asap.

Girl let him go and sit back and watch the shit show

Say goodbye and know you deserve better than that .

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File for divorce & custody & absolutely DO NOT let the children leave the country.
Ever.

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Let him go! Get child support and donā€™t take him back if he comes crying back to you. You deserve better.

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Tell him go on. Donā€™t let the door hit u in the ass

Let him go and never look back. Youā€™re worth so much more. My dad left my family when I was little for a ā€œwomanā€ he met online and she turned out to be a complete cat fish. Heā€™ll get his karma. No doubt about it.

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Let him leave. He is crazy but he will be her headache!

Make sure they door hits him on the why out.

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Never met her? Or him? He may be in for quite a surprise!

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u canā€™t keep a man that dnt wanna b kept! let em go :tipping_hand_woman:t3:

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Good riddance to himā€¦ I hope he is being Catfished :joy:

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Say ok thats fine grab ya crap and donā€™t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya ā€¦ let his sorry ass go ā€¦ x

Let the loser go lol

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Walk the fuck away and laugh at the 80 yr old man catfishinf him

Itā€™s probably a burly truck driver called Rogerā€¦ sorry if ur a truck driver called Roger no offense meant lol :laughing:

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,let to hit the door there is also someone out there that will love y and yours kids

Close the door on your way out !

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Let him go he is being Catfished or itā€™s a women that wants a green card and will leave him once she gets citizenship . If you have a shared account go empty it so he is not spending 50 dollars to send her e-roses or some bull

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See a lawyer! Let her have him. Make sure she knows he is married. Never speak ill of him in front of the children. Get therapy for yourself and kids if needed. Know your value. Always trust your gut

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Let his sorry pathetic ass leave.

Gosh I hope he gets catfished hard wouldnā€™t that be the perfect karma. What a idiot. Itā€™s hard love but you gotta let him go make sure the door smacks him on the way out

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Let him go, get child support and Spousal support. And when she turns out to be someone heā€™s not compatible with, donā€™t take him back. Let the trash take itself out.

Make sure you file for divorce first . State the reason is of his cheatingā€¦ youll get custody because youre the mom. And file for child support. Do not let him know youre going after him for child support. Then serve his ass with the divorce paper and tell him to sign and have fun in another country with someone hea never seen in person lol ok most likely a catfish anyway ā€¦ you dont deserve that.

What an idiot. Your better off.

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Go see a lawyer ASAP, get 1/2 of whatā€™s in the bank (if there is one) before he bails. If he moves to another country you may never get child support, can he even get a job there? I dont know, Your focus now is you and the children.

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Let him go and do not let him come back

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empty out the bank and pack his shit. If he wants to leave his 3 children and you then let him but keep yalls money for the kids

Drop his a$$ off at the airport

Everything that all these ladies above said.
Let him go, hope he is being catfished, and under no circumstances, DO NOT LET HIM COME BACK INTO YOUR HOME.
If he is willing to do this kind of dumb shit, Iā€™m sure thereā€™s dumber shit to come.
I wish you the best of luck for you and your kids. Thereā€™s real love out there still.

Let him go, get a lawyer and make sure he is not spending yā€™allā€™s money for any of it. The lawyer part is very important as different states have different criteria for abandonment etc.
Oh and when he comes crawling back laugh in his face and shut him out.
Iā€™m so sorry you are going through this but I can you ever look at him the same after this? I really hope not.

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Sorry youā€™re going through this

Let him make his own mistakes. He deserves what he gets. Sometimes, words are just words

Let him go get scammed protect u and ur babies

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Let him go and donā€™t allow him back. If heā€™s gonna leave ya for someone heā€™s never met then he isnā€™t worthy of you or your children. Heā€™s an idiot.

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Gove him a hiding then Chuck him out

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Baby all you can do is let him go. Use this as a time to heal and embrace yourself and your children. A guy like that isnā€™t worth your efforts.

Let him go. Divorce him and get full custody. Heā€™ll be running back when he finds out the truth a out this chick. She might be catfishing him

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Get help from legal help. Let him go.

When he goes out to work pack his bags and put them outside the front door with a note saying have a nice trip

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Let him go, donā€™t waste anymore time on a pos

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Let him go. Let go and let God

Let the man go, I know itā€™s easier said than done. If he is going to treat you like that for some ā€œwomanā€ he met on the internet, a game no less, then I would say she can have him.

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Let him go get his butt into his trouble.
Hes cheating so take him To court for all you can, get you and the kids into something new that you all love, go to therapy(all of you) and look forward to being happy the rest your life without him.

Help him pack his bags

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Put things in place to protect your assets and let him go.

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gaming chat room? Hahaha thatā€™s no womanā€¦itā€™s some mid 40s fat bald dude living in his momā€™s basementā€¦his the one In for a surprise ā€¦just help him pack his bags and say enjoy your new life

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Let him go! When he leaves the country file for emergency custody

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Let him go you and your girls derive better he will do the same to her one day

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Medusa, come look at this man

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Let the trash take himself out and watch him get catfished. You deserve better. :clap:

LET HIM GO!
Help him pack his bags and sit them outside the door and go on about your life.
Hugs to you! :heart:

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Let him go, take everything but his clothes, get a lawyer, and get custody of the kids.