Thatās sad and sickening in my opinion. But itās not my life.
Fuck that. I wouldnāt be with them.
Sorry but thatās a gross ass comment. I really donāt know if these guys are dumb sometimes, jerks, or just totally clueless!!
Iād kick him in the balls personally but then again thatās my solution for all dickheads
To me, it shows that he is not responsible or accountable for his actions or in any relationship that he is in. He is not worth the time or effort.
He passed himself around ā¦ clearly he doesnāt use protection and doesnāt care who he knocks up so if I where you Iād be careful and figure out if this is something you want and if it was you need to just accept it and not care what people think 
Depends if heās remorseful or finds it funnyā¦ everyone has a past. Some things were not proud of!
Well he didnāt choose to go to other measures to get rid of the children 
Takes two so he isnt fully responsible like your all makin him out to be.
Get gone girl he aināt gunna stay around long
Not a lot you can do about it now. You probably should have had this conversation before you considered having kids with him.
He probably does have more kids out there. Probably only a matter of time before child support papers show up to your houseā¦good luck
Uhmmm eww. I just couldnāt accept that
But different strokes different folks I suppose.
If your that Disgusted by it why are you with him
That would be a deal breaker, I would be done with him.
I probably would have found that info out prior to adding to the hoard. I think it says just as much about you as it does him.
āWould have ifā¦ā
No where does it say he had 14 other women pregnant. Just 14 pregnancies.
He passed himself around with no protection. But there was also the women who can be held accountable as well as him.
If I were you Iād run, run as fast and far as possible. He dont sound responsible at all. He wont be around long enough anyways. They dont go and change over night.
Crazy that you didnāt bother to find this information out before having a kid with him. You didnāt ask, he didnāt tell, donāt complain now.
Gotta share the roster lol
This is why talking about past history with your partner is so important before getting to this point. Everyone has their hard limits. Youāre not wrong for your feelings. However, itās been 3 years, you said heās been committed and people can grow and learn from their past. This is up to you if itās something you can move past or not. I donāt believe in penalizing people for their past, but I will hold them accountable for their present choices.
First of all, make sure you get yourself tested because he definitely belong to the streets!
But if this āgrown manā as he supposed to be thinks itās cute or funny that heās had all these women pregnant, thatās a giant red flag and I would get out while You still can.
If heās had all these women pregnant then it sounds like all he does is hop around, whatās stopping him from hopping around some more.
Everyone has a past, including you. If you canāt accept his past then donāt be with him. What if he actually wants to be with you and youāre attempting to hold his past over his head? Talk to him, not the internet.
Iām really not trying to be rude but Iād highly recommend you get tested!!! Thatās a lot of women without protection
Girl my man was the biggest man hoe ever back in his bachelor days. Like with numbers in the 100. Lol he only has kids with me(we have two boys) and he chose me. Thatās all I need.
Do you listen to your own words? I think you know the answer and if you donāt you deserve him.
Tells me he is running away from responsibilities and not someone i would be with
Wow hope he supports them
Everyone has a past and unless you were in their position, you donāt have a right to judgeā¦ Its seeing if they let it go and grew up from it, or still repeating the same cycle. Itās also evaluating whether or not you are able to handle it without it causing issues.
Very irresponsible, sounds like he doesnāt care about you or any of the others. To me it seems heās trying to see how many notches he can add to his bed post. Iād be saying bye to him for sure.
Wtf did I just readā:flushed:
I hope you can grow up. Seriously, everyone has a sexual history. How many kids could.you have had if youād not used protection? Stop judging for something that really has nothing to do with uou
Any man that would say that to me, the passed around meat can go to the chopping block.
this canāt be real
Iād be less worried about ghost babies, and more worried about cooties 
Is your boyfriend nick cannon?
Like heās been passed around like a piece of meat? Seriously? Em no ā¦tells me he thought it was cool to have all those kids! Ego trip. Any right mind normal man would of been responsible I maybe not having anyā¦or learned the first time. Good luck with your adventure in life ā¦
I mean youāve been with him for three years and highly doubt this is the straw that broke the camels back. Should have never had a baby with him before asking these things 
Wow, heās definitely been around
Yeahā¦itās not to late to delete this girl.
Man thatās rough I would feel the same way
So that tells me regardless 11 times a woman couldnāt own up to her responsibilities. Itās not just him that/those woman/women have just as much to do with it as he does. 
Does he contact the 3 that are here? Because that makes all the difference. I donāt care how many kids someone has if they take care of them is what I look for. I think to much context is missing tbh. WHY did only 3 babies come out of 14 pregnancies. Woman can go get abortions with a mama consent even if he is the father. So this leaves alot of questions. I see your point but itās no different than another group I am in where woman talk about their āhowā days. Only difference in a pregnancy didnāt result multiple times. Sex isnāt a he situation. Itās a them situation and they werenāt having safe sex.
You need to get straight to the STI clinic girl 
Why did you find this out AFTER you had a kid with him
Would you care if it was just people he slept with? And not pregnancies? Because even if they never got pregnant he still would have slept with them
Id delete this and go get tested.
Some of those pregnancies could have been with the same woman as well of actually being miscarriages not just gotten rid of. But it does disgust me how he seems to think itās some sort of conquest of some kind to tell you this like that. My ex used to love to tell me he tried to have babies with many women who never got pregnant or couldnāt carry to term as well as possibly having unknown bio children out there. He used to also tell me he would see exes at stores and one time he swore an ex had a kid with her that he swore resembled him. My ex isnāt my ex because of this disgusting stories. Heās an ex because he was mentally, sexually and physically abusive. I feel like these stories are completely unnecessary. I will assume since youāre having or have had a child with him the doctors did their std testing.
I donāt really believe in the idea of having too many partners if a person was faithful. Their past is their past.
Listen all that matters is the present. He commited to you and your family u made together correct? This is why ppl have a hard time opening upā¦ We get shamed for our pastsā¦ We all do dumb stuff. This also shows you didnt take the time to actually get to know your partner before jumping in. Let the past lay where it is in the past, focus on your family hes there with u hes faithful correct? He cares for both of you? If yes then stop being disgusted for his past and focus on your future
Sounds like my father 
He should had got his nuts clipped disgusting pig
Iām confusedā¦so does this mean that he has gotten 14 women pregnant and they terminated the pregnancy or he didnāt use protection with 14 women and heās not sure of how many kids he may have?
I donāt think the issue is that heās had a lot of partners but that he st8oo doesnāt know how to wrap his pp
You can literally get pregnant any time you have sex. Id be more concerned he was so careless rather than him settling for you. Shows a lack in judgment
Iām assuming you got tested with him or requested recent test results from him before having sex? Clearly he doesnāt favor using protection 
Ummmm, what? I think this all depends on context. I mean, everyone has previous history with other people. I donāt really care about that. But if heās saying that in a boasting or even derogatory manner then thatās pretty gross behavior. If we are talking about him just mentioning these things and making you aware during a conversation then please get hold of yourself and move on from it. If he is faithful and treats you well and youāre simply having an issue with his past then thatās on you. This seems like a combination of improper communication and your insecurities. Iād be having this conversation with him and if heās really just being an ass bringing this up then leave. Seems simple enough, really.
He hasnāt learned what condoms are???
It takes 2 to tango but id be worried that this guy never practices safe sex, not only having the risk of a STI its also HIV & AIDS this guy should come with a health warning, im not being sexist id say it about men and women practicing safe sex if they want to sleep about
Wow. Iād say he shouldāve said something before you had a kid. But thatās what playas do. My ex was similar I knew he had āaā daughter but didnt know he had three and he left their mothers while they were pregnant. Until he left me a few days after we found out I was pregnant and the reason for that is he took the condom off towards the end .No I wasnāt aware in the heat of the moment. His words to me over the phone ,because he was too much of a coward ,to say something in person was " I shouldnt have took the F***ing condom off. I knew this was gonna happen." Men who do this arenāt even men they are little boys or dogs ā¦take your pick. There are probably more he isnāt disclosing. Not a person to be trusted with being faithful thatās for sure. He is the one spreading his meat around. Girl I feel your situation and I wish you the best of luck.
Tell him you are also very fertile and have aborted near a dozen embryos and get lost in thought about all the baby dadys you could have gotten stuck with insteadā¦ and name the baby Darwin or something LOL
The fact that he even told you that 
he sounds like a douche
Eh. My partners body count is well over 25 people. She lost count. Idc cuz she is disease free. People are allowed to have a past.
I mean youāre on the list of people who slept with him and got pregnant soā¦ I probably would have asked sexual history way before now instead of whining about it after I was the fifteenth pregnancy heās created.
His chit would be packed and out the door. Surely with that mess there HAD to be some red flags thrown.
Thatās horrible! So 11 babies have been murdered because he doesnāt know how to be responsible and wrap it up! Disgusting! I couldnāt be with a man like that!!!
Honestly he sounds like a tool. It sounds like he is in relationships for the wrong reasons, like bragging rights or something. If you are someone who wants your relationship to be a sacred space you probably already know youāre never going to get that with a guy who already has two other āBaby Mamasā. I would also caution that both of them have been where you are now. You might later find yourself where they are now. Two may be a coincidence but three is definitely a pattern.
You receive the respect you allow.
Womanās responsibility too
Sounds like a REAL prize!
So Iām gonna be the odd man out & say first, you should have asked these questions long before you had a child with him. And second, heās allowed to have a past before you no matter how good or bad you may see it. I have 2 children now but Iād have 6 if I was able to carry all my pregnancies to term, am I a disgusting person because they were or werenāt all with the same man? No. Pretty judgmental considering women root each other on when they embrace their sexual freedom but itās not ok for men. Your title is also very misleading. He only has 3 kids & the latest one is yours soā¦ā¦
Well damnā¦ like damnā:bangbang: they all got him on child support?
Lmaooo
He needs to learn how to use condoms & you i hope get checked.
so? people are allowed to have a past, people are capable of change and EVERYONE is acceptable to forgiveness. We shouldnāt point fingers or think weāre holier than anyone else because we too have a past and are not sin free.
Maybe he isnāt settling, maybe he has finally found the one! If everything feels right at this moment with your little family and you trust him 100 and he is taking care of his other kids then what does his past have to do with it! You loved and accepted him before he revealed his past.
thatās not something u put out there ewwwww
I meanā¦I donāt see why he felt the need to tell you that to begin with but on the other hand what does it change about him now?
Body count/having a hĪøā¬ phase doesnāt mean you never settle down or that you donāt truly love the person you end up with.
I married young and my husband passed awayā¦I had a phase where all I could handle was casual. Now Iām with the absolute love of my life and thereās no settling about it.
While itās off putting itās not just in him to make sure pregnancy doesnāt happen. Also, the average sexual partner for a man is high.
Idk about others but this seems like a red flag to me, not that heās had a bunch of partners but heās gotten that many pregnant (for all we know is intentionally)
You have been with said person for three years so if this is there only fault, is his past, nothing he did to you Recently, I mite be wrong but Iām assuming you couldnāt of just found out, if so nothing you can do to change it, he the father of your baby now, you just have to make a choice what kinda person is he now so on so forth ā¦ and make a decision on your own this is one of those path that you have to travel aloneā¦ because you are the one that is going to have to live with it ā¦
It honestly sounds like a lie and why would someone lie about THAT? Who is he DMX?
He either is a really rich man or heās a dead beat. I definitely couldnāt be with a deadbeat nor encourage that behavior
Iād get tested for STDs and find someone else.
Heās being honest about his past I wouldnāt call it quits because of that or make him regret being honest with me, but thatās just me
If a woman has 10 kids with 5 men, or a man 14 kids with 6 women, as long as said kids are provided for, who the eff cares? Why is this still frowned upon?
Heās either your type NOW, and you asked all the right questions in the beginning and decided to stay, or heās never been your type and you settled. The number of partners someone has, or number of kids does not matter in my opinion. However, I personally would not choose a man with multiple baby mamas simply because theres too much room for drama and I just donāt care to have that in my life. But as far as āpossible or couldāve been, babiesā, it does not matter
Did he convince them not to have the baby? If so I would rather be single than be with someone like that! If the female decided not to and he wanted to be a father I would be upset for him!
But you were cool knowing you were the 3rd? Iām confused. If this type of discovery disgusts you, Iām sorry but you had a big red flag at the beginning.
A little late in the game to care now cause you in it for the long haul!!!
Iāve had 12 miscarriages and I have four living children does that make me bad i kept loosing babys and i wanted kids more than ever dosent make my past bad i just went through alot of crap donāt be judgemental thats all I can say
I donāt want community dĆÆĀ©k. Iād leave, kids or not.
Maybe you should know the person before deciding to reproduce with them if something like that makes you upset
Everyone has a pastā¦ As long as heās open & honest about it, who cares? Iām sure none of us are saints ourselves lol. As long as the children he has now are provided for & he treats you good, thatās what truly matters.
3 words:
Male birth control !!
Iām wondering why youāre upset if he doesnāt have 14 kids? Who care what he COULD have had.
Everyone has a past.
Also, if he wouldnāt have told you would you feel different about him?
Kick him to the CURB
Too late now to worry about it. You already have a kid with him
Clare Wiles i canāt 
I want to know his nameā¦. Sounds like my ex
Sounds like my ex. God only knows how many kids he has now and he doesnāt support any of them.
Yuck. Why did he wait until after to tell you how many kids he has?