My kid is sick and I'm about to have a baby, what should I do?

Kids get sick. Welcome to motherhood.

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Itā€™s a lot to worry about at once. Everything will most likely be fine. Take a deep breathe and do your mom thing.

Is it mean to say suck it up butter cup lol. I mean yeah go ahead and vent but in the end isnā€™t it out if your control

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Quarantine him or her ā€¦ thatā€™s what we did when I had Covid so that I wouldnā€™t get the kids sick
This is what we recommend at the healthcare facility I work at IF ITS COVID RELATED .

I had an upper respiratory infection and both of my older kids had a nasty stomach bug when I brought my youngest home. She never even got a sniffleā€¦

Shes only venting lolā€¦ I canā€™t imagine being pregnant having to take care of my youngster while pregnant is hard enough and on top of tjat being sick and needyā€¦ shes also pregnant and hormonal

Why are yall so mean she only said she needed to vent obviously shes taking care of the sick kid. Ship him off to gramas my love if you can lol get some rest

Some of the comments are just mean for no reason. One, the girl is ready to have a baby any day, so that alone makes her miserable and Two, she said sheā€™s just ventingā€¦which means sheā€™s releasing frustration. It is irritating and frustrating to think about it, but all will work out.

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Just pull your big girl pants up and get on with it Iā€™m sure you will be fine :roll_eyes:

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The way you talk sounds like baby is a blessing and your kid an inconvenience. I donā€™t think I have ever used the terminology my kid, especially to the extent you do like they are just there and fā€™d up your life.

Omgā€¦ women should be lifting other women up i canā€™t believe how rude some of these comments are i feel like I should apologize for them!!!
ā€¦ and for momā€¦ everything will be ok!!! Just like most of these other parents said ā€¦ take precautions by keeping things as ā€œgerm freeā€ such as lysol wipes and sanitizers as much as you are able and if its just the sniffles and late summer cold it may be mostly over with by the time baby comes home!!!

Ummmā€¦ kids get sick. Youā€™ll be fine and so will the baby.

That is life. Take you sick child to the doctors . If the child is still sick when you come home from hospital you will just have to cope this is your lot in life.

You will be okay!!
Comfort your child, give him some panadol and pop some vix on his chest make him a nice fruit salad and let him snuggle on the couch with a movie and rest. Like you said there is nothing you can do about it so donā€™t bother stressing over it just take care of it like you would any other time.

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I promise having a cold will be the last thing u worry about when ur giving birth lol

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Umm, kids get sick. You canā€™t control when they do.

Take him to a Dr and have his father help him get betterā€¦itā€™ll be fine your over paranoid

Why are these mean comments happening? She needs advice and comfort. You dear lady are at your white end waiting to have a new life while the child you have is sick. You need to treat your sick one for the child is yours to take care of. Use you Doctorā€™s guidance on treatment for prevention for you and the child inside you. Love all three of you and take extra care for each of you. Be kind to yourself

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I understand your frustration itā€™s always one thing after another! You vent away ducky and ignore some of these ā€œjudgmentalā€ comments! Weā€™re not all perfect are we! Think some people forget that! Keep little one comfortable and plenty of fluids and you use this to your advantage to rest with your poorly one! Good luck for your new baby x

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Kids get sick, nothing you can do about it

Girlā€¦ Breastfeed and pass on that immunity !!! And get over it. Your baby is sick and needs mommy. My kid got covid last year and he wanted mommy! Guess what ! I wore my mask , he wore his and i held him as much as I could. He understood he needed to isolate to protect mommy too.

take a deep breath!! everything will be just fine.

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Something is kinda off about the way she describes her miserable child ā€œa sick kidā€ sheā€™s making it sound like sheā€™s talking about her neighbor next door. She gives me ā€œI dOnT hAvE a fAvOrItE cHiLdā€ vibe

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Relax yourself muma I think any mum reading this canā€™t completely understand your worries and stresses, know your babies and you will be fine rest when u can grab and support hands that u have, u have this x

I came home from the hospital after delivery to my sick 4 year old. Wasnā€™t ideal. I got sick too but we got through it. Breast feeding gives your baby immune system support by passing antibodies necessary to fight an infection. Which mean my newborn never got sick!

Do you have a close family friend or family member that can help with your sick little one? Itā€™s not unreasonable to feel overwhelmed or worried about getting sick before delivery. You need a support system to help.

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So many mean comments! Itā€™s a tough situation. One day, one hour, one minute at a time. Thatā€™s how you make it through. Prayers to you

Stop having childrenā€¦

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Can the bubs grandparents watch the little one while you and the newborn get settled ect when you have it?

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Take a deep breath- it will be okay mama- Try to see if you can get a little help with your sick child, so you can take care of yourself. Iā€™m sure someone will be willing to give you an extra hand

happened to me! all 3 of my girls had the flu while my son was born, I kept him in my bedroom, quarantined away from them and breastfeeding helps bc it gives them immunities but obviously do what you can do :smiling_face:

You need to go for a long walk and eat a banana split. Walk to get baby out, banana split cuz you deserve some yummy ness. Last few weeks of pregnancy drives all mamas nutsā€¦ hang in there

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No one to help you, dear lady??? Not even the fatherā€™s kids??? Sad.All the best.:hugs:

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Send him to grandma!

SURLY, THESE ā€œanonymous storiesā€ MUST BE MADE UP JIBBERISH ā€¦BY SOMEONE WHO HAS NOTHING ELSE TO DO.

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Sorry but thatā€™s part of the challenges of being a mother. These struggles are common

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Oh honey I have a 4 years old and just had a baby 2 months ago when I was pregnant (9 months) my daughterā€™s school sent me a message saying she was potentially exposed
To someone that was positive for Covid and all I did I was pray for my toddler and my unborn child, theyā€™re both my babies, theyā€™re both very important to me, You should think the same because Weā€™re MOTHERS and overall that has to come before anything, You canā€™t just pushed your toddler to the side and stay away and your new baby away also itā€™s not like he is 13 :woman_facepalming:t4:

It will be okay. The day I came home with a newborn in Feb 2020 my four year old had a runny nose and congestion. The next day a fever of 103. We took her to Pediatric Urgent Care and turns out she had the Flu type B. I did my best to keep her separate from newborn best I could. Of course I didnā€™t sleep much for a week. Sprayed down areas with disinfectant spray and wiped down areas with Clorox wipes. Their dad helped some after work. Youā€™d be surprised in your own strength and patience when it comes to your kids. You can in times that you think you canā€™t. Best wishes :blush:

Youā€™ve got this. Donā€™t stress out. Everything will be fine.

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I had gotten bronchitis when I was pregnant with my son. You just deal with it. But I have 2 Autistic children, so I guess minor inconveniences donā€™t really bother me anymoreā€¦Iā€™m happy if I have to go one day without cleaning shit off the wallsā€¦:joy::rofl:

Iā€™m sure youā€™re taking all necessary precautions and medications. Iā€™m just sending hugs and prayers for a great scenario outcome for everyone.

Ask the guy that got u pregnant for help .

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Take a deep breath and know itā€™ll happen how itā€™s supposed to. My son and I both started getting sick a couple days ago (congestion, he had cough, headache) and Iā€™m scheduled to have our next on the 3rd. Iā€™m just hoping that itā€™s run itā€™s course by then and we are all better and I had time to sanitize before baby comes.

Do know that if you are nursing your new born you are passing your immunities on to your child for many,many months
(Anything youā€™ve had your baby is safe from.) Natureā€™s GREAT, so donā€™t worry youā€™ve got this.
NURSE YOUR BABY.:family_woman_girl_girl:

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Iā€™m sure you are tired. This is apparently a time to ā€œbabyā€ your 5 year old. Soon he will have to share you with a baby.

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Donā€™t you have grandparents that could help?

Babies have good immune systems when they Are first born

Breathe. Dont be hesitant to ask for help. You are a mother. You got this! But it is also ok to need help. Enjoy sunshine. It makes us all feel better. Extra vitamin c to keep everyone immune system up. Breathe Mama. You got this!

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Husbandā€¦ Parents parents in lawā€¦ Siblings. Friendsā€¦

Welcome to the world of having more than one kid get ust to it

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Deal with it. Youā€™re a mother so act like one!! Take care of your sick kid and to be honest, hold it while youā€™re pushing the other one out. You canā€™t choose between your kids you twisty little bitch. What a story. Iā€™m amazed anyone would put this on social media. Theyā€™re your kids. Yours. As in your responsibility. Donā€™t open your legs if you canā€™t deal with the consequences. Aye now Iā€™m off to Facebook jail but you know what, not seeing shit like this is worth it.

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My kid is sick and I'm about to have a baby, what should I do?

Iā€™m not pregnant but my little boy at home unwell to with scarlet fever,

Motherhood is throwing you into the deep end :joy::joy: good luck for the next 18 years of your life

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We all have the same thing and tested positive for covid yesterday. Get tested

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Kids get sick all the time why stress. Wonā€™t be the last time it happens

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Thatā€™s stressful. I hope everyone will be ok.

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Not much u can do Really.Kids get sick Yes Not always at the right times. Why Add More Stress On yourself when itā€™s something you canā€™t control

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Girl, it all shall pass. Something to talk about in the years coming

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Most women have had this occurā€¦

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Lots of vitamin c and herbal tea. Humidifier and clean, clean, clean. To make it pass quickly.

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Get your little one Covid tested! My son has been suffering from sinus issues and tested positive for Covid today. If they are I would find a relative the child can quarantine with.

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Welcome to motherhood. This is just the beginning of things to come in the next 18yeats. Get used to it. You will be fine. Itā€™s life

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I mean, welcome to parenthood? Make your oldest as comfortable as possible and help them get through being sick, your baby will be fine.

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Get used to it . Kids get sick often and once you have more than one you canā€™t really keep them away ā€¦ youā€™ll be fine !

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Damn, you need to stop stressing & take it moment by moment. Take care of the child in front of you.

Yep. Sounds like the life of a mother!! :woman_shrugging:t3::heart:

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Have him rest up heā€™ll probably be better by the time you have the baby, relax I donā€™t think itā€™s a big deal. Is dad available to care for him or any family?

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And then baby gets sick just as the older gets over it. Iā€™ve been there. It sucks.

I bet you are stressing I have been there too! I would contact their primary doctor and see about getting your little ones in before you go into the hospital, just in case they are sick they will have meds to take. Prayers for you and your family!

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Your oldest may not even be sick by the time you have the baby. Donā€™t stress out too much mama. If you breastfeed your milk will transfer antibodies to your baby too to help prevent him/her from getting sick. Just stay positive mama :heart:

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Take the child to the Pediatrician!

Donā€™t have kids, if you donā€™t want to get sick from them. Get your kid tested for covid if your worried and if itā€™s negative, when you get home just explain to your older child that he canā€™t get to close and risk getting sibling sick. They can understand at that age

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Both my boys were sick when I had my daughter. Really it is a situation that just sucks but nothing you can do about it. Hopefully your kiddos gets better soon!

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Whoā€™s watching your child when you go into labour, couldnā€™t that person keep your child until he stops throwing up at least??

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Give the kid some chamomile tea, and mmm maybe a warm bath. And maybe a dose of Motrin. To avoid anything getting worse

Please get tested for covid. Call your OB and tell them your kid potentially has itā€¦ you can get through this, but you have got to take the steps.

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I had a cold before I had my 2nd. I think the labour I sweated it out my body as I didnā€™t have it afterwards.

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Welcome to being a mom itā€™s life I had too take care of kid when I had COVID-19. But I cleaned gave him meds myself as well the only thing he got was runny nose

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Slow down.One thing at a time, take care of your sick child first. Doctor visit and medicine. Relax. You can do this. Donā€™t stress.

Sounds like a visit with Grandma

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Iā€™m so sorry . Praying God covers you with good health and a healthy baby ! And that your other child only had a mild issue .

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Covid and RSV test ASAP

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Bring your kid to the Drā€™s thatā€™s all.

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Maybe give him vitamin include vitamin c hopefully he is better by the time new baby arrives

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Allergy symptoms are symptoms of covid. Iā€™m being induced this week and my 11yr old got sent home from school Monday with fever. I went straight to the doc. They tested him for flu, strep, rsv, and covid. All negative. Better to be safe this close to dwlivwry

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Good thing is they are usually so much better within a day or 2. Dont stress too much. Get used to everyone constantly being sick HAA! :sweat_smile:

Itā€™s part of being a parent. Itā€™s not your childā€™s job to make your life convenient. He didnā€™t choose to get sick. Care for him, take him to the doc, etc. Not sure what you were hoping to gain from this postā€¦

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Why are you upset that your child canā€™t control the weather? Sure, you are due now but why even put energy into being upset at that situation? Just give your kid meds and let them sleep it off.

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Only thing you can do is see if anyone else in your life can take care of your kid until they are better? Or suck it up and deal cuz this is life :sweat_smile:

My son tested positive for strep the day before my daughter was born.

Mask up, wash hands after encounters with sick child and treat the symptoms. Wishing you good vibes

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Honey and warm milk will clear it faster and wash hands more often

Welcome to parenthood. We take to punches for our kids, with our kids.

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If youā€™re breastfeeding the baby although itā€™s scary your body will make the antibodies to help your newborn not get sick, though of course they still can. Iā€™ve read about bf moms with two week old babies that got severely sick with covid, continued breastfeeding and their babies didnā€™t get sick.

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Itā€™s called pre labor. Everything annoys pregnant women.

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Should have used a condom. Sorry not sorry :+1::+1:

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You will get thru it and later laugh about it!

My kids usually get sick first month of starting school.

Keep your legs closed. Not ready to be a mother

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My whole family had the stomach flu a few days before my c section n then My son was in the ER when I had my son he had bronchitis n strep throat n ear infection!! We all survived!!!

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