Divorce. NONE of that is ok 
doing that right in front of you, imagine what heās doing behind your back
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He wants to have all control which it sounds to me like he does unfortunately he will never change and you deserve someone worthy of your love sweetheart and heās not the one.
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Leave while you still can! If he loves you he wouldnāt treat you that way or disrespect you. I would have been behind bars because there is no way on gods green earth that I could have tolerated that.Sounds like a manipulative, misogynistic asshole imo Find someone who is gonna treat you right hun life is to short!!! If he is smoking 3 cartons of cigarettes he will be dead soon enough
Im still stuck on he had his hand on her ass part 
He is controlling u and thatās not good. Leave him and find someone who loves, appreciates and respects you. Someone who deserves you coz this guy doesnāt.
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You canāt either expect it or more on. People donāt change.
Thereās no explanation to be given. He already knows itās not okay, he just doesnāt care or respect youā¦. Leave
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By walking away 
Stop taking his shit!
Stand up for yourselfā¦ what he is doing isnāt ok and is unacceptableā¦
Usually the accuser is the person doing what they are accusing you of doing.
You shouldnāt have to explain. Youāre grown adults. Live your life as you would and if he wants to leave hold that door open for him
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Its not okay leave and find a better partner
NARCISSIST ! It will more than likely never change n imagine what goes on when u not thereā¦ considering what he has done IN FRONT of you. I would say to leave the relationshipā¦but only you know what and how much you will take before walking away. Good luck!
Once a man is in that mind set thereās not really much to change so the best bet is to leave. Even though it hurts now itāll be worth it then to put up with it.
Heās a cunt just leave him 
xx
Looks like he is in love with his ex 
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Not worth it. Just leave.
alarm bells manipulative
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You know the respect is not there and probably never will be. One question many are asking, how do you feel about yourself? Are you in a rut and having a hard time crawling out? You know your situation, walk away when the time is right but do it when itās on your terms. Where is the respect? You got to love yourself and move forward with your life.
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This isnāt the first post CLEARLY talking about cheating in front of them but likeā¦why enable that shit? You must enjoy it if you didnāt knock his head off his shoulders and put fish parts in his curtain rods while leaving him.
He doesnāt love you or respect you. Maybe he says that he loves you, but doesnāt mean it. His actions state clearly that he is still in love with his Ex! 
you do not have to be with this guy, freedom of choice.
If he says youāre cheating, HEāS cheating. Projection is the most common sign of malfeasance.
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What did the ex wifeās bf do while your husbandās hand was on her ass. This whole situation is veryyyy bizarre and I think you should run. Not walk. Run.
Shouldnāt have to explain. Simple as that. He should know better. The end.
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You better run fast. The amount of disrespect is disgusting.
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Itās obvious he has no respect for you and your feelings. And the whole hang out with an ex is a complete no no. Itās up to u weather u wanna put up with this kind of disrespect
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Why do and would you āloveā all that??? What would you love about that??? You have literally explained why you should literally end it but you clearly arenāt actually there yet
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I would not stand for that. He had his hand on her ass? Hell no
Stop loving this man
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Divorce papers would do the explaining 
thatās beyond disrespectful
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Oooooooooooh SHAMEā¦ I would have given her a hot klaap on the spotā¦ Drunk or notā¦ And him tooā¦ And then left his assā¦ These cheating men are so quick to treat loyal woman like they are cheaters to hide there own guiltā¦ Nxaā¦
He knows itās not OK. Heās showing you how much he respects you. I have zero desire to go out with any of my exes. This will not end well for you. Itās best you call the shots and cut your losses.
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Obviously you have no respect for yourself or you would never allow anyone treat you like that
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Not much respect from him if he allowed her to sit on his lap in front of you and her partner. Or does he have sneaky play time with her and forgot your there ?? raise a thought there.
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Ewā¦he will destroy you, break free asap!
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You explain it by leaving. Sounds like heās the one cheating tbh
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Should of left him there with her. Yuck
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He is completely disrespecting you. Personally I would file for divorce and leave him right away. This man is not worth your time. Let his ex have him. You are better off alone.
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Honey, kick him to the curb. You deserve better
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You donāt. You walk away bechet sounds like a pos
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So itās ok for him to do literally whatever he wants, but not you? He can openly flirt and hit on other women, but if you so much as look at another man, itās inappropriate? WTF? These are all classic signs of a narcissist and a hypocrite! Also, when someone constantly accuses you of something, usually itās because THEYāRE actually the one whoās doing it, and theyāre just projecting their guilt onto you! Get away from this loser ASAP!
It aināt even about the ex saying sheās still in love with him. Itās about him inappropriately touching her in front of you. Clearly thereās still something going on between them.
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Tell her to take him back when sheās sober lol probably wouldnāt happen 
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Guilty dog barks firstā¦if he is accusing YOU almost bet he is already cheating
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Throw the whole man away, you deserve better
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He is toxic for you everything heās blaming you for is everything that heās doing to you behind your back a tiger doesnāt change itās stripes unless it wants to you canāt change a person they have to want to change. And it sounds like his actions he doesnāt care how they affect you all he cares about is controlling you manipulating you gaslighting you and ensuring you feel guilty at all times to make him feel better.
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Donāt explain anythingā¦ Dump and start overā¦ Major red flagsā¦ no way his D is that good.
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These boots were made for walkingā¦ā¦. 
You leave his no good, cheating assā¦ THATāS HOW YOU EXPLAIN what he pulls is wrong and WONāT be put up with ANYMORE.
Heās a grown ass manā¦he knows better. Heās accusing you of cheating cuz heās likely the guilty party. Boundariesā¦those are important. Iād throw the whole ass man out
What heās doing is called projection. Guilty people accuse others of what theyāre doing themself
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Time to take out the 
You had to remove your husbands hands from another womanās assā¦repeat that to yourself until it sinks inā¦
So, you really put up with this? I donāt put the blame on him, I place it on you. Itās a constant, and since you didnāt stand up for yourself in the first place, he has made it normal and pushed it beyond limits. Smh. You know what you have to do, but the question is are you going to???
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There is nothing you can say to this man to make him understand. Thereās 2 sets of rules. One for you and one for him.
Ohā¦ he is what do you call them? Oh yes a standard jack butt! (Please fill any word you want)
Girl run. My ex was the same and the whole time he was cheating on me. He did the same with a girl who after I left him he was in bed with. Leave, he doesnāt care, trust me.
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Red flags every where.
You can explain the same thing a thousand different ways and he wonāt get it because he doesnāt want or need to xxx
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Sounds like youāre in a relationship with a moron lol love yourself and let someone else buy his 3 cartons of cigarettes lol
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Time to dump the jerk!!! Hopefully no children involved.
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Get rid of him now he is a cheater and will go on blaming you for all his infidelity good luck
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You just did to complete strangers.
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If he is not willing to change a few behaviours for you, then you are not the one. Probably best to walk away now, because the longer you tolerate it, the worse it will get.
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Ew. This āmanā sounds absolutely horrid. And a Narcissist.
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Run!! No explanation needed, what a piece of sh**
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My question is why is your self esteem so low you think just because you āloveā a man you are supposed to put up with his crap?!?! What you should do is dump his a** because he sounds extremely toxic to me. Oh and also a potential cheater. Good luck.
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Heās trying to make you jealous. I would punch her in the face and him in the nuts. What kind of loser wants to go out drinking with his X Wife and his new Wife? WTF is wrong with you for agreeing to go? Seriously, you need to ditch him. 
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Sounds like a narcissist!
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Hand on her ass? Someoneās ass would have been on the floor when I came back from the restroom! Worst kind of disrespect right in front of u and got away with it!
Dudeā¦simpleā¦he had his hand on her assā¦
Tell him kick rocks!
Lady u better run and not look back! Been there and itās never gonna get better!
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Why are u even asking questions you clearly already know that u need to leave him heās trash and obviously doesnāt have any respect for u or the relationship , not to mention sounds like heās already been cheating!
What exactly do you love about him? Iām seriously asking. He sounds like a dick to me. Of my husband put his hands on another womanās ass, right in front of me, he would have been gone THAT NIGHT! Come on, show some backbone!
Youāve literally gave every reason why you should not be with the guy! Why tf do you put up with that sh!t?! YOLO!
I would have flipped the table over like Teresa did in an episode of The Real Housewives of NJ!!!
As far as the other stuffā¦ Phone Dr. Phil!!! 
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So you say you love him with all you have, but seriously WTF do you love about him? Sounds to me itās a one way street. Leave now before you have kids with him.
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Iād be leaving his ass. And the fact his ex wifeās boyfriend didnāt say boo says a lot about their relationship.
Yes leave now! Theirs someone else better out there for u!.. heās not the one for uā¦ heās still in love w his ex itās obviousā¦ so RUNNNN
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So you think itās normal that you had to take his hand off her ass? 
I literally canāt take anymore of these posts seriously. Itās getting ridiculous. I joined this page to help or other MOMS and be helped when it comes to CHILDREN. Idgaf about your high school relationship drama BS.
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Sounds toxic from all sides. 
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Wow this is a wild ass story 
He sounds like a loser.
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When they accuse you of cheating all the time its because they are cheating
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Time to leave this toxic relationship.
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Give him back to the ex!
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Hes very very insecure. I used to think that it was cute when my ex was jealous and threw tantrums because I didnāt come home on time until he started hitting ms and controlling alot of what I did and didnāt do . It can go really deep if you allow it ā¦deep as in very very toxic. I stayed past itās expiry date and my dear this sounds like the start of a very toxic downward spiral situation. Your best to build a strong boundary between him and yourself ā¦ and thatās leaving. Donāt wait
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I wouldāve used what happened at the bar on him and leave. Tell him it didnāt make you feel good and that you deserved better
your husbandās ex still being in love with him is not your biggest problem here
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Woman leave him. I have been thru this and it doesnāt get betterā¦ it gets worse. It turns controlling. If you donāt have kids with himā¦. RUN!!! Find someone that trust you the way you trust them, find someone that loves you the way you love them, find someone that lets you grow, find someone that understands you are human that can and will make mistakes but can help you.
I would break his bloody fi*gersā¦ the hypocrite arsehole!!!
totally IGNORE his reactions when he gets jealousā¦ if u have to reactā¦ say this time and time againā¦
āif its good for u mate its good for me!!!ā
Donāt let him any longer, turn u into a total doormatt and total mug ā¦
Stand up for urself ā¦ make a standā¦ if u donāt and canātā¦ then u will have to put up with it and shut up about it as u letting him carry on with that shitty behaviour is telling him he can get away with itā¦ seriously WTF are u doing just standing by and accepting that crap from himā¦
You love him but he does not respect you
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Sorry but I need a few 
to process this 
How he still ALIVE!!!???
And you love him because??? 
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Methinks he protests too much. One sign of ( an alleged) cheater is lack of trust in YOU. time for an investigation
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Divorce, This Behavior Is Disgusting
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Eeew girlā¦your worth more! If he is touching someone elseās ass in front of you there is your exit cue!
Your husband plays you like a cheap banjo!!
Get rid of himā¦ or keep getting played!!
Some people just donāt get it!!!
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Leave him! So many
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