Uhh definitely weird
Shes not going to be the only “friend” hes going to have. It’s called friends with benefits!" Girl drop that boy and move on he’s not worth it. Do you want to feel stressed all your life??? The Right man will do you right.
That dude get you pregnant and also banging your sis … He deserve the Guinness book of record!! moreover, you made a big mistake getting pregnant for such a MAN. I suggest you break up with him and focus on your baby… If he truly Love you, then he will come back begging for forgiveness but never allow your sis get close to your MAN.
Not stay with him, that’s what you should do!
Leave and let them have each other
Welp catch them nc it’s already going on sweetie , that way u can go on and do what u need for u and baby best of luck
Break up with him he has no respect for you neither does the sister or they would have respected you concerns and stopped what they was doing
Move on they most likely together.
Uhm. Wow. I’m sorry.
Your sister needs to back the hell way back and take several seats. So does your “man”. If they are hanging out that much I’m sorry but they are doing other things than hanging out. Especially if you’ve said something about it and they get defensive.
Break it off with both of them. Unless your sister can distance herself… Either way that’s shitty on both of their parts. I would give the bf an ultimatum. It’s either your sister or you and his baby…
It seems like neither have respect for you and they’re 9 times out of 10 together
That’s not ok. Weirdos
I would be done with both and leave his name off the birth certificate.
I would be done with that relationship that’s just weird
Walk away, You don’t need either one of them. Total disrespect is unacceptable. You don’t need that kind of stress in your condition. You need to concentrateon yourself and your baby. Good luck with whatever you decide.
Some people don’t realize that when your pregnant, things that don’t seem like a big deal, truly are. Regardless on if they are just friends, they need to respect your feelings, especially at this time.
Tell both your sister and your boyfriend that you would like her to back off so he can learn how to be a good father to you and your child. He can only do that if he’s focused on his family with you.
The reality is that when you have a child, your past “lives” need to take a back seat. He needs to step up and not cause you stress. Make it very clear that THIS is causing you (and baby) stress. You need to sit down with him and create clear expectations on how you want to be supported. If he can’t step up, prepare yourself to step away.
My brother won’t stop hanging out with my boyfriend and I feel the same way 🤦🏻♀😂
Let her have him💁♀️
You definitely should not have to feel that way.
You are the side piece
If he’s picking your sister over you and his baby and she’s ok with it as well that shows neither of them have respect for you or your relationship. People don’t do that for nothing and if they ignore it and won’t stop then you got your answer they are together .Break up with him and take care of you and your baby…You don’t deserve to be treated like that and don’t deserve to be cheated on especially with your own sister.That beyond messed up.
Sounds Like There Are Lying To You
Don’t be in denial. See the red flags for what they are-- WARNINGS. PLEASE get some common sense for your own welfare and your child. He is Trouble. Find a true friend to be your support system and try to ignore your disrespectful and mean sister. And for your own sake, get a backbone. I’m sincerely sad for you to be in the situation, but YOU need to take control. God bless you and best of luck. They sound like stinkers.
That’s wrong you both are partners he needs to respect that no one must come between you both
I mean as shitty as this is going to sound some personalities just click better and unfortunately they may. It doesn’t mean it Has to be anything romantic
Wow your sister should have more respect for you especially when your pregnant with his baby. I would feel the same way.
Happened to me, just leave the guy
Your sister and bf is trash put them in their place, don’t still wait !
This has got re flags all over it. Your fella aside (as sometimes men just dont think like we do) your sister should have more bloody respect for how you feel about it! You do you and concentrate on that baby because clearly those two have no regards for either of ya! Xx
Go be suspicious go be suspicious
Be suspicious be be suspicious
When you tell someone your feelings and they say your crazy and contine that behavior is called gaslighting and minipulatatuion. No matter if your pregnant or not Opposit sex inlaws should not be haning out alone and definitely not more then the couple. Can anyone say red flags!!
Tell them you don’t care if they think your crazy, they are not allowed to see each other at all unless it’s a family event or your present period!!
If it happens again be willing to walk away from both of them.
I would tell them that I was going to step out of the way so they could continue their relationship.
Yeah goodbye to both of them
Dump him he is cheating on you. And they both don’t have respect for you.
Walk away from them both. There is no way in hell I would stick around for that.
Theyre definitely fucking
Your feelings are justified! I would be concerned about it myself it happened to me and the outcome was not good!
Listen to your gut it always right
It’s not normal, and thfy lack total consideration for you and your emotional state in pregnancy, I’m sorry you’re going through that, but they are definitely not deserving of being in your life
They screwing and i would kick both of then out your life!!!
Baby girl my sister would never do that in a million years. Take care of your baby and drop his tail and her too if she insists on hanging with him.
Wow they definitely together and hiding it from u…leave him and don’t talk to her and child support …kick both of them to the crub
Dump them both and mean it. Most sisters would never act this way. Pieces of crap.
I would break up with him . And made it known to your sister that because she is a SLUT!! and with her disrespectful behavior your child will now be brought up in a broken home and for that will Never have anything to with your child but if she cared about you or your child she would back off!!
It’s already happening. Trust your gut. Leave.
That’s not normal at all.
I didn’t have this happen with a sibling it was my boyfriend with his brothers girlfriend they hung out she was always buying him gifts then I just had a gut feeling that something wasn’t right and sure enough they starting seeing each other I felt really stupid afterwards so trust your gut feeling always
Throw Him Away, The Whole Man, yeet
Move on. Sorry to say. They are cheating and apparently your sister doesn’t give a crap what you think.
Wow your sister?? I’d be pissed and cut ties with both of them. Thats hella disrespectful especially when you’re carrying his baby.
Open your eyes, sorry to say this but they are doing more than " HANGING OUT" Especially when you say he won’t do things wirh you but he will with her, and BTW, That sister of yours, ummmmm thst ain’t no sister! Your pregnant home while she’s out with him!? Noway! Bye to BOTH!!!
I know a girl… who is now having a baby by her sisters ex. Gross and disrespectful on a whole new level if you ask me… screw them both girl!
I swear that’s an episode of jerry springer at some point in time, two options, suggest a threesome, if it gets awkward, then there friendship is harmless, or ask them to kiss In front of you, if they kiss, break it off, if they don’t, break it off.
If you’ve made it clear to both of them it how you feel and they continue to do it then you have your answer. I’m not going to say they’re sleeping together because how would.any of know that but I will say neither one of them give a damn about you or your feelings. I’d cut them off but I’m much older and learned from these kind of situations that people that treat you that way have no position in your life.
Sounds to me as if they’re doing it in front of you to make it look less sus but are actually dating. Sorry for your situation.
Trust your gut and drop both of them. Blood or not she shouldn’t EVER do something like that
Does he have a brother? Lol.
Go with your own intuition. Don’t ignore body and mind vibrations. Leave without an argument or a word. You will be in a happier place and you will give yourself peace calm and love. Those ugly feelings need to go. You need a safe happy pregnancy and life. Sending Love and blessings
Dump his ass and move on with your life!
Definitely not ok…I wouldn’t be tolerating this b.s. nor should you…it makes it harder cause you knocked…an ur sister is asshole for doing that to you…my sister n I are not at all close. But I would never do anything even remotely close to this…an shes a bigger ASS cause she’s doing it while ur pregnant…
This is such a shitty situation I know how you feel girl. Same thing happened to me except it wasn’t my sister is was my MOM! started dating my spouse of 4+ years right in front of my eyes! But I wasn’t pregnant. I would be extremely irate! You know what you should do…!.. put a voice recorder in his vehicle! Do you guys live together? If you do do you work? If you work whenever you leave set up a hidden camera somewhere. Do you guys have a phone plan together? If so you can go there and get papers with all of his text messages!! This needs to stop immediately and if I were you I’d knock your sisters teeth out. SO DISRESPECTFUL AND DISGUSTING!! Good luck girl… you should let us know how this pans out… sending hugs
XoXoXo
They are garbage, take baby and move on. File for custody soon as baby is born and move on
Your sisters trash and your mans trash city.
You’re gut is there for a reason. Both can go to hell. You’re going to be a mother soon ( you already are, but things will be more physical once baby is born ). Enjoy You’re baby
I’d 100% break up with him, and not ever see either one of them again no matter if she is your sister. If they are hanging out when you aren’t around then there’s gotta be something going on.
Omg I have a friend who’s kids just went thru some family DRAMA over the same ass thing.
Long story short: DON’T TRUST IT
Even if they were not doing something they shouldn’t be, they are doing something that bothers you and don’t care. They will continue to not respect your feelings and it will continue to hurt you. Cut your ties now to both. I got 20 that says they start dating right after you do
Make him your step-son. See if he likes that one lol. Jk. Dumb the POS and your so-called sister. Trashy asf! Smh
Go with them or no one goes if they can’t agree on places to go that includes you then let them have each other I understand you are pregnant but he can still be a father if he chooses to if not move on love you and your child .
Karma is something.i never experienced anything like that. Not even my friends would disrespect like that
I had the same kinda issue. But not with my sister. I had girls that I hung out with and they always hung out with my bf. Then I find out that they were doing stuff behind my back. It was all the time. Every guy I was with did it with my sold call friends. I was over it. I left everyone behind. I think it’s time for you to do the same. You have a baby now. I would just take care of the baby. I am also a single mom. It’s gonna be hard but you can do it. If you ever need to talk I’m here for ya. I wish you the best. Hopefully you got this
Tell her not to come over for a start unless she asks you. Then you do something together without him. Limit their exposure to each other.
If something hasn’t happened you could put a stop to it before hand.
But maybe that’s him and it is a good thing to know before hand. Hate to get 10 years and 3 kids down the track to find out he did go there with her and now it’s your best friend.
I feel sorry for you because it’s not an easy decision but I guess if they are leaving you out and not respecting your feelings then they are pos anyway.
Girl you need to run! I was engaged to a man once who was friends with my sister. I was young & thought it was cool. She asked me to babysit 1 day. The kids asked to see “uncle”. I took them to my house to find them together. I was asked to babysit so they could have sex. They were later married. He gave her my ring. In fairness she picked it out.
Gut feelings should be trusted. If they can’t respect you and your feelings, move on. It sucks because you are pregnant but you don’t need that stress and neither does that baby.
We’re they friends prior to y’all dateing? If not yea somethings up get to the bottom of it n do what u need to do for u
Leave him u can do better
You are being gaslighted… throw a match on that chit and don’t look back.
Oh no. That is NOT A GOOD THING. Nip that in the bud and make him make a choice
Well we need more info… is it because you care what other people think?? Or you don’t trust them together???
Put your side piece ass in a Togo container and get the fuck out
Your boyfriend is allowed to have other friends that are female, including your sister. Sounds like you’re jealous and that is what’s likely coming between you and your partner. Ppl can be friends without sleeping together
There doing each other. Dump him and bless your healthy baby
Leave his ass. Him and the sister are together and hiding it from you
Your sister need to be checked!
Any update i want to know what has happened
Put your foot down to both of them, or walk away from both of them.
I thin you might want to rethink your so called relationship with this ‘boy’ !!!
Avec ta soeur en plus débarrasse toi des deux
I’m wondering what her and her sister’s family think about this? That sister may cause the baby to grow up with out an intact family!
I have a number of male friends, and have never had sex with any of them. Nor would I. Your jealousy is a bad thing. Unless your bf and sister give you a reason, you are paranoid and going to drive him away.
I cant belive your sister would do that, drop both of them girl!
A man that refuses to hang out with you except to knock you up is no good. You and your sister need to kick that jerk to the curb. He’ll do the same to her eventually too. If she refuses to see your position and empathize then she’s trash too. Cut them both off.
Sounds like you all live together. You need to move away. There are boundaries that are being crossed and you have every right to be upset. You should only have to tell your SO you are uncomfortable and he should compromise.
Leave him. What she decides to do after the breakup is a reflection of her character and his, not yours. You’re going through enough right now carrying HIS child. Maybe he will realize that when he’s gone and has no choice.
From a different point of view, I hang out with my brother in law alot without my sister. He’s awesome. We get along great. But there’s absolutely no intention of anything there other than a brother/sister relationship. Not dismissing your feelings, but it may be nothing.
Grosssss. There is no relationship worth having without respect …. Sounds like they both have made it clear that they don’t respect you.
I have 2 younger sisters, I would never and have never hung around with their partners without them. I would feel very uncomfortable. They are both being out of order. Dump the pair of them,
the fact that neither are willing to respect your feelings says alot. I understand ppl saying we can have friends of opposite sex and I get that, but if he’s refusing to spend time with u doing the same things and they don’t invite you or belittle how it makes u feel when u discuss it, they are both trash
I couldn’t imagine hanging out with my younger sisters boyfriend/baby dad more than her so weird. In the 3 years they were together, i could count the amount of conversations i had with him on one hand. Your sisters a weird one. I would end it with him, see what happens between them, then you’ll know for sure.
Just some advice, don’t put his name on the birth certificate if you plan on having any future husband adopt your child. Otherwise you will have to get your soon-to-be ex boyfriend’s permission. You won’t be able to claim child support, though. So there’s the catch.
Tell your Momma and make her handle it
Could she be helping him with something like ring shopping or proposal plans?? Sometimes it’s not the worst case scenario…
Talk to your sister too.
Um yea that’s not ok. He’s playing probably the both of you… especially if he will go do things with her that he won’t do with you