You forced him into a sexual situation he did not want to be in? Does consent mean nothing to you? He should be pissed!!
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You can’t seriously think you are right in this situation……
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Ummmm. This sounds very ummmm. R word.
You pressured him.
Not you’re mad because he doesn’t wanna do it again?
Yea. No.
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Dude. You went outside your relationship. Pressured him into it too. Just stop.
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It would kinda be a different story if he was all about it and excited for it, but you literally had to talk him in to it. He regrets it, and doesn’t want to share. Respect that or find someone else that is ok with those things.
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You literally did initiate it and pressured him till “he gave in” after he said no multiple times, he fucked her because you wanted that, and now your mad he doesn’t want threesomes anymore and feels gross? He should leave and you should get with whoever you want. Can’t believe you’re actually upset over this, this was your doing. Not his. 
Sounds like you got caught cheating and bullied him into joining to lessen your guilt. Sounds like afterwards you tried to guilt him into allowing you to be with another man and now you’re mad cause he doesn’t want to. Audacity.
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You manipulated the whole thing. You give him an opportunity with a new girl SO you can have a new man. You put him in a situation that he really didn’t have a choice and now you are going to pull “It’s not fair he had another woman so now you should have a man. You are dissatisfied with your sex life and need to find a way the two you can work on it. Notice, the TWO of you. If not you can say goodbye to what you DO have
Let’s flip the script, what if the roles were reversed. We would all be jumping down his throat for 1. Cheating. And 2. Not respecting when you said NO, the FIRST time. What ever happened to NO MEANS NO? Absolutely not okay. If you want to live that kind of life, cut that man loose and do what you want without dragging him into it.
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He said no, that was your answer and you did it anyways. He probably didnt want to be the party pooper in the moment. But he told you no, and you didnt accept that.
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you are DEAD WRONG!!! grow the HELL up and quit acting like you are a teenager!!! or leave him and get yourself a man as flaky as you are and let him find a decent woman !!
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Let me fix this for you-
“Things got hot and heavy at a friend’s house. I was cheating on my partner with another female. I decided to cover it up by pressuring him into a threesome, so I could use the threesome as an excuse to say it’s not cheating. Now my boyfriend is really upset.”
You had no respect for him saying “No”. Plain and simple. He regrets what happened, and now, he feels awful. You obviously didn’t support his decision then. You obviously aren’t supporting his feelings now. He deserves better.
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I don’t mean to be rude, but you come off a bit selfish. The common theme in what you wrote is, you getting what you want. You started messing around with another woman. You talked him into it, despite him initially saying no. Have we forgotten that no means no? If this were the other way around, and he were pressuring you, this could all have turned out very differently. Now, instead of you being understanding about it, you’re upset that you’re not getting your way. Sounds like he’s a decent guy. If you’re not careful, you’re going to drive him away.
He told you NO!! You are at fault for this! It disgusts me that you didn’t drop it when he said NO the first time!! I think he should leave you! He deserves better than that. You disrespected him on a big level 
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This sounds like a form of rape. He said NO and you forced the issue. Men literally do not have control like women. Get out of the relationship before you do more harm. He’s right.
You had your fun. Why you want more. You cheated… not him. He had permission.
He seems like he clearly wasn’t comfortable with the situation and you kind of manipulated him in an intoxicated state (which isn’t right). Threesome are lovely enlightening experiences but not when you don’t plan and agree on them. You made it clear he wasn’t comfortable. This has nothing to do with him getting two girls and you out getting two guys he clearly wanted to deny and two girl altercation but was pushed into it due to pressure and intoxication. Honestly it’s all wrong and yes YOU are wrong.
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Morgan Sims I can’t 
You fucked up big time. Don’t Ever Force A Partner when they immediately say NO. You got caught cheating! Tried to make it seem not a big deal by seducing him into a threesome. His Feelings Matter! Apologize to him for Forcing him into something he said no too. Then let him go find someone who respects his feelings. Why didn’t you Talk to him about it beforehand??? If you guys have had that conversation, you obviously didn’t care and did what you wanted. You evidently destroyed his trust…wtf…just because you felt extremely horny from drinking… And then you try and flip it saying “he’s not being fair, he got to be with 2 chicks”… honey you Forced that on him.
Stop thinking about yourself and stop making him feel like shit.
You have no respect for someone you apparently love. He needs to end the relationship with you.
He said no and was pressured I to it. Think how you’d have felt if it was in reverse. You cheated. He has a right to feel disgusted.
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Lol got caught with your pants down no still want more player lmao
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So you got caught cheating on him and then peer pressured him into doing something he didn’t want to do, and he regrets it and feels disgusted and you’re only concern is you didn’t get to try a new dick? Break up with him. He deserves better than you can give him.
If it was him trying to convince you to have one with him and his friend and u denied him and did it anyways they would be in trouble for rape, you should be ashamed of yourself for forcing him into that when he clearly said no! U r in the wrong!
“One thing lead to another”… Farken cop out… You say that ever so casually. Call it what it is… You were enjoying cheating on him, he caught y’all an so you then pressured him into doing something he didn’t want to do. You’re disgusting. The cheek of you to be mad that he won’t introduce a man into the relationship, the fk… Now you have to make room for the resentment he will hold onto over your fk up… Be suprised if it lasts after this… Manipulative behaviour like that can destroy people an there livelihoods, you’re toxic as hell…
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If he didn’t want to have sex with you and another girl to begin with YOU were wrong right then and there 
why on earth would you think he would want to have sex with you and another guy I don’t know not one man who wants to share his girl with another man… guys do that to hoes… I’m just saying… so if that’s what you want to do maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship because you clearly don’t respect him anyways.
You are so wrong! You were caught cheating and kept begging him to join to save face after he told you no and you’re upset because he’s disappointed in the both of you and doesn’t agree with what happened?? How is he wrong in this situation when you pressured that man into something that wasn’t pre discussed and brought a third person into you all relationship without his permission. He has every right to be upset and he should leave you because you’re clearly for the streets.
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How about if u want to sleep with another man just be honest and find someone whos into polyamorous relationships? You started without him, and then manipulated him into doing something he didnt want to do. If this was the other way around everyone would be calling him a dog telling u you deserve better & to leave. Its okay if thats the lifestyle u want, & its okay that its not what hes into. Find someone who u can be compatible with, and let him find a woman who is content with just him.
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Eww. You’re gross. He deserves better
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You’re wrong, he’s right, you started with the female and when he walked in you had to talk him into joining because he didn’t want to, therefore, you did initiate it and so he doesn’t “owe” you a night with another guy.
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You are absolutely wrong. You basically sexually assaulted him. He said no. You made him do it anyway. Wrong on so many levels. Threesomes need to be talked about and agreed upon by both parties well before they ever happen. Rules need to be in place and everyone needs to be comfortable. You did none of that and are now pissed cuz you basically raped him and he’s upset. You need your head examined
I might get removed from this page for this but… you ma’am are a snake and he deserves so much better than you. You forced him into a sex act he didn’t want to do then you feel like you are entitled to bring another man into the bedroom. Why don’t you go sleep with a new guy on your own time when you let this man go. He only wanted YOU and a lot of women would LOVE a man like that. Instead of appreciating him and respecting his wishes you broke his heart. Efffffffff you.
He hesitated because he didn’t want to. He was trying to please you. YOU put him in a position to be uncomfortable and DID NOT think of him. Only yourself
No no miss. Maybe you should be single omif it’s that important to you. I know I’m a bitch 
You coerced him into having sex with you and another female. You are in the wrong.
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And you think you are the victim? How?
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Why would u not trust faith and Not do it ever again.Leave well enough alone.
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It was you who started it
Most women would want a husband like yours.
You pushed him into doing something he didn’t want to do.
You can’t make someone be ok with you cheating no matter how you go about it.
I feel sorry for him and you don’t deserve him.
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Yes, you got hot and heavy with this chick before he got involved
This honestly doesn’t even sound like a female writing this. It sounds like a man 
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You said he didn’t want to at first so you started it was that the intention all a long for you to get with another male just asking
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Just flip this. If your man did the same thing, would you be comfortable with it? I feel like there is a good chance you pressured him into something he really wasn’t comfortable with. Whether you feel different about it doesn’t matter here. If you do not find a way to talk about this and to respect his personal boundaries, you will be able to experiment with another man but not with him.
I think there is a good chance he felt pressured by you and by society telling him he was supposed to want that.
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You were caught cheating and instead of facing the consequences you dragged him into it even though he said no. Now you’re mad he regrets it? Which shouldn’t be a shock, because again, he said no. & Not only do you have zero concern for these feelings he’s having, but you’re mad because you can’t sleep with another person again.
You just need to be single. & So does he. YTA.
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He didn’t even want to do it in the first place? I don’t understand how you can be upset with this? It’s not like he pressured you into the first time and then changed tone- he didn’t want to do it then either. Leave this poor man alone lol.
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Oh snaaaap. Honestly sounds like he didn’t even want to join in on the fun in the first place. You do you boo but if he’s being honest with you and telling you he’s not comfortable then you need to listen. His feelings matter too!
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He didn’t want it to begin with, he just went with it because YOU wanted it. He probably does feel disgusted in both of you if he let his morals slip. How are you getting jiped by not getting another guy when you are the one who pushed for the girl when he said NO.
You messed up, and you sound selfish.
If you want to sleep with another man so badly leave the one you are with first, then go sleep with whomever you want 
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Sounds like you pressured him into something he didn’t want. He regrets giving in and you need to respect that.
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It’s hard because yes you clearly initiated it. He could have stuck with saying no if he really wanted to, but he did express his regret and he is not interested in doing that again so I think you need to respect that. It sounds like he probably felt pressured into it.
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Did you do it with the chick and tried to get him into it just so you can bring up the fact that you should try it with a man next? Cause that’s what I’m sensing here
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YOU said he said NO! Now he feels disgusted with YOUR decision but your feeling bad for yourself? How?
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Big no no you do not bring others into your marriage end of story
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So basically you cheated on him (unless the relationship is open) then coerced him into sex (which is rape) and now you’re upset that he’s upset?
My hubby and I had this Convo. I realized, I couldn’t see him with another girl, and I sure didn’t want to guys in it for themselves, degrading me. So no way no how.He always talked about it, but when we got serious, neither one of us wanted it.
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He didn’t want to and you pressured him into it. Now you’re upset that he’s unhappy about the situation. I feel bad for him. If the rolls were reversed we’d all be ripping into him for pressuring you.
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Yes you are wrong cause he didn’t wanna do it to begin with and your pressured him
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He said no, you pressured him. You should have listened the first time. If this was the other way around how would you be feeling??
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You cheated on your partner- then pressured him into sex- then got mad at him because he’s upset by all of it? I hope the poor guy realizes he deserves better and leaves you and all your toxic behavior
haha i think ppl need to calm down, youre both adults, just talk about it and apologize later at a better time, if he doesnt want to explore threesomes, can always talk about other things you both can try in the bedroom. ask what his fantasies or kinks are etc.
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What’s not fair is you trying to force him outside of his comfort zone.
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Sounds like you’re the one not happy in your relationship and the only one looking to have sex with others.
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If I read your post right, you were in the bedroom with the other girl already getting hot and heavy, your partner walked in on you & this other girl, so you asked him to join and he said no, he finally gave in and after he feels disgusted at what you both did, and he doesn’t want to do it again and your pissed because you didn’t get to do it with him and another guy, you either need to forget about another threesome or you need to leave this relationship.
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So basically you’re saying that you pressured an intoxicated man into a sexual situation he wasn’t, and still isn’t, comfortable with?
Wow.
That ALONE is shitty. Forget the fact that you were caught cheating, that you wanna have sex with another man, whatever… you pressured someone into sex.
Not cool. If you were a man, more people would see what an awful thing that was.
We don’t pressure people into sex. Hello??
You’re joking right… you got caught hooking up with a female. Tried to get him to join so you wouldn’t feel so guilty. He declined. You pressured him into it. Now you want to sleep with another man??? Sounds like you need to be single
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U are being very unfair first of all why would you go in a bedroom n do that in the first place to we’re he walks in on ya that’s straight up cheating 
2nd you need to respect his feelings on not wanted anyone else involved sexually and if you can’t respect him get out ya relationship and go on about your threesomes…you aren’t single and he doesn’t agree with sharing you are being very unreasonable…
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Imagine forcing/ peer pressuring your partner into an uncomfortable situation for them and then making yourself the victim 
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You are completely in the wrong. You need to respect no means no. He has a right to feel the way he feels.
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Lmao he’s lying to you so he doesn’t have to watch you get fucked by another man.
If he didn’t want to he wouldn’t have. I’m sure he enjoyed the other women.
& you cheated dummy
And THIS my friends is why we don’t do these sorts of things with our beloved.
That is all.
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Damn. How do you say you a hoe, without saying you a hoe. Lol.I feel sorry for your dude.
Just be single then🙄
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Girl grow up!! You literally forced that man to cheat smmfh
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So maybe stay single…sounds like you arent ready to be with just one person…He didnt like it and doesn’t want to do it anymore and now he sees you differently…I dont blame him.Yall into different things so the damage is done now you miles well call it a day and part🤦♀️
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He didn’t want to to begin with… so it’s not surprising that he feels this way. It doesn’t really matter that he participated and may have enjoyed it at the time, part if him knew he didn’t want to from the start for a reason.
The way you phrased your post also makes it seem like you’re just wanting a chance to sleep with someone else.
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He didn’t want to do it to begin with you pressured him into it.You should not be upset at him for how he feels since your the one that wanted to do it not him so he didn’t do it for himself he did it for you.You should be apologizing and agree to not bring anyone else in.You will loose this man if you continue to act like that he clearly was bothered by it and isn’t ok with it.If you love him you will drop it and focus on way you two can do if your wanting more excitement or something different.You can accomplish that without bringing other people in it.
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Chalk it up to experience and move forward
You pressured him into it after he walked in on you fooling around with someone else. He probably felt betrayed. Not sure why you are expecting him to be happy about it, let alone willing to do that again. Seems very selfish and self-centered to me.
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RESULTS ARE IN!
You’re an asshole. End of story.
Let that man find someone who will respect him and the relationship they build together. Not a manipulative, cheating asshole.
Maybe the best place to ask this is on a poly page or swingers page. I’d check out Reddit. They’d probably have more experience with this then most people here, and could give you some non-judgemental advice. That way you don’t have to deal with the morality police here.
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So…he walked in on you cheating on him. To save face, you pressured him into joining you, and you’re mad because he is upset and feels violated? You feel cheated because you gave him something he didn’t even want, and you want more? Sounds like he should be with someone who respects him, and you should be with someone who is okay with sharing.
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I would never force myself or a partner into something that we haven’t spoken or agreed about first.
That’s the first mistake…
He probably feels like in a way you pretty much cheated and begged him to be okay with it to make yourself feel better.
So he’s probably feeling a sense of betrayal now he’s sober and thinking with a clear head…
I would be absolutely furious myself in his position.
Just because it’s an average fantasy for a guy to want 2 females does not give you the right nor the green light to randomly start getting hot and heavy with one, without his consent in respect for your relationship.
That’s so wrong.
Definitely need to be doing some talking and apologising for putting someone you love in that kind of position for sure.
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Sounds like you manipulated him into having sex with another female against his wants just so you could then use it for an excuse to have sex with another man. If you want to sleep around and your husband wants to be loyal and have a loyal wife, let him go so he can find someone worthy of him. Be single and do you, but its wrong to treat him the way you are. He didnt talk you into sleeping with this chic with promises of you getting to sleep with another man. YOU did that. Grow up.
Seems like it was ur idea not his so I’d just leave it and focus on ur relationship between use 
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Wow you sound childish… You pressured him when he caught you literally cheating, and then when he regrets giving in YOU get mad because you didn’t get to be with another guy?! Smh. You are what is wrong with the world of relationships. This type of hypocrisy is why I choose to stay single.
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So it’s cool to be into that, if you’re into it. It sounds like you pressured him into it, tbh. Then he opened up about how he felt about it and you’re upset. Sounds like you just wanna be sexually free and that’s cool, but don’t expect him to just follow suit.
Switch the gender roles here and tell me what advice you’d give yourself 
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You should respect how your husband feels on this, sometimes it’s just not for some couples and that’s something that’s gonna have to respected
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You are being extremely unfair to him
From your post it sounds like he was coerced into it
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I feel like you should let it go and don’t do it again and apologize to him for the role you played on the impact of his feelings about it now. Just because you were with another woman doesn’t mean you didn’t essentially get caught cheating. You need to put yourself in his shoes. He walked in on something he was not prepared for. Typically these things are discussed and agreed upon between partners. You pressured him into the 3some that he had no way to even prepare for mentally. That’s really unfair to your partner. You are in the wrong 100% and might need to reevaluate what it is you’re looking for and wanting in a relationship and not drag your partner along for the confusing ride ahead of him.
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Sounds like your looking to cheat. Without the repercussions of sleeping with someone else. He didn’t want it to begin with. You pushed it. Don’t be upset that he didn’t like. We are all human and we are allowed to change our minds.
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He told you no! No means no! You basically sexually assaulted him. You made him have a sexual encounter he did not want. You’re wrong on so many levels
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Sounds like Uve wanted a threesome with another guy and tried to force him into this situation by giving him a threesome with another girl and now that it didn’t go ur way ur throwing a fit
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Jesus!! I hope he runs far far away from you!
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So you not only cheated, but you forced him to participate in it (r@pe actually because THATS WHAT COERCION IS YOU DISGUSTING POS) AND YOU EVEN HAVE THE NERVE TO GET MAD AT HIM THAT YOU DIDNT GET TO GO EVEN FURTHER?
you’re absolutely disgusting.
Filthy excuse and a waste of space.
How dare you.
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It’s baffling to me that you couldn’t put your relationship first he clearly didn’t want to participate and probably felt pressured to. Opening your relationship to someone else is something that has to be discussed before hand to see what each of you are comfortable with and set boundaries in case one of you changes your mind. His feelings are valid.
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So WRONG!! There are reasons for sexual commitments to ONE person of the opposite sex! If you haven’t learned that I have no words but, God Bless and GUIDE you!!
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Anytime you bring another person in to a relationship- feelings always get screwed up. Sounds like your not happy with your partner not visa versa
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So stupid, what did you think would happen if you forced someone to have a threesome because that’s what YOU wanted, and now your mad because you can’t have one with a guy, sounds to me you need to be single since you can’t respect his thoughts and feelings, you need to go do random hookups, then maybe YOU will be happy, and let him lettuce his life without feeling guilty, uncomfortable, and do something he doesn’t feel right doing. Your only thinking of yourself and getting some from whomever. He deserves so much better than YOU!!!
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I had some friends over the other day. I walked into my bedroom to find my boyfriend sleeping with another person. I was soo upset. He tried to talk me into joining. Can you believe the audacity?? He kept begging me so i gave in to try to please him. I felt terrible afterwards, absolutely disgusted with myself and him for cheating on me!! Now he wants to do it again with a different person!! He doesn’t see why I am upset! He thinks it’s only fair that he gets to sleep with another person of his choosing. I am so hurt and sick over this 
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I hope he leaves your stupid ass… he deserves soo much better then someone like you!
So, you pushed him to do it and now you’re upset he won’t let you do it again? I’m sorry but you sound very selfish. I feel sorry for the boyfriend and I hope he chooses to leave and find someone who respects him.
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TOXIC. You’re being toxic lbs
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You got what you wanted anyways you did initiate it you had to convince him to do it and also it was probably you who brought up the idea of a second 3some with a man
But want to complain because your husband isn’t comfortable in doing it again you feel sorry for yourself but are not understanding or looking at what your husband is feeling about it all maybe don’t be so selfish and appreciate he tried for you and didn’t like it and let it go
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If he was the one who initiated and started it all; then I would say be mad but because you practically forced him into it and he said no to begin with then you have no right to be upset at him not wanting to do it again with either man or woman. If you want to mess around then just let him be or have an open relationship if he is okay with that and if not goodbye to your relationship or goodbye to your sexual desires.
You pressured him into doing something he didn’t want to do while everyone was drunk. There cannot be consent in that situation.
Opening up the bedroom to others is a serious conversation that needs to be had over time and while sober, so expections of everyone can be stated, boundaries can be set etc.
You’re definitely in the wrong here, you know he didn’t want to do it, someone “giving in” is not consent and is sexual assault.
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