I understand ure hurt but if it were me I’d rather him be honest than lie… there r excises that can help u doh
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It’s really sad that men know nothing about a woman’s body and her sexual organs. There needs to be serious educational classes for all men. Free of charge. This is ridiculous and pathetic. And men think they are the better Sex, smarter I should say 
So you didn’t want him to be honest?
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ask him 'do you think your dick might have lost weight …I mean it does feel thinner than before … look at this article it sais when you have a baby you go back to normal I seriously think you might need to go to the doctor if your finding it hard to feel me during sex .haha when you see his face drop ask him how it feels… love from mum of five
Every woman in the thread is here to defend her not bein loose and then immediately bash a guy theyve never met and draw conclusions to make it seem right 
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He didn’t tell bc he "didn’t want to hurt ur feelings " but it was ok to hurt them now. What’s changed. Something is up.
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His dick probably isn’t big enough love, try other dick because it sounds like neither of you are satisfied. He has small penis syndrome and you are not being satisfied properly🤷♀️ Best of luck
I wish more men understood how a vagina works…
You asked for it lol now you don’t like the answer and wonder why he didn’t say anything for so long maybe you should of stopped asking
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Tell him it’s coz he has a small 
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Let just be honest has he ever satisfied you 
that’s small D energy so I’m gonna guess not
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Trade your crying for some kegels. 
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You aren’t “loose”! He’s just SMALL!
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So, he was right. Lol I mean, if he said it like that, that was bad wording and it does sound like it wasn’t meant to hurt your feelings. If he was scared you wouldn’t want to have sex he is obviously satisfied enough to want sex with you. Maybe do some research and talk about some new positions to try that might help as well as some pelvis floor exercises.
If it isn’t the consequences of my own actions lol never ask questions if you aren’t ready to hear them. But honestly he’s probably small.
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Maybe his dick is just too small to feel anything….
I would just do kegals
Is he doing enough to make you swell? Is he skinny or small or at an odd angle? Even though it feels hurtful…Its good he finally mentioned it because now you can work on angles and things together…certain angles…like propping a pillow underneath your backside can make things seem tighter. Or doggy style or…I mean, the backdoor is usually pretty tight 
. I doubt you’re just too loose. I mean maybe…you could ask your obgyn about sizes or google a good source material on it. He could also try a ring around himself. He could go down on you first. Lots of options. If you guys are doing those things…maybe ask your obgyn. There are ways to deal with this and it doesn’t mean you aren’t still sexy to him.
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I had someone tell me once that sex with me was like throwing a hotdog down a hallway:rofl:
i told him well that doesn’t say too much for you does it:woman_shrugging:t2:
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I think he still must love you regardless and to me he was just being honest
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Tight up you Vijay exercise you muscles walk around and exercise no one will know your doing it r when your in bed exercise i bet after you do this he won’t know what hit his ass lol
Life is too short…clean out the accounts and get a good lawyer. Ladies, do not let these little dick men tell you you’re loose when they can’t find your cervix. Bet they can’t find your clit, either! Loose means relaxed. These dumb shit men need to learn to do their own laundry and satisfy their own needs. Take him for everything and find someone half your age who makes up for this guy. You deserve better!
He’s a shit head for destroying your self esteem. You are not “loose.” His dick is just tinier, maybe shriveled-evidently. This:clap:t2:is:clap:t2:the:clap:t2:bs:clap:t2:that 
grinds:clap:t2:my damn:clap:t2:gears!! men are jerks. Insecure, needy ass hats that make women feel terrible about themselves, but can run about the world all day, with beer belly guts, iq somewhere in the low 80’s, barely able to read between any damn lines and require signs that say “men at work.”
This guy makes me angry for you, honey. Screw him. You’ve every right to be mad.
Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer too. 
you asked him to tell you and he did. This is honestly an easy fix. Just start doing kegels.
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Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer too, just do kegals and move along!
It’s not “little dick energy” to answer your questions honestly and ever woman on here spouting that shit is trashy asf. His size one way or another is permanent and something he or ANY man has no control over. This comment section is absolutely disgusting.
Femilift an easy laser procedure 
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You’re not loose. He’s small.
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You Said he could be honest? As long as u were ok with the answer?
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Kegels help a lot especially if you’ve had kids. I asked my husband this and he basically said it was looser then before. But guess what? Of course you will be. Now did he say it in a mean way or because you kept asking?
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Tell him to get a weiner pump
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Tell him to take a hike
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If we tell them they have a small pen they get self concise too. He should of just said everything is perfect how it is. Use to tell my x that because I knew the problems it’d cause.
He needs to be informed and clearly doesn’t understand the
vagina is composed of multiple muscles that define the pelvic floor. These muscles can tighten and relax depending on the circumstance (during arousal, the muscles relax). The relaxation of muscles can make the vagina more or less accommodating.
And although your vagina muscles relax during arousal, after sex or masturbation — or just have the moment’s passed and you’re no longer aroused — they tighten again. And that doesn’t change, no matter how many times you have sex or how many sexual partners you have.
It’s not you, it’s him! He’s clueless and disrespectful!!
You know he’s a dick for that. We woman are used to men being bigger than when your with someone smaller it takes 2 twice the work to get off and be satisfied but I would never tell them that. I wouldn’t touch him again after that comment.
Lol. Asked the wrong question and you got an honest answer and now you’re hurt? Don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answer to 
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I’m sorry- if you guys think it’s okay for guys to do this, it’s not. And no I’m not a man hating lesbian. I’ve had my fair enough share of disappointing men. The sheer misogynistic audacity of men who treat women like it’s their fault is astounding. Most of these men can’t even find their way around the female anatomy, which women around the world will say “of course I fake it. He’s a great provider.”
What👏🏻tf ever.
I say all that to say this: Ladies: don’t you ever believe your magical muffin isn’t enough for someone. The fact is that some aren’t good enough for your magical muffin. Society has men living in fanstasy and women desperately killing themselves to maintain these fantasies for fear of being alone. Honey, tell him he’s got too much “little dick energy,” and he can consult his hand for the job until he acts right. 
Why do men always assume women are the issue? Maybe he has a small dick? The right guy for you won’t make you feel like you’re not enough. Tell him he can should a device to add girth so he can satisfy you
Why are you airing this private stuff on Facebook??? Very odd
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So it sounds like your so hit the hammer on the head when he didn’t want to be honest about it knowing it would hurt your feelings. If you want open and honest then you are going to have to accept the answer even if it is hurtful. You can’t have it both ways unfortunately. Good luck
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So he was right not to tell you ?
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He should be grateful
Well don’t ask a question you don’t want an answer to. At least he was still laying the pipe and putting his needs to the side.
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My opinion He’s Got someone on the side and it HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. THIS IS ALLLLL ON HIM
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Maybe he has a skinny penis!?? Do Kegals. Don’t let it hurt your feelings.
So, you told him he can tell you anything and then are upset because he did.
There’s a lesson here. We aren’t meant to know every thought in our partner’s head.
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You told him he could be honest. He held back due to fear that would change your relationship. He trusted you in that you would be able to take the information and not allow it to change anything. You opened that door so you have to be receptive. Many women are not as tight as they once were after childbirth. However, if he was truly dissatisfied he would have said something sooner or stopped having sex with you because he wasn’t getting the pleasure he was seeking. Sex is more than sex between partners. It’s an intimacy a closeness a bond. You can do what you want with this information but if you allow it to fester and not have sex with him he will no longer choose to be honest with you… well because look what it got him. If it bothers you that much do kegel or pelvic floor exercises.
Ur not loose he just has a micro🍆!! His problem not yours!!!
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Wow I would leave him maybe his penis is just too tiny
Clearly nether of you realise that when you are enjoying it you loosen up because you like it. Also maybe your not loose and he’s just small.
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If you’ve had kids this happens. Heck over time it can still happen. Kegel exercises help. I do them pretty much all throughout the day but my husband passed away a year ago and I’ve had no need.
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When a woman is “loose” only means the man is doing his job and getting her turned on- the more the woman is turned on - the looser she becomes
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Keegles will help tighten it and its prob not you
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When a woman is turned on the vagina naturally loosens up. no man should put a woman down like that. If you want to try and “be tighter” you can get some of those yoni egg things and do kegals
You asked for the answer. Good or bad. Kegels help. Do things to maintain that area.
Or next time say did you shrink, I can’t feel a thing!
Maybe he’s snakes is actually a worm!
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Don’t tell him to be honest if you’re gonna be upset.
Continual sex with loosen you up. If he can’t handle it, tell him to move on.
This makes me hurt for you dear. I am sorry and wish I could hug you. Second, maybe a second opinion would help. Would you consider going to a gynecologist? They also have tightening treatments, even surgeries that can tighten things up down there. I would only suggest that for your piece of mind. Third, it is up to you to see if you think this is worth while. I have no judgement of you. I just wish I could hug you that had to be hard to hear. respectfully.
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Well you told him to be honest with you. He was honest with you so that’s not really his fault. I wouldn’t ask something like that knowing if he said no it would hurt you. That’s why he didn’t want to tell you which shows he does care because he didn’t want to say anything cuz he knew it would hurt you. There are items you can use to strengthen your vaginal muscles maybe you could try something like that. Being loose is not a bad thing it can happen especially if you have had a/multiple vaginal births.
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some of y’all are just rude! there is no need in it. she wanted advice not to be belittled….
Buy a vibrator or have sex often and then eventually you will get tighter. You have to tighten your muscles.
Your vagina actually expands when you’re “in the mood” it’s a natural occurance. Could be you’re not lose at all just excited. Vaginas are complex organs. If you’re concerned about it there are tools you can get to help, kegal excersises. There’s also some toys that vibrate when you are successfully doing the kegal which is handy to know you’re doing them right. Something you may be able to look into. X
I would have said that you aren’t loose he is just too small.
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You asked…save your money and get the procedure…
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Ahh no hunny… his just got a little pickle 
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Tell him it is not your fault he has a small co*k.
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Kegels are your bf! They help. You can literally do them all the time,. standing in line, watching TV, working, etc . I’ve had many kids and 0 problems in that area simply for that. Tbh, at times I wish I was because it’s hard to enjoy.
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Maybe he has a weak dick lol go find u a new one
Tell him he has a small penis ,see how he feels
I’m sorry but this was said to me years ago…what I said back was the truth…( My ex…was a stud…I’m sorry that your not as big as he was…but I’ve been trying to adjust)
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Exercises girl… Squeeze hold for as long as u can an repeat
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To all these women saying get a procedure and that you asked - gross and I’m disappointed to see women saying this crap. He should’ve had more tact than to tell you something so hurtful.
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Maybe he is just tiny and he is throwing his own insecurities onto you.
In the meantime…. There are sexologist you can go to and or therapists that are in this are to help strengthen the pelvic floor. Give it a try. BUT do it for you and NOT for him. Good luck🤞
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itty bitty teenie weenie short man
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I would say he is too small as well.
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He’s to small. Periodtttt🚩
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Kegals are amazing at helping with that issue. You can literally do them at anytime anywhere! I’ve had 3 kids and have been told that it’s like I’m a virgin
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I don’t understand. You asked for the honest answer tho it may hurt you. I don’t understand us women sometimes like what exactly you want?
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Sad but you did say he could be honest. Look into things you can do to help the issue.
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Guess he’s unaware of how a vagina vaginas 
No his little shrimp is the issue!
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Find a bigger and better man. To hell with him.
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I think their is a lube that makes you tighter down there while having sex. I forgot what it’s called but i think it’s on Amazon! Hope that helps.
Also, i think you should leave his ass. 
This is definitely LDE
I have 5 kids & have NEVER heard that. He’s just “little” that’s all.
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I don’t understand why you upset… you are the one who told him to be honest and open with you and he was!!
If he says you are lose then start doing Kegel exercises to tighten the muscles again.
The muscle does lose its strength especially after having kids.
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He needs to be a bigger man…
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Welllll, tell him if his dick wasn’t so small you probably wouldn’t have any problems
Tell him that him and his angry inch can go else wear!
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Tell him that maybe it is not you but that he is too small. Let him think about that.
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If it was me I would have turned it around and said are you sure you d#$% isn’t the problem.
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You can do pelvic floor exercises it’s good for your body in many ways.
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You asked him to be honest and open with you. That’s exactly what he did, so why are you so hurt? If you couldn’t handle the truth you should have never asked.
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Maybe he is just too small 
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Run find a bigger man especially one who is respectful
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Just tell him that you did not want to hurt his feelings but his dick is just too small. Love you though!
We’d love to talk about this in STAY AT HOME MAMAS ! We have tons of women willing to give unfiltered, uncensored advice!
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Be thankful he was honest… and that you can do something about it… and do… work on it. See a specialist, usually available where you go to get help to repair physical injuries… drawing a blank on the name… lol
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Don’t, move on. Don’t make someone tell you twice, they don’t want you. Move on
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Your not loose sounds like he has a little
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I understand men can say the shittiest meanest comments sometimes. But 1. You did ask for honesty. He should of had more respect but you did ask for honesty. 2. Kegels are your new best friend honey.
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Tell him you’re not loose, he just got a little
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