Leave he’s a control freak. It only gets worse
I would do something at home to bring me income such as surveys on the internet.
It’s all about control and less to do with being a mamas boy. I’ve been married for forty years and was both a stay at home mom for several years and a working mom later for years. My husband always made sure to give me money when I wasn’t working plus a charge card from his. He would get angry if I went out without cash on me. When I worked he told me to save my money and take from him. He always preached that we don’t know what the future holds and if anything happened to him at least I would have something to fall back on for awhile. Mind you, this can also be controlling if you allow it to be. My husband use to make the old joke “what’s hers is hers and what’s mine is hers.” But he is the one who insisted on this. The easiest thing would be to tell you to leave a control freak, but I say first you stand up to him and demand that this changes. Grant you one year is not a long time but the longer you wait the more controlling he will be. If all fails after time pack your bags and go.
U need to change your husband or get him to understand your needs and respect u
You are in a controlling situation! Get OUT!
I’d be getting a job, a car and my own account
Get a job, buy your own car. You will have your own money, DONT LET HIM DO THIS TO YOU!!!
Leave…While your still young…He’s a controller…
Run!! Things will get worse not better
Leave him he doesn’t trust you.
Get a job. Have your money. That is unreal!
Get a job have his mother watch the child. If he won’t let you get a job. RUN!!!
It’s all about control not money!
run…as fast as you can and get out of that relationship
It’s called domestic violence
Get a job, and leave him with his MAMMY
Maybe if he has to do all the shopping or take you to do the shopping he will lighten up
RUN!! or your life will be miserable wishing you luck
You ever hear about a young couple where getting married and his father sat the soon to be husband and advised him to tell his wife to wear his trousers in texture she would say they are too big I can’t wear them so he could say that’s correct im the man of the house and boss so off he went and got married settled after honeymoon he took off his trousers and said put these on , sure enough the wife said they are far too big I can’t wear them and he said that’s correct im the man of the house what I say goes as I’m the boss.
The wife didn’t think for too long obviously she also had got advice from her parents so she went over to her underwear drawer, took out a nice little pair of lacy knickers and said here you are put these on and he said don’t be silly woman I can’t get into these and the wife went up to him and said darling your absolutely correct so please don’t forget next time you try that rule on me now I know a few will have laughed but sister your mother in law doesn’t sleep with your husband and if you have to remind him that you’d like an equal yoke in your marriage then all is fair in love and war and if he’d prefer to go home to mummy then que Sara he won’t last 2 x weeks , im married 30 years August past, we had a joint account while I stayed at home with kids, when I started back to work we had separate accounts, shared bills and chores however he still puts shopping money on the mantle every week without fail
Kick him to the curb. get a job and take care of urself and let his momma have him back
I have my own damn bank account!
Leave and take half his money. Spousal abuse.
Get the hell out. It’ll only get worse. Let him go back to his mama.
I hell no get your own job and make him pay half day care and keep your money in separate account
Run as fast as you can!
give him the honors of shopping paying the bills give him a bill for meals ,sex,house cleaning ,cooking he’ll wake up
See if will change if not good bye
Walk out with your child! Leave him with mama. Go to a women’s shelter to stay till you get a job. Then. DON’T TAKE HIM BACK!
you already gave the ANSWER .
Time to hit the road. Men like this never change. Sad
Make it plan you are not marryed to his mother and u dont have to stay
It’s definitely not going to work, sorry
Get a job and make your own money and be your own person
You need to tell him goodbye.
Time to run from this marriage…!
Get out and don’t look back!!
Girl don’t walk away…RUN! First of all his mother has no say…he needs to grow up! You have every right to bank accounts and a vehicle. This is all about control and this is just the beginning!
Leave. It doesn’t get better only worse
Once a mama’s boy always a mama’s boy…get out of there!
Run and don’t look back
Leave him that’s not a marriage
It will get worst once she get sick or
Get your own job and earn your own money
Leave now! Abuse!!!
Too, controlling, run!
Divorce and run he is start to abuse you
Don’t let him define who you are…leave
This is domestic abuse!!! LEAVE!! Make a plan and leave!!!
Divorce b4 too late and to many years of your life gone
Divorce him…my x did the same
Honey divorce his ass - then you’ll have all the access .
I need a job an a car. Unless u like having someone else’s money
That’s abuse and control
You need to sit your mil and your husband down and tell her to but out and him to quit listening to her. If they won’t listen…leave
You should start divorce proceedings immediately
Go get a job and make your own money.
I would tell him to either
Get a job in your home, able to walk, and save to get out.
You can get yourself a damn job and stop whining.
Conference with Your Counselor/Preacher.
Leave him. You are married to his mother.
My husband and i been married 8yrs and he has never had access to my account.
I’d tell him. And his mommy where to sho e it
Forget it move on once a mamas boy always a mamas boy ull always be second
This is not a marriage get out. Or you could tell him, if you don’t give me access to our bank acts and get me a car… you will never have sex with me again.
Run as fast as you can
Not much of a husband
Tell him to go live with his mother and you move on to a better future.js
Sounds like borderline abuse to me.
You Need To Leave !!! It won’t get better.
Run as fast as you can.
You better get out!..run!
There is a time to leave.
Leave while you can!! Your married now it’s time for him to be a man not a mommy’s boy.
Get out now!! It only gets worse
Go get a job and get the heck out of there.
He is abusing you whether u see it or not
Run…run now and fast.
Time for you to leave
Leave. You can do MUCH better!!!
Girl you need to leave this mammas boy and find you a real man…
Leave for your own good.
Run and dont look back
Have him pay you for anything you do and dont clean house not unless your getting pay … truth dump the ass
Run as fast as you can
No question…leave! It ain’t gonna get any better
Let mommy have her baby back!
Once a mama’s boy always a mama’s boy. Get out now
Get out as soon as possible!!
Lol , D I V O R C E ! What is he hiding ?
sounds like you married the wrong guy
Leave his ass. You are not his momma prisoner
Sounds like you married a control freak with Mama issues
Ps you get half of everything in a divorce…
Get out while you can!
Go your way and take half.
Jus get out
Life to short for b’s. Don’t wait till u wake up one day in ur 60s and say wtf
I would leave. My husband and I had joint accounts.
Leave you’ll get have in the divorce
Its time to up and leave