No way…can’t come to your house to pick her up or communicate with you…NO
Your mom maintains a civil relationship with you or I dont think I’d let her have your child…that’s just crazy
Please don’t allow anyone to take your child that’s not communicating with you and your husband
No you are not wrong. It should be on your terms not hers.
Your mother is 110% in the wrong. I wouldn’t allow it.
You are not wrong! Stick to your belief!
Nope nope nope nope nope nope…tell her to grow up. You’re not wrong at all
No wonder your father has a girl friend and not living with your mother. Can’t stand the problem either!
You are right .she can make the trip to you or not .Stand your ground
No way. Especially not at 15 weeks old. During a pandemic, or any other day of the week! So. MANY. Nos.
You are right. Your mom is trying to control you and she is acting childish.
You are not wrong at all. Stick to your guns.
Nope. Would never happen. You are your child’s mother.
Why would you even think of allowing her in your child’s life?
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Do not let your sister nor anyone else take your daughter to your “mother”
Tell your mom it’s all or nothing. She should not dictate who sees your children. You should
You , your husband and daughter are a packaged deal its either all of you or no one. Thats it
Life is too short. Where are the adults here.
The answer is simple. You, your husband and daughter are a package deal. Can’t have one without the other
Yes I would only if you and your mother make up! Life is short!
Nope. Your mother is a manipulative nut job. I would not allow her to see my child at all
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You need to repair your relation with your mother first.
You are 100% right! It’s your child!!
A mama Bears first Duty is to protect her Young. Kick butt and take names.
Your child! If your mother cannot see your daughter in your presence, she should not see her at all!
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Stick to your guns. She’s the one who is ruining this not you.
Not happening if it were me…
Could she know something about this woman that you don’t?
Your mother needs to grow up. The answer would be no.
You’re the mom. Your rules come first. Period.
No you are not wrong! Follow your own maternal instincts.
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No as they say no ticket no laundry. Anybody who is around my child must communicate with me and be around me.
No you are not wrong stand your ground
Your 100% right it’s all or none.
No way would I send my infant someplace where I wasn’t wanted…
Your child is to young to go visiting. And with COVID why would even let your child go near anyone outside your home. Call your mother. Tell her if she wants to see your baby she would have to come to your home.
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I’d tell your sister that is well kidnapping. My mother in law back in 2017 shut the door on my husband but not my son nor myself. I blocked her every which way. I told my husband if she wants a relationship with my son she has to go through him. I’m not being in the middle. Besides I’d hear nothing but down grading condescending remarks and complaining about how she thinks my husband is wrong. My son doesn’t need to be around that. A year or so ago my husband had a few choice words with her and she said she doesn’t send any thing to our son because she afraid we’d through it out. That’s a cop out. My mother in law hasn’t seen my son in person since June 2017. We are a packaged deal. If my husband isn’t welcomed neither are we.
Hell no! She must make amends with you FIRST and earn her place in your child’s life. PERIOD.
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Stand firm. It’s your daughter. God bless
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Unless vistation is court ordered I’d say nope nope mope
You are not wrong! She is your child and her life is your responsibility. Pray for Gods wisdom to deal with your mom.
Don’t spread that negativity to your daughter, Mom needs some serious soul searching
You be the bigger person and contact your mother and tell her you love her and respect her and as a package deal you, hubby, and baby) want her in your lives. 
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I mean, you dont have to ha e a relationship with me to communicate 
You are not wrong. This is your child to protect 
praying for you
Hell to the no that’s your baby I’m sorry but your mother sounds unstable I would NOT let that baby go over her house!!!
If she can’t love her own child…
whatever mom and dad agree to…
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YOU are not wrong! Your mother is!
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You are doing the right thing you are the mama you have the right to say no to your mom
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Nope…your child, your rules. This is the stupidest thing I have ever heard a grandma say to her daughter…she has to get over herself.
You are not wrong, I’m sorry but I wouldn’t trust my Mother.
Tell mom to grow up- you raise your baby as you see fit
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You are doing the right thing you are the mama you have the right to say no to your mom
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Nope. I wouldn’t allow my newborn around someone that doesn’t respect me 
Mom needs to grow up!!! I would not send my baby off to visit without me
-------Don’t let her manipulate you! You are not wrong.—
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Tell her to grow up, mellow out. She’s just upset over a girlfriend. Whoopti doo!!
You are absolutely correct and are doing the right thing.
She obviously doesn’t care enough and doesn’t deserve your time
Your mom needs to get over herself. Your child, your rules.
You are not wrong. You are her mother. Your decision.
Hell no! She can get over herself or stay away
do not let your baby go to her
Erica that was excellent she should say that and if gm doesn’t agree oh well
She’s being toxic and manipulative. Nope.
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Mom needs to grow up
You are 100% in the right. My mom tried taking over the raising of my daughter and interfered with everything. I did not allow people to speak bad about my ex around her but my mother would even when I was around. I’d say if your mother wants to be in her granddaughters life then it needs to be through you and maybe when she has proven to you she can follow your rules maybe then allow a little more leeway
you need to let the child know her grandmother
I think you are completely right keep that baby home
No way. If she wants the relationship with her grandchild then she needs to have one with you. It’s your child not hers. You are the parent. Apparently she has forgotten how to be one. You are your child’s advocate. If mom misses out then that is her own doing. Stick to your guts. You are absolutely right.
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No she needs to know her place…
She is your child, stick to your guns! 
I think you know the answer. Trust your instincts and your gut. They’ll never steer you wrong. 
You kid your rules! They don’t like it they can
Talk to her. Tell her she’s welcome to visit in your home.
No. She doesn’t deserve one. She needs to see a counselor
Hell no you ain’t wrong. Your mama is in the wrong.
You are not wrong. It’s her loss
No you are absolutely not wrong.
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You are not wrong. Protect your child.
Nope. She needs to grow up.
U should be sensitive to ur mother too coz she’s still bitter you know not move on with ur father and his gf…
No. I wouldn’t let my child be around her.
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Tell her the baby cannot see her when your not with! I would inform her friend to but out! It’s not their problem! With your mom I would throw a few bad words in my statement ! Don’t feel guilty, if she dosent want u, she doesent need the baby either! Tell her to get a grip or she will never see her! I did it with my mother in law, and oh! My husband would always take her place! I told her to F—- off! It worked
Sounds like she may have some psychiatric issues…
Nope, if my mother didn’t want a relationship with me and my husband and would not communicate with us there is no way she would be around my children. I birthed my kids no one else… That’s just my thoughts. Just because she is your mom doesn’t make her family
No. I’d tell her to grow up, and call us when she has!
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absolutely not,would not trust her
nope your not wrong walk away peacefully cause negativity doesn’t belong in your life
Mom needs to grow up!! You not wrong!
Absolutely not stand your ground
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I wish the best for your daughter, in this situation, unlike too many on this thread who have been busy attacking your mother, with no mention of the main subject - your daughter. I’m no one to tell you what to do, just as they aren’t. I can suggest to go with your heart, with your daughter first in mind. There’s a long future ahead. I sincerely wish your daughter the best.
Sounds like everything is childish. As long as you’re not bringing someone dangerous or irresponsible around, then oh well. Go about your life. If she can’t even communicate with you, then she doesn’t need to be around.
Honestly, your mom doesn’t sound mature enough to be a mother, let alone a grandmother. I would absolutely not allow my baby to be dropped off there. You are a package deal. U don’t get one without the other. If she doesn’t like it then she can keep to stepping.
No you are not wrong. Your baby, your rules!!
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I’d tell her too fing bad, no way. She’s gonna have to change big time.
She is your mom you should honor her
Covid! Child stays with you, visits as you see fit
Nope I would never do that. It’s all of us or non of us