Yes you’re wrong. He told you multiple times he didn’t want to do it then you forced him to or made him feel obligated to have a threesome that he didn’t want to have with someone you were trying to have sex with while he was in another room until he walked in and caught you. You should have took him at his first response and stopped the whole mess knowing he wasn’t into it. He walks I on you cheating in him and the options are join or leave what do you think he’s gonna do but that doesn’t mean he wants to or was down for it. Another thing is you can’t just have a 3 way with another girl and just because he does it demand and expect him to do it AGAIN but with a man for you (again for you since the girl was for you too). That’s not even normal. He had another girl cuz you FORCED him to not because he wanted to. Now you expect hi. To be ok with another guy this is ridiculous. You made him do it now you think you’re entitled to a guy just because you want that. FFS just be single. If a man did what you did and forced his wife or gf to have a 3 way that she she didn’t want to be involved in ppl would be calling tbat man a disgusting pig and selfish cheater. If you’re not satisfied with your sex life and your man doesn’t want to do what you want then either leave him or figure out how to get over it because I not ok to force sexual situations on someone who doesn’t feel comfortable in that situation. You’re just SO wrong I can’t even believe youre asking this question right now.
Sounds like spousal sexual assault. He was coerced into a sexual act he didn’t want to do and only agreed to after you pressured him. He is valid to have his feelings, even though it hurts. I’d start by trying to see it from his point of view, acknowledge his feelings, apologize, and then have a serious discussion on moving forward (e.g., therapy, support, separation, etc.).
Please he’s a grown ass man who decided to participate and probably doesn’t want you to enjoy a man. I’d be mad at him idc what anybody says.
If you were a man writing this it’d be classed as abuse and we’d all be up in arms… You literally cheated with a female and forced him to join in now you want to do it again with a man!!! I think he should leave you and I think you should consider a “single” life or new partner who likes what you like because what you are doing is really damaging to your partner and totally unfair
This is a conversation that you should have had before YOU acted! You chose this and put him on the spot. You were not fair to him and I can absolutely see why he’s upset with this.This is a very touchy subject as it can lead to big issues if it’s not a completely joint decision. Ask yourself if you love him more then you love the idea of a threesome. You may have crossed a line that will be hard to come back from. Men don’t like to feel as if they are inadequate and if you made this decision alone then he may feel that you think he is not enough for you. I suggest you talk this out with him and if it’s a no then it’s a no.Don’t risk your relationship over this because you may just lose him .
Bro just leave him. He didn’t want to and you pressured him into it.
So you pressured him into doing something sexually he did not want after he said no to you…. Now let’s pretend for a second you said no to something sexual and he pressured you to do it anyway. You would feel hurt and violated. Maybe even RAPED. 
Absolute foolishness. If I was him I would be unable to get past that or to continue a relationship with you.
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If you loved him you wouldn’t want to share!!! Period!
No, what he did was back track. He got to do it with a female and his real problem is not wanting you to do it with a man. He isn’t regretting it at all
He should let agree to be with a guy at all just because YOU wanted to do it with a girl. Let it go. You have to WANT to do it. Just because most guys are ok with it doesn’t mean that he should be ok with that as well.
So first you beg him into having a threesome even though he said no and clearly felt pressured into doing it and now you’re mad that he doesn’t want you to be with another dude? He deserves better. No means NO.
I think you should find an open relationship. If my partner did this to me… We would be done… I would also feel trapped at the time but im a bear so… Aint no way…
I think you are out of your goard.
Yes you’re wrong. Break up and find a relationship that is more in line with your sexual interests.
Need to decide if the relationship is worth it to you. Yall are obviously two VERY different people.
He only gave in because you kept telling him to do it and he felt that you wasn’t going to let up if you want to be with other men you need to be single clearly he isn’t into that kinda stuff and you are either move on or get the idea out your head
It sounds like you don’t belong in a committed, monogamous relationship…. You got caught cheating with another woman…. Pressured him into joining and now you’re mad he won’t let you cheat again this time with another man…. He should run as far away from you as possible because you’re selfish and self-centered.
He clearly doesn’t want you to get better dick 
you’re confident, he’s insecure
Why would you be so dumb
He obviously wants a committed relationship with only you. Or maybe not. Wait a little bit and see if he’d be down for another threesome with the same friend you already had one with. Just give the whole situation some time. He’s so new to this. I kind of think you two just aren’t right for each other.
Why would you post it on fakebook… Attention? You just ruined your relationship because it will not grow except apart.
You are wrong for being any sort of upset right now. If you care about him then you will respect his feelings.
Um he never wanted the 3 way lol. Yall should have talked about that before you and the woman started fucking around without him. Things got hot and heavy whatever that doesn’t give you the right in a marriage to just go out of your marriage just because your spouse is right there. He never wanted it you guys literally went against his answer and begged him until he said yes. Hmmm isn’t that rape in the women’s world? Even if he is your husband, still rape🤷♀️. Just wait girl you fucked up the divorce is coming in a year or so.
This is sick. At least he has a conscience. A marriage is for two people.
He caught you cheating and you pressured him to join. Not cool
Did you discuss with him going to bed with the Woman, or did he just walk into you being intimate with another? Regardless of others Gender. You then invite him coz he is now standing there n don’t wanna feel guilty? Dude, you cheated n expected him to be ok with it.
You literally started sleeping with a female and he caught y’all. Then begged him to join, he made a decision to try it with a dude while drunk and he didn’t like it. Now you’re mad…. You literally cheated on him…. You are very wrong to be upset 
not all guys want what you pressured him into doing and not all guys want to see their partner with another man and just saying, drunk people can’t consent and coercion is illegal in this manner…
He said no and you pressured and forced it … made ya bed, now sleep in it.
I find this really disgusting. What is wrong with just you 2?
Lol maybe he’s saying he didn’t like it because he knows that if he said he did you’d bring another man in he doesn’t want to pig roast his gf I’m kidding btw
That is something that should have been discussed and either agreed on together or not before anyone was brought in in my opinion!
So, let me get this straight, you as a couple were out with friends drinking, flirting and took it home. You started messing with your friend without your husbands consent and when he walked in and caught you in the throes of passion, you asked him if he would join you and he said,”NO!” It should have stopped there! NO means NO! You proceeded to bully your husband into having sex with this other woman against his wishes and now you want to bully him into a threesome with a man so you can have your cake and eat it too? Okay, Amber Heard!!! You gonna Shit in his bed too?
Well your relationship is over.
And what an asshole, first puts dude on the spot and pressures into an unwanted three way, then manipulates into getting to fuck another dude and has the nerve to get pissy when he feels some sorta way about it? TF
Also imagine how this would sound she were a man talking about his gf lmao
Is this even real 
You want advice? Do you love this man? I don’t really think you do! Then don’t try to change him. If I was him, I’d be getting the heck out of Dodge. You’re a loser & a user! Do you know anything about monogamy? You’re a sick person. I hope he’s already left you & found real love!
Not good! By any means.
You need to find a man that will allow you both to be swingers lol try a swingers club but idk he not interested so good luck
Made your bed, lie in it. As simple as that
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I say you played mind games on him to get what you wanted in the end… Another male. And now you’re mad because your plan didn’t work out. Js my ex did this same crap to me. Pressured and pressured and pressured me into having a male in the bedroom then threw a huge fit when I didn’t enjoy it (I only did it to stop him from harassing me about it… Which it sounds like what your husband did) and then my ex demanded he get to have sex with another woman because I participated in the 3sum he had to have happen. He just wanted to have sex with another woman and man and later down the road admitted it. Needless to say I left him.
I think more and more these are just bait posts smh
Sounds like you coerced him tbh. When he said no the first time you should have stopped everything right there instead of pressuring him while he’s intoxicated. Yikes.
Everyone is so closed minded, it’s crazy. I agree that respect is important and if one partner doesn’t agree then yeah that boundary shouldn’t be crossed. It’s not like the man had a gun pointed to his head or he was forced to have sex because obviously that’s not what happened. He may have said no in the beginning but then acted on his own accord to participate. You two can learn from this experience and decide it’s not for you because it didn’t work out and later had different feelings about it. I don’t consider this cheating because both people were present and if that’s how the husband felt then why didn’t he say that in the moment? He could have voiced his opinion and chose not to. Seems to me he was fine watching until he finally gave in and participated. I don’t think these women who were into each other at the moment were all that pressuring. I think the pressure came from two naked women in front of him and feeling conflicted on what to do. Since the situation happened unexpectedly, I think is why they are having a hard time. If they had gone into it with boundaries in place and both agreeing it was something they wanted to do, even if they decided later it wasn’t for them, I don’t think they would feel so badly about it. I also think it’s not necessary to have a threesome with a man just because you had a threesome with a girl, you both participated. I would just allow each other the time to work through how you feel and be there for one another. Talk about it and support one another. I don’t agree with everyone saying the relationship is over, it can become stronger because of this. It just depends on how willing each of you are to being open and honest and deciding what you both are okay with moving forward. Resort and boundaries.
This sounds more like drunken behavior resulting in lack of inhibitions and bad decisions than any kind of mutual consent…you are playing dangerous games if you value your marriage.
You should be happy about the fact that your man has enough respect for you that he does not want to share you with another man. It doesn’t sound like he really wanted to even share you with another woman, but was talked into it. If this was 2 men and 1 woman I guarantee it would be a sexual assault case! So maybe think twice as to how your man really feels!!
You lured him into your kink, pressured him likely. Now he regrets it. Shame, hope you enjoyed it because you just broke that relationship.
You must not have any loyalty for your partner to have had a threesome that YOU initated. The only reason you are upset is you didnt get to get f…k by a different guy than your BF. You are too liberal, not committed or loyal to your partner evidenced by you getting down with another female. Only reason you suggested he join was so you wouldnt feel bad about it. My suggestion to you BF is to leave you and find someone else that IS loyal and commited to the relationship, something you arent.
You literally brought this on without even speaking to him first. Then he said no and wasn’t comfortable and you kept bothering him until he agreed. Of course a day or 2 later he isn’t going to be feeling very good about it. If this story was the other way around there would be an uproar and people yelling rape. What you did was wrong and the victim card you are trying to use is pathetic and disgusting
What in the world is wrong with you grow up or break up and you keep your awful disgusting life and let him get a real decent woman
When there is alcohol involved and you invite someone into your bedroom what do you expect will happen.
It’s a bit late for you husband to be upset he was a willing participant in this.
He needs to get over himself
You corrected him. Period. He is was never comfortable he just did it to get you to stop asking. 
Just nasty to be honest and it causes issues… and it seems your hubby has regretted this and you should respect him instead your upset about not sleeping with another man?? Girl get your priorities right… grow up
Sound like he didn’t what it . You should stop walk away from it . If you what that life just be Single or find some one that in to that .
You cheated, begged him to participate…
He said no you kept pushing this is not okay…
He clearly just wants you and only you and does not want to share and hates he did that/felt that he had to
So what I just read is that your husband walked in on you cheating on him lol I kinda lost interest after that. But yeah you’re wrong. You’re just being a hoe lol
your stupid, you will never feel the same because your partner will never look at you the same shame on you , you probably ruined a really good. relationship
If hes not into kinks, you cant force him. Hes let you know he’s not into it. Either repair your marriage with him or y’all split so that you both can find a better partner more suited with the same sexually paced lifestyles within yourselves…
Wow, judgmental much in this thread? She didn’t hold a gun to his head he willingly participated, and maybe he got to have his cake and eat it too but he is not going to allow her to do the same now after agreeing to do so. Just because their s3x life might look different from yours doesn’t mean it’s disgusting or wrong. Again he willingly participated.
U are wrong girl. He needs a better girl in his life. U just trash
Wow…just wow. Yall have deeper problems than just threesome woes. And tbh it sounds like the problems are mostly on you. Good luck with the damage control.
You know, if the genders were reversed, people would be calling this out as gang rape.
Dude didn’t want it, and you pressured him into it, while under the influence. 5 Nos and 1 Yes does not mean a Yes
Also seems like you are the one who isn’t content in the relationship, and wanted to use this as a way to make a stand
Whats going on here …bc yall shoulda talked before acting …
This is literally sexual coercion. It sounds like you were cheating on him with another woman and he walked in on it by accident, and so that he wouldn’t be mad about you cheating, you begged him to join for FIVE minutes straight, while he said no, and he finally gave in, just to please you. Now he regrets that he gave in and feels angry and hurt and you think he owes you to let you sleep with another guy and make him sleep with another guy, when he doesn’t want to do that either and YOU were the one that wanted the other woman? You have issues and sound like a terrible partner. This sounds like sexual assault, tbh, especially because he was drunk when you and another woman coerced him. It’s all super fucked up and you should consider being single because you’re clearly not committed and he is and he deserves to find someone else that is interested in monogamy and actually respects him - sexually and otherwise, and you go live your life the way you want.
No means no when a man says it too, weirdo.
She said Participating 
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You pressured him to do it, he gave in so you would stop. You can’t even be mad, girl. Sounds like you just want a free pass to sleep with people OUTSIDE of your relationship. You’re giving me “entanglement” vibes:grimacing:
Sounds like he wanted to be a faithful husband but your lust caused a lot of marriage problems.
What you did is not okay. He obviously didn’t want to do anything the first time until you pressured him. Why do you think pressuring him a second time is going to go better?
I’m very open to such things, BUT IT MUST BE 
OK WITH ALL INVOLVED. Period. Now most likely your relationship is broken. Sorry for your luck
Fuck yes your both wrong
This is so disgusting especially because he didn’t want to and you convinced him to do it. Now he regrets it and you’re upset, how? You should be feeling awful for convincing someone else to go against their morals. You’re really just a whore and should let him go.
You acted on physical sexual impulses with another person (I’m assuming this scenario was not discussed and ok’d beforehand, which makes that cheating) and then pressured him into doing a sexual act he was comfortable doing, and you don’t understand why he is upset? And now you think you are entitled to more sexual experiences outside the relationship because he “got” to do something you basically coerced him into doing?? You kind of suck as a partner and maybe a little bit as a person. He deserves someone more emotionally mature than you, and if you want to just fuck around, go be single and fuck around. You can’t just throw people into the mix all Willy nilly without everyone not only being 100% on board but 100% ready to handle that sort of thing and the issues that might come up with it. Which neither of you are. You’re being selfish af rn, and not in a “learning to love myself” kind of way. Grow up. If you’re gonna do adult things, be an adult about it.
Well he didn’t want to do it and you insisted. He should’ve stood his ground better.
The fact that you feel cheated on not getting to have 2 guys on you for a second round is pretty messed up especially when it was you that got involved with the other woman to begin with and had to convinced him to join in. Now he feels regret and you don’t? He is the one with a better moral compass it seems so you need to figure out if you want a real relationship or do you just want to party with whoever cause you can’t have it both ways.
Leave him!!! He deserves better.
Ummmmm you’re sooooo wrong! You cheated, then forced him into it being ok! And u think itll b better next time with a man!!! you are only thinking about yourself at this point!!! In what way do u believe ur partner would be ok in bed with another man when he didn’t care for the other woman??
Leave him to an honest woman and go figure out what or who it is you want
You should leave him, so he can find someone worthy
With anything in a relationship, you should discuss it beforehand and make sure you both agree. Things like that are not something you make on a whim and it’s completely okay that he doesn’t want to sleep with another girl? To me, it sounds like you weren’t being faithful, because drinking is not an excuse to do sexual things with someone else. Then you pushed him into something when he said no, which is a complete answer, and you should have stopped.
If this was reversed we would all be calling him a few choice words for pressuring you. Pretty sure no means no for men too.
You had to convince him to do something he clearly didn’t want to do. You’re the asshole.
Wait, what did I just read? To confirm:
- You were in the bedroom with the female, doing whatever and your partner walked in - so you were cheating prior to him coming in?
- You asked him to join, which he declined (his right to) and your pressured him to join in. Something he clearly first stated he didnt want to.
- Because he actually didnt want to in the first place and felt pressured to, he now regrets (also his right) you are angry because you dont get to “participate” with another man?
Is my understanding correct?
Your partner is feeling this way because he didnt want to join in, he didnt want to take your relationship there, he didnt want to be cheated on, he felt pressured and is upset at himself also for going against his own values and allowing you to pressure him. I hope he stands his ground and never feels the neew to give into pressures from a disrespectful partner again.
This was highly manipulative of you. Essentially, you were cheating on him, coaxed him to participate after he caught you, completely disregarded his feelings on the matter [ahem…no means no] but then used the guilt he had from the situation to try to square a deal for yourself to get your freak on with another dude AND obligating him to participate in that as well because it’s “returning the favor”??
Sounds like you really didn’t want the threesome with another female, you just needed it as leverage to get what you really want- a threesome with another man. Can’t blame him…I would be disgusted too.
He must think he has to have sex with the guy hahahaha I always say everyone is down until it’s time to do it. While it’s common for a man to fantasize having two women, not all do. There should’ve been an understanding beforehand. Don’t be embarrassed about what you like
Honestly I feel that he is testing you to see if you will also sleep with another man as well. He’s waiting for your response, and I think that if he didnt want to do it you kind of pressured him into doing it, without consulting with him first and having a talk before anything took place. I think that’s what made him look at you differently because you acted on something before communicating. I think that if you have those feelings and that’s something that you want to act on that you shouldn’t be in a relationship if it’s not something that your partner wants to indulge in.it has to be discussed before hand
So you cheated on him and now you’re mad that he’s not supporting you doing it again?
Act like a pig … get treated like a pig
It sounds like you should be single
Sounds like it’s time for you to do some soul searching. Check yourself before you wreck yourself. How do you figure you will even heal from this event? Will he be able to even look at you the same? I pray for you and him that this doesn’t destroy your relationship. Respect what he is telling you. If you wanna be with him then get yourself right.
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So you screwed up your own relationship and made your boyfriend do something he was clearly uncomfortable with in the first place and now you’re upset because he doesn’t want to continue to destroy your relationship… Right… Got it… You don’t deserve him. He should run the other direction from you.
he is scared of is own sexuality and your will or power of each others sex life
Learn from this mistake…and don’t repeat anything you regretted
While I think it’s unfair for him to have been okay with another girl and now saying no for another guy, he also didn’t seem to want to do it to begin with. You stated you had to beg him, you basically coerced him into something he wasn’t comfortable with, of the roles were reversed you’d feel violated. He has every right to say no. If that’s something you just have to have in your relationship then maybe you two are not in the same page and really want different things.
Just be single and don’t ruin a man
So you cheated on him while he was in your house and then when he caught you, you peer pressured him into joining and now you’re angry because he doesn’t want to go along with you doing it again. Seriously, this was not a threesome…it was you being a cheat! He should leave you.
If you want to cheat on your husband just say that 
I hate to say but I do kind of see his side. It sounds like you initiated things with this other girl and then talked him into it even though he was initially apprehensive.