Sounds lile he did something she knows about that he doesn’t want her to tell you about. Or they both did in which case cut them both out.
But just deciding out of nowhere that he doesn’t want you around her is super suspicious
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Something happened between them and he is afraid she will tell you. You need to find what that something was and go from there.
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I would discuss it with your friend because it will at some point ruin your friendship. As for your relationship -LEAVE- he is controlling and shows strong narcissistic behaviour. That’s toxic and emotionally abusive. LEAVE. go to your friends house with your child and work out a plan from there. He won’t change, they never do.
Did they hook up or did she catch him doing something shady? Maybe he hit on her and he is scared she will say something.
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BIG RED FLAGS 
ID DEFINITELY SAY SOMETHING TO HER! Maybe he came on to her and she turned him down now he hates her 
just saying you never know!
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Gonna be honest. Only time I’ve dealt with this is when some ish happened. Theres more to the story between them.
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They fucked that’s why caught the red flags
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I think something else is going on with your partner. Maybe some insecurities leading to either wanting more attention or trying to isolate you. Either way it should be brought to attention. Maybe therapy if a direct conversation doesn’t work…
Ummm…HUUGE sign of narcissistic behavior. Hell no.
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In trouble? A grown ass adult in trouble?
I’d be telling him to grow tf up. Can’t tell you to stop chilling with your friend.
Legit, first signs of isolation and control. First friends then it’s family. Do not ignore those warning signs.
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They prolly slept together or she caught him doing sumtin he shouldn’t have. Dig, but be prepared, if u dig for dirt u find dirt ijs
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He sounds like a child that needs to grow up.
Sooooo
My husband and one of my best friends don’t get along and that’s okay I mean honestly yes it makes things tough but I’ve told them both I’m not picking between them I’ve been friends with her since I was 3 and I’ve been with my husband since I was 16 I love them both dearly and can’t imagine my life without either of them…
So when hubby is at work I will go hang out with her (husband knows) or we go do things for her birthday or mine and he keeps our kiddos but I need them both in my life…
You need to flat out tell your friend what he’s saying and how he’s behaving and ask why this change in him against her?
He came on to your friend
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The controlling behavior will only get worse. Get out before this affects your kids.
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So this happened with my ex and he hated my “best friend” who was also my babysitter so I could work and she stayed home with all our kids. They “hated” each other… Until one day I came home from work early and all of our kids were taking a nap and they were in my bed. This is why I do not trust many people…
Either he tried and she denied him, or she caught him doing something and he don’t want her to tell. I would talk to her about it and if she’s truly your friend she will tell you. His behaviors are very controlling and wants you to be “alone” do not do that, don’t let him do that to you or your babies.
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If he’s changed the way he feels about her something has happened especially if he’s jealous you spending time with her.
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I would be questioning if she made a move on him or vice versa. If not then why would he want you to have a friend? Hopefully not trying to isolate you.
Get them in a room, you’re all adults and question it. Until an answer is provided I would assume the worst case scenario
If they got along in the beginning and now all of a sudden hates her … something happen between them … theres definitely some suspicious…I would ask your friend …he don’t want u hanging out with her " BECAUSE " he scared to death she will tell u whatever happen between them…
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Please update us on this tall when you have it cause I am invested now. I want you to try and be calm and have a healthy rest of your pregnancy
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Hes a narcissist! Get out.
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If they got along before and now don’t, somethings either happened between or shes caught him doing something he shouldn’t and he’s trying to keep u away from her so she doesn’t tell u. I would speak to your friend and see what she has to say, but please don’t get to stressed as u have the baby to think about to, I really hope you get to the bottom of it and things turn out good for u xxx
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This is a major red flag. Tell him this behavior is unacceptable and if he says the same thing or continues. Leave. No if ands or buts about it.
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I don’t wanna be “that chick” buuuuuut I’d be suspicious of him cheating with her🤷🏻♀️
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Maybe ur bestfriends knows something that u didnt knkw and hes scared that ur best bestfriend might tells u…
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Leave it won’t change, I’m so sorry
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Why do women keep having children with men who treat them so badly? I’ll never understand that!
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Banange read btn the lines seriously they used to get along so what happened leave us some things u dont even need to seek for guidance some women like pretending anti not to see
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His insecurities are trying to control you.
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What an immature nasty bully
Well what is his reasoning for hating this best friend? Or him in this best friend having a fling or have they had a past intimate relationship or relationship with some sort? Has he or she made a move on the other or flirted hit on them etc? There has to be a reason or something that he doesn’t want you to find out has she caught him cheating or in a lie? Or is this a simple fact of manipulation and control that he wants over you
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He slept with her, Or is still sleeping with and doesn’t want her slipping up and telling you. 
percent guarantee it.
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What advice would you give if you were reading this as someone else’s post? Take your kids & go somewhere. Anywhere. File for custody too.
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Sounds like he is just using her as an excuse to argue… hes cut because u and the kids went to a park with a friend and her kids. Ask him why he dont like her all of a sudden… the both of them together
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Maybe he made a pass at her and she turned him down and he’s worried that she might say something to you. Sounds like a horrible situation to have children in either way. And if you’re about to have another you’re about to be alllll kinds of hormonal. Find somewhere with someone who can help you. Friend, family, wherever. But get away from him. For a while anyway. You don’t have to make permanent decisions right now. But you may find your life to be better and less stressful without him. And you’ll also find you’re stronger than you think. Best of luck.
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Sounds like he’s bonked your mate 
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Yeah I’d have to agree with the 99% here, something happened between them… definitely. Question her and see her reaction, see if its defensive. Then question him. Youve never questioned before so they’ll be caught off guard but one of them will spill by saying something stupid! Xx
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Maybe he’s slept with her… first thing that sprang to mind
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I’ve been the hated best friend and I can say with 100% certainty that none of this affair/making a pass/rejection thing happened!!! So it’s not a certain fact!!! He just hated me because I represented the friend having a life outside of him which he hated.
So don’t take all of this advice as 100% gospel.
In any event though, get out the 
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Sounds to me like your friend may know something your partner doesn’t want you to find out about. Could be:
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She may have caught him cheating
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He may have made a pass at her
Or,
- (And I really doubt this) something may have happened between the two of them
Or, she may not have any clue why. Have you tried asking her?
He sounds shady anyway. Like he’s trying to isolate you from your support system. If you allow this, it’ll only escalate from here. Next, it’ll be your mom or sister who “are always in your business”. Serious red flag to me
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Sounds like a jealous child trying to control you. It’s your friend, your doing nothing wrong. If there’s no legitimate reason for him to not like her, then he’s trying to emotionally manipulate you. Don’t allow it. If you stop seeing your friend today, then tomorrow he’ll want you to do something else. He may get worse when the baby gets here and not want you going anywhere. Don’t allow him to control your actions by making you feel a certain way. He’s going to get worse if you allow him.
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Are we allowed to be seeing our mates in lockdown?
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And if he makes you choose then always choose the other person, no one should make another person choose?
Maybe u run to ur friend with all ur private relationship stuff and she’s been bad mouthing him and u told him or mentioned that she said u must leave wen u had a fight or he saw msgs of the sort on ur fone?
What does your friend say about your boyfriend
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He probably made a move on her and she refused now she’s the enemy or they got something going on and he can’t bare her being there for his conscious sake!
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Find a new man, this one’s a control freak. Remind him that door swings both ways and he’s got to remember… what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
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Oh, he moved out?! There’s your answer! Change the locks and count your blessings. Find someone more mature to share your life with.
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They always like the bestie …at first. They need the bestie to approve. Then once they are in the abuser suddenly cant stand her. They’ll make you choose between them or her and nine times outta 10 she chooses him. Now, no more outside agitation.
Classic manipulation
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It’s all about control
You are an adult and can decide who you want to be friends with without having to walk on eggshells or wait for the backlash of what he will say about it.
Start establishing boundaries that you should have established 7 years ago or choose to be controlled, guilted, manipulated and walked over
Good luck
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Hmmm. I know it’s not the popular vote, but perhaps this is just a symptom of an already fragile relationship? If he has insecurity issues, mental health issues, etc…maybe he just wants more of you? Maybe he’s just reaching out?
I believe in balance in a relationship, where each partner has their own lives as well. I’m just trying to say that maybe he has concerns that he needs to voice…
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That’s straight up manipulation. He’s literally isolating you. That’s how abusive relationships start. You need to take a good long look at him, set him straight and tell him that she’s staying a part of your life and get over it. Or leave. Because this most likely will not end good. Good luck.
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Hate to say it but has something happened between him and your best friend? A fall out perhaps. You don’t suddenly go from getting along really well with someone to not liking them without good reason!!
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Sorry but it sounds like maybe they are sleeping together or have slept together and he is trying to stop the relationship because he doesn’t want you to find out… In which if this is the case then you need to throw out the man and the best friend
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Please dont end up like me with 0 friends and regretting it. As long as she is not toxic then tell him to shove it. Neither of you should have to sacrifice food friendships for your relationship. This is a sign of him being controlling and its unacceptable. Put your foot down now, or it will not turn out in your favor.
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He’s straight starting to try and control you. Step one is isolating you from friends and family. Step two is getting you to make excuses for certain behaviors. Step three is making you believe that you deserve to be “punished” and treated like crap. DO NOT let him even get to step 2. Step out of that relationship and say good bye now.
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Have you found out the real reason he doesn’t like her. Something more in depth could be going on.
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You didn’t tell us what his reason is for not liking her. Without that I don’t see how we can give an answer.
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Yeah. Just leave. This is how it all started with me. He didnt like my best friend. So i distanced myself. He didnt like this person. So I distanced myself. He didnt like when i did my hair a certain way or wore certain clothes. so i quit. He demanded to go through my phone. I let him. But then. He started breaking things. Screaming at me. Punching walls. Hiding my car keys. Blocking people from any form of contact whatsoever. Isolated me from everyone that ever gave a damn about me. Leave. Now. Get out. Before it gets worse. It will only get worse.
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Yep my thought is they’ve probably slept together because it’s odd that now he doesn’t like her after you’ve been friends with her for years.
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Moved your house ? Sounds like he wants to isolate you which isn’t good for your mental health you need a friend and a outlet. If he’s going to his friends house why not coordinate outings where he does something with his friend when you do something with yours ? Or I make time with my
Friends when my husbands at work then I can spent time with him when he’s off work. You should be able to spend time with your friend unless he has a specific justified reason why not too but IMO it would have to be pretty serious to
Justify it
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I don’t know he sounds like an awful selfish person in your just trying to enjoy the day with your friends and children if he can’t understand that he’ll never understand anything I don’t know that’s just the way I feel
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He’s being controlling and manipulative. My ex did this. Would get mad and jelly of my friends. Any friend i had he found a reason to dis like them. It stressed me out so badly because i have no family here and the two friends i had he hated and i never heard the end of it when i tried to make plans with them. I became isolated home 24/7 with my son. Went on for a while because i allowed it. I have social anxiety now because i got so use to being stuck inside all the time because i didn’t want to hear him complain. Get away while you can, this is how it starts and it only gets worse
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How do a grown person get in trouble. He sounds childish. He is trying to control you. Don’t allow him. He us trying to isolate you from your support. He wants to be the only one you have. Love yourself more. You deserve better. That is not love. He moved out let him stay out or you will be going through this for along time. Choose you and your children. If you told him you did not want him hanging with his friend/friends would he do it? Of course not. You don’t need him. This is how Abuse starts. Teach him how to treat you. Stand up for yourself. Children or not, he is not the one. That is definitely not love. The biggest mistakes we as women make is saying “I love him” and him not loving you.
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If he just started disliking her out of nowhere it sounds like maybe they have a relationship going on. Maybe she denied him. Seems like something is going on there.
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Maybe he wants to hook up with her, but wants to break up the friendship so he can be with both?!?! 
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I would start first by trying to understand why he suddenly doesn’t like her anymore? What has changed? Its hard to say that it’s him wanting to isolate you when yall haven’t had the problem for years. If it is something the friend has said or done that he doesn’t like he has to understand that its your friend and he still needs to trust you with her. If he can’t trust you then that’s a whole different problem that the both of you need to address if you want to continue the relationship.
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he is trying to being controlling so when things get worse you have no one to turn to in a time of need
Just be weiry. Hopefully not but it is how abusive relationship start. Or they’ve slept together or something has happened.
What he is doing is domestic abuse in form of isolation. This is a huge warning sign. My opinion break it off you do not want your children to learn that controlling behavior is okay. He left his choice pack is stuff and put it on the step have your family or friend help you during the labor. Just my opinion but if he get away with controlling your relationships it will go from your friends to your family and can get more mental and possible physical abuse. Huge warning signs you need to pay attention to.
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He showing red flags of being controlling. I had an ex who was ok with me hanging out with friends than he didn’t then he turned out crazy. It’s a red flag
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Ummm I would figure out WHY his attitude has changed so drastically… there might be a reason
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Theres alot unanswered here tho. What happened that made him not like her? I feel like somethings missing.
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It’s the “I get in trouble” for me!!! What do you mean? I’m sorry, but unless I get some more of the story, I can’t make a fair statement. What happened between him and your friend? Many times when things like that take place, maybe he tried to hit on your friend and she turned him down, now he acts like he hate her. I would really like to say different, but unless she slapped his mama and grandma, something fishy about this Sis!
Did something happen between them? Something that she regrets and he’s mad she stopped it?
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Dude dont you stress out about that if he can be rude and let you stress out then hes not worth it, it dont matter how long you been together he shouldnt be manipulating you like that. If you ask him to stop being around his friends he wont listen. Dont take it to heart. Talk it out calmly and then go take a bath and relax if you can
He’s either looking for a reason to leave or he’s dabbling in some new new.
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Run girl while you have the chance. Thi will only get worse.
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Sounds like he has control issues… big red flag.
That’s on the way to an abusive relationship. He’s isolating you.
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Maybe she or he try a ting with one annoda behind yuh back
RED FLAG
It’s called jealousy and manipulation. Get rid of him.
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Trying to control u… get out while u can
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Screw it. Keep your friend. Be smart enough and strong enough not to allow him to ruin your friendship or the time you spend with your friend. Your brain is going to make or break you. Don’t care if he likes her, don’t give any energy to arguing with him about her. She is your friend and you are going to hang out with her and you don’t care what he says thinks or does about it. Eventually holding your ground will pay off. Let me tell you something…your friend was there for ypu before you knew him and will be there after you know him
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If they used to get along maybe now there’s something wrong happening between them, 
he will not gonna acted like that for nothing!!! Watch out mommy!!!
They slept together 
Is you house a mobile home
He moved your house that’s crazy.
This isn’t okay at all.
He is not the warden. He has zero say in friends you choose to hang out with. You need to speak up.
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You sure he isnt cheating on you with her?
Sounds like a narcissist to me
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RUN … that is abusive behavior, it’s indicative that he wants to end your relationship, but wants to make it so shitty that YOU do the leaving so then he can blame you, and he’ll destroy your soul before you leave.
Why are you ‘in trouble’ with your partner at all? Hes not your parent and you’re not a child…
Seem juvenile and petty and controlling…
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She may have witnessed something he did and she approached him about it? That happened to me and my friend didn’t tell me. But he made sure I couldn’t see them (married couple with a child) after his time in the Army. We weren’t married yet. I wish they would have told me cause then I was young and didn’t have a child. They probably thought I wouldn’t believe them.
Babygirl, he did something with her…or she KNOWS something…get answers and like everyone is saying MOVE ON. You’re about to have your hands full mama. Congrats on the newest addition 
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Maybe he tried to hit on your friend and she went off on him and told him no and now he has a resentment towards her.
That equates insecurity. Maybe he’s worried that she will open your eyes to his bullshit. 
he’s clearly controlling if he won’t allow you to have friends. He’s trying to control you and make you codependent on him in every way. Isolate you from the outside world and others who care about you. Don’t allow an abuse cycle to start. Set healthy boundaries and if it still remains issue understand that the relationship is toxic and it’s time to go.